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PoliticsRe: Reno Omokri: Why Didn't Aisha And Her Children Celebrate Buhari’s 76th Birthday? by dbestuncle: 11:14am On Dec 18, 2018
I dont think the Guy is not Buhari. But i also cant imagine a birthday celebration without his wife and any other member of the family. Could we say they were busy? Doing what? Or was it a surprise party organized by the staff and his family members were not invited? Hmmmmm.... StrAnge APC, strAnge BuhAri


chinjo:
This is a pertinent question. I have never celebrated my birthday without my wife and children present. Something strange is really going on in the presidency.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Happy Birthday To The Special Adviser To The President On NSIP Mrs.maryam Uwais by dbestuncle: 5:02pm On Dec 13, 2018
Happy Birthday madam. Pls Npower when is the registeration for nbuild expected to commence as we have rumuors that the registeraton has started.
Christianity EtcRe: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by dbestuncle: 12:31pm On Dec 08, 2018
it was nice that u answered. Thanks. may i tell u, you are not alone

cosse:
first of all, as a general rule for me, i dnt reply comments like this cos i always av this nagging suspicion than the "questioneer" is already deep in his convictions and just wants to play around
However, i feel the deep urge to reply this question despite the huge depressing comments from the atheist majority above me. Pay no heed to them .most of thems life are in a sorry state right now and they just relish the silly fact that they are not alone in their messy lifestyle
the "one more person like me" syndrome is wat keeps them going!!
back to ur question brother, the single problem of porn is that it fuels the mind with ungodly desires( which is even harder to explain because u sound like someone who doesnt blive strongly in God- just saying o bro!)

but in a simple answer ..... ..... .no! porn wont do it...if the aim is to enhance the sequelling mechanical activity then there are sexually educationall films you and ur spouse can engage in. not the aggressive and selfish crave for desires exhibited in porn movies.

NB - I av intentionally refrained fr using biblical verses not to come across a over spiritual
Christianity EtcRe: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by dbestuncle: 12:19pm On Dec 08, 2018
I am a christian, a devoted one and am also married.
Sometimes in your marriage the need to spice up the bedroom game always comes up and if you both are the inexperienced or not so sexually exposed type then the need to really learn n learn fast about sex will create some level of friction which may even lead to quarrels and problems in the home. the kind of problems that people will find difficult to say to others.

This i believe is why porn maybe seen as very useful and important has it is
1. Affordable.
2. Available.
3. Can be done secretly.
4. an eye openner to the various sexual fantasies, styles and experiences.

Given the advantages already listed and more, one willl expect that the answer to your question is Yes. But the answer is actually NO.

NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO a thousand times NO.

Christian couples should not watch pornography.

WHY?
Disadvantages of PORN.
1. It is addictive- You will never get enough it keeps dragging u in and in.
2. Creates a wired sense of options. You will always be faced with trying out wide sense of varieties till you probably ends as an adulterer. you both will begin to imagine sex with varietiees of people eg. ur dark complexion wife pp doesn't look as fine as the light complexion lady in the last watched.
3. Unbeatable target- Most porns that goes on and on for hours or the type where the man shows so much strength for a longer period may create an unnecessary condition where the husband in the marriage goes into the competition to beat the cast in the porn. irrespective of the fact that the pornstars maybe into drugs and/or even had longer period of rest before the next rounds.
4. Virtual Sex- The fun between the couples is soon reduced or replaces as their mind replaces their minds with some cast in the porn.
5. Low Self-esteem- The man or woman who couldnt meet up with the new standard set by the porn feels less than a human.
6. No matter how hidden, one day your children will take hold of it. And it is not good for them and you.


What Couples should do to learn about sex.
1. Discussion- Take time to discuss about sex, be ready to know how your partner feels. this discussion should be before, during and after sex.
2. Research through reading of medical, psychological and healthy books. (not porns)
3. watch (check youtube) healthy materials on the issues that requires help in your sexual life, eg one minute erection.
4. Seek counsel from qualified and interested counselors in the area.


PLEASE... STOP PORN NOW.... PORN IS BAD ALWAYS.




TheBlessedMAN:
First of all, let me tell you who I am.

I don't go to church unless its a cross-over night. Thats who I am. You are free to judge me.

Now to the reason behind the questionic title above, (Is it proper for a Christian couple to watch porn together before having sex?), last week sunday, in the morning, I was inside my room having my usual sunday-lic rest in preparation for the new week, when the loud speakers of a C.A.C church adjacent my house started blarring in its typical we-are-doing-sunday-school-service things.

Frustrated and angry at the same time, I grabbed my phone and begin to play game. Suddenly, I heard someone, probably from the congregation, asking the sunday school teacher the question I posted above and that was what caught my interest. I was curious to know what answer the teacher would give.
But unfortunately, I couldn't hear anything again. I guess the teacher had decided to answer the question without using microphone.


So, can someone help me to answer that question? Biblically or Morally. Thanks.
PoliticsRe: Today Is Nigerian Armed Forces Remembrance Day (2018) by dbestuncle: 10:43pm On Nov 25, 2018
how can i buy the emblem?
Thanks

naptu2:
Today is Nigerian Armed Forces Remembrance Day!

www.nairaland.com/attachments/922401_armed_jpg924f4eb16c96c31f68c3b2207c40d23e


In Nigeria, Armed Forces Day, also known as Remembrance Day, is celebrated on 15 January. It was formerly marked on 11 November of every year to coincide with the Remembrance Day (Poppy Day) for the World War II veterans in the British Commonwealth of Nations, but it was changed to 15 January of every year in Nigeria in commemoration of the surrender of Biafran troops to the Federal troops on 15 January 1970 thus signalling the end of the Nigerian Civil War.

The day is marked with a Remembrance Day parade at the Cenotaph in Abuja and in the 36 state capitals. The ceremony includes 21 gun salute, playing of the Last Post, a minute's silence, laying of wreaths and release of pigeons to symbolise peace.


In the past month armed forces remembrance day emblems have been on sale across the country. Proceeds of the sale of the remembrance emblem go to the Nigerian Legion.

2017 Remembrance Day emblem.
https://scontent-mrs1-1.xx.fbcdn.net/v/t31.0-8/15936922_1844575712466394_5567700041700165888_o.jpg?oh=af5a085c4f8b27e4bac3670734e5a459&oe=5AF78C0C


The Nigerian Legion is the Nigerian association of ex-servicemen, i.e former members of the Nigerian Army, Navy and Air Force.

Officers and men of the armed forces are trained to fight and kill. When they retire, they discover that there are no jobs for them (some of them have been in the armed forces since they were teenagers and military work is all they know). Others were forced to retire from the armed forces due to injuries sustained in battle. The Legion helps them to integrate into society and take care of themselves.

By law the Legion is permitted to operate certain businesses in order to raise money for its members. Members of the legion also serve as security guards at government establishments (you often see them in their brown uniforms). The Legion also raises money through the sale of Armed Forces and Remembrance Day emblems.

In recent years (especially since the return to civilian rule) members of the Legion have gone through great hardship while trying to collect their pensions and gratuity. Sometimes their pensions are not paid for many months. At other times, legionnaires, who could be as old as 60, 70, or 80 years old are made to travel long distances and queue in the hot sun, all in the name of pension verification exercise. Many legionnaires have died during this process.

www.nairaland.com/attachments/922404_a20nigerian20legion_jpg328b92979c09d50605d7696a57aa9f3c
Officers and men of the Nigerian Legion.

The Nigerian Legion Act (Laws of the Federation)
http://www.aksjlegalresource.com/resource/Laws_of_the_Federation%5CNIGERIAN%20LEGION%20ACT.pdf
RomanceRe: Photo Of Curvy Bride & Her Curvy Bridesmaids Posing With Their Backsides by dbestuncle: 2:16pm On Nov 25, 2018
Na YORUBA bride n her YORUBA friends. Omo see correct babes

realmedia:
Check out this striking photo of a bride and her bridesmaids flaunting their massive backsides



This lovely photo of a curvy bride and her bridesmaids is causing a stir online because they all flaunted their massive backsides.

See full photo below.


VIA >>>> https://onecornergizt..com/2018/11/check-out-this-striking-photo-of-bride.html
PoliticsRe: Jonathan Reveals Those Who Advised Him Not To Concede Defeat To Buhari In 2015 by dbestuncle: 9:34am On Nov 21, 2018
Do u reason at all?

Guestlander:
What man of peace? When you lose an election you are supposed to concede. What other alternative did he have which would not have resulted in violence?
My only surprise is that some people actually advised him not to concede!
PoliticsRe: Jonathan Reveals Those Who Advised Him Not To Concede Defeat To Buhari In 2015 by dbestuncle: 8:51am On Nov 21, 2018
I thank BABA GOD that this is coming now. APC chairman Oshiomole, Boss Mustapha and Other APC guys there i just hope u will b there to advice Buhari to call to concede to the defit wen it is time.

Gistpeeps:
https://static.pulse.ng/img/incoming/origs8001860/549636998-w644-h960/Goodluck-Jonathan.gif

Former President Goodluck Jonathan has revealed how he was advised against accepting defeat in the 2015 presidential election.

Jonathan also declared that the election was marred with some irregularities, including the difficulty he faced before he could vote in his native Otuoke, Bayelsa State home.

The ex-president said he conceded defeat principally because it was his belief that his ambition should not lead to loss of lives and property as it was the case in previous elections.

The revelations are contained in the former President’s book, “My Transition Hours”, which was presented in Abuja yesterday on his 61st birthday.

Jonathan said he turned down the advice by the then Minister of Finance and Coordinating Minister for the Economy, Dr. Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala; Attorney-General of the Federation and Justice Minister Mohammed Bello Adoke; Aviation Minister Osita Chidoka, who was a compere at the book launch; and his Senior Special Assistant on Domestic Affairs, Warpamowei Dudafa.

He writes: “They were recommending sundry alternatives, but I was quiet in the midst of their discussions. I hugged my thought, figuring out how to do that which was best for the country. My personal interest was receding rapidly and the interest of Nigeria looming large. I excused myself and left the sitting room. I walked into my study. Even there, my mantra was a strong circle around me, supporting and comforting me. Let the country survive. Let democracy survive. My political ambition is not worth people being ‘soaked in blood’.”


On how and why he called to concede victory to Buhari, he wrote: “More results flowed in and I could not wait anymore. The announcement of the final result could take issues out of all our hands. It was time for me to take action and bring peace to the nation. I felt I was destined by God at that point in time to inject the peace serum and douse the palpable tension in the country.

“I reached out for his telephone and placed a call through the State House operators at about 4:45pm. A peace I had never felt since my political sojourn descended on me. It showed me where I had been in the past sixteen years and where I was then. I smiled at the thought of what I was about to do. I waited calmly for the person at the end of my call to answer.

“My Aviation Minister, Osita Chidoka, sought my permission to tweet my phone conversation with Buhari. I obliged and he did. The country was no longer waiting for the declaration of the election results. The nationwide tension automatically dissipated as through a red hot piece of iron had been dipped in a bowl of water. Thereafter, I addressed the nation.”

https://all-gists..com/2018/11/jonathan-reveals-advised-not-concede-defeat-buhari-2015.html
BusinessRe: How Old Were You When You Made Your First Million?, And How? by dbestuncle: 11:27pm On Nov 18, 2018
BiafranBushBoy:
25.

It didn't come once...

But those little babies made by several investments paid off...

I play safe, which made my financial babies come in little by little.

But after expansion, it was easy going from 1 to 2.
I am impressed by the truth u shared about online Biz. thanks for letting us know its not a lazy way of making money
PoliticsRe: President Buhari Addresses World Leaders In Paris (Photos) by dbestuncle: 9:39am On Nov 12, 2018
i challenge APC to nrelease the full video of his speech. infact thats when u know why he was called lifeless

ZombiePUNISHER:
angry

I can see why POTUS called the thing lifeless
PropertiesRe: Strangest Buildings In The World (photos) by dbestuncle: 9:43am On Nov 09, 2018
Which of the building is in Nigeria.

When will Nigeria have such architectural wonder for the world to appreciate.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Goodmorning,please Note That The Portal For NBUILD Will Now Open Within The Week by dbestuncle: 9:27am On Nov 06, 2018
Pls what is the criteria for NBuild. Thanks
PoliticsRe: Delayed Budgets Hinder Completion Of Projects -president Buhari by dbestuncle: 12:17pm On Nov 03, 2018
oooops!!! abeg where n who is this lion king.

lwkd, wait till feb 16 or 18th after the declaration of the results


MrAJQ:
God bless the lion king.
PoliticsRe: Reno Omokri Reacts To Fashola's 'Electricity Problems Can’t Be Solved By Magic' by dbestuncle: 2:04pm On Oct 19, 2018
take this hatred easy na. Do u mean Nigeria has no Electricity at all before ur slave master came? Only tell us the different now

ChrisMafian:
Reno the drunk. Who takes this jobless wailer serious?
Electricity generation has improved since pmb took over and that everyone can attest.
PDP looted 16 billion dollars meant for Electricity, ask OBJ
Car TalkRe: Checkout Our Made-In-Nigeria Keke NAPEP (PHOTOS) by dbestuncle: 9:43am On Oct 19, 2018
Shut up there. Appreciate d dev n leave politics out abeg

DeeTweenie:
Wow, confirmed..

New development for us, more to come only if ATIKUOBI is elected as President in 2019.

God bless Nigeria
God bless PDP grin grin grin
RomanceRe: Happy Couple Do The Doggy Pose At A Nite Club In Pre-wedding Photos by dbestuncle: 2:14pm On Oct 18, 2018
That is falacy of generalization.
banio:
Marriage is sweet and perfect only in pictures
Say

Some Marriages are sweet and perfect only in pictures
PoliticsRe: INEC Ban: APC Consulting Lawyers For Response On Zamfara by dbestuncle: 3:24pm On Oct 10, 2018
Bross are u saying the APC government has been without corruption? An INEC dat says election is without violence even when someone died through violence during the election is not free. That is the more reason we must speak up and let them know we are watching.


kidman96:
So now the rule of law must prevail abi? I am sure you all were the ones criticising the just concluded elections where there was a run off. Inec did everything according to the law yet you all criticised INEC because it favoured APC and said INEC was in favour of APC.

Its baffling how short Nigerians Memories are. Its been less than 5 years since PDP almost bankrupted this country with their overdose looting and Nigerians are clamouring for the same party with the same thieves back to power. Even if you don't like APC why not support other parties instead of PDP?

Nigerians are confused and you will continue to get bad leaders because it is what you deserve.

Clods
CelebritiesRe: Shoki Mokgapa Dies By Committing Suicide Over Clinical Depression And Anxiety by dbestuncle: 11:53pm On Sep 27, 2018
APC

youngberry001:
See how her body be like person wey dey baff whisky angry

may her soul nevr rest in peace.

Abeg who win osun election jhoor,,,
CareerRe: How Do You Handle An Angry Boss Lady? by dbestuncle: 1:54pm On Sep 26, 2018
pweeryambre:
I was recently posted to a different unit at my work place, under a very cheerful boss lady. She has been very good to me like she chats me up all the time and takes me out to lunch most of the time. But lately, I noticed she's been giving me attitude, she's been doing that to the point it's affecting my work around her.
She has become so stiff/rigid around me like I'm always uncomfortable and tiptoeing around her, she stops taking me to lunch or sharing stuffs with me, she starts to give me work to do with no instruction and when I turn to ask her question I see she doesn't even want to make eye contact, like she doesn't want me to ask her questions or be around her at all. I once sent her a text message that I feel she's giving me attitude and it makes Me to not know how to react around her and that I am sorry if have done anything wrong. But she did not reply.

Today she gave me a job to do which happens to be confidential but gave me no heads up about it and when I'm done I went and submitted the job On the table in her office with her rival present there.
She later came to me to scold me badly that I have changed and that iam misbehaving. she said a lot of things which made me feel bad, but I'm sure she was the one that has changed.

I don't know how to explain to her how I feel without having any quarrel or upsetting her, Because it's almost looking as if she want us to have a quarrel or something.
PoliticsRe: Anger As FG Recalls N14.9bn Paris Club Refund From Benue by dbestuncle: 11:20am On Sep 26, 2018
BENUE PEOPLE DON SUFFER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Benue - Herdsmen Killings
Benue- Flood
Benue- Paris fund refund


Haba mallam ...... UP APC!!!!!!! Is it a mistake giving them the 14.9B?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: The First Batch Of 100,000 2017 Beneficiaries Should Have Received Their Stipend by dbestuncle: 9:19am On Sep 26, 2018
My friend here has recieved alert since yesterday n mine never come, pls i hope i am in the first batch? But y is everything about our own payment and programme different from 2016 batcch


KOGI
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Today, Whatever Query You Have, Please Direct To Any Of Our Social Media Channel by dbestuncle: 8:38am On Sep 26, 2018
Pls u didnt givve us ur call centre numbers. pls i need it


npowerng:
Today, whatever query you have, please direct to any of our social media channels, call center numbers and emails and someone will attend to you.

#NPowerNG
PoliticsRe: Omisore Agrees To Support PDP In Osun Rerun by dbestuncle: 6:48pm On Sep 23, 2018
Saraki is one silent lion that APC is busy under-estimating. Now Saraki has called Omisore of SDP n Adeoti of ADP and they av also agreed to help Adeleke of PDP win in the Rerun. APC WHY, WHY lose a political brian like Saraki

AllTheWayUp:
More Details soon



https://mobile.twitter.com/AdelajaAdeoye/status/1043880855700197381
BusinessRe: CBN Withdraws Skye Bank’s License To Operate by dbestuncle: 8:34pm On Sep 21, 2018
That's the bank with the best advert those days.

Who remembers the adverts abeg
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Dear 2017 Beneficiaries, The Image Below Contains The Status Of Payment. by dbestuncle: 4:51pm On Sep 21, 2018
Next week dan come n dey go small small o.......

npowerng:
Dear 2017 Beneficiaries,

The image below contains the status of payment for the 2017 beneficiaries. We are yet to receive the deployment schedule for 9 states so the beneficiaries in those states cannot be processed.

Others will begin to receive stipends from next week.

#NPowerNG
Jobs/VacanciesRe: We Are Often Asked The Difference Between The Onboarded And Enrolled Icon by dbestuncle: 4:26pm On Sep 21, 2018
Someone that had this message

"Your Deployment letter was not Approved
Reason: Kindly re-upload with clear STAMP from the head of your PPA. "

And have gone back to re-stamp the letter of deployment.
What else can this person do that u can re-validate her

npowerng:
We are often asked the difference between the Onboarded and Enrolled icon reflecting on the 2017 Beneficiary profile page, kindly see the image below for answers.

Please note that if your status still reflects onboarded, then you are undergoing the validation process.

#NPowerNG
RomanceRe: Please What Should I Do, I Still Love Her by dbestuncle: 11:30am On Sep 08, 2018
ritylove:
lol this one is a fool i swear
I believe no guy can b dis stupid. its not real as d guy just want to hear our mouth
PoliticsRe: Kwankwaso Visits Ayokunke, CAN President In Ibadan by dbestuncle: 1:33pm On Sep 06, 2018
What should CAN? If u were CAN president pls tell me what you will do differently

DEXTROVERT:
Though
I
Detest
Buhari
Administration
But
This
KWANKWASO
I
Hate
WITH
Passion
IMAGINE
This
Religious
Fanatic
That
Came
To
Bail
His
Fellow
Fulani
In
Lagos and Ife
After
They
Caused
Riot and killed innocent guys
Now
Parade
Himself
Up and Down.
CAN IS LOSING RESPECT
Education[b]modern Trends In Our Education System. Part 1[/b] by dbestuncle(op): 1:28pm On Sep 06, 2018
Civilization has begun to move man to a dilemma; a point where man and woman begins to argue what is or should be correct and what should not be, a time where an action criminalized by all in the past getting alleviation by some to an acceptable not even because they think of it as an acceptable behavior but because there is need to allow such who believe in the practice should do them without fear of discrimination.
It is in the view of this that I want to draw your attention to this trends, air my opinion on them allow u to state your opinion too as we learn together.
1. Red Ink usage on students results to signify failure is been scrapped in schools.
On the report sheet of a child that is not doing well in school in the past, the most conspicuous ink one notices is the red ink. In fact students will struggle to ensure this does not appear on their termly results sheet hence it became a source of inspiration.

Today the new modern schools are rewriting the way of doing things and they have come to say that, that red ink will discourage a child and this should not be used and it not been used in such schools. What do u think? huh

2. Scrapping of Position on students/pupils Result sheet.
This used to be another way we were motivated to do better in the primary and secondary schools in the past. It gave room for healthy competition.
The new school believes that it creates a divide that doesn’t actually represent the actual performance of students and can discourage them.

3. Democracy adopted as a form of government for the pupil/students.
In the past prefectship was seen as a position of service that requires not just your intellect but your overall rating in school because it encompasses your academic, moral, social and some cases spiritual wellbeing. The prefectship was also used to encourage hardwork, good character and serves in some sort as a prize reward for a good student. Democratic system can be employed and was seen in the past in the choice of class monitor but it was not what we are noticing today.
It is no longer news as more and more schools are adopting this method in the choice of the school prefects. The worst part of this practice is that pupils even in primary 4 or 3 where the post of timekeeper is usually zoned to can be sighted making posters, buying biscuits, bobo and distributing gifts for school mate in order to garner votes. Vote buying in primary school.

Parents attend PTA, comes around the School, hear and see these things and keep quiet. Does this mean u are in support of all this?
PoliticsRe: Five Governors In Plot To Upturn Buhari’s Advice by dbestuncle: 4:30pm On Sep 05, 2018
yyyhuhhuh??
Flyingngel:
Have you seen how our so call leaders behave? Now is time for oshiomole to show his power not only shouting after saraki. The only person i dont want to see in the corridor of power is YAHAYA BELLO.
PoliticsRe: Everybody Is A Thief Except Buhari And His Supporters - Dele Momodu by dbestuncle: 1:22pm On Sep 03, 2018
HE LACKS ANY SENSE because he chose to study Yoruba in the University?
if the above is true: that anyone studying yoruba lacks sense the the schools offering it, the lecturers, education managers n authorities in the nation that permits it also lack sense?

You proved him right by calling him a thief who ago around looking for crumbs from Politicians,and immediately the highest bidder greases his palm, he goes off to the other group.


BUHARI SUPPORTERS



HungerBAD:
This man talks anyhow.

How he gains access to the people in power still puzzles me.

You go around looking for crumbs from Politicians,and immediately the highest bidder greases your palm, you start going off on the other group.

Posterity will judge you. But why am I even surprised this man lacks any sense?this is somebody that sat for JAMB and chose to study YORUBA in IFE for 4 years.

Yoruba that you can study for free at Iyana Ipaja bus stop,and it is this your poor judgment in life, that is making you go off on the supporters of Buhari.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Hi There, In Today's Edition Of #npowerquickstories. by dbestuncle: 2:29pm On Sep 02, 2018
i heard salary of August don dey show? lets hear ur testimony. have u gotten alerthuhhuhhuhhuhhuh

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