Romance › Re: I decided to man up for her. See what happened. by dbestuncle: 9:13am On Nov 02, 2020*. Modified: 11:18am On Nov 02, 2020 |
I think he is already achieving this. I think he should not push it too far. Any day she eventually begs for his attention with her mouth and say she is sorry is enough. Accept her appologies but learn from this action, that a good man is expected to be loving and also be firm. Begin to learn to be firm and she will always submit and respect you. In return reward her. Show her even more love. Buy things, take her out but look into your failings in the past. For exome if you always give her whatever she wants now u can make her know that it can't be always. Be firm n loving Girls like that alot Anoth: Don't give her the kind of attention that she wants.Act like a boss and you will be treated like one. And don't take her out or buy stuffs for her. Let her seek for your attention, but never finds it. Let her chase and toast you this time, but don't fall for her. If you don't give her what she wants (your attention) , she would be unstoppable and will do whatever it takes to get your attention. |
Travel › Re: Determined Immigrant WE-MOVE by dbestuncle: 6:23pm On Oct 31, 2020 |
newmoney133: I saw this in another thread and I wish to share to encourage us
For those who still call me to tell me that after getting this copr that they are stuck with decision to leave the known to an unknown. . I laugh. .cos they don't even realize that Nigeria is the unknown while Canada is the known.. Cos in Canada I know where I am going. .I project what I want to achieve in real time with God on my side...I know when my kids will graduate from school. .I know when I dial 911 what will happen....I know when my kids benefit support will come and when it will stop. . I know that if I put in 900hrs in any job and gets laid off I have employment insurance that will he paid on timely and regular basis to sustain me for one and half year until I find another job if i wish to. ..I know that my pregnant wife will go into labour and I don't need to think of which side of road I need to follow to avert traffic to get her to the clinic and I know that when she gets to the clinic she will he received by smiling humane doctors and nurses who are happy to do their job and welcome the little one into this beautiful world and not doctors and nurses who curse and swear while they manage to help the wife deliver with generator light. .and I know I don't need to pay a dime for my wife to deliver be it natural or via surgical. .I know too that life matters here and that even animals life matters too..I know also that I may not ever be Dangote in Canada but I know I don't need to struggle to live a life. ..I know that I don't need to get scared when my car skids of the road cos 3 ambulances. .4 police vehicles and 3 EMS will rush to rescue me alive in seconds. .I know when I file my tax I either get a refund or repayment and where my tax works for me.. That is known..
The unknown which we call known that is Nigerian where I don't know when my kids will graduate from school...I don't know what next will happen if I am laid off my job..I don't know what Maina did with my pension money..I don't know who will take care of the senior citizens when they can't access the fruit of their labour as pensioners. .I don't have a 911 to dial in case of emergency. ..I don't know who will rescue me in case of accident when everybody is out with his phone taking videos and pictures to be the first to post on Facebook of agonies and pains of accident victims until they are dead for lack of help. .I don't know what the govt thinks about us...I don't know when in my lifetime I will turn the light and expect light or when I will turn the tap and have any of my choice of hot or cold water without depending on borehole. .I don't know when I will also use only my passport with taking it to the pastor to fast and pray for 4 months to get common visa...when wil it be...I don't know...I don't know when the govt will start to pay child benefit support and senior citizens support...and I don't even know when I will know anything. .
My dear people. ..for me I can only chose where I was told "welcome home" with smiles and love over where I was asked "oga wetin you bring come back for us" with anger and frustration. I decide to choose where I am made a host even though I am a guest over where I was a made a guest even though I am the host.
The unknown is Nigeria and the known for me is Canada.w written by Einsteino on nairaland Hmmm... I dey learn We- Move o. Naija is really the unknown and uncertain place as explained above. May God help us |
Family › Re: I Miss Place My Marriage Certificate by dbestuncle: 5:37pm On Oct 31, 2020 |
the thing surprise me o, lol
op go and get a Certified True Copy from the marriage registry
When you married in a church the certified true copy comes from the church or the local govt office where one go originally to begin the process of the marriage Pls do you know how fast this CTC can be gotten. |
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Travel › Re: Adventures Of A UK Bound Nurse by dbestuncle: 7:56am On Oct 31, 2020 |
crushsugar: 1. The part 2 exam is OSCE done in specific centres within the UK, about 3. It has to be done here
2. You don't need experience anymore with nmc but just have your credentials.
3. Yes I do Thanks for this very educative thread. My question is that. 1. Do you think I have to go and do a fresh wedding at the court because my wedding certificate got missing. Although it was done in a church but was issued by the federal government of Nigeria. 2. I have been using my father's name because of nursing council problem. But intends to travel with my husband and son. What do you suggest Note: all id card and Bank account is in my husband's name. Only my result and nursing council details are still in my father's name. |
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Career › Re: Nigerian Army Reduces Academic Requirement To Woo More Citizens Into Joining by dbestuncle: 9:38pm On Oct 24, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: Any Male Enhancement Pills Known By Anyone?? by dbestuncle: 2:07pm On Oct 23, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Saw This On Deji Adeyanju Twiiter, by dbestuncle: 11:43am On Oct 19, 2020 |
Biodun556: Pro-Buharis have the rights to express themselves just like you have yours. Forget about who is coordinating it. Pls let them match they have the right to support Buhari and also gave the right to declare that the country is at her best since independent. But I am sure that it can not last like the present protesters who are Patriots. Mr. Joe thinks he that it is already political and it is not |
Politics › Re: Saw This On Deji Adeyanju Twiiter, by dbestuncle: 11:38am On Oct 19, 2020 |
Kyase: I should forget tribe when you guys already start mentioning tribe. Sorry about that. Any tribe can be paid and can be used there is no point fighting over that because we uses to speaking that way but that also will change. Where there is hunger alot of people can be bought at o do almost anything unthinkable. Can I increase the volume! ���� |
Nairaland General › Way Forward by dbestuncle(op): 11:25am On Oct 19, 2020 |
Way Forward to Achieving the Nigerian of our Dreams is to stop 'Tribal, Ethnic and Religious Sentiment' Our chanting #EndSARS and the collective struggle to see that bad Governance is done away with that we birth a New Nigeria is the best thing we can begin in the process of making things right. We all as youths of this Nation Nigeria must demonstrate our love for ourselves, our present, our future, and our country by lending our voice to this protest in whatever way we can. This is our struggle and it's time to forget who you are, I mean from what part of the country you come from and what religion you practice.
Henceforth let us overcome every temptation to distract us to an individual's tribe, ethnic or religious inclination when he or she does wrong especially. But let the focus be on the person n what he or she has done or even absolutely absolve it into the name we all are called which is Nigerian. For example instead of saying some hausas youth were hired a o distrupt elections. Why don't we say some Nigerian youth were hired to distrupt elections. This way we have tried to show that we believe our hausa brothers and sisters only have few bad eggs and should be used to judge them all
Let us begin begin to focus and continue to maintain our gaze on the greater good of our collective struggle. Now permit me to ask some very sincere question. 1. What other hashtag have you seen and or used? 2. When should our protest stop?
I am a Nigerian and that's is what is important right now. Let us never derail treads by always coming up with those sentiments.
#ANewNigeriaIsPossible Cc: vinyldroid, SerialDigits, Aventador2000, shilefan2
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Politics › Re: Saw This On Deji Adeyanju Twiiter, by dbestuncle: 11:02am On Oct 19, 2020 |
Kyase: My usual prayers.
Na this lie go kill you. Amen Why do you think it is a lie. Pls forget about the tribes now and let us all remain focus. Divided we fall #EndSARS #EndBADGOVERNANCEINNIGERIA #EndPoliceBrutality #ElectoralReform |
Politics › Re: Ondo Election: Analytics Of Official Results As Announced By INEC by dbestuncle: 1:29pm On Oct 11, 2020 |
BluntNigerian: Please, is there a way I can get all those Ward Results?? Thanks In Advance Bro.. It's loaded on INEC website now |
Business › Re: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 14 by dbestuncle: 8:23pm On Oct 01, 2020 |
Should I play this your game speaktokingfemi: Z5S29NS Legia Warsaw - Qarabag Over Away(1.5) H/A O/U 1.5 3.85 1558 Dinamo Brest - Ludogorets 1945 Razgrad Over Away(1.5) H/A O/U 1.5 1.79 1474 Standard Liege - Fehervar Over Away(1.5) H/A O/U 1.5 4.05 2390 Copenhagen - Rijeka Over Away(1.5) H/A O/U 1.5 4.50 MULTIPLE Odds125.60 Amount 1100 ₦ Bonus0 ₦ Pot. Winnings138157.35 IF U KNOW U KNOW |
Business › Re: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 14 by dbestuncle: 8:18pm On Oct 01, 2020 |
Pls what is the meaning of simulate in bet9ja?? |
Romance › Re: Pant Washing Controversy: Neo Isn't A Simp by dbestuncle: 5:40am On Sep 29, 2020 |
Washing her pant on National TV doesn't show love. It shows stupidity and he is a big simp. Let's stop encouraging nonsense. What was wrong with her that she can't wash her pant herself. A generation that has lost all sense of decency with great supporters n progenitors like u Una weldone. Elder0001: 2 days ago I came across a thread on fp about Neo washing his babe (Vee's) Pant. 99% of the male folks on that thread called him a simp and all sorts. Neo isn't a simp, I'll tell y'all why.
Washing your lady's pants/clothes doesn't make you a simp. Women cook and wash boxers/clothes for their men and it seems cool to these men but it's wrong for a man to do the same for his lady? If you can't help your partner with stuff you need to re-evaluate that relationship.
A man cooks or washes stuff for his wife and Nigerian male folks will call him a simp but it's not bad when a woman does the same for a man? Or are y'all trying to say women who do such stuffs for their men overvalued those men?
It's quite sad that Nigerians always abuse any new word they're introduced to, same way y'all abused the words "feminist, misogynist and misandrist". And now it's time to abuse the word "simp".
After calling Neo a simp for washing his babe's Pant you'll log off social media and tell your lady to wash your boxers for you, seems smart to you huh?
It seems the word "hypocrisy" was specifically created for Nigerians especially the male folks.
I know one bumpkin would call me a simp after reading this. |
Business › Re: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 14 by dbestuncle: 9:57pm On Sep 27, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Primate Ayodele: ‘APC, Akeredolu Will Lose Ondo Election' by dbestuncle: 4:30pm On Sep 23, 2020 |
Akeredolu is a man who should get a second tenure. I hate to support APC but this particular APC Governor has won my heart. Pls Ondo people vote APC. |
Politics › Re: Edo Election: US Hails INEC, Security Agencies by dbestuncle: 4:21pm On Sep 23, 2020 |
I don't always like to hear APC members expressing a funny believe of how bad our democracy was under the PDP. The worst threat to our democracy is the way APC go about our elections since 2015 till date. If PDP was that wicked then General Buhari would never have become the president. The impunity witnessed in the 2019 general election and the state elections of Osun and Kogi. Even the reports we hear of in Bayelsa was bad. post=94225560: Wow! We are simply short of words. Atleast no one is wailing that Democracy is under siege anymore, but we are sure they will continue such wailing, anytime APC comes out top again.....(just watch out!)
It is always good and refreshing to see that we still have sane thinking and reasonable people like you on this forum sir. God bless you and yours. God bless Nigeria.
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Thanks so much for the compliment sir. A better and more better Nigeria is all we want. You are a rare gem. Take this before we go....... Specially for you......
*singing* Your blessings come now Favour fall down on you, Goodness and mercy follow you, everyday Everything wey you touch For this life, anything wey you want Shey na mansion o, shey na porche o Na you get am o If dem dey doubt you, no mind dem If bad belle come, make you bind (blind) dem Your time don come oo Ayo wa ba le o
Ire ooo – ire Ayomide o – Ayomide Everyday ooo showers of blessings rain on me
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Family › Re: How Much Is Ideal To Be Giving One's Wife As Monthly Stipend? by dbestuncle: 1:26pm On Sep 23, 2020 |
Good day Sir, How are u, ur job, madam n the kids. I know it's some years now since u shared this your family problem. I want you to tell me how u eventually solved this family problem. Thanks banjolek: Hello guys,
I need your honest opinion on this, how much is really ideal to give one's wife as monthly pocket money?.
Here's my story, i recently got married and also moved to a new 3 bedroom apartment around gbagada. I earn a pretty decent income while my wife also works in the bank with a salary of like 150k. She saves a half of this salary and uses the remaining for upkeep.
Now the issue is my wife insists that i must give her monthly pocket money and i have proposed 20k, an amount i feel is more than adequate for her if added to about 75k which she already has to herself from her salary. Also note that this 20k does not mean i dont get to buy her random stuff during the month or provide anything she asks for if i feel its a reasonable demand.
A1so bear in mind that i am still 100% responsible for providing food and other bills in the house. In addition we just moved to a new apartment like i mentioned earlier and still in the process of furnishing it so a chunk of my monthly salary goes into furnishing the house.
We also have a plan to set up a business for her, so i'm also currently saving part of my salary to fulfill that dream.
Now my wife has rejected the proposed amount of 20k saying its too small.
I need your take on this people, considering all i have mentioned above, is 20k really too small to be giving her monthly?
i wrote this in a hurry, please bear with any typo observed. |
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Travel › Re: Nigerians In UAE Say They Are Being Forced To Leave Today by dbestuncle: 4:46pm On Sep 10, 2020 |
Simplyleo: [s][/s] [s]Let's blame Buhari for the crime perpetrated by ipob miscreants across the globe[s][/s]. Is IPOB the problem or bad leadership. What we are discussing here is that instead of our image getting better it actually became worst under ur Baba. Recall that that Baba of URS travelled all this places to tell them how corrupt we are and now everybody expect to see him turn the situation around but na only his friends are in continuous looting spree and he is fighting corruption. Try to reason abeg n leave Igbo out |
Politics › Re: Meet Roxy Ogechi Ndebumadu Who Is The Chairwoman Of Bowie County, Maryland USA by dbestuncle: 12:57pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
Pls help me! Am not trying to shake or break tables here but I just haven't heard anyone talk about an hausa man doing anything like u n the op just mentioned. A tribe who is so political at home in every juicy parastater or agency of Government should show us their brothers and sisters in the world globe na. Aboki over you guys! Philipponzaghi: Lol, there are Yorubas in the foreign political space too nao. Let me mention few that I know!
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Politics › Re: NIPOST To Open 10,000 Smart Offices Across Nigeria by dbestuncle: 11:57pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Buhari Blames Middlemen: 1984 And 2020 (Photos) by dbestuncle: 5:39am On Sep 07, 2020 |
Another sick supporter with the blame game allthingsgood: Buhari is your problem or the decayed and dead morals of Nigerians. Even u that is talking if they give u chance u will do worst. Buhari remain the best president is 1999. |
Business › Re: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 14 by dbestuncle: 5:29am On Sep 07, 2020 |
Still waiting o, who is cooking the game. Even if na 5 or 10 odds. Thank you so much numberonecytyzen: Might be advisable to wait till 12th |
Business › Re: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 14 by dbestuncle: 5:28am On Sep 07, 2020 |
Bros how did the game go greendice: PLS, DO NOT IGNORE. STAKE WHAT YOU CAN AFFORD TO LOOSE. |
Business › Re: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 14 by dbestuncle: 10:45pm On Sep 05, 2020 |
It's Saturday night and people are so quiet here. Alabi chop abi na my guys chop. Abi make someone drop a fine game na. Make we play and get hope for tmr na. I hear fine n interesting games dey tmr |
Business › Re: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 14 by dbestuncle: 10:45am On Sep 01, 2020 |
If you lost 7 times you will have lost 350k. If u won 20 times you will have won 525k with ur 50k capital sammymarvin: if u fund ur account with 50k...and u use 10% of it to state for odds btw 1,50 to 2,00 everyday and u loose like 7 times in that month my brother u go over make gain am sure u will make over100% of ur capital .....in as much u don't loose for straight 4days in a row |
Politics › Re: Kogi Guber: Supreme Court Upholds Yahaya Bello's Re-Election by dbestuncle: 12:08pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
Well that is the way APC led leadership wants to be remembered. They orchestrated the worst election ever during their change mantra era. I want to advice the people in Edo to go all out. To see that APC is not allowed to rape them politically as they do everywhere they go. I wish that Gov. Obaseke can be as hard as Gov. Wike. Ayomerit: Our democracy is in grave danger |
Romance › Re: How Do I Continue To Deal With My Husband’s Inappropriate Behavior? by dbestuncle: 10:51am On Aug 31, 2020 |
Op pls don't call her. Your husband.maybe among the few simple men who doesn't easily understand this things. if he is a teacher and so.loved by all, then I can assure you that he is not a cheat. Try to calm down and don't wait for the next call. Pray about it. Talk to your man the best way u can telling him how despirate some women could be, to understand how they subtly enter into a man's heart using every opportunity and in this case na her son.
Don't let this lead to quarrel but continue to say it. Finally a day will come when u will meet the woman or recurve her call. Gently tell her to stop calling your husband especially at odd hours as you find that wrong. Try it and u will be shocked |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: 774,000: 4 PhD, 200 Masters Degrees Holders Apply For FG's N20k Unskilled Job by dbestuncle: 11:14pm On Aug 27, 2020 |
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