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Ghana has chosen to resolve to mind games...

World politics... Every country has got to consider her own interests first.

Moz22:
Actually typing this with a heavy heart and so much disgust for what I've done.. wish I had handled the situation better.

My father is the best man I could ever wish for and if I had another chance to pick a dad again in my next life, I'll pick a richer version of him but my mom?? Sigh!
However growing up with them was so stressful in every way u can think of.. my dad was the meek type, soft spoken and slow to react but my mom would always complain about everything, she fights everything and everyone.. never afraid of any form of confrontation, she would complain about my hairstyle, she would check if I sagged my trousers.. she monitored me extremely and always nagged about it.. I'm this typa guy who is well cultured, I wouldn't say I got that from home training tho cos I do not drink, smoke nor womanize... And I think it's d joy of every parent to have child like me, I basically had no friends visiting me then and even up till now. I've got trust issues that's why I don't keep friends.. my mom made my youthful days hell for me, I didn't really enjoy it.. times I spent with her were miserable as she would shout everyday, quarrel even over phone conversations that you would think the person she's fighting with was right in front of her.. and some times I even pity my dad whenever she starts with him. I developed some sorta hatred for her

Lately I've been spending more time with them cos of our last born just so I could keep an eye on him and we stayed close too.. and the way she treats him makes me wonder if she was the one gave birth to him, if I was away when she was pregnant for him and delivered.. I would have argued that she was his mother. There were times that I had to pass the night there and her voice or rants would be what will wake me up very early in the morning just as it used to be when I used to be there...

I used to think that as people grow old, they become calmer but that isn't the case with my mom, she's more violent... She lost her twin sis last year March and I sincerely hoped that would change atleast but iro nio... Her other sisters aren't even speaking to her at the moment. My dad was a musician.. old age won't allow him continue doing music, coincidentally I picked up that barton.. been doing the same music(live musician) all my life but my mom has always been against it.. she was never happy whenever I carry my dad's guitar to rehearse or whenever I bring a piano home.. it was always war...

Been there since last weekend cos of the poor electricity in my area.. we have had power for about 7 days now.. Had gone for a studio session, only to return in d evening and I was greeted with shouting over a very trivial issue, I was so angry that I responded to every of her verbal insults.. and then she hit me and I reciprocated which I felt so bad about almost immediately.. she dragged me by my clothes shouting that I must kill her again, by that time.. my anger had subdued and all I had on my mind was to leave the house immediately. She threatened to arrest me.. She tore my shirt and I managed to pull away from her.. and left without picking my stuffs. All my life, I have never raised up my hands to hit a woman talkless of my mom.. I don't even beat kids when they do wrong, I hate to see tears.. I know it's a disgraceful thing to do. I've got no excuse for what I've done whatsoever. I even avoid confrontations with my own gender sef cos I know what I'm capable of. I'm always quick to say the word sorry just to avoid prolonged issues. I had been offline since it happened, just came here to drop this and I know how much insults I'm gonna get here anyway but we learn everyday and will surely pick the ones that will make me a better person.. no one's perfect

Pls ignore my typo errors abeg

I like your nature... This was really a grievous error on your part. Go back and beg her wit everything you have

Since they became indigenous, their fate has been downward spiral

Naija likes Niger Republic no be small

guobe:
okay ,but why is the woman not able to breastfeed the baby if they are her gene.

Because she did not carry the baby in her womb, there will be no secretion of the necessary hormones that will signal to the brain that the breast needs to secret milk. If there is no breast milk secretion, she surely can not breastfeed the baby.

guobe:
Bearing a child is the joy of every woman as they want to carry their own child,but due to fertility issues,alot of women are not able to hence the need to find other means to have a kid and one of such means is surrogacy in which another woman carries your baby in her womb.Is this practice of surrogacy backed by law in Nigeria and what will the foreign embassy say if the babies are to be flown out of the country.Will they query the mother of the kids as most times she can't breastfeed the kids as she is not the real mum of the the kid.

Surrogacy is gaining momentum in Nigeria... There is no law against it.
But ensure you tidy up your legal deal with the surrogate mum to avoid stories.

You are legally the mother of the baby as your ova(egg) and your husband's sperm are used to form the baby in the carrier (surrogate). The genes and DNA of the baby is that of you and your husband. So, even with DNA test, you own your baby

Your doctor friend is a funny man

naijapower:
The change will affect energy exports to "unfriendly countries"

Russia will now accept payment for gas exports to "unfriendly countries" in rubles only, President Vladimir Putin said at a meeting with the government on Wednesday.

The president explained that Russia plans to abandon all “compromised” currencies in payment settlements. He added that illegitimate decisions by a number of Western countries to freeze Russia’s assets destroyed all confidence in their currencies.

“I have decided to implement in the shortest possible time a set of measures to change the payments for – yes let’s start with this – for our natural gas supplied to the so-called unfriendly countries in Russian rubles, that is to stop using all compromised currencies for transactions,” the Russian president said.

"It doesn't make sense to deliver our goods to the EU and the US and get paid in dollars and euros," he added.

Moscow warns Europe of energy market collapseREAD MORE: Moscow warns Europe of energy market collapse
Putin gave the Central Bank and the government a week to determine the procedure for operations for buying rubles on the domestic market for importers of Russian gas.

The president added that Russia will continue to supply gas in accordance with the volumes and pricing principles of the contracts. Only the currency of payment will change.

The announcement caused a spike in the cost of contracts for gas supply at the TTF European hub, Forbes Russia quoted data from the Intercontinental Exchange as indicating. During Wednesday’s trading, the gas price rose from €97 per megawatt hour (MWh) to approximately €108.5 per 1MWh, but after the president’s speech, it jumped by another €10 to €118.75 per 1MWh, before retreating to €114 per 1MWh as of 1pm GMT.

In the past month, Russia has been hit with several rounds of unprecedented international sanctions over its military operation in Ukraine. The US, EU, and their allies have cut off the country from their financial systems, limited dollar and euro transactions, and froze roughly $300 billion in Russian forex reserves abroad, among other measures. At the same time, they have continued to buy Russian oil and gas.

https://www.rt.com/business/552546-putin-wants-rubles-russian-gas/

This makes sense..... The World economy is designed to make the dollar stronger

Congratulations to her!!! I can only imagine what she must have been through in this our type of society

pyyxxaro:
Ur preeek never mature na , nor be that ur small preeek when be like small okro u de talk about

That kind preeeek nor de raise na


Wait make u reach Puberty before u go understand , for now ur preeek na still Biro cover

lol... I don't know why this your comment got me laughing real hard.

Ibime2003:
Landlords, please how do you handle this kind of situation: A tenant told you he is doing a type of job at the point of moving in, but you later suspected he is not doing the type of job he claimed to be doing after he moved in to the house.

You are now being anxious that hope he is not into fraud or something criminal, because if he is bursted by the law operatives you might be arrested as an accomplice for providing accommodation to a criminal. There are even instances where law enforcement officers destroy the House while trying to arrest a criminal.

So landlords how can someone take care of this kind of situation?

If you offered him a tenancy form to fill and he filled in his occupation... That covers you.
Wait for his rent to lapse and evict him jejely

Tankman scammer

Well, I have eaten a couple of shawarma in ibadan over the past few weeks with no ere****tion.

Not a bad one... This is called free lunch in freetown.

2020yemi:
Repair of 42 inches Led Television at my workshop..
I brought it from Admiralty way, lekki face one, Lagos

Do you also fix faulty screens

brainycaleb:
This is an audi a6 allroad 2.7t 2001 model, Switzerland used. It was registered in Nigeria but not used whatsoever, lying dormant because the owner is away in Switzerland. I'd want to use it for transportation and the owner says because we are related, I'd only pay her her cost price i.e 4200 Swiss franc and 450,000 used in clearing and forwarding, which would amount to almost 2.5 million.


Dear auto gurus, how much do you think the machine is worth?

for a 2001 car, that is to exorbitant... You have to do your calculations of the price using the exchange rate that was used then not the present exchange rate.

Festy8:
I want to use the medium to call on the controller of Nigeria Immigration Service to come to aid of passport applicants in Benin City,for over two months now the office have not been producing passports.

The official says that the lack of passport allocation is the reason.

I call on the National head office to visit this matter.

We are stranded in benin.

We are stranded in Nigeria except in the North. There's been no passport paper for months and there is so much backlogs yet to be printed.

Keep the children in school!!!

He has paid his dues in Kannywood and Nollywood over time.

Kaidosama:
Is it still possible to get a brand new redmi note 10 in 2022?
I don't like d new redmi note 11 seems d old redmi note 10 is more powerful

yes it is possible... Visit slot outlets

Ha!!! It's too expensive... Please come back to Nigeria. It is cheaper in the north

Educative and Informative to say the least...

Glad to know he his alive!!! I read the reports about his death and i was like "Just like that!!!" Like say he no be human

I have gotten so used to pix 6 even while traveling at a high speed... #Badhabit

Guys are waiting to learn the verdict of the law on the matter... @litigator

Stupid man...

Stone age things...

She should enjoy her life..

micomatson:
It's over 8 month now, I had sex with my gf since am not around, when I asked her what actually happens she told me that she is abstaining from sex till marriage, although her behavior looks strange and am felt with doubt.... Is it really possible for a woman to abstain from sex for that long?

Yes it is very possible... Some people later on in life decide to go celibate

Toolady:
Permit me to go into details.
pls I need mature response
After my NYSC last year, my cousin brother invited me to come stay with him so he could look for a job for me or try fix me somewhere.

I was grateful and moved over to stay with him, due to the new environment I didn't know anyone and he was the only friend I had, we talk and do almost everything siblings could do together, earlier January he had a girlfriend and I was happy as she became the second friend I had in this new state, in fact my friendship with her was even closer than that of my brother.
But later along the line the closeness between I and my brother wasn't as it was again, I come back home in the evening and most times I don't see him and began missing his presence.

This isn't even the problem, the problem is that I subconsciously started seeing his girlfriend as my rival which I wasn't suppose to.
2days ago, I prepared a meal for us but he didn't come back home and I ate it alone, I came back home yesterday and found out the pot of soup is gone and pot was washed clean, I was sure he has eaten, so when he came back, he told me he came with her in the afternoon and they ate, I quickly flared up and talked to him in a tone I wasn't suppose to, his girlfriend tried to calm me down and I told her to mind her business as this is family issue, she felt bad and left the house, came back hours later with groceries, cooked meal and left, that's was when it occurred to me that I haven't been good to her and made my emotions got the better of me, I tried to apologize to my brother but i still feel so bad and really don't know how to approach his girlfriend and apologize, I was sure I can't loose my brothers friendship, but I also don't wish for any bad relationship between I and his girlfriend due to my emotions

please I just need mature advice, that's why I bought it to family section

Lalasticlala mynd44

Send her your apology via text message and kindly get yourself in positive distractions... Think about your lovely cousin and not ruin your his happiness

Graceihotu:
My question is "what do guys really want"
I am not saying I am perfect but I know I am surely the best girlfriend any guy could ever think of yet I am still experiencing heartbreak at 31���


Had issues with my boyfriend since last year April bkos of a particular girl he posted on Facebook addressing her as the mother of his house. I became angry and told him I was only going to continue the relationship if I spoke to the lady in question bkos same lady posted him too calling him her first love.


He told me the lady was his cousin sister and ofcourse I believed him bkos she bares same surname with his cousin brother whoose wedding we attended together, He addressed me as his wife to be throughout the occasion so I had everything to believe in him

Just five days ago I saw his wedding notification on Facebook with that same lady. My heart has never been this broken B4 in my life. I have cried out my soul to the extent that I barely see clearly this days. I tried not to cry but I just can't. I am seriously weeping as I am typing this.

I have tried to encourage myself but I just can't stop crying and WAILING.

Who have I ever offended and what exactly do guys want?

I have searched all through the 5 yrs of relationship and aswear with my life that I never stressed him but I only requested Love not Money from him

My heart is bleeding.
I only sent him his pre-wedding pics and congratulated him then he replied "thanks''

He feels I don't deserve an explanation �����

sorry about your experience... I pray time heals your heart and may someone more deserving of your love come your way.
You will someday look back to today and be glad he left you cos you will be happier and more fulfilled in life. Cheer up