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Romance › Re: There Are Fraudsters In Nairaland. by debbydams(f): 8:18pm On May 23, 2021
hafsatadebisi:
I've posted it above, that's where he told me his nairaland moniker. I have other evidences too.
sorry, I'm sure he pay with this evidence
Romance › Re: There Are Fraudsters In Nairaland. by debbydams(f): 8:17pm On May 23, 2021
shocked shocked
Romance › Re: There Are Fraudsters In Nairaland. by debbydams(f): 8:10pm On May 23, 2021
hafsatadebisi:
How does that make me a fraudster? Telling lies? Tarnishing people's image? How? Even when I have evidences that they did such?
post evidence
Family › Re: At What Point Should A New Couple Get Worried Over Conception? by debbydams(f): 7:47pm On May 23, 2021
Xiaomi1:
contact me if you are having problems impregnating your wife. Even if she's barren, my sperms will fertilise any womb.
Jesus wept cry..sense is very very far from you cry
Family › Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by debbydams(f): 4:23pm On May 23, 2021
Olaideolayemi:
Good..I hope you're now enjoying your new relationship now, compared to the past?Have a nice weekend..
cheesy cheesy cheesy lol...I'm not In any ...bin single is cool grin
Romance › Re: Money Is Not The Root Of All Evil by debbydams(f): 2:30pm On May 23, 2021
Nazgul:
Poverty is the root of all evil not money.

Poor people are dangerously wicked
lol
Romance › Re: If You Are Going To Get Married, Traditional Ceremony Is Enough by debbydams(f): 2:15pm On May 23, 2021
Romanoff:
After the trad, just go to court to have your marriage registered by doing a court wedding.

The certificate is important for international family travels, joint account opening etc.
dats it jor who elaborated wedding EPP,,I personally I hate noise,,I don't go to parties sef, if u are inviting me to your party u just doing yourself i won't go..low and simple is sweet abeg
Family › Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by debbydams(f): 2:01pm On May 23, 2021
Olaideolayemi:
How life and things?
fine oo..
Romance › Re: Help, She's Trying To Tigh Me Down. by debbydams(f): 9:37am On May 23, 2021
anonymousthug:
Indeed she knows my weak point. Thank you for sharing this, thank you. cry
sorry just b strong ..u are man..stand on your ground don't allow any lady to manipulate you.
Romance › Re: Introduce Me To Yourselves Please by debbydams(f): 8:48am On May 23, 2021
YahooSon:
100 PM's in 30 minutes?
Can't handle them
grin grin grin ignore na nobody is forcing u to reply ..lol
Romance › Re: Introduce Me To Yourselves Please by debbydams(f): 8:26am On May 23, 2021
YahooSon:
Too much PM's I can't handle them
lol are u a lady? U don't really need to deactivate your acct,,just ignore them, I v a lot PMs too I ignore nd reply some I reply as spirit leads grin
Romance › Re: Introduce Me To Yourselves Please by debbydams(f): 7:07am On May 23, 2021
Jeon:
I'm 5'10
are u MTN u are everywhere,u no get work?
Romance › Re: Introduce Me To Yourselves Please by debbydams(f): 7:05am On May 23, 2021
YahooSon:
Please I'm new here and I will like to know the popular nairalanders here please
I beg you guys to please introduce yourselves please
I might be sharing a few update with you guys before I deactivate
why do u want to deactivate?
Romance › Re: Help, She's Trying To Tigh Me Down. by debbydams(f): 7:02am On May 23, 2021
anonymousthug:
Good day everyone, and happy Sunday!
I will try my best to be short in other not to bore ya’ll with my problem.
I’ve been a member of this street since 2012 with too many deactivated accounts so I already know how we can be mad around here sometimes.

So it happened that I was dating this girl for over a year now, and we just broke up. I’ve had countless unprotected sex with her which she instigated though. In her words “I don’t like contraceptives”. So we broke up because things are beginning to go south in the relationship. This is a girl I’ve never shouted at, touched (beat), insulted and the rest. She shouts at me on the phone in the presence of her family or friends. The last one she did was shouting at me in the presence of her friend that I just met, because of something she heard outside from some stupid kid. Her anger issues are anger pro-max 100% (Thought I fixed her sef) she gets angry easily which is the main cause of the breakup. She is a girl that likes attention, sometimes she will post something on whatsapp that when someone reads you would think she’s having issues with her man, whereas we are good. There was this time, she keeps posting.. “This heart break will reach everybody” and I replied her with “God will answer your prayers one day” and God finally did. Warned her countless times, take this relationship off social media, if there is problem come to me, that’s why am you best friend.
I had already fallen out of love with her, but I held on to see if I could change her and shit, but I couldn’t. She also, noticed the breakdown in the relationship. The night I broke up with her, she called me back and told me that she got pregnant and she had an abortion for me without letting me know. I was shocked to hear that, she even sent me a text that read…

“ I know I did not tell you, and am sorry, I know I did wrong but I don’t have any other choice. I knew we are not going to do this forever, I know we won’t be together. I’ve thought about this and have seen this coming for a long time; I even removed another one yesterday. You don’t deserve me and I don’t deserve you, good night.” 06/05/2021 09:43 PM

I cried the night I saw that message, because I had promised never to be a part of an abortion, and she knows. In my same exact words “If a girl should get pregnant for me, she is so keeping it. Everyone deserves a chance to live.” I even posted a topic about abortion sometime ago, and now, I am a part of something I preached against. https://www.nairaland.com/4215521/letter-aborted-baby
Yesterday she called me with a friend’s number because I blocked hers, that she was pregnant and the pregnancy was mine. Right now I don’t know what to believe. When we were together, she never told me that she was pregnant, so why in the world would she say she’s pregnant now that we’re no longer together? I really don’t know what to believe, that’s why I’ve brought my problem to the gods of Nairaland. Is the baby even mine? The last time we had sex was on the 29th of April. Is it possible that the fetus I mine? I Need an advice guys.
lol she's trying to tie u down,don't mind her she is not pregnant nd if she is my dear u are not responsible for it,

We ladies are very cunning, she knw ur weak points,don't mind her just play along nd if u are right with what u said,no matter what avoid her at all cost pls I once in a toxic relationship,,this guy is terrible, he get angry over everything nd start calling me names I cry almost every time,this is a guy I have Neva cheated on or disrespect o neither have ask him for 5 naira before..if I don't call he will talk if I do he will complain,,there was a day he asked me to be coming to his place everyweekend I jokly told him I don't want to get pregnant cos I can't risk the stress,,since that day he was avoiding me,,he avoided me for 2 months nd we stay in the same town,,we actuall broke up, I told my friend, she said thank God u are out of this toxic relationship..


After a month of the break up I went to his mom store nd dropped rose nd a frame..that was the last time I used my line ...so shes trying to play you I'm a lady too grin
Romance › Re: Help! My Life Is Just Too Peaceful. by debbydams(f): 10:47pm On May 22, 2021
cry
Romance › Re: Just Got My Side Babe Pregnant by debbydams(f): 8:29pm On May 22, 2021
luminouz:
Debby Debby... wink

How are you na?
I'm good..
Celebrities › Re: Timaya Shaves Off His Dreadlocks (Photos) by debbydams(f): 8:10pm On May 22, 2021
He look nice now
Celebrities › Re: See Timaya's New Look After Shaving His Dreadlocks (photos) by debbydams(f): 8:09pm On May 22, 2021
I like him like this..I hate men with dread
Celebrities › Re: See Timaya's New Look After Shaving His Dreadlocks (photos) by debbydams(f): 8:08pm On May 22, 2021
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



I hate to say this but,
Why does he look like someone that was rejected as sacrifice by the Oracle?
Kai na cheesy grin grin
Romance › Re: Just Got My Side Babe Pregnant by debbydams(f): 4:44pm On May 22, 2021
extol1:
let talks on the other side
funny enof u don't know my num isn't going again,wow..forget it pls
Romance › Re: Just Got My Side Babe Pregnant by debbydams(f): 3:29pm On May 22, 2021
extol1:
same here too, but I hope I didn't do anything bad?
u did..nd I won't say anything to you
Family › Re: Sharing Same Clothing With Our Younger Ones. Is It Proper? by debbydams(f): 3:02pm On May 22, 2021
Chrizoby:
I hv this problem in my own house. My younger brother enjoy putting on my clothes without my permission. The issue is that though I don't always like it but I don't want to be seen as selfish or stingy with my things. The lady I want to marry always frown at that and she told me her younger ones cannot try that with her elder brother. That they should be a line and respect even though he is my brother.
The worst that happened was when a new shirt she bought for me on my birthday,which she knew I hv not worn for one day,she saw the shirt on my brother. And the truth is that my brother didn't even ask me before putting on that shirt. Pls house, is it proper or not?
this life no balance o,I v always wish to have a sister that can be using my things..I don't see anything wrong in that o
Romance › Re: Just Got My Side Babe Pregnant by debbydams(f): 2:54pm On May 22, 2021
extol1:
na wa for u, opting for abortion is a no no for me if I find myself in that situation
you ehn..its well,I'm not good in ignoring people who didnt offend me..
Romance › Re: I’m Broken Emotionally, I Need To Be Fixed by debbydams(f): 2:48pm On May 22, 2021
Make I no talk
Romance › Re: Just Got My Side Babe Pregnant by debbydams(f): 2:21pm On May 22, 2021
kelvinrhs:
Professional advisor

Well-done

Can't judge you though

Everybody own dey their Body
oginni? Wetin I do undecided
Business › Re: What Challenges Did You Face When Starting Your Business? by debbydams(f): 2:19pm On May 22, 2021
popoolaRofiat:
Am interested in your Experience.can we connect?this is my number 08149240862.or you can drop your I can add you
OK dear I'll chat u up
Romance › Re: Just Got My Side Babe Pregnant by debbydams(f): 1:24pm On May 22, 2021
Pills Is not advisable just go for d nd c ..make sure the person is a professional
Family › Re: Marriage Still Rocks: Two Nairalanders Celebrate A Decade Of Pure Love by debbydams(f): 1:16pm On May 22, 2021
DontBullshitMe:
10 years of captivity.

No late nights. . .

No multiple girlfriends. . .

No privacy. . .
I pity you
Family › Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by debbydams(f): 12:57pm On May 22, 2021
Olaideolayemi:
longtime..
abi o

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