LasLas:
Please nairalanders, I need your opinion and advice though i expect a lot of bashing because it is normal here on nairaland.

I met this girl two years back and we started dating since 2017. We have been into each other since then.

Recently i went to see her parents just to make my intentions known. After that, we both traveled to see my parents also.

Ever since we came back from my village i have been having this thoughts of divorce. I have this feeling that i will seek for divorce immediately after the wedding. I don't want to have a broken home. I don't want to cheat on my wife because if i eventually marry her with the way i am thinking now i must cheat on her which i don't want to happen in my marriage. I am thinking of quiting the relationship but i don't know how to go about it, how she will react, what her family members will say and react. I am so confused.

Please i need your advice.


A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage, once you are not sure keeping your fidelity in the marriage dont go ahead it will cause you alot of emotional wahala and you will still come back to nairaland asking for help we all tired of this advice me this advice me that!!!! Nigeria is shit hole and we all need finding 100 ways to exit from a shit hole, thank God for nairaland and lalasticala atleast they give reasons to smile everyday been on nairaland.

Atiku79:
Just like Atiku, come November Dino Melaye will be the executive governor of Kogi State.

Fellow Nigerians rejoice and make merry.

ATIKU IS COMING, ATIKU IS HERE!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!

JubrinElSudan:
Marry her first then go ahead and train her. So that everyone will know that you are training your wife which isn't an issue. Training a girlfriend is an issue, at the end she decides to dump you, you will start whining about how you spent money on her

miccolo2:
Yes there is. Here's my number - 081. 386-6 36-97

murshid09:
We need to. Talk but u did not drop ur number
Mine is 08077329690 u can whataspp

Donjazzy12:

Brad, the fool, would fall a second time, FOOLISH FOOL!

Saffi:
You men like to go after beauty as if you can eat it.
Then later complain slay queens are too High maintenance and shallow. Well my dear friend, if you can’t bear to look at her face in the morning then do yourself a favour and let her go.

You don’t want a girl who is this and that, the number of requirements you look for in a babe constantly increases, yet your bank account numbers are constantly decreasing. Shiorrr

enemybulldozer:
Niger Delta oil is for Nigeria Lagos belongs to yorubas only.

Afonjas are funny set of people.

K94Q:


Specs please.

festacman:
Three things to note:

1. Chief Obasanjo should take a large chunk of blame for what is happening to Atiku today. He consistently painted him as corruption personified both in prints and in words as well as in diplomatic circles for close to 12 years until late last year. However, it is mportant to point out that it was Atiku's overambition that drove Obasanjo to do that.

2. Chief Obasanjo invoked 'curse' on himself by publicly saying that God will not forgive him if he supports Atiku inspite of what he knows about him. Several months later after two failed attempts to form a 3rd force party, he made a volte face in the name of reconciliation to support Atiku to achieve his egoistic fight against Buhari.

3. Chief Obasanjo tried to play God and got humbled. He unilaterally instructed Buhari to forget 2nd term and retire to treat his ailments.He publicly denigrated and uncharitably maligned the person of President Buhari in diplomatic circles. He once told a bewildered international audience that since Buhari's hand was too weak to sign Africa Trade Deal that soon a new president with strong hand will sign it. He was too sure as though he was God. He forgot that it is every Nigerian that will have the final say on the election day.

Every song ends. Obasanjo is a melodious song that is nearing its end.

deepwater:
Tinubu has a lot to explain.

If you claim to be the jagaban allow the igbos in okota vote for their choice

Stop intimidating them, I bet u that amuwo lga result would have sent shivers down sanwo olus spine.

Hence they had to create crisis there.

I blame the IGBOS for developing that swamp called amuwo odofin to what it is today.

Ago has been developed that with NGN 20m you can't even buy a plot of swamp.

Now this is how u pay your developers ?

Igbos be like garri as u dey soak them for water, them dey rise

davidadenrele:


What are you saying madam does beheading a head cure the head of its headache?? what kind of advice are you giving?? where you there when the said man was struggling to meet ends with for jumoke and her kids where you there when they were prophesying ghetto love for each other you dont decide and conclude someone's life on the webpage of a social media, real mean go out to fend for their families times are hard, but real men wont complain they would endure the phase knowing fully that their trying times is just a phase that would past, am not supporting marrying a woman without paying the full bride price even the holy books condemned it, but who are we to judge love covers multitudes of sins says the bible, for the fact that a man hasn't paid a bride price of a woman does mean it doesn't want to, only God knows what transpired between jumoke and her husband, what will you do if eventually you find out that olajumoke was the one delaying her marriage plans, over this years my sister the issue between a man and woman only God can tell, if the Ecclesiastes says as it difficult to trace the track of a snake on a rock so it also so difficult to understand the issue between and a man and a woman, don't always hesitate to judge marital issues it goes beyond what you read on social media you dont know where it pinches until you wear the shoes olajumoke should remain humble and obedient to her husband she should handle this fame thing with care as pride goes before a fall, if she dares marries another man she may end up bitterly regretting a good and God fearing man are very hard to come by you don't appreciate what you have until you loose it.

nkwuocha:
Dear jumoke,
Your baby daddy is not your husband!You still have the legal and Godly rights to marry a more respectable man.What you did with that man was committing sin against God and tradion.By the laws of God and of the land,you owe him no damn attention or thing!You don't owe him any damn thing!He is just a sperm donor who has got No honour for your family; Knocking you up twice and still did not get to pay your bride price, until now.Get more education, connect to more responsible and respectable people(Trust me there are genuine single men who will marry you without blinking an eye),get more ambitious and don't allow an irresponsible sperm donor pull you down.Cut him off completely!I see you walking in more international scenes...Lady there comes a time in your life you cut off some certain people in other to attain achievable goals.He has done his part in your life by being just your baby daddy,keep him that way ONLY.

Lessons to men who glorify being a baby daddy.If she is good enough to be knocked up without condom,she is also good enough for her bride price to be paid.

Those people quoting me,make una kukuma buy beer and kilishi for man wey Bleep una sisters give her Belle tire and still no pay one naira for her head.Oniranus!

tooexclusive:
Unprofessional interview from sky sport.. baiting for an headline "which one is for clarification..." did the club before this defeat come out openly for sarri' sack?

trying to put unnecessary pressure on sarri just for headline

Ademat7:
How much can I fix the two issue in computer village ikeja
Dell latitude E6400