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tuoyo9729:
Pls is there any body here that can help me track a stolen iPhone 13

If you track it yourself, you can't retrieve it cos it will be on the move.
Your best bet is to get the police to do that for you. Although, it will cost you like 15 to 20k depending on the station.
When they retrieve it, he ready to give them another 10k to collect it

They tried breaking down the doors but couldn't gain entry into the house... Scary night

Atiku is not looking bad but Obi beats them all to it... for that of Tinubu, I reserve my comment

He is the father of many nations... mentor to Tubaba himself and Davido/Wizkid look up to him.

Kanye is on a downward spiral...

muykem:
Please help me to prevent my partner from committing suicide. I want Nigerian to hear our story of a fraudulent company established by Akwa state government called "stringe manufacturing company " in Onna Akwa state. It was established by the current governor and sited in his LGA. The company gave us LPO in March 2022 to supply Diesel. We borrowed money and did the supply the same March. They supposed to pay by May according to the terms and conditions on the LPO but till today no payment. We have done everything humanly possible but to no avail. My partner is facing a serious threat from people that borrowed us money for the supply so he hinted me that he may consider suicide if the pressure continues.
Please somebody should link me with some of big journalists who can help us and your advice is also welcome.

Get a human right activist lawyer... he will fight your case in court for free Nd you'll lay him when you win the case and get paid.

Sailingnorth:
I've known this lady for a long time now, I am in my twenties and she's two years older than me.

Note: Please bear with me this will be a long read, I need help.

We were once neighbors, she later parked out of the compound.
It was a face me I face you kinda compound, on several occasions I do accidentally bump into either her or her sister who is about 26 years of age now naked.
Most times they leave their door open, it mostly happens in the evenings, heaven knows it wasn't my intention of seeing them but it happens, and I just sometimes look sometimes I walk off.
I sometimes peep sha, it was 4yrs ago, I wouldn't do it now.

They have noticed it twice.
The junior one has seen me looking twice and from the look of things they didn't really care.

The junior one which is 2 years older than me , sleeps around a lot, has been giving me green right from time, but I wasn't really sure so I just ignored it and assume never happened.

So three years later fast forward till now, I live with an aunt and both of them are friends of that aunt.
They do visit, and on one occasion it was a Sunday morning when the junior one visited.
We were alone in the house.
she took her bath in the house and after bathing she asked me for cream to rub, the clothes she was wearing was really revealing and it made me have a boner.
I bet 100% she saw it and was excited or kind of moved.

She started walking around or trying to ask me to help her out with something so as to draw me closer to her.
As for the cream I searched the whole house and honestly couldn't find the cream and I told her I can't find it.
She looked disappointed.

Recently she visited again, this time she was well dressed and while bending to check for stuff in a box, just as every guy would do I was just looking at her ass and he was pretty sexy so I had a boner again this time a serious one.

She saw it again and as I expected it got her excited I could tell from the tone of her voice and her behaviour that she saw it.
She resumed that attitude of trying to get me to help her out with things.

At some point she saw it, it was very visible and I was enjoying the show I won't lie, while standing she came closer and went down to search for things at where I was standing, she was occasionally shifting sideways in order to have her hand touch it (my erected p).

While stepping out of the room she came back in an gave me this look on her face as if she was expecting something and ask were you calling me, which I replied no.

They later left, and the elder sister greeted me goodnight. Something she has never done before and I wouldn't expect her to.

I forgot to add, her elder sister 26 -yrs just started giving me greenlight all of a sudden.
She will walk away from the building where they were and come over to where I was carrying out some task outside in the compound and gist with me while moving her clothes.
I swear to God this girls are damn sexy, I've masturbated severally and always fantasize on having sex with the older one which is 26 years of age and the second one which is 2 years older than me.

I have never had sex in my life and I am pretty scared of contacting bad energies or sexually transmitted diseases but broooo, these girls have nyarsh.
I'm not a pervert, I just want you to see the picture that is in front of me.

But nature is putting heavy pressure on me right now, I don't know what to do cause the next time they visit things may move to the next level probably not actual sex but it will get me closer to the main thing happening.
I can feel It, I trust my instinct in my life.

I recently had a dream of holding something beautiful in my hand, it look so beautiful with different colours and it broke.
In that dream I felt like I knew it will break and I could have done something to prevent it from breaking, I felt regrets in that dream and I think that dream relates to what is going on.
My dreams do happen in real life.
I fear I might regret straffing them.

What is your advice on this I would love to know cuz I'm at the crossroad and I've always been excited about having my first sex in life.
I am 22 years of age by the way.

My brother fleee!!! Get yourself a girlfriend if you have to but surely, not those 2

Meektunz:
Been married for over 5 years now and ever since my wife gave birth to my first child, I've been suspecting that it's not my child due to no sense of resemblance.

I finally did a DNA test but unfortunately the result shows that I'm not the father of my first child. No doubt my wife loves me so much and honestly she has done a lot, sacrificed alot for me.

My conscience never allowed me to end the marriage because honestly she is a good wife one could ever ask for though she has her bad sides.

Since the result came out, I never told her or confronted her because I'm very very certain that once I confront her the marriage will end cos alot will happen but everyday once I see the boy and remember, I get so angry but after some time when we are all playing as a family I will forget.

I still do everything a father could do for his son. Honestly it's not easy to forget about everything.

What do you advise me to do guys?

Follow your heart... Take your wife out on a tomato date and let her know that you know the truth. But you are willing to let it go and live a happy family life.

Onuahia:
Is hire purchase good?

It is good if you don't want the stress of having to monitor the driver

Onuahia:
Hello guys! Please I will need your advice on this.

I just finished my Nysc and have some money on me which I saved during this time and want to invest it properly.

I’m thinking of going into transport and sienna 2003 model is what my budget can get.

Please advise me. Is there hope in this business and would I be able to recover my money and make gains? Then how long.

What are the challenges in this business?

I don’t know how to drive so I will find somebody that will run it.

Please advise me on this if you have experience in this business. Thanks.

If you do not know how to drive and you have to find someome to run it... Don't try it!!!

Well, except you are giving it out on hire purchase

He will be just fine... they'll all be shocked

Good info...

South Africa wey wise...

Interesting...

When you think you are indispensable and get get Shocked!!!

Jackanda1:
I recently got employed in a company. A Married woman who should be about forty years manages this company owned by the husband.

The day I went for the interview, she (the manager) was very nice to me, kept complementing my dressing , smiled and peeped glances at me very often.

To my shock, I passed the interview even though I made a couple of blunders that should have disqualified me. After the interview, she spoke to me briefly asking about my ambition, my school and other general stuffs. I felt special.

I'm two months in the company, she isn't steady recently,but I see her often. I haven't had much of a conversation with her, only greetings.
She had come to my office to check on my work twice.

Here is the problem. She has been acting very cold recently, ignoring my greetings and contributions during staff meetings. She now finds faults in every little thing I do. I try to be diligent in all my assignments, but she is never satisfied.

Please how do I handle her? I want to keep my job and my mental health. She is becoming unbearable.

She is beginning to give herself brain and come back to her senses. So, she is putting up the facade.
Avoid her as much as you can cos she is obviously trying to do the same and not get derailed

Tohmey:
Good day nairalander, please help a bro is this the best time to invest on crypto?
Should i wait for the market to dip more?
I thinking of buying BTC, TRX and DOT
Help and suggest some for me. . .
thanks in advance

Go ahead if you are willing to wait... #HOLD

Ologundudu2020:
Good day! So I’m wondering if people still dump long healthy and lasting relationships for genotype sagas.


Cos I’m not about to lose a very healthy and long lasting 10yrs relationship for nothing.

Do people still dump themselves for this blood Genotype issues, or there are alternatives, this 2022 it’s been long I heard close relatives or friends having issues like that, I’m probably not exposed enough tho.

We both As in genetype, and I’m working on finding a better way to make this work, she’s all I’ve got fr and I’m already in my early 30s.


I’m not a fan of too many child, you can be a great parent even with adoption, but I still want a child with her exactly. She’s has to look like her self lol �

Pls what’s your take, can I have this girl to myself or is still the shout of quit?

It is painful but you both have to let go... Trust me, you do not want to bring your lovely kids to the world to suffer the pains of been 'SS'. Please, let go!

That is a father from hell!!!

Registeredguest:
I'm a lady in my mid- twenties, I got married aged 22, (always wanted to marry early) on the second year of our marriage we were blessed with a baby, parked to our house and things were rosy. I have always been a workaholic due to that I have never lack as a young lady in terms of finance.

I have always helped him in his house projects, might not be much 100k, 50k, 20k when need be. I never siphoned my money to myself, as a young lady I envisioned my pretty little family on my head, (3 children, handsome husband and pretty wife with a fine car living happily)

Now to the main problem,I think it all started when he told me he has seen a genuine plot of land that we should buy it together, I told him no, I want the land all by myself I have money to pay for it, (just want to have something tangible for myself alone) he said no problem.He sent me an account number of the seller I sent 600k to the seller.we did the necessary documents and everyone was happy.

After some weeks, I decided to dig around his phone then I discovered that the account I sent the 600k to, refunded 200k back to my husband, woke him up instantly I demanded for an explanation.he story no make sense. I was heartbroken, for months I was hurt...the two families got involved and settled the issue.money I no see...

Ever since this issue happened,the home has not been peaceful, fighting everyday. I find it so difficult to forgive him. I insult him, he insults me, he broke my phone, I break his door...I was demanded for an apology he says
"I'm his wife, no be today man dey collect him wife money, he say woman go build house for him husband no ear no go hear" those things hurt me more... everyday was fight, I parked out,I went to my sister's place,he didn't call, he didn't reach out.

3 weeks after I parked I discovered I was pregnant,and informed him immediately through text.i stayed at my sister's place for 2 months no word from him... I decide to rent my own place,I rented a place and went to his house to park my remaining stuff,I meet him home,as soon as he sees I came with a truck to park my things he knelt down and started begging me...I was like,na today I commot for your house why now? He say he think say I dey play, he no think say I serious like this,for good two months you didn't say anything why now...with enough dragging I parked my things to my new rented apartment... since the day I park till now this man has not allowed me rest,his family members has been calling me to come back home, his dad came from the village to plead on his behalf.


My dad is insisting I should not go back...I'm now 6 months pregnant ,I need a father in my children's life.im finding it difficult to forgive him,I'm struggling within myself to forgive and trust this man again.

How can I let go of the past and move back with him...I decided to pay him a visit on Friday,he was happy I came,he did everything possible to show me he has changed but that feeling of betrayal and hurt is there.i left there this morning with querrell,I know I started the querrell,but I can't just seem to forgive him.please I need your help and advice on this pressing issue of mine.

No insult please, I have cried enough.

I understand you... but the earlier you let go, the better for you.
Your husband is a good man and he is not without his own flaws.

Learnt from your experience..

I love the outfit... but the pink is too loud

care4you:
Wotowoto in progress!...

Wotowoto is the code!...

Your ckmerade 'you dey blockus!' got me laughing

Calvary247:
Locking up your collar does not mean she does not love you.

Hhhmmm! Wisdom

Reuben Abatti's brain skipped for a moment...

Wikeism effect...

Obi is the way to go...

May help find him...

He should be arrested!!!

My family members can do such... So, I don't know

The whole Nigeria will pay him back...

Djbond:
I'll summarize this as possible.

No one is perfect, yes I hit her cuz I was suspicious of her cheating. I bought her an Android phone and she started chatting with guys on FB and WhatsApp, talking about location on how to meet. I'm not always around though, I come home once in 2 days and I provide everything enough for she and our 3 daughters need to sustain on a daily. She doesn't work, our first daughter is 4, and our twins girls are 2 years old. So I believe she doesn't need to stress herself but just to take care of the kids.

Fast forward, she left a day after I beat her (I know it's not right but I couldn't hold the anger anymore) and i already apologized afterwards not knowing she had in mind to leave. I came home and couldn't find her and the kids, I called and started begging, my landlady, my friends, all our neighbors in the street called and begged her, she just kept lying that she will come back today, come back tomorrow but we never see her. I cried and cried, almost killed myself, didn't eat for days, just drinking and smoking, got admitted to the hospital, my neighbor called my wife that I'm in the hospital, she didn't care, never came to check on me.

I called her few days after I got discharged that I miss her and asked her why she didn't come to check on me at the hospital. She only gave an excuse that she has started some pos work in their street. She lives in her father's house now with her stepmom. Her junior brothers are the ones taking care of the children. Her junior sister told me all the dirty things she has been doing since she has got back to their house, like going to sleep in a guy's house overnight when her dad is on night shift. I called her dad to explain, but didn't give me the chance to explain. I called her last week Saturday to come see me, and i collected the phone she's using to do runs up and down from her. Now she uses her sister's phone to do those things now.

She called me with her sister's phone on Monday that i should move on when she discovered that I already know all the things she's doing. I have a problem moving on, I always think about her and my children.
I don't have appetite to eat even as I type this, I'm drinking royal circle. I hope this won't lead to my demise as I'm killing myself slowly. I love her. Why are women like this?

Pls nairalanders don't judge me or abuse me for hitting her. No one is perfect and there's no man that will take it if he sees his woman with another man

NB: I regretted hitting her and already apologiized and prayed to God for forgiveness

Unfortunately, you can't fight for the custody of your kids for now... let her be till you can get back your kids