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Born2berich:
Bought skye @ 1.18 offloaded @1.24 with about 5% gain ( e no gree reach 1.26 again)...Now am currently trapped in zenith...

Zenith and GTB has been messing up lately, any info we are yet to get abi dividend go show earlier than expected?

macof:
That's bastardization of culture and traditions

Kingtim:
End time advice

myjoy084:
http://www.nse.com.ng/Financial_NewsDocs/11538_FBN_HOLDINGS_-_DIVESTMENT_CORPORATE_ACTIONS_DECEMBER_2015.pdf

neocortex:
That is not Lagos-Ibadan expressway.
Just another lie from punch newspaper.

Olayinka8793:
Good day nairalanders, my name is Yinka and am also a twin. I have an issue bothering me and wished to post it here openly in the hope that I will get useful advice/opinion.

This post may seem long and therefore turn off those who hate long epistles but pls endeavour to read it as your advice/opinion might be beneficial to me.

I have thought of creating an alternative moniker to post this or at least lied that the problem is been faced by one of my friend and so he needs your advice like some pretentious nairalanders do, but decided to be bold enough and be real since this is just an online forum.

Sorry for digressing, now to the koko of the matter,I am 22 years old, will be 23 next January, earning a decent salary working as a hair stylist in a large unisex saloon, I have hearing loss as in total deafness though I could speak fluently, was not born deaf but an accident caused it while I was in primary school, the story of how I became deaf is one for another day, but with sheer determination and faith and Gods Grace I managed to complete both primary and secondary schooling but gave up on going further as I have no believe I could survive higher school.

My deafness affected me in very many ways, physiologicaly and emotionally and almost daily, but I hardly allow myself brood over it for a long time, the worst I have done was to cry in secret on more than four occasion for having such a terrible disability.

Ok well, my deafness affected my relationship with the opposite sex so much such that I have never had a girl friend meaning am still a virgin, though I relieve myself of what nairalanders called Konji by doing controlled mas2bation when I feel like, I could have used Oloshos to relieve myself but I considered them as dirty people and can't imagine losing my virginity to a prostitute.

I have tried summoning confidence to toast gals but our conversation is usually very short and not impressive due to the fact I don't know how to prolong such conversations and most of the ideas I saw online hardly applied to such conversation involving a person like me wit hearing loss. I communicate like a normal person by lip reading(hope u know what that is), though not always an effective means of communication but I had no other choice as my parents and me hated the idea of me learning sign language and they vehemently resisted those who suggested it when the deafness problem started.The only problem I have with lip reading was that whenever I don't understand what the other person was saying, I would indicate and ask him to repeat but if it persist I ask him or her to write it with the finger and you will agree with me that such inconvenience might be a big turn of when trying to talk to a stranger like a beautiful gal I admired.

There is this girl I admired that works as a sales girl in my aunt's pharmacy shop, she frequently passed in front of our saloon and have started having feelings for her, fortunately she know I have hearing loss and also knew I am a nephew to her boss and sometimes greets me when passing by like "boda taye",lol and I had just waved and answer "bawo ni", ordinarily I should not have problem toasting her but the fear of my deafness disappointing me and the fact I don't know anything to say that could make the toasting successfull apart from, what is your name, I want to marry you, where do you live, can I have your number, can I take you out on a date next Sunday? Bla bla bla.lol

Also there is the problem I usually encounter with young gals, when I told them I want to marry you, they be like "omo kekere ni mi" meaning am a small girl and I be like how old are you, but can we just be friends bla bla bla, any suggestion to how to properly deal with such response will be appreciated in case the gal I planned to toast say such(she looks 19+). It is not like she is out of my class or too beautiful, no no no not at all, even my twin sister is more classier.

Thanks for reading this far, I know this might seem like an unusual problem but I believe you will have one or two ideas/opinions which I might find useful in other to overcome my deafness and win over this gal. I have no intention of using and dumping her, just date her with the hope of finding her compatible for marriage when the time comes and lastly to relieve myself of Konji the natural way after having gained her trust and affection.

Modified. E be like say I want more opinions, oya CC: lalasticlala abeg do the needful.

igstars:
Debeey87, sorry dat email isn't active...
Nd I cnt access ma mails on ma current email nw or anytym soon... BOH...
So who r u?

GoldenDr:
Policemen, Lawyers and Offshore workers.

tslowe:
Mine is on d 12th and my name is thelma

Kemmia:
I nid arund ifon/orolu too ooo, probably self contain or 3 bedrooms for others in my side too

dav8id:
@op ur location is not sweet able for sesame farming......nairaland is not the best place for you to source for this info.
...make a trip to places like katsina, benue, nasarawa, kogi, or taraba state in interact with farmers there and get the insight info...you can as well lease a land there the for ur sesame seed farming...

LONGFELLOW02:
I don't think it will do well in Ilorin. Try to connect with Farmers 4rm Kogi,Nassarawa nd Benue they will be the one to explain it better to You.

They usually plant it between August-September. .

It doesn't like much water.

lolu007:
Was so hard for me

boombay:
wake up one night and use powder to rub your body from head to toe.
Tie a white wrapper and tie your TV remote with a red cloth
start chanting in a strange manner
like "kulu kulu maku moku"
make sure she hears you.
if she asks wahz going on tell her you're a ritualist that you use female only for the rituals
and if she doesn't ask you
trust Me she will leave immediately!

Bombay..you bad gan o. I subscribe to your suggestion anyway.

But my question to the op is....this woman works in your office and she has been earning salary for the past 1 year, whats her excuse for not renting a house even if its a room.

There's probably something you are not talking about
















or better still get a coffin as your center table in the sitting room!

adeh39:
Ehen....

Even you?

Wait...can u pls give me 5 reasons why a rich cheater is better?

cherylsmith:
If I'm married to a chronic cheat, I should always expect and be ready for the worst. (just saying, not my portion. IJN, amen.)

cherylsmith:
A rich cheater

AirstarKane:
A rich cheater

jugomma:
Mr routerman please are there no teaching jobs available? Am yet to serve my country And would love to teach.....

NKFOODVERIETIES:
Good one

khukhi:
She's very pretty hey...Nthabiseng. She just acts really ghetto..like we need to hide our cosmetic bags when she's around cause she's really dangerous about everything...food.liquor and she can make a man spend hey. But maybe that isn't a bad thing after all.