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Romance › Re: Wife Locking Her Husband Outside Normal Or Not ? by debbydams(f): 9:14pm On Jul 02, 2021
Romanoff:
What responsible man comes home late and drunk?

The woman done tire ni and this one that beating and joined, that marriage is already over.
u nail it.
Romance › Re: Today Is My Birthday by debbydams(f): 9:12pm On Jul 02, 2021
Nessy1:
Dear Nairalanders abeg wish me well. Thanks�
happy birthday dear..u shall excel in life,favor will locate you..u shall live long.
Romance › Re: Should Marriage Be "For Better Or For Worse"? (opinion) by debbydams(f): 9:10pm On Jul 02, 2021
BadRadio:
According to the Christian faith, especially in most denominations as we may know, it has been noted that their practice as it regards to the prerequisites of wedding rites and obligations during marital vows connotes lines such as;

"For better or for worse, in sickness and in health, till death do us part"

Well, my take on this subject is an emphatic [color=darkred]WTF ![/color].

This is the 21st century and the world is a lot smarter than it was some decades ago. As far as I know, that line of marital vow is out of place and should not be included in any vow of any sort.

○People get married and suffer abuses

○People get married and get death threats

○People get married and do not find happiness

○People get married and get nearly bored to death

○People get married and can no longer tolerate their partner

○People get married and suffer a great ordeal and abuse from an inlaw

○People suffer domestic violence.

○People get married and become lonely

The list is endless, so why tell someone "for better or for worse until death?

I believe people should be encouraged to take a walk away from an unhealthy marriage that ain't working....using legal means for divorce.


What do you think fellow NAIRALANDERS??
in some cases u gotta separate..this life is too short
Romance › Re: What’s The Craziest Lie A Guy Has Ever Told You Just To Have Sex With You? by debbydams(f): 9:06pm On Jul 02, 2021
HeavenlyCherub:
I love you
lol..love is overrated..I don't get moved with i Iove you..I fell in love with good attitude nd calmness..lemme share mine sha.

Babe said lemme just put the tip I said okay that was how we had sex o grin grin grin
Romance › Re: How Do I Get A Divorce Certificate by debbydams(f): 8:57pm On Jul 02, 2021
Na wa o
Family › Re: Candid Advice Needed by debbydams(f): 2:35pm On Jul 02, 2021
grin grin
Yxwqq:
Chai, maybe that was my grandma. j/k
Family › Re: Confused! by debbydams(f): 1:17pm On Jul 02, 2021
Lizzyangel:
Thanks so much for your contribution, it's highly noted.

Emi ni mo tona woro.
don't mind her..leave that man if u you don't know where to go, go to your parent house for now..that's the best thing u can do, forget what people will say..u are not married t that man he is just your bf because he has not paid your dowry.
Stand for yourself, be strong for your kids, u are just 27 o u can still rebuild your future,stop using the kids as an excuse, if anything happened, the kids will blame you..wise up sis leave that man if u want the best for your future nd treat yourself.
Stop being weak be strong for yourself..if I share what v bn tru lasan but I choose to be strong and happy!
Family › Re: Confused! by debbydams(f): 9:04am On Jul 02, 2021
Lizzyangel:
Mature advice needed by experienced married Nairalanders.

For the past 8yrs, I've experienced the sour, sad, bitter,sweet , love and hate in marriage at a tender age of mine.

My question is, is it better to continue Living in a marriage as a single mom(shouldering responsibilities), abuses emotionally and physically, depressed and threat of life?

Or

Live as separated single mom?


All this while,the fear of the unknown TOMORROW kept me staying and taking all the bullshits I can't type here,but I've always cherished having a peaceful home conducive enough for my kids to live in,but happenings lately are making me scared of moving forward.its telling on my health and Life.

Please matured advice, corrections and guidance are needed here.
aunty what really happened gangan, u can't expect us to advice you without knowing the root of the matter.. Is he maltreating you or financial probs, what is it gangan
Family › Re: Candid Advice Needed by debbydams(f): 6:56am On Jul 02, 2021
I don't see anything bad in that tho..u are mature enof to decide for yourself, calling mummy wa' or calling the kids aunty won't reduce your life span..most yoruba home' like respect. In some part in Kwara state mama of 60 years bend to greet me, I bend when I greet anybody bending even for kids nd I used 'E' for everybody..
Family › Re: My Mom Insulted Me For Doing Music, Then This Happened (pics& Videos) by debbydams(f): 6:34am On Jul 02, 2021
Juliusmomoh:
I hate secular... Go and sing gospel..
toor
Romance › Re: Why Guys Should Stop Dating Students Or Unemployed Ladies by debbydams(f): 6:31pm On Jul 01, 2021
Nonexistent1:
What is this cheap dirty olosho saying?
well I'm not surprised,this is faceless forum where kids say rubbish to people they Cant face in reality..
Romance › Re: Help! Can I Still Kiss Again? by debbydams(f): 6:28pm On Jul 01, 2021
This got me laughing grin grin grin
Romance › Re: Cute Lagos Working Class Guy Need A Nice Girl For Serious Relationship With Pics by debbydams(f): 6:25pm On Jul 01, 2021
odidi4success:
Hello ladies. My Name is Andy, am 32 years old working class, God fearing & hard working man. I live and work in Lagos and also have a business of my own. I want a relationship with God fearing and hard working lady that would lead to marriage. A lady who can take Good care of me and I would also take good care of her and her needs. Ladies please hit me up on WhatsApp on 09052922829 or phone call and let's start with being friends and getting to know each other, and we see what it leads to.
woman don finish for Lagos?
Romance › Re: Cute Lagos Working Class Guy Need A Nice Girl For Serious Relationship With Pics by debbydams(f): 6:25pm On Jul 01, 2021
grin grin
Babara1994:
Can you buy me an iphone first?
Romance › Re: Why Guys Should Stop Dating Students Or Unemployed Ladies by debbydams(f): 6:21pm On Jul 01, 2021
Nonexistent1:
Both working and non working daughters of Jezebel are all useless. If you need to fucck, fucck a woman but if you need a friend, get a dog. Know this and know peace.
your sis and mom nko..my regards to them..u no get sense at all lipsrsealed
Romance › Re: Why Guys Should Stop Dating Students Or Unemployed Ladies by debbydams(f): 6:19pm On Jul 01, 2021
Akwaibomdude:
Why haven't I seen any lady commenting here
wetin
Crime › Re: Armed Robbers Operating At Unity Bank (otun Ekiti) by debbydams(f): 5:32pm On Jul 01, 2021
Henrydonland:
Contact the police
do we Still have police men in Nigeria?
Crime › Re: The Nigerian Police Is Not Your Friend by debbydams(f): 5:27pm On Jul 01, 2021
pocohantas:
Yea, the former has the backing of the FG. grin
grin grin
Crime › Re: Suspected Rapists, Killers Of Unilorin Student Appears In Court by debbydams(f): 5:15pm On Jul 01, 2021
Good for them
Romance › Re: Will U Miss Me? by debbydams(op): 2:18pm On Jul 01, 2021
RioCarputo:
you remembered what you did to me?....when you lambasted me on phone.... since then I've been maintaining my lane.....
good
Romance › Re: Will U Miss Me? by debbydams(op): 10:48pm On Jun 30, 2021
SimplyFacts:
Ìwó wí cheesy
bibeli lo sor be
Romance › Re: Will U Miss Me? by debbydams(op): 10:33pm On Jun 30, 2021
RioCarputo:
lol...boss I jus dey whine her ooooo.....person wey I no even sabi...
smiles,whine indeed undecided
Romance › Re: Will U Miss Me? by debbydams(op): 10:32pm On Jun 30, 2021
SimplyFacts:
I will miss your confusion about being a male or female.
I'm a lady so don't be confused
Family › Re: Tenants Wahala by debbydams(f): 10:22pm On Jun 30, 2021
Johnames:
but , am concern about his attitude, he is not straight forward
study and watch me closely,,nd put up some test for him,like telling him u help him secure a job, u can put up a lot of test if he fails den send him out but let it be when his rent has expired.
Celebrities › Re: Rip Cigar!! The Last 3 Cigar!!! I Will Never See You Again!! - Sam Klef by debbydams(f): 9:36pm On Jun 30, 2021
Lol,I hop he can..I once made my neighbor quit smoking, he traveled, he came back with cigarette I started talking again, he now go very far where I can't notice to smoke..
Romance › Re: Is Anything Wrong With Complimenting A Girl's Pussy? by debbydams(f): 9:30pm On Jun 30, 2021
DriftOff:
Is Anything Wrong with complimenting a Girl's pussy?
Like when you see a girl with a nice pussy shape, and you go ahead and compliment her by saying "that's a nice pussy" or something like that, Is anything wrong with that?
I just want to know, because I'm thinking of complimenting a certain girl's pussy soon.
I think it's a rubber pussy sef, because I no understand the shape at all.
it is well cry
Family › Re: Tenants Wahala by debbydams(f): 9:28pm On Jun 30, 2021
Johnames:
So there is this house am managing, 2 flats, am in one flat, I rented the other flat to a guy, so far the guy life style does not suit me, apart from that the guy is jobless, am very sure he will not be able to renew his rent, he struggles to pay littles bills in the compound, he has stayed almost half of his rent, am planning on giving him quick notice, I need advice on how to go about it.
do u really need to do that..God can still help him nd u can help him too
Nairaland General › Re: Python That Swallowed A Cow Killed In Delta State (Pictures) by debbydams(f): 9:24pm On Jun 30, 2021
camri:
I go like chop your food clean mouth
sense is far from you embarassed
Romance › Re: Will U Miss Me? by debbydams(op): 9:23pm On Jun 30, 2021
SportsHD:
Are you weed?
i don't understand you
Romance › Re: What Turns You Off About The Opposite Sex? by debbydams(f): 9:22pm On Jun 30, 2021
bigpicture001:
I can bet all this don't matter to you if he has money....cuz money is the language if love to ladies
those things I mentioned turn me off..I don't go after men because of money..money can't buy happiness..
Romance › Will U Miss Me? by debbydams(op): 8:20pm On Jun 17, 2021
When I'm gone will anybody miss me? I'm curious huh huhln

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