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HopeSpencer:
It's no news that my wife has no respect for me. But I was ok by this as long as she wasn't feeding me. We have only one child to feed. Buying enough food for the house was not a problem for me. But suddenly, this bike started giving me problems with piston and shaft. I paid for repair of those two parts 3 times in a month spending nothing less than 9k each time. Still, they broke down again. The only option for me is to buy brand new SHAFT AND ENGINE BLOCK. But I ran out of cash and still owing friends. I earn the living as a rider.

Wife has a job that can conviniently feed the house and she started buying food stuffs for consumption. Of recent, she bought 3k worth of chicken and cooked it. I was not around when food was ready. She was not at home when I came back and I served myself. This was not first time of me serving myself.

When she came back, she went to the kitchen, checked the meat pieces and stormed out of the kitchen to meet me.
"A big morsel of meat, thigh, is missing from the pot", she fumed.
I replied that I took it and she asked if I didn't see other smaller pieces there for me to have the effrontery to take that big one.
Earth underneath my feet almost caved in.

You may want to believe that I was maltreating her before now, but is not true.

If the rich also cry, I prefer crying as a rich man to crying as a wretched soul.

sorry bro... It's one of those things. It is not right for your wife to speak to you such manner.
But, why you sef go carry d biggest chiken?

Worthy of note...

This is impressive...

amaesther:
A legal practitioner has narrated how a lady attempted to back-date her wedding certificate so that she can get a share of her husband's property in case of divorce.

According to the lawyer,the lady called him some years back for legal advice on how she can back-date the wedding certificate to reflect the property the man bought when they weren't married so she can get 50% of the man's property in case of divorce.

The lawyer noted that the lady was yet to get married to the man and had this diabolic plan in mind.

The man further revealed that after he told her the consultation fee was 500K Naira(GH¢7,931) she backed out.

Read the lawyer's full narration below:

""A girl called me some years ago for legal advice. She asked since the husband wants a court Marriage, if she can backdate the wedding Certificate to reflect the property the man bought when they weren't married so she can have 50% incase of divorce. Mind you they weren't Married yet. I told her my consultation fee is 500k she cursed me out and I just replied her may God help the man who wants to marry her. I still pray for him till date though I don't know him. May we never meet these horrible women Amen""
https://www.browngh.com/lady-secretly-attempts-back-date-wedding-certificate-get-share-husbands-property-case-divorce/

If you meet the best of that gender... Blessed art thou. But, if you jam the worst of them; cursed art thou.

MangekyoAlt:
Before responding to Putin's accusations that Ukraine is a puppet state of the West, President Zelensky decided to consult...........

He just confirmed the allegation...

He is doing well...

aminulive:
POLITICSNIGERIA.COM

On Monday, Cynthia Ikena, the lawyer of embattled 'super cop', Abba Kyari, told Justice Inyang Ekwo of a Federal High Court in Abuja that her client is a diabetic and hypertensive patient.

She asked the court to release the suspended Deputy Commissioner of Police on bail due to Poor health, adding that he needs to travel abroad for proper treatment.

He also asked the court to compel the National Drug Law Enforcement Agency (NDLEA) to grant him bail pending the hearing and determination of his fundamental right enforcement application.

It would be recalled that the NDLEA arrested Kyari on Feb. 14, 2022, for alleged links to drug-related crimes.

Prior to that, he was suspended for his alleged involvement in a series of illegal and unethical dealings with popular alleged fraudster, Ramon Abbas a.k.a. Hushpuppi who is currently facing charges of money laundering levelled against him by the United States Government last year.

Kyari was regarded as a patriotic policeman and was widely celebrated for his role in ensuring safety in the nation. Some of his achievements are the arrest of Chukwudi Onuamadike, a kidnapper known as Evans, in 2017 and the arrest of Taraba’s wanted kidnapper, Hamisu Wadume in 2019 among others.

For three years in a row (2012, 2013 and 2014), he got the police medal and the House of Representatives gave him an award of outstanding performance in the Nigerian Police in 2020.

Many Nigerians are, however, surprised that the same Kyari who said in 2017 that at the time of Evans’ arrest, the kidnapper gave him $2 million which he rejected got enmeshed in multi-million dollars corruption allegations.

In what appears like a norm in Nigeria, Kyari, like other top Nigerian criminal suspects, attempted to delay the 'justice system' by seeking bail on health grounds. Unfortunately for him, the court denied his request.

In this report, POLITICS NIGERIA looks at some previous cases of corruption where top officials have either collapsed or sought for bail on health grounds during the process of questioning, trial or detention.

Abdulrasheed Maina

The former Chairman of the defunct Pension Reform Task Team, Abdulrasheed Maina on Dec. 20, 2020 collapsed in court while standing trial on a 12-count charge of fraud and money laundering before a Federal High Court sitting in Abuja.

The incident occured weeks after he was extradited from the Niger Republic after he jumped bail and escaped the country.

Maina’s ill-health has been a major reason for his prolonged trial. In 2019, a medical expert testified to his inability to appear before the court due to health reasons and at another instance, his lawyer said Maina was bleeding during a court sitting.

Olisah Metuh

Upon the resumption of his trial for alleged money laundering, the former national publicity secretary of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) Olisa Metuh, collapsed in court on May 21, 2018.

The politician has since been facing a N400 million money laundering charge, and had on several occasions been on admission in various hospitals in Nigeria.

He is said to be having spinal cord ailment for which doctors recommended surgery as definitive treatment and referred him to a London hospital.

Dino Melaye

Accused of culpable homicide, Police on Jan. 5, 2019, arrested Dino Melaye, a former Kogi West Senator but on arrival at the police headquarters in Abuja, he appeared very weak and could not walk by himself.

In the blink of an eye, he slumped as he was breathing heavily. He was said to be asthmatic as a female assistant brought out an inhaler and gave him a couple of shots through the mouth.

Before then, Dino, who likened himself to the Biblical Elijah, vowed not to honour the police invitation, saying that the security operatives had perfected a plot to inject him with poison.

Diezani Alison-Madueke

The flamboyant former Petroleum Minister, Diezani Alison-Madueke, has long been under investigation over allegations of bribery and money laundering.

Despite embezzling huge sums of money while serving as oil minister for Africa's biggest crude producer from 2010-2015, she is said to be having breast cancer and undergoing treatment in Britain.

Sambo Dasuki

Sambo Dasuki was charged to court with illegal possession of arms and for stealing $2 billion meant to facilitate the purchase of weapons for the Nigerian military to fight Boko Haram in 2015.

Later, Ahmed Raji (SAN), his lawyer, pleaded that his client’s passport be released to allow him to travel for three weeks for treatment of his “budding cancer.”

When the matter was closing in on him, he too resorted to illness. A columnist, Bayo Olupohunda argued in 2016 that "Dasuki’s sickness is more of a planned, coached, and rehearsed excuse than a coincidence. It’s a cock-and-bull story!"

Ibrahim Lamorde

Upon his emergence as president in 2015, President Muhammadu Buhari, sacked Ibrahim Lamorde as chairman of Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC).

Later that year, the Senate Committee on Ethics, Privileges and Public Petitions said it was investigating Lamorde over allegations of diversion of stolen funds amounting to over N1 trillion, recovered over a period of time from looters of public treasury.

In November 2015, he was flown abroad over an undisclosed ailment.

https://politicsnigeria.com/round-up-abba-kyari-mainatop-nigerian-criminal-suspects-with-history-of-illness/

That is the way of the elite to delay or avert justice... A dying poor man in court would not even be considered by the judge

5 million is an amount one can spend on wedding ceremony... So, i will choose a faithful partner

It might not just be a dead on arrival initiative yet ...

He is a victim of his own success... Any player could have lost the penalty so what's the Ish?
Ronaldo lost a penalty couple of weeks ago...
Mane lost a penalty during afcon finals
Terry, lampard, Neymar,aguero and many more have lost crucial penalties in time past

Spiderman is going on sabbatical...

kollinzgee:
A country that doesn't know it's history is bound to fail just like our Nigeria,Putin is a real leader,a leader who understands the history of his country and is propelled by the love he has for Russia as a former secret agent he doesn't mind dying to achieve his aim.

Ukraine and Russia together were once a country called kievan Rus and Kiev the capital of Ukraine was the former capital of the country,they are both blood relatives.during the collapse of the USSR Russians were more pained by the loss of Ukraine than any other republics, Russians see Ukraine as part of them and Ukraine speaks another dialect of Russian,Putin knows that most Russians don't like him because he is authoritarian but most of them support him bringing back the old Russian empire.

Putin loves his country and people and that is why he feel pained when Ukraine was attacking eastern separatists he knows they are his people,unlike some of our brothers here who don't even mind if the kinsmen are being killed in Benin republic or Togo,they rather want to force igbos to be their blood brothers even though they know deep down it can never work, when it is time we shall reclaim every inch of alaigbo any body who is a migrants can go back to Benin or wherever he comes from as long as the land you are matching has an Igbo name it belongs to igbos..
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Below is the former kievan Rus.

#igbonationalism

The landmass of Russia is more than enough for russia.. he should just let Ukraine be.

Warrisdis!!? Taiya taiwo people dem.. he had gone to bully the small small boys on the pitch

Flutterwave is fast leaving paystack behind... Vogueoay has even gone into extinction

Wahala dey with the Issue of this UGM. They are criminals in disguise

He is not bothered by the economic sanctions i guess ...

milann:
Oseyili Anenih, one of the sons of Late Chief Tony Anenih, has received the ringing endorsement of his father’s kinsmen, the Uzenema community, to run for the Esan North-East/South-East Federal Constituency seat, Edo State.

This approval seals a critical customary blessing for Mr. Anenih, which is crucial to not only strengthening his political base to contest the House of Representatives seat but is also a condition precedent to any declaration by an Esan politician.

As a strong mark of support, the Uzenema community Elders led by Jonah Agumelen, the Odionwele (the oldest man in the village) have vowed that “no one else after this endorsement of Ose, will come from Uzenema for the Reps seat.”

“As a community, we will all vote for Ose Anenih because we have given him our blessings and prayers. He is a good man; and he is our own.”

“He is from a good home, and his family has contributed enormously to this community, Edo State and Nigeria at large,” the elders said.

In the same vein, the oldest man in the Anenih clan, Akiohiamen Robertson, has also blessed the aspiration of Ose, describing him as a worthy son who will continue to serve the community as selflessly as his father did.

Over 400 hundred community leaders, elders, and youth groups attended the ceremony convened by Tony Anenih Jnr, which held at the Anenih family compound in Uzenema on Thursday.

The immediate family of the late strongman of Edo politics, popularly know as Mr Fix-it, Late Chief Tony Anenih, were also in attendance.

Endorsements from political leaders, elders, youth and women groups have continued to pour in for Ose Anenih from his immediate community, the federal constituency, the state and across the country.

Asked to comment on the endorsement, Oseyili Anenih said he is humbled by the support he has received from his people; and pledged to protect and promote the interests of his community to the best of his ability.

“Politics is about consultations and consensus building. I have gained the trust of my community, and now I have to do the same across the entire constituency.

“This marks the beginning of what is still a long journey. I look forward to engaging with the wider constituency so I can present to them my plans and ideas that I believe will make Esan North East/South East Constituency even greater than it currently is.”

Oseyili Anenih is widely seen as the leading Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) House of Representatives aspirant for the North-East/South-East Federal Constituency ticket.


https://www.sunnewsonline.com/community-endorses-late-chief-tony-anenihs-son-for-rep-ticket/

The community want a dynasty... They will be fine

Deejaygold:
New Zealand player Meikayla Moore scored 3 own goals in her country's SheBelieves Cup game against US women’s national team on Sunday. Moore scored the hat-trick of own desires in the establishing 36 mins of the game earlier than in the end being subbed off in the fortieth minute.

The defender's nightmare commenced with the first of 3 own goals at the 5 minute mark. Moore tried to dam a pass from USWNT player Sophia Smith however sliced it into backside proper corner. New Zealand goalkeeper Erin Nayler dove to make the shop however couldn’t attain the ball in time.

Her 2nd got here through an help from Margaret Purce, who targeted the ball into the container earlier than Moore headed into her own goal by mistake. The 1/3 and very last very own purpose additionally got here from a Purce help, as she tried to locate Smith on the opposite aspect of the pitch earlier than Moore deflected it beyond Nayler.



Moore presently features for Liverpool FC in the FA Women’s Championship.

The USWNT concluded the fit 5-0, with extra desires through Ashley Hatch and Mallory Pugh. The American aspect is undefeated in the 2022 SheBelieves Cup, drawing in opposition to the Czech Republic earlier than overpowering New Zealand.

The USWNT head into their very last fit of the match on February 23 vs. Iceland..
SOURCE: https://nairalux.com/blog?topic=New-Zealand-and-Liverpool-Defender-Meikayla-Moore-Scores-Hat-Trick-of-Own-Goals-in-USWNT-Match&post=1006

Maguire is a learner beside her... That must have been a very bad day for her

rebeloflagos:
Lastly, cheating

When one partner finds out that they are being cheated on, just forget, this leads to the end of the relationship in the majority of cases.

However, the partner cheated on always has the choice to restore trust or not. (Don't restore that kind of rubbish though)

It is important not to force a relationship if it's not working out. Just breakup, dont cheat.

Hope you enjoyed and learned something from this after all

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Nice points... Making sense

Enosa1:
Just curious to know and also as someone that will like his wedding to be conducted at his church.

Is there any reason why the bride Church must be the one to conduct the wedding.

Has any guy here successfully done that?

The reason is simply, the father of the bride is the one 'giving' her out in marriage... Since she is not yet your wife and assumed to still be under her father... You have to go over to 'collect' her hand in marriage.
The same rational is behind the intro/engagement taking place in the wife's family home.

It is a good one... The money should be spent inwards.

olugabbie:
The Ukrainian President told CNN that NATO partners needed to clarify a timeline on which the country could join the military alliance.

"Ukraine needs security guarantees," Zelensky said. "We are smart people, we are not narrow minded. We understand there are lots of different risks because of NATO, there is no consensus around other allies, everyone is saying there is some distance that we need to go between Ukraine and NATO that we need to walk. All we are saying is tell us how much time does it take to complete this distance?"

In earlier remarks to the conference, Zelensky posed a question asking why Ukraine had not been permitted to join NATO. "We are told the doors are open.. but the strangers are still not allowed," he said.

Moscow sees the growing support for Ukraine from NATO -- in terms of weaponry, training and personnel -- as a threat to its own security. Putin has also called for specific legal agreements that would rule out any further NATO expansion eastwards towards Russia's borders, saying the West has not lived up to its previous verbal assurances.



Source:-CNN

NATO is simply being skeptical cos of Russia... The alliance between Russia and China is really a big merger that even NATO or UN forces are weary of

The love of pomo has landed these. Ones in trouble...

Part of the future of the super eagles...

adekolausman0000:
After 42 years apart, a Kenyan man named Hiltan Kalugho has been reunited with his family after leaving his country home in 1980. At the age of 94, Kalugho reappeared to find that his wife and two of his seven children had passed.

Hiltan Kalugho traveled to Tanzania in search of green pastures but ended up spending 42-years away from his family.

The man moved to Tanzania in the hopes of making a fortune, but the days turned into years, and he was unable to generate any money..... Continue reading

Hos village people stayed alived on his matter for 42yrs... Selfish of him to have abandoned his wife and kids for that long

May your cum not land you in trouble... Amen!!!

PeeDaVinci:
Got a couple friend who are having argument and I was told to help resolve the situation and I just want to lean in on this community to help provide other perspective which I may not be seeing before advising them.
To set the context,
My couple freinds live in Germany and they are happily married. The husband once met a lady in a church a while back while in Univ. (who he later discover to be the wife's friend), but the lady does not remember meeting him when he tried to connect with the lady on facebook (that was in 2019), lady accept his friends request though, and since then the husband has never had any conversation with the lady. Lady is happily married too with kids and living in the Texas.

The issue:

The lady in Texas has made over 30 Facebook posts in the past two years, and over 15 photo album posts, and my my couple friend's husband like 5 of the 15 photo album which actually contains the Texas's lady and her family's photo. The Texas lady has never like anything my couple friend posted on Facebook. Last week, the wife told the husband that he is sending wrong signal that he is in love with that Texas lady, and forcing himself on her moreso that the lady didn't even remember meeting him, and that he should stop "Like"ing her photos. and the husband responded by saying how could a happily married woman in Texas (far away from where they are) and with whom he has never communicated, think "Liking" her FB post of family photo albums means he is in love with her, and told her wife she is jealous. And that she has no right to tell him what he does with anybody of FB
Right now, both husband and wife are not backing down from their position

Question I have is that do you think the husband is wrong and he is sending the wrong signal, or do you think that the wife is jealous?

Advice needed, please

The wife has a good point... But this is not enough to cause issues in the home. The wife should just look away but the man should just give himself brain sha.

posty56:
what is the essence of this thread? I see people who bash churches as demented people, this life na personal relationship with God,if like go ,Christ embassy,go opm, go salvation ministry etc. everything all boils than to your personal relationship with God.

P.S:- I am Catholic.

One of the few sensible people on Nairaland spotted

Amotekun seems to be getting more effective and result oriented than our police officers.

Funnymahn:
Wonder they say, shall never end.
This is a funny situation where man appoints wife, and places her on salary for taking care of the home.
He equally appoints his one year old son, to be scattering the house or for what Lol.

See employment letters below.

Provided it is his company, there is no problem about that. It is a ploy to reduce the tax paid by his company. The salary paid to his wife and daughter is added to the company's expenses thereby reducing the profit declared in his tax returns.
It is a street financial wisdom taught by Kiyosaki