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I am sure he has been fired already...

sweetkev:
But if she's beautiful you for don knack am ?

That was my only way to avoid falling into such temptation. I have to do what I had to do to give masef sense.

SultanOfPuna:
My sister's ukrainian visa was issued early last year
She came back November but we decided to wait to gather enough funds before she could go back on febuary

But with what im seeing in the news lately, im still thinking if it is a good idea for her to travel to ukraine?

Are there any nairalanders that are in ukraine?
What should she do

let her go... The issue will be settled diplomatically at the long run

Coded081:
These are things that can never happen to any arsenal players

This is hammering to the gunners fans

D'Tigers are hawt...I pray they do not fall our hands at FIBA

This is nice to know...

Aonkuuse:
https://www.facebook.com/100069123281551/posts/251863357127772/

Lalasticlala, Mynd44, Dominique

They ruin the lives of people just to get enriched... Nonsense

It is understandable that one can obtain a loan and not be able to pay back due to some unforseen situations. So, i do not support how the loan apps operate... But most people take these loans without having a plan on how to repay.
Most borrowers can run down the company if strict measures are not taken.

okezuoemmanue:
Hello Nairalands. I wish to ask. Is it illegal for me to take my plate number to a good artist for him to repaint the color and change it from red plate number (commercial) to blue plate number (private)?

It is illegal as that will render your number plate faked .

Bobloco:
Remember those days when you buy JAMB form, the whole neighbourhood will know because in your hands is a big envelope with the inscription on it. Of course you can't forget the process and struggles that you had to go through at the JAMB office to get the form in the first place

As in... Then the process of going through the jamb brochure and filling the whole form. #Thosedays

Back to the medieval age of queueing at NECO office.

KenghisKhan:
Hi everyone, I'll try to be brief and straight to the point.

Early part of 2020 I noticed that my left wrist was inflamed accompanied with severe pains, I used some hot balm and took some pain reliever to at least nomb the pains, to some extent, it works and I had some considerable relief, and a brief stop.

Only for the pains to radiate to my right wrist, this time the pains was twice as worst as the first, to the extent that I could barely handle a pen. And like a speed of light, most of my joints were writh with unimaginable pains to the point that I could not walk and carry anything, in a twinkle of an eye everything spiral downward,I couldn't continue with my school in my finals o.

Around June/ July I went to university of Port Harcourt teaching hospital (UPTH), several test were carried out including rheumatoid factor that later came out high, and my erythrocyte sedimentation rate ESR was as well very high. I think 16 and 70 in order. So I was placed on *Methotrexate* 10mg for a start and hydroxylchloroquine 400mg with some pain reliever and prednisolone 20mg dly.

I've been very religious with my drugs, but unfortunately improvement wasn't in sight, so the MTX was increased to 25mg wkly and other Disease modifying drug sulphasalazin 1000mg dly was added, making it three DMARDs but still no substantial improvement. So I was given option of going biologic, retuximab infusion was introduced with the promise that it will stop the cells that spread the disease and some other medical benefits. I was to take it within two weeks intervals and the effects will kick in 4 weeks after infused. I took the last infusion on the 22nd December 2021 but till date there's still no positive effect.

I'm still in pains, especially on my knees, feet, shoulders and neck. With some pains in my wrists in fact with the scale of 10 I'll say 7/10. The quality of my life is none existence, I'm almost immobile, depressed, I won't lie, sometimes suicidal, I've lost everything,no More emotions to pull from...

Please I'm asking, because I don't think this is any RA again. I think it might be something else, so I'm I'm asking The doctors and any other person that is medically inclined to help or anyone that knows anyone in similar condition. Please help a soul. I've spent everything I've ever have and work for, my family are almost fading up. Those that know, knows the cost of one retuximab...
Could it be something else wrong with me?

NB: I'm still on those drugs except the sulphasalazin. Although the MTX has been reduced to 10mg wkly. SAVE A SOUL.

Moderator should help me take it to FP please!!!!

Maybe you should consider going on supplements and herbal drugs.

All i know is that... We will all be alright las las.

Sappakiller1:
Make I no use my other account here to avoid bashing..
So me and this sweet and sexy Hausa/Fulani girl don de package since when I dey water. So today as man don touch land yesterday we work things out.. I invited her to my crib. Around 10am she don show up. She called me to pick her up at the location I gave her. On how reaching there , trying to look for her, person horn me inside one mad ford explorer 2014 model. Lo and behold na this banny. Shrply we don reach my crib. . My crib everything dey normally. Before I could say Jack this babe don pull her hijab. Begin dey crush kush . With 2 cards of ref one emzolyn with codein. I was just wondering if she was the girl I was talking to all this while.na there I discover say this banny pman de work with buhari wife directly . Her mom sef hold ground for this country tied. So one thing lead to one thing we had mad s6x . First round, we find food chop first smoke before continuing the second half,, second half took us like 40 minutes and this babe was screaming badly. Before I could realized what was happening banny no de breath again o. Omo if you see how I dey run naked everywhere inside my room, parlour, kitchen dining room everywhere. Just to make this babe recover. Omo after I tried like 20min na d she begin shake o. Begin breath again small small. By that time my Pboy don shrink. I just pet her make she de alright move .........na later I as my Hausa friend come clear me say na gin. Say e dey sup like that.. if you see this babe bah.. you go even fear to follow her talk if you no stand ground as a man .... But mehn see how I come de fear to even see her again. She just called me dey beg say how embarrassed she is bla bla bla.
Is anyone with such experience here ...abeg share make we learn

that spirit was disturbing soany Hausa girls back then in Saffana LGA, in katsina where I served. Once that spirit possessed them, even your female student in class could strangulate a well built man with ease.
Only fellow girls could go near them and not be hurt during such possesion.

Now Balotelli is a true African after playing for Europe as an italian...

Russia is willing to invade and the entire world seems to ve backong out of Ukraine...

Overzealous officer..

Since you're ready for the worst, no problem.

Allies seem to be leaving Ukraine to their fate... No country seems to want combat confrontation with Russia.

ahnie:
Abegi....na today?

Let it slide...

Mychive:
Quite lengthy because I want to be as detailed as enough for better understanding..

We were great as friends that anyone could think we were dating even though by then, we were not dating at all, although we once had deep romance but no se.x because she wasn't ready and I wouldn't force or rape.

We kicked of relationship late last year and after a month, an issue came up where I had to travel for an exam and she had to go for her I.T. We couldn't hold our long phone calls like before , even though we still talk everyday but not as deep as we used to due to the new schedule.

After I was done with the exams , I called her a day after and told her I would speak with her later. Before the evening came, she dropped a breakup message for me on WhatsApp and I asked why, she told me she doesn't understand what's going on anymore because she noticed we didn't talk like before.

Made her realised that she ought to know that our schedule in the previous weeks wouldn't allow but now that exams are out of the way for me, we can talk often cos I wasn't really available during the exam time.

She complained that she would message me and I wouldn't reply quick on WhatsApp ...this was true sha cos those times, I might just be online and drop my phone somewhere or would be reading some stuff online here on WhatsApp so she felt I was ignoring or intentionally delaying the responses.

I Sha explained to her and everything got settled....

4 days later, she broke up again saying she still doesn't feel the vibe anymore that we were greater when we were friends than when Relationship entered.

I didn't press more on the dating again but she was still constantly giving the attention and acting like nothing happened. I wasn't sure if she had reconsidered or not. So I told a friend of mine who was her friend (male) to help me tease her a bit to even know her stand... She didn't know about this sha. She didn't know the guy was trying to find things out for me.

So he told the guy that she started dating me a month ago and then after a month, an issue came up. She explained what happened and how pained she was to feel avoided or taken for granted because I wasn't really responding to chats quickly like before...She told my friend that "now she doesn't even know if we're back or not"

Then she said after the first issue, she started thinking of some things... That now me the guy is done with school even though she knows I'm still doing Masters program of 2 years, not like she's planning on marriage but she doesn't know what might come up, secondly, age difference, I'm like 5 years older...then her sister doesn't know about the Relationship which she doesn't like...due to how close they're and the fact that when her previous relationship ended and she told her sister, her sister fought her for not letting her know about the Relationship till it ended.

Then she told my guy that I feel the issue of we dating or not has been settled but within her , she knows it's not settled and whether then or later, the breakup will still happen and everybody would be fine. She told my friend all these. Now, my friend told me everything she said but he refused to tell me this last part because she told him not to tell me.... It was when I checked their chat on my friends phone that I discovered myself. ...safe to say my friend knew it and didn't tell me.

I travelled down home last December and I didn't have it in mind to see her at all but she made suggestions twice that we should see...

First time, she suggested we see... She said she wanted a private place ..a roomm.. I told her no problem. Come to my place or we go to hotel... As those are the two options available, she rejected. But she wouldn't tell me where she wanted. On Jan. 1st, she told me that we should meet as well that her sister would cover up for her when she's leaving home... She wants a private place, rejected hotel or coming to my place.. . similar to first time. We couldn't get to see.

On the 3rd of January, she broke up saying we were having too many issues, her sister doesn't know about this and she doesn't like the fact that her sister doesn't know plus some other people she tells that she's single which wasn't a fair thing...and she's confused and not sure whether she wants the Relationship or not, that we were better as friends till Relationship came.
Till now, I didn't get what really happened...but she knows it that I really like her.

Though throughout last week, I was in her school city and I told her about it. She made plans to come see me but said she wouldn't sleep over...

I Sha didn't later let that plan work. I didn't bother letting her know when to come around to meet me at the hotel. ...till I left..

We are more of WhatsApp status viewers now sha. It's been over a month and I still can't stop thinking about her, couldn't get her off my head. I'm not chatting or talking to her so I don't appear desperate or simping.

I need advises / suggestions on this because I'd be travelling to her school city again next week and I'm lost between seeing her or not.

Don't worry, you will get over it with time... I have been in your shoes before.

GraciousGod190:
A Church member invited the masses to his mother's burial ceremony last week Sunday, today when I got there I had to look for his own canopy..to my surprise they were just few persons sitting on his canopy with lots of chairs vacant.

and I came late o, we talking about after 2.48pm

his siblings canopies were filled to the brim, even his uncle's canopies were filled up that they were even coming to collect chairs from his own canopies to theirs for their respective guest. (this guy is the second to senior) I could see the embarrassment on this man face... he was just quiet and moody.

food he cooked was surplus, nobody to give after sharing for we the church members that came..he had to even give us extra takeaway home because we didn't pass 10...still they are still enough leftovers.


while I was coming home one of the member from the church a very good friend of mine gave me a lift, then he told me Alex...you see why you need to dey mingle with people all around so that when you want to do things people will come.

you can't just put your full mind for people in church or family members...they disappoint you.


As you go people own, na so people go like come your own.




it really touched me, because I might even be worst than this guy, I hardly go out in the day....I don't have friends.. nobody to invite me to party... people in my street don't even know my name..This is really bad I need to change.



So introverts how do you handle stuffs when it comes to parties like this that you can't bypass? With all eyes watching...


Seun
Lalasticlala

How to handle things like this is simple... I never took a whole tent for myself knowing a few would show up.

NwekeUG:
A Nigerian lady identified as Munachi has revealed the reason she loves men who indulge in advance-fee fraud better known as 419, IGBERETV reports.

The number “419” refers to the section of the Nigerian Criminal Code dealing with fraud and the charges and penalties for such offenders.

In her tweet, the lady said she loves men who do 419 because her Father used to do 419.

In her words;


https://twitter.com/idc__sis/status/1492287640099594249?t=0Gf54SSGVw4G_8MZr_7W-Q&s=19

Lalasticlala
Mynd44

It is in her blood...

helinues:
It was a Saturday evening, I decided to chill out not too far from house.

Getting to the place, I ordered for my brand of drink, served and settle down to enjoy my Saturday evening . Two guys came in, sat infront of me and having their drinks. I dey always like to mind my business so I followed the tradition.

After some time, one of the guy initiated conversation, as usual, I am used to story from people drunk or not . In order to placed him to where he belongs, I told him I couldn't hear him clearly cos of the background music. That we should move aside so that I can hear whatever story he might throw which can't be more than money.

As expected the guy started 18th century story, I bluntly told him, straight to the point. He said he needed some money, I didn't even allow him to go too long before telling him that I only came out to enjoy my self that I already budgeted the money I am having.

Then he asked if I could buy him drinks, meanwhile, this guy already shared two whisky which I bought cos that was the origination of the conversation cos he asked if he could share, I told him but you have been sharing from my drinks, why buying you new one.

Then he said that's okay but he has little last request, I asked what, he said he wanted to call someone, if he could make use of my phone, I was gladly ready to do that cos that wouldn't cost me much, I even recharged extra airtime for him to enjoy himself.

I returned back to my drink expecting the guy to return, after 5 mins of waiting for him, I tried to look for him, he has disappeared into thin air . Same as his friend..

If you dey hear confusion raised to power 18, that was how I was confused when I realised my phone is gone.

I lost my phone with funds in different e-currencies which can't be retrieved plus access to some emails.

All in the name of trying to help. I learned Sha cos I had to trekked back home as the cash I was having didn't cover the bills, bought drinks for others, I relied on enough funds on my mobile money .

Sorry about your experience... This is quite an eye opener.

Greatzeus:
How did you receive the product? Is it by delivery or by pick up at konga station?
If it's by pick up,go back to the konga pick up station where you picked it up,tell them you want to return a product. You will be giving a form to fill,fill it with every detail as requested. They will collect the product from you and send the return form to appropriate quarters. You will receive a mail within 12 hours that your returned product is received and that you will be refunded when all necessary protocol are completed.
In my case I received a mail within 12hours,then a call within 48 hours,the call agent apologize and told me I will receive refund within 72hrs,I received back my refund after few days.
Note your money is safe,they hold on to sellers money for some time,incase of return.

Best practical advise...

Deffjam:
how can I use custom rom for my infinix hot 10 lite.......

And also my phone is slow and lags alot......any help??

Forgerrit... It is denjalossss for infinix (Just kidding)

Downandunder:
The last couple of days have been trying for me. Being unemployed & seeing your mates succeed fvcks up your mental health well enough. I'm no dullard, I've always been above average academically, I love God & I keep to myself. But does God even know I exist or He just detests me? Everyday is a struggle still yet we survive. I live from hand to mouth but I get by hoping things will get better one day. I hurt no man so I can't comprehend why me. I lack the capacity to pay my rent, sold my phone on jiji because my landlady has lost her patience. Woke up to debit alerts with a pos description despite not making any recent withdrawals or receiving any code. I didn't know how to react to the shock so I've been locked up since morning. Why me? God has put me to shame. I don't even have friends as I hardly talk. Who do I run to? Why is life so cruel? I shouldn't have been born. I feel like sleeping and never waking up. I'm scared of committing suicide but what punishment could be greater than this. I need someone to talk to before I end it all. I need a shoulder to lean on. I need kind words rn because I feel totally worthless.

better days are ahead... Hang on

Cousin9999:
In Brazil, thousands of people took to the streets of Rio de Janeiro, São Paulo and more than a dozen other cities across the country over the weekend, demanding justice for Moïse Kabagambe, a 24-year-old Congolese refugee who was beaten to death last month. Kabagambe was attacked on January 24 after he demanded back pay from two days of work at a Rio de Janeiro beach kiosk where he served beverages. Security footage shows three men repeatedly beating Kabagambe with a club and a baseball bat over the course of 13 minutes.

Oswaldo Sergio Mendes: “The Brazilian state is racist. It is a Nāzi state. It is a homophobic and xenophobic state. And it has to stop. We are here at this huge protest in solidarity with all the families who suffered these barbaric crimes.”

Kabagambe’s family left Congo and fled to Brazil in 2011, when he was a child.

https://www.democracynow.org/2022/2/8/headlines/brazilian_antiracist_protesters_demand_justice_for_immigrant_killed_over_unpaid_wages

even in Brazil!!!? Nawa ooo

Nedangel:
It's hard to see any house help, as it took a long time to see this one. And my wife was always in tears, pains and nagging since she was always doing all d chores..

Bro... You've got to fight and resist the temptation in that case. Such affair never ends well.
Speak to your wife on the need to stop saying No to you in bed. Even if it's just 1 round, she should allow you so that you can calm your urge.
I truly understand what you are fight... I ended up getting a 'ugly' younger househelp

Nedangel:
So this girl ( 15 years) was brought to my house by my wife after my wife gave birth a year after. My wife said she really needs someone to help her, but I kicked against it. After much pestering from my wife, I agreed.
I sooo much have feelings for this girl.
I have fought it so much. Some times my wife is out/ travels and am alone with her and kid when am back from work. But this strong feeling comes up and I feel like having her. Most times I find my self thinking about this girl. It's to the point that my chest pains me.. When I ask my wife for s*x, Most times & always she says she's tired.
Please it's really affecting me, it's eating me up. I need suggestions/ advice from my well meaning Nairalanders. Thanks allot.

I was once in your shoes, in my case, the girl was 20yrs. The best thing is to have her leave pls.

oyinox:
Hello My Fellow Nairalanders
I’ve been on this Wonderful Platform since 2017 and I never thought I’ll be Sharing my Own Sad Story. This is my Story.
(I had to open a new account for this story because people might know it’s me)

I’m that Lady a Nigerian Man or Woman would view as a Successful Entrepreneur.
Been running my business for over 5 years. I travel out of the Country to get goods and when I can’t I do Cargo from my suppliers.
Everything was going fine.
Not until October, Sales was booming and I decided to Travel. Simply to buy & scout major markets for more good items to re sell.
I arrived safely at my destination.

A day later I’ve started shopping bits in small stores.
Then I decided to go the major market to start my main buying only to realize My wallet was stolen.
I had over 1.5m in dollars in that purse and many other things. I just sat on the floor of the market crying. I looked for my wallet even with the Authorities but it was to no avail.

You see that was where All my Big Big Problems started, the money lost wasn’t only mine. My Client’s money was there, those I do personal shopping for,
The remaining money in my account was nothing compared to what I’ve lost.
Yet I had to buy peoples goods and still shop what to sell.
I started calling family and friends. Then a friend of mine said to me, why can’t I borrow the money as a loan so I can easily get all the goods and when I get back home I can Sell out and pay them back; I thought it was a great idea and it helped.
So I borrowed as much as I can and I sorted out everything and I came back home.

Unknown to me that was the Worst decision of my life I took.

I built a very Good Credit for my all my bank accounts over the years and that’s why I was able to borrow this much from everywhere

All Loan apps I am currently owing -
1. Fcmb 60k Feb 15th
Fcmb 60k March 15th
2. Migo 215k Feb 17th
Migo 215k March 17th
3. Naira plus 29k Feb 17th
4. Easy credit 42k Feb 18th
5. I money 31k Feb 18th
6. X cash 21k Feb 18th
7. Ok cash 20k Feb 20th
8. Go cash 30k Feb 21st
9. Branch 15k Feb 21st
Branch 15k March 24th
10. Kash Kash 55k Feb 23rd
11. L credit 136k Feb 24th
12. Ease Moni 24k Feb 26th
13. Blackcopper 19k March 6th
14. Quick Check 9k March 9th
15. Carbon 16k March 10th
Carbon 16k April 10th
Carbon 16k May 10th
Carbon 16k June 10th

I’ve been repaying every time.
Infact I have never defaulted on any payment no matter how much it is.
The money was almost 2 million before and I’ve been putting it all my strength to repay and I delete the app off.

But The main problem is when I pay Take more money cause I need to pay another platform. it keeps increasing.
I’ve been In a Merry go Round.
I don’t know how long I wanna do this for. I’m just stuck in a RUT.
I can’t even concentrate on my business effectively. All I think of is paying my loans.

I know it’s so Crazy and hard to believe that I owe all this apps and platforms so much money but I really do.
I can send screenshots of every app and with my Registered number and Email.
Yes I’m a Lady and I’m deeply ashamed of myself for making Poor financial decisions because of my loss and business.

When taking these loans I was sure I could pay back because of my goods at the shop.
But my business has failed me!
Since when I started taking those loans I don’t sell out like before ..
It’s almost like I got an Instant Blockage on my life. These Loans didn’t help me!!!!
Instead they dug a deeper deeper pit of debts for me.!

My Story is 100% real.
My Shop is in Lagos I can send my detailed shop address if you want to confirm.
I’m a Real Person. And I’m in Deep Deep shit.

I’ve cried myself to sleep several times.
Infact I want to post a picture of my shop here but I’m just scared that any of my clients might recognize my shop or my business name.!!
Cause you can google it and see my shop address As I sell with online platforms.
I sell a lot of things for both Female and Male like clothes, shoes, bags, shirts, polos, skincare cosmetics, makeup, weight loss/weightgain, wigs, perfumes, jewelry accessories, fabrics and so on...

I have lots of goods to sell that can raise me this money but no customers
I’m dying slowly insides of me. I can’t function properly. If you see me you will pity me. I need all the advice and help I can get ..

In between all this Trials, I still have to renew my shop rent. My landlord was madly on my neck. Because he sees that the shop is very Full with goods but no sales.
I had to take a loan out just to pay him.
I don’t know what to do with my life. And the fact that I’m a Woman scares me more.

Family and Friends I’ve helped me without even knowing what I got myself into.
Any money I get is Loan Repayment. I can’t even buy anything for myself or remember when last I bought foodstuffs in the house. I just eat anything I see.
My fridge got spoilt due to Nepa over surge I can’t even repair it because I’ll rather use the money to repay a loan.

I deserve all the insults in the Entire World be I was so dumb and I took the wrongest decision that can ruin a human.

I seriously need help with my life. I need to pay all these loan exactly on the dates given.
Some even disturb my life and I have to pay a day before.
This my Reality.
I’ve sold all my Gold and anything that can turn to money.

And I don’t even mind selling more Valuables and my Goods at the shop if I get Buyers.

I can’t function properly. I’m not myself. I’m like a shadow of Myself, when I wake up I’m thinking about loan repayments, even when I sleep.
Help a Sister ..
I don’t mind all the insults in the world. I deserve it. My head will be correct in the future.

What can I do to get myself out of this once and for all and pay everything off.
I don’t mind giving up my Shop keys as Collateral just to clear all this Quick sand loan that are just making my finances worse every single day. You can also call me on video to see my Shop.

Then I can pay back the source money instead of borrowing from one loan app to pay another.

I just want to clear off this loan. I am so Frustrated!!!!!
Cause I noticed if I keep paying it keeps increasing.
Please I need all the Suggestions and Advice and Help I can get.

I’m sorry this is a long read.
Thank you everyone as you engage with my Story.
May you never see any Reasons to experience my Terrible Situation.
God Bless you more.

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