₦airaland Forum

ExBanker:
Nairalanders, I want you to judge if the conditions I gave this girl is okay or it is too much

I met this girl around June this years. I really liked her. As I was asking her out, I was always taking care of her. Buying her stuffs, giving her allowances and supporting her. Then the relationship started last month officially when we smashed. I continued to take good care of her. But note that before we officially started dating, she showed half interest. She wasn't really into the relationship. When we started dating, she showed same attitude.

Her much elder sister is a hair dresser. Like 7 years older. She lives with the sister. The sister shop is in one hidden corner. They hardly get customers. So both of them are always broke. I have being supporting them. This month, their rent is expiring. They intend to move to a better location. The new shop is N75k per year. My girlfriend asked me for support. I said I will give them N50k by August end. Since they were expecting N50k from me, they gathered all the money they have home and abroad and paid advance of N30,000 for the new shop to secure it. Last week, my girl asked me for N7k for something. I told her I don't have. I am gathering money for the N50k. It is a lie sha. the money is already there.

She then asked me to borrow her. She will pay me back. So I gave her. By weekend, she was acting funny. I told her I am tired of the relationship. She should forget it. It turned to quarrel. Then she left. We quarreled on phone till Monday. I think they felt bad that I am leaving out of the deal to help them secure the shop. On Monday, the sister called to quarrel with me too. Imagine.

After everything, today, my girlfriend called to apologize. I told her that I have forgiven her. But, for our relationship to continue, there is one condition. She asked me what condition. I told her that despite the fact I have being supporting her and her sister, both of them still had the gut to talk to me anyhow. I will only continue the relationship if I will be having sex with the 2 of them. She was shocked. She wanted to start talking nonsense. I told her to shut up and relay my condition to her sister. Let the sister call me to tell me if she agrees.

Is my condition too harsh or it is okay?

this is the kind situation that made me told God that instead of me to be poor let him take my life. How can someone be so means to another. It is God that has placed you in a place that u can help others. You want them to worship you just because of small help. If they are ur sister would you support such condition.

600k I come am tomorrow.

600k I come for it.

300k

550k I pick it up tomorrow.

1.2m I will come for it.

What about rice?

All I have is just question upon questions.how did u start going out with an albino?.

How albino kuntus they test?. Just curious.

ThatFairGuy:
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For the fact that you are a Nigerian, be optimistic and speak well of your country. If not for you, for your posterities. Why all these negativities about Nigeria by some despicable Nigerians?
Even if one leaves Nigeria for another country, will one be able to leave with all one's families! It's high time we shun all these negativities about Nigeria, FOR THE SAKE OF POSTERITY

i support you on this but let the truth be told. Our leaders has finished this country. Do u know that some persons left this country just because of none availability of electricity.

Ades1234:
Pls who is from the town should back up this news ifbis real,
A lot of fakes news are all over the radar of Nigeria and is not good for our consumption,

the question is, when did they start work in ajakuta to the extent that it will be completed in 2023 and nobody seems to be aware of the contract.

ehmmy11:
Are you sure you know the market price of this? You may wanna find out fess

u no dey read. No be me get moto I just dey help am sale that is why I said u can price the 800k but not my 20k. As the guy say he want sale na so I put am.

Gather boys for street to help u dey push am anytime e no start.

500k very serious if u agree I come and pick it up.

Mizflo:
Thanks for the advice. I have lost faith in Jesus because if he was there I wouldn’t have been suffering like this . I don’t want to look for him because he has never care about me and I don’t want to know him

u can not get Jesus with this mind set. couple with fact that you had never walk in his part.

I don't know why I find it difficult to believe this story, or maybe because the write up is too much for a JSS 2 dropout who had left school for over 5years.

If he so much want u, let come and marry u or probably do an introduction.

Exodora:
Hmmmm don't know how some people feel comfortable saying what they nothing of .
Same 2.m that is not even enough for doors , keys tiles, window etc. Even though Roof and wood is not added.
Just Roofing alone can cost him that .

not every house cost that much. There are doors of 45k And they are also nice.
Let do a small breakdown, assuming he would use 5000 blocks 6" at #150 it will cost him about #750,000.00
100 bags of cement @2600=
#260,000.000
Bricklayers #50per block =
#250,000.000
Sand 45 cubic
##105,000.00
Granite 30 cubic #220,000.00.
With the remaining money he should be able to do the filling of the house.

Poorboy:
you use less than 1500 blocks to build a 3 bedroom?

was about asking that, because I just finished a small fencing of 20x7.5m in facility and it too about 1450 blocks. Maybe he meant 10500 blocks.

Poorboy:
you use less than 1500 blocks to build a 3 bedroom?

was about asking that, because I just finished a small fence of 20x7.5m in facility and it too about 1450 blocks. Maybe he meant 10500 blocks.

superCleanworks:
Thanks for the AUDIO airstrikes on REAL LIFE bandits.

my brother no be small audio oh.

Muna4real:
Is rape only for the unmarried? Or can a woman sue her husband for rape? I'm just asking, is it lawful?

maybe in America but not in Nigeria.

I'm surprise he didn't know that it's wrong thing to introduce urself to hoodlums as a force man

They can only recover Cows not humans.

1.2m I come for it. Would have call but its late

That guy doesn't look to me like a paster. Ghana language.

Serious but leave stories if u will take 1m iwill pick it up tomorrow?

No be only 7 months even the one my wife is using for about 2 year now is not 10percent dirty as this, or do I mean 7years?

Marks112:
Hi everyone, my mom is a celestial woman so she believes in all these things.
She asked 4 pastors, 1 said she’s okay, others said no.

But the thing is I am exhausted, I can’t start all over again and I love her and she loves me very much. She’s not your average Nigerian girl that loves money.

I have just been thinking a lot cos I don’t even know what could happen in future that will make the pastors say no.

And the main thing here now is now that my mom has asked these people she will never support this marriage, how do I convince her?

And I can’t break up with my gf she has been with me through a lot .. I just tire.
Been praying to God that if she’s not for me she should be the one to break up or f*ck up
I don’t want to hurt her.

u try well well. Nah u want marry why ur mother they waker for ur head. Consulting all the pastors whether fake or real I don't know them. Let me tell u something about pastor consultations before marrying, many of them will lead u astray because it is not their duty to access a woman for u to marry. This same thing happened to one of friends elder brother when he consulted one useless immam the so call best lady that was recommend to him by the useless immam took the last peace from him. immediately they got married he lost his job it didn't take long he became a drunkard. You know what? right now the guy is dead.
Even God dose not participate in looking for wife for anyone after what happened between him and Adam. Adam literally blame God for eating the apple. When God ask why did he eat the apple, his reply to God was "it is the woman u gave that made me eat it" meaning that he is claiming that if God had not created Eve, he wouldn't have eaten the apple. God looked at it and said no. I cannot continue with this any longer. that is why he said "ye who finds a wife, finds a good thing and will obtain favour from God. Underline this YE WHO FINDS A WIFE not ye whom I give a wife.

320k I come for it.

2cribz:
Probably the owner stays in an estate and goes to work and back with it. You liars have come again with 1 month used. No sane person buys a car and sells after a month. I repeat no sane person does that then why bothering registering the vehicle.its about a year or 2 used. Stop this gimmicks of yours.

one of the few reasons why one would want to sell his car after one month of purchase is when the car has a problem he didn't know of before buying it so they would want to transfer the problem to the next niggar. For that reason I personally will not buy one month used car.