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Tkcruiseandodds:
Chelsea striker, Pierre-Emerick Aubameyang has expressed his excitement to face his former club, Arsenal in Sunday’s derby clash.
This will be the first time the Gabonese forward will be up against Arsenal since his controversial exit from the club.



Aubameyang had one of his most prolific spells of his career in Arsenal under Mikel Arteta.

However, his form eventually dipped after signing a new long-term contract and his relationship with Arteta degenerated.


This led to the former Borussia Dortmund hitman being frozen out of the first team. His contract was eventually terminated allowing him to leave for free to Barcelona in January. After a six-month spell in Spain, he was sold to Chelsea on deadline day.


Speaking ahead of Sunday’s clash at Stamford Bridge,Aubameyang said: “Yes, definitely a very exciting game and also because they are doing well at the moment.

“It’s a big week coming and we will try to give everything to make the most of it. The first game is at home against Arsenal I think it’s going to be fun for sure.”

And it was really fun for sure

kihill:
N2.2 Million

is it negotiable?

Sisib15:
Hello nairaland, So i met this man three years ago, we started talking and he told me that he's divorced, at first he doesn't want to disclose it to me that he has married before , i discovered through my search on Facebook and he said his wife packed out of his house and he has tried all means to beg her to come back but she insisted that she's not coming back even her pastor informed him to move on and he has moved on and they were married for 5 years without a child.
Then he asked me out and we started dating in which we have been together for two years now, my problem is what ever i do for this man he never appreciate it, he's always complaining to an extent that i feel that he's still much interested in his previous wife. I started staying in his house because his house is very close to my work place and i started seeing alot of things that i don't like especially he like measuring me up with his wife standard whatever I do to him i don't do it well like i don't know how to dress, i don't know how to eat, i don't know how to cook and he likes judging and always wanting to correct me. I love him so much but i don't know if i can continue with this. If i cook, i don't know how to cook, if people should hurt me outside and i told him he will judge me first before listening, at times he says some demeaning things to me and tell me that he's joking with me. At times, i feel that he's pretending, recently i told him that he needs to see a therapist.
My problem now is that he's asking me for marriage, i don't know if i should accept or i should stop the relationship, i am really confuse!
He's 40 years old and i'm 28 years old.

You are truly very confused my sister... So, you want to tell us that you are not seeing the red flags in all these yet abi?
Go and marry him na...

Like seriously!!!... They rented/leased out their opay account for business.
Well, they will be fine... If they are truly innocent, they need to learn some sensible lessons.

So, they do not know who they rented their OPAY acct to... ?

Thatis is their own equivalent copy of EndSARS protest ...

Birds of a feather perching on APC/PDP corrupt trees...

It is Ukrainians I pity the most in this modern day senseless war...

BadRadio:
This is what we must have a strong plan for going into 2023 elections. Voters Apathy may once again be used as a final card for corrupt politicians to have their way to victory. Deploying armed thugs to attack peaceful voters or terrorize them enough to stop them from coming out to vote.

Let's be honest, using "fear" on Nigerians has always worked for these politicians. They will use thugs as they have always done... and Nigerians will always prefer their safety than to cast their votes... so they will rather stay at homes on election day than come out to be attacked by thugs.

Sometimes when some politicians know an opposition candidate is dominating a polling unit, they will unleash these brutal thugs to disrupt the process by attacking voters.


Why are we not asking INEC questions. What are the measures in place for voters security and safety on election day?

What are we planning to do individually to ensure our safety?

What are we doing to ensure nothing will stop us from voting?

Having a valid PVC is useless if we cannot use it at the end of the day.


Think about it

With the new electoral acts put in place, the use of BVAS and live updates of voting results been uploaded to InNEC server. Any polling unit with report of any form of violence will automatically be nullified.
They will be little of ballot snatchung this time around cos days of snatching boxes and going to one corner to tumbprint are over.

Lamanii22:
Hello everyone, what is the best way to tell my brother-in-law to stop peeing in the bathroom… like even if you pee there, you can at least flush it, like it’s sickening, the stench that comes from there is unbearable… plus I wash the toilet and bathroom like 3 times in a week, it just seem as if I’m wasting my effort in making the restroom clean….

You can at least pity someone’s effort…. I like everywhere clean and someone is just ruining it for me…. Whenever there’s a urine smell immediately I enter the house I can tell he is around cause he is the only one who does that….

Another thing is, doesn’t he perceive it too? Sometimes I even feel like I am over-reacting lol… I just want ways of telling him politely without causing any trouble…

Tell your sister to tell him politely

Tinubu will pay the ransom... no problem

She keeps throwing stones at other people's glass house, castigating her father, but here is her own son... telling us about her own dark closet

Welcome to the era of Elon

sambright2012:
Good evening gurus in the house,

Please your candid advice will be highly appreciate ,

I have been thinking of the best suv that can work with 4plug engine for e-hailing job, i come to think of puting a gulf 4 ENGINE into lexus 300,

Please brothers , can this work? Has any one seen this done before? What are the disadvantages on this, ? Is gulf 4 ENGINE cheaper than normal Lexus 300 engine? Will this reduce the consumption rate considering the body size and weight of this two cars

Your advice and recommendations will be highly appreciated.

Do not ry out that experiment...well, except you have excess money for trial and error

rexidic:
Good evening, everyone. I (21M) am currently a final-year undergraduate of Electronic and Electrical Engineering at a federal university in Nigeria. I am sorry for the nebulous title of "Am I wasting my time", I just feel I need to get some things off my chest today as I have been feeling very suicidal and hopeless lately.

I have suffered from chronic low self-esteem since I was a child. I grew up as some sort of academic prodigy, but everyone around me profiled me as an idiot due to my sluggishness and social anxiety. I have tried to break out of that low self-esteem box, but it only gets worse when I try to do something about it. So, I developed an escapist attitude towards my problems, gradually losing touch with reality. Admittedly, I also struggle with some sort of egotism (a complex case of being self-absorbed and feeling lesser than everyone particularly) and perfectionism.

Last year, staring down from my "ivory towers", I realized that I have probably wasted 21 years of my life. I have no friends, I don't feel purposeful, everyone hates me, I hate myself, I have no religion, I have nothing to believe in, I am hopeless, I really can't account for the time I have spent on earth. I plunged into a well of severe depression this year, I couldn't continue developing my software engineering skills (despite the ASUU strike) and building my career due to an overwhelming feeling of depression-induced lethargy. Each day, it feels like I am wasting oxygen and being an unnecessary burden on my parents and family.

Now that school has resumed, I can't focus on my studies. I am on a ridiculously strong first class grade (>4. — for an idiot like me, and I feel I might just waste it at this final period, like I have done with my entire life. I really don't have anywhere to run to now, my whole world has collapsed. I know how selfish and stupid commiting suicide is, but I just feel it's high time I left the world to avoid wasting more time and resources.

Please forgive the long and unstructured post, I am sobbing as I write because I really need help!!! my demons are taking control of my mind and I am losing my grasp. I am not a bad person, I just want to live a simple, purposeful, and peaceful live. I will be 22 in April, Am I just wasting my time here, can I still re-start living from scratch at this old age?

Worry no further.... Send a whatsapp msg 0.7.0.6.8.8.0.1.4.2.7
I will be your first true friend if that would help you any way... kindly focus on your studies and try as much as possible to finish strong as you have been doing.
You are not an idiot neither are you inferior... Try working out as well if you can. It will boost your confidence level a bit. Cheers!!!

Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids. He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me. I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life. I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children. I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay. She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives. I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money. Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her. Advice me please

Please, go ahead and do it a a form of restitution...#NotCondemning

When a snake shows you it's tongue, it should never be taken for affection...
I'm sure OBJ will take Atiku's commendations with like a pinch of salt

princefrank76:
A friend of mine who's a student reach out to me and asked me to help her find a roommate because she won't be able to rent an apartment alone.

I was scrolling down my Facebook wall the other day and I saw a post from a girl who was looking for a roommate. I saw this as an opportunity to connect that my friend to her, so I quickly chatted her up and let her know I have got someone for her. She was excited and thanked me.. but when I reached out to this my friend to let her know I have gotten a roommate for her too, lo and behold she told she has seen someone already so she's no longer interested.

I reached out to this random girl I met on Facebook to let her know it's not gonna be possible again, she was so disappointed. She had to beg me to help her find someone. I put it to her that there was virtually nothing I could do for her again. I let her know I stay alone but we have gender differences so I can't let her come to my place of which she understood.

She chatted me up the following day that she doesn't have where to stay and that she's been sleeping in a classroom for the past three days. I forgot to say; she's a newly admitted student, she told the money she have is for her school fee and registration so she can't afford a house now but she will be buoyant enough to secure a house by January.

Well, I let her moved to my place with an agreement that she's gonna stay and move out by January.

Now I have been having mixed thoughts,

The bad boy aspect of me is telling me to start having sex with her but the good and rational aspect of me is telling me NO.. reason being that;
(1) If I have sex with her she might be too comfortable to move out.
(2) I don't want her to feel I wanna take advantage of her because I gave her a shelter.

It's not easy to live with a woman that is not blood related to you. She has spent 5 days with me already and I been able to decipline myself from touching her. I Sha like the man I'm becoming

You are doing well... Kindly, continue to give yourself sense the way you have been doing.

Wow! Nice creativity... How can I contact him?

kingsways:
Each special assistant will be given a mandate to get or buy at least 5 votes.

That is one million votes and we have won the election, QED.

That is Wike's plan.... But, as an outgoing governor, I see many of them disappointing him

So, you guys want us to believe that Tinubu was watching a blank TV on a flight

LARRYOBRAIN:
I got scammed, I need the help of nlanders to trace the wallet and help in recovering funds and trace the scammer.
Anticipating your favorable response

incomplete info

Bayaar02:
I'm planning on getting a new phone. Kindly help me choose in terms of camera, battery and performance wise.

Nite 10 pro is better in this case.

Adamu just spewed out rybbish

Itidicious:
My mum's friends who is our neighbours call me this afternoon to help carried her mattress and her sets of chairs outside , according to her she noticed some tiny insects on the beds and These insect are fun of bitting her and making it difficult for her to sleep and to sit on chairs.
We took the mattress outside with her set of chairs. I suspected a bedbugs and after a thorough checking I noticed there are hundreds of bedbugs both on chairs and on the mattress . I was surprised because I have no idea of where she got these insects from.

Now the problem is that this my neighbour do comes to our place and sat on our chairs on the sitting room. I'm just afraid that she might infect our house with bedbugs. Is this something I should be worried or should I forget about it ?

Your house is infested already for sure... Be very bery woried.
Asvise her to fumigate her house and you guys should likely do the same

What should those that raised Jonathan from LG chairman to presidency say

Nice gesture by the airline

Disgraceful people

I suspect it was a hit... Not a robbery

EdoBoy90:
One of my guys wants to marry a lady so that both of them will japa to the UK in January 2023.

How it started. Two weeks ago, he told me that the lady refused his marriage proposal and she is not taking him serious despite he had constantly pushed for the relationship to work. He called me today and told me that the lady had accepted to marry him since she couldn't secure a scholarship as planned and she had no option for tuition fee payment. This my guy's brothers are in abroad who are willing to sponsor him. He is now trying to pay the tuition fee of the lady while he follows her on dependant visa and from now till December, they want to marry according to what he told me. Considering CAS, Visa process, Proof of Fund which requires 28 working days and flight tick plus the money involved, I was shocked when he called me to seek my opinion on this.

The lady never agreed but she has agreed to marriage because she wants to Japa and no money. Now, my guy is the option only left for her.

I don't know how to advice him because he wanted us to see tomorrow.

Experts' opinions are needed here. Kindly share your opinion on comment section.

He should put it in mind that the lady cN get him deported