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You may not be your bestfriend's 'bestfriend'... That i am your best friend does not mean you have to be mine. I might have someone closer to me than you.

It is quite relative and depends on individual qualities that makes one the best to you

Ganguje keeps following Tinubu everywhere he goes like MTN... I hope it is not what I am thinking

Newmonika:
Good morning everyone, I created this new account to share my plight here
I am a student in a university in the south and since ASUU has been on strike I have been at the village working so I can raise money for my school fees. I am a final year student struggling on my own.
I have been taking lessons on abritrage, and everything seems nice
After the lesson I went to an online friend I have known since last year December on how I can buy PayPal funds so that I can start practicing what I learnt
From my savings of 70k
I payed him 52k so he can get me a PayPal fund of 100$ at 520$/naira
Till today this guy hasn't given me the PayPal fund and has refused to refund my money

This is a money I have worked for since ASUU began strike and am looking for money to save so that I won't have financial issues in my final year which is very important.
Now this guy has taken almost half of my savings. Have not been able to eat since yesterday and I can't sleep too
I will attach screenshot below

This phase will pass my brother... Brace up and move on!!!

I feel for him... Glad he has achieved quite a lot in his musical career before this.

Clean2016:
Hello house,

I desire to invest or go into Airbnb establishment in Lagos or Ibadan.

Who knows the cost of starting? Can I start with rented apartment etc

I need your advice

Lagos is your best bet... Especially, Lagos island.

... And yes!, You can start with a rental apartment.

The cost of 'starting up' depends on the location you are considering.

Thank God for her life

Pranks gone wrong

In my deepest of heart... I hope we have Peter Obi in Aso rock next year. He is the best out if the 3 major evils available

Evil in it's purest form...

Never experienced that cos my late dad would always say "...two things that I do not choose for my children are: their career and who to marry." Lest, you blame him for your misfortune in the future

Well, how many years is the lease That is more important

Na wa for America this period ooo...

Dem own don done

The earlier they called his parents to withdraw him from the school, the better

New222:
I won't try to sugarcoat it. I'm 25 years old, she's 19. Still in university because of the endless ASUU strike.

I've been having unprotected sex with this particular girl for a long while now. We've been dating for close to two years. I practise the "withdrawal" and "safe" days method. I met her a Virgin too.

Just realised she's pregnant. She started showing a lot of symptoms. Darkened areolas, nausea, breast heaviness, headache, back pain e.t.c.

I asked her to get do a pregnancy strip test and it came positive. Two red lines.

Though it's not what I ever planned for myself, I won't really mind having a child at my age. People will so much insult me, including my family but I'm sure my family will take care of the child.

The issue is the girl. Her family (Deeper Life) are wahala, big wahala. Educated people that behaves as if they never went to school. Now, we detected very early, her first period is supposed to start tomorrow (which I'm sure she'll miss). She's still very young and about to start schooling. I'm sure her dad will disown her (he once sent her away from his home over a slight misunderstanding, refused to let her back in until it was shown she was innocent).

I told her we have two choices, keep the baby or remove it. I am confused too, but I didn't show it. Pls what do you think?

We're really considering ending the pregnancy. Since it's very early, I'm considered getting m...p......r..l. I need medical advice pls. Above all, I don't want to endanger the girl's life.
I've read about abortion pills. I don't know how to get them or their price. Or should we keep the baby? Her dad will surely disown her, might later accept her, but it will definitely end her Education. What do you think? Should we get the drugs pls. Or consider another option? Should we keep the baby?

P.S: I know nairaland. I've been here for years, insult are welcomed. I never imaginned I'll ever open a thread like this.

P.S: If you're using withdrawal method and it works, it WILL STILL EVENTUALLY FAIL YOU. I used it for a really long time, now I'm here.

You both should agree to keep your baby against all odds.... Don't mind the shame and hardship it may bring you guys for now.

Talk to your mum first... Receuve slaps if you have to, but stand your ground.

I am glad you are considering the wellbeing of the lady and not been selfish about it

Humanity and sex... E don tey

Nice post

She has done them proud...

Lovely father and son pix

Anything is now possible in naija

Whiteheartbit:
Hello naira landers.
I really need your advice on what to do about this.
Sex with my wife has become so so boring that after it i most often time regret leaving whatever I was supposed to do for it. I mean the feeling of it was not worth it at all
I've tried all I know, I've read books and bought some for her to help out for our sexual life, yet the improvement is short leaved.

We've been married for Six years with two kids. Yet from the day we got married I can count how many times I've kissed my wife during or not during sex.
I've called her attention to it, if I managed to kiss her I must have begged my way through.
Like a secondary school chap.
------ I enjoy kissing -------- which she knows, she'll promise making a change yet no Change.

Okay, I've come to understand with her that maybe kissing is not her thing as it is for some women. Fine I don't go to that area any more.

All of a sudden, she's not interested in fore play of any kind, which I love to engage in no matter how badly I want to get in because I want the satisfaction to be mutual, but She just want me straight in.
Many times I'm filled with wondering thoughts while making up with her.
Peradventure she agrees to a pre-intimacy after much bagging and persuasion, it's not more than 5mins with restrictions to some parts. GGGGGGGGGGod!
I'll just be like what is this.

I've called her on serveral occasions if something was wrong, if she was going through any emotional stress or something I could help out with or change, response always negative.

Yet no improvement.

I don't know who to talk to, because I'm a very private person and respects privacy.

I'm doing my best to make her and the kids happy, to the best of my ability as God is helping me.
I'm a very charming and romantic dude, the best I know about myself in that area, which she has also told me.
I've never cheated on her, not once and I don't intend to and she knows.

I had to come up here to seek for help because it's getting out of hand.

To the point that I seek her consent if we can make out for the night ( it's not the top priority in our lives though, but it's necessary) she sometimes come up with an excuse which I'll understand or she agrees but ends up disappointing ( i.e sleeps off or not in the mood) and I get pissed off, because I'm left ganging and she doesn't care. My God!
For about a month it's been dry sex and it's making me feel as if I'm violating her, forcing her against her will.
The very last time it was as if I was making out with a dead body, no sound, no moves, no connection. Mahn o Mahnnnn

I'm at the verge of taking the selibacy way, because that was my vow before I married her.
This sex thing is distracting me.

I need advice, is there something about women I don't known because I've read and researched about women.

I can understand the frustration... I suggest you both visit a sex therapist

To be honest, he stood no chance in the race ...

Vanzcharles:
I want to know if it is really worth it, how much time would i dedicate in learning this, any guide here or any data analysts or scientist in the house.
i am really bored and tired of being dependent and i eally want to develop an it skill ( WITHIN 3 MONTHS).
i would appreciate comments from data analysts and scientist.

It is a very viable 'skill' to pick up, especially, outside the shores of Nigeria.

3 months is not sufficient to learn data analysis... It is a career in it's own right

He even tried in amazing so kuch votes than the vice president... No one could outspend Tinubu.

I never knew Amaechi could pull off some weight more than the VP

He should go back to Rivers to fight for relevancy in his state

I pray God compensates you with a better job offer ... The guy intention was to use you all along

olasco18:
Please want to transfer to mtn mobile money ghana

Barter by flutterwave

ecomalchemist:
I no get money but I go like do biz...this one is for you !


Take a course on Marketing and Sales.<

Learn how to sell.

Find someone who is doing a business and making sales offline. You’ll find many of them in Onitsha, Computer village, Aba, Alaba, Aspamda, Idumota, etc.
Most of these people have no idea what goes on online. They also do not care what goes on online.


All they care about is making sales and getting
money flowing into the business daily.

Be their online person.

Bring their business online, and advertise to those who want what they sell.

You will make money doing this.
You’ll make a lot of money doing this.


As a woman, you can open an online shop for that woman selling lace in Aba, and add money on top onto for yourself. That’s your own profit on every sale.
As a guy, you can open an online store store for that man selling computers at Computer village.


Read information from Google and publish content about computers and what people should look out for before buying a laptop.
More people would begin to reach out to you when need laptops.


Reach out to that guy who makes shoes and footwear in your neighborhood and be their online guy.
Promote what they make online and add your own profit.

Look around you, look where others are neglecting, you’ll find a gem.

You can’t afford to be idle for long.
You can’t afford to stay broke.
You can’t afford to continue earning a meagre salary every month.

You don’t need to be a genius to make money online, and have a better life.

Look for a business that is offline, bring it online and get them SALES.

You will make a lot of money.
Not just money...

You will build your confidence.
Your influence will grow, and...
You’ll attract more opportunities to yourself.
You need to start operating smartly.

Look for a business that is offline, bring it online and get them SALES.

The Gadget importation guide is available for those that want to be financially free. It's free, reap and apply the knowledge.

You've just gained a fan... Thumbs up

This has become a senseless unnecessary war...

1.2 million is 100k per month.. if that's why she left; all the best to her.

The man should be happy now as both of them were never in the marriage

This is a better baby... Lovely ride