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AyobamiSky:
Did you even really read the post?. You just rushed to comment and post your view, albeit a totally unrelated one to what was posted.
You go die if you get patience?. Abi prize dey weyyou go collect?. Na wa o

Raalsalghul:
Did anybody force those women to take care of those kids.
Secondly, are they responsible for the financial welfare?

ifyalways:
No need to get yourself worked up. The opinions of nld "boys" dont and wont matter unless the OP limits herself and keep wasting her time on facebook or Nld in search of love.

I go out for weddings and housewarmings in lekki/ikoyi axis every weekend and 80% of the brides/celebrants are single mothers with most times as many as 3 children. The OP only needs to up her game( physical looks, education or career/business), know which occasion to attend and mix with the right crowd or circle, she will meet a very stable , mature man who will marry her and the child and pamper her like a queen.

Boss13:
Women trying to encourage her that she would see a man that would love her and her son. I pity that man. In fact such a man lack self esteem that he is willingly to go after a single mother and start training a child that is not his rather than start his own family afresh. I know some men do this but they are stupid men.

OP go and arrest the idiot and let him pay for his deeds. There is the need to deal with idiotic men who abandon their children

Asour:
I don't know the full details of her legal status nor the legality of her selling at that spot BUT this I know. THERE IS NO OBJECTIVE standard for REASONABLE in business. Every business has its place.

One could become wildly rich/satisfied from selling Meat pie as from selling crude oil(which by the way has a bad reputation in some other parts of the world).

My point: The Nigerian tendency for demeaning a legal business based on the perceived 'status' of what it sells is unhealthy.

The US Business man Howard Schultz became a Wildly successful business man selling 'ordinary' coffee.

The Wrigley Company in the US makes over $5 bn in Revenues by selling 'ordinary' sweet/chewing gum employing over 10000 people. How many Nigerian companies can top that?

If anyone wants to found a 'status' business curing cancer goodluck to him/her. I really hope he/she succeeds for the world. BUT someone selling ordinary 'buns' can be, in Business terms, just as successful as you if not more.
please Consider.

Kenshinmunac:
If someone makes me angry I tend to raise my voice when taking, I bear with her a lot but she fucking gets on my nerve like weiten they burst my head na that "I don't understand" I mean that shit disrespectful asf. "are you shouting at me, I don't understand" so wait you mean I can't scold my own gf if she goes wrong?

arki:
Hv you ever seen a colony, establishment, ship etc without a head? If no, then in every relationship/ marriage God instituted a head which is d man to head the family. If u as a woman goes against d divine ordinance, then there is trouble. My dear, many women don't know d sciences of getting d heart of a man. Some think it's food, sex etc. Wen a woman/lady is submissive to her husband/bf, She has only earned herself d man, cos subconsciously she will control d man without d man knowing. There is nothing that can cage a man to a lady than wen he finds out dat his gf/wife obeys and respects him. Only d intelligent few amongst u pple knws this.
Back to d OP, I am begging u in d name of whteva u believe to run for ur life. Dnt ever put up wit such kind of a lady or even talking abt marriage. That's if u like ur life o, cos dat ur gf can neva change, if u trace it well, that is how her either parents behave. U dnt see fire and be petting it. Do u want to die young? Leave d relationship asap, and get ur self a lady dat not only loves u but respects u. Be a man bro and take charge of ur relationship

cococandy:
You’re a control freak. She’s not your child!

Just listen to yourself and the words you’re saying.

You want to control her
You’re correcting her
You’re raising your voice at her
You get upset that she talks back at you.

Like she’s supposed to keep quiet like a child and listen to you talking condescendingly to her in the name of correction.
What are you correcting her about? What makes you think you know more than her and as such are in position to correct her.

You’re just upset that she isn’t accepting of your mansplaining.
What normal person looks for who to control?

I hope she sees the signs and leaves you before she ends up in a horrible marriage with someone looking for a subordinate, not a partner.

I wonder whose raising these prideful, egocentric boys who think they can come into a woman’s life and run the show. Oh I know.

GTFOH

Randy100:
I can never support my wife, even if my mother is wrong. My wife has no right to raise her voice against my mother cos I can't even do that. Last last my mother won't be wrong.

Chiamaka789022:
Pls what should i do?

consultancy:
sorry to say this girl, you were foolish, naive and silly at the same time. after the incident, you should have gone straight to the police, school authorities or your parents; video or no video. you concealing it makes it seem like you had sex with them willingly. if i were you and your parents, i will demand 10 million as against the 5 million offered, count my losses and go my way. them don rape you be say them don rape you

Dami12345:
Lol, been waiting for this blackmail attitude.
Its your curse that you have to always follow the crowd even when they dont make sense.

How would like it if that girl pointed you out as a rapist and no body bothered to hear your side of the story?

How do you feel when people claim you did something you didnt do but no one gives you a Chance to talk?

Now read the story again and tell me how it feels to have no say just because a girl who all of use agree are bloody liars is claiming that some guys raped her.

Dami12345:
What's wrong with people, do you even know what girls do for fun in terms of sex.
Do you know what the train is in sex, a girl will take 22 dicks Marston and you are here fighting for nothing.

What's the difference?

skentelelady:
Your cousin is cousin who knew from craddle not your SIL nor outsider that you have equal rights in the famiky house that you are supposed to be "peers in age". Stop mixing it up. When your brothers wife or your husband's brother's wife does it to you, u can check your reaction.

Done with this. Have a blessed day

skentelelady:
Please stop supporting what's not. Can your immediate elder or younger brother address you like this in public as she was there when u were crawling?

That approach is wrong stop westernising everything. Who's her little Anita? That's an insult on a woman especially when their husbands are age mate.

Lola can be 46 but she stooped so low to marry a younger guy close to Anita age so she should mind the way she talks. Don't mention she's trying to be sarcastic here.

Would she take that from another person?? Capital NO from arrogant Lola that I have know for years

Yoighaman:
Ok sweetheart. My opinion though...subjective.

Yoighaman:
Context matters here. I am also an adult and some people still refer to me as "Little" especially some of my older relatives. I like and respect her but she was just being cocky by that statement, take it or leave it.

skentelelady:
Who's my little Anita [s][/s]? Was she referring to celebrants daughter or celebrant Even if Lola is far older, please she should respect the girl with the way she addresses her in public. At least Both Of Them Are The Twins Wives So Forget Age Difference Since She's Comfortable With It

I won't acknowledge such birthday message abeg

blank:
He is not disputing that they had sex, he was saying it was consensual. But how do you have consensual sex with an underage child?

tetralogyfallot:
its obviously molestation bro! Not any infection

tetralogyfallot:
yes, she has questioned the girl n d girl persistently said the place itches her in the night n she scratches it.

CDCEO001:
Ok thanks, I thought there was different kind of couscous.
When i was in Douala, I used to eat one they called couscous maize.

Airforce1:
Madam, where is the father of your daughter ?

I asked because you look like someone that would desert a lover because he's broke .

Homeboiy:
I support the lecturer 100%



That's where I like Dr okweshine


He will still lecture you about women

iomoge2:
Secondly, all this perfect pix people post are making some people back down. That's why our tread is boring
If its yours, no problem. Not taking images from websites

zomoears:
All I see are people dissing this guy about how wrong his info is. I would like to be educated on what is correct then.

Would be nice to counter his wrong info with superior argument, and help some of us to learn.

Thanks!

KDmafia:
I just think it’s caused by poor hygiene in black women

Glink2018:
With all this facts the ladies go still dey carry dia yansh dey make yanga!

Guys , abeg you if you want marry any lady test all testable because some of those ladies are empty packs filled with rubbish.
And I'm sure you done want to be wasting your hard earn money to be managing rubbish.

So, open your eyes , open your sense before you start opening her yansh.
Be Wise.

Calamity ladies everywhere.

ideology:
Most fibroids are caused by contraceptive drugs

The drugs stops you from getting pregnant but build up another wahala

Don't ask for source

MetaPhysical:
When sperm is deposited in a woman's uterus it's design is to fertilize her egg and develop into a foetus that grows in her over a period and is delivered as baby. Undeveloped eggs are eliminated during menstruation, when she ovulates new eggs are produced. There are partially developed eggs that attach to the womb and are not never eliminated out of her body during menses. They never grow and become foetus either. Since the body will not eliminate it through menses and will not grow into baby to be delivered, there needs to be a way to access her body and remove these wastes. They are not hazardous to her health before she reach menopause. After menopause she needs to get them out surgically before they become a health hazard. Someone said up here that the fibroids look like babies. Correct, they are eggs partially germinated long time ago and remained in her, never graduating into full foetus.

Goddyss:
95% of ladies on this forum will agree to marry a 90 year old man if he is wealthy enough.

Speak for your sisters and all the female folk in your family.











Leeches...Loving a woman when you are not rich is digging your own grave early. Be ready for nagging. Let's see what the poster after me has to say

Fatherofdragons:
These names are not made up names, they actually bear them( but some are made up shaaaa) but the rest are actual names