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Tears seeped out of my eyes when I watched that part.

Tokyo was one of the decision makers in the team although she was stubborn, she will be missed.

shawante:
That girl really bleeped up in the previous seasons so am even kind of relieved she's gone.

So far so good it went well and it seems the inspector that gave birth will be joining them... Mehn I can't wait for December

But she was loved by the group. That inspector mum...I still dey suspect her sha. The part where she hid scissors in her hand...HMMMMM!

CHoccolaTE:
I want to hear the wife side of the story first

Even Tega has her own side of the story abi? Rubbish!!

The cultural dressing of the tribe he loves to hate rejected him!

For days now, we have been confronted with news of the imbroglio caused by Annie Idibia over a recorded voice note or should we call it "vent note" where she called out her husband Tuface Idibia for packing his things to the United States "with the pretext" of going for a shoot but according to her to possibly hookup with one of his baby mamas known as Pero.

In the recording, she was heard lambasting one Franklin who she said is Tuface's cousin and who arranged the whole plot. She went further by saying she would scatter her 11 year old marriage with the Benue born artiste and entertainer.

Taking a critical look at this scenario, I have come to a concrete conclusion that Anita's claim holds no water.

Tuface before his marriage to Anita was involved with a couple of women who bore him children including Anita herself. Anita was fortunate enough to have Tuface say "I do" which to me will be seen as a huge conquest in the midst of Tuface's Baby Mama League.

She was elevated to the status of wife from a mere girlfriend and as a woman, there is every tendency that alot of conditions would be proffered by her to Tuface concerning his "continuous communications" with the other women.


Then there is the issue of the other children borne by those baby mamas...the issue of financial upkeep would be there which I am sure Tuface must have been doing well because at least, he is well to do financially.

But we all know our Nigerian women with their sense of entitlement.

It is likely that Anita may want Tuface to possibly severe ties from not just his league of baby mum's but their children as well...trust me, this is probably what would be playing in the background without the public aware of it.

Anita in her entitlement as "legal wife" would always charge Tuface to channel his energy more on her own children and forget about any other child he thinks he has out there.

Tuface like any sane and responsible man would hear none of that and most likely, a consequent planned visit to see his kids from Pero in the United States would have brought this hullabaloo which one can deduce that Anita is trying to use the "cheating card" to vent her unnecessary frustrations.

According to Anita, she said that "she has been going through hell for the past 10 years in the hands of Tuface's family members."

The fact that as a couple, Tuface and Anita would be having their own marital hitches which is normal in every marriage setup today shouldn't be shoved but why is it that this very incident of Tuface going to the United States "in pretext" of going for a shoot be the climax of it all?

As someone who thinks and analyzes scenarios in-depth, I can say that from the bile and deep emotions of anger and swear words from Anita's voice, it was not just a mere case of Tuface going to cheat with Pero which is very unlikely (I mean how would Tuface with all the sex appeal he exudes want to go all the way to United States to sleep with his baby mama?... when he could simply either ask Pero to come down to Nigeria herself or he can chose from a whole lot of sexy looking ladies here in Nigeria to frolic with)

It was certainly Tuface wanting to play his fatherly role to bond with Pero's kids that is the major reason for Anita's tantrums!

Anita in her usual jealousy would be thinking of the financial obligations which would be spent on both the trip and material accessories which Pero's kids would enjoy and in her usual "Selfish Nigerian Woman" consciousness, the question would be, "Why Pero's kids and not my kids." hence the bitter rage displayed.

As a result, other cans of worms were opened furthermore with her own brother condemning her and even saying she was fetish!

Although Tuface has not really responded to Anita's allegations yet, it is very clear that Anita bringing this incident to the social media has proven to be her undoing as the backlash she wished for her husband has become what she has been receiving from all angles from both Tuface's family and even her own kit and kin instead with an unnerved Tuface appealing to both factions for calm.

With this incident, one can truly see the kind of storm Tuface Idibia has been enduring for years in the hands of his wife an example of such which has been unraveled on social media.

The once calm and drama-less couple who have been hailed for their "non controversy" over the years will now be remembered with this dust raised by Anita even if their marriage still stands after the dust settles because the internet never forgets.

It would not be out of place to say that the Anita we saw as Tuface's African Queen with this recent malady may now be seen as an African Quinine.

What are your thoughts?

They will destroy alcohol in public while they consume it codedly.

I wonder why these people pretend alot!

Here in Abuja, some of them buy beer and pour it into their kettle which they use for ablution.

Their women are into prostitution full time.

No be the same Kastina state where two of them hijab wearing call girls wan finish me over night.

That was how I knew that codeine they drink can make a woman knack like a demented stallion.

Go to Lagos street in Garki Abuja around 9pm and you will see them wearing hijab with completely nothing underneath.

Hypocrites!

From the look of things,this guy is being fed and catered for by Tega. If you check well, the rent of apartment they live in might be paid by Tega.

That is the only reason a man will SIMP like this.

See what he said...that "she use to ba a very good woman"...I have always said it that WOMEN ARE BIGGER CHEATS THAN MEN!

THE ONLY THING WOMEN LACK TO CHEAT IS OPPORTUNITY AND SOCIAL STRATA!

Onyi22:
Justice for Chidinma..
Self defense is not a crime

Justice for your brain.

Thinking foolishly is a natural crime

10mobile:
As if this will stop Nigerians Yorubas from falling for another scam called Tinubu in 2022/23.

Nigerians South Westerners are the most unthinking humans across the world.

Fixed!

Foolish SIMP

I commend them! More bullets to their guns!!

Let then continue holding on and decimate the Taliban idióts.

Their ecological terrain made up of mountains are a good advantage.

ajericho:
Can't you guys reason?

These equipments belongs to the Afghan army,why would America go with it?

An army which America knew would be over-run by the Taliban?

The Afghan military personnel were beginning to drop arms from the very day the US military pull out was announced with some of them jetting out to asylum in the planes provided for the evacuation and others running hinterland to hide.

Since the US knew that the Afghan military would become totally immobilized and useless after their withdrawal, why didn't they nuke the weapons during the evacuation?

Think bro...THINK!

Biden purposely left enough ammunition and military gear to empower the Taliban. What do you expect from a man whom Obama and Hilary Clinton that fought GEJ and supported Buhari gave lots of political backing?

They all have one thing in common...TERRORISM!

This is the reason why Anambrans should reject APC the evil party that has a grand plan of taking over Anambra State in the upcoming gubernatorial elections.

Andy Uba has perfected plans with the landlord of Aso Villa and INEC to rig the elections and impose himself as the governor of Anambra State so that the fulanization agenda will hold sway in Anambra like it is ongoing in Ebonyi and Imo State.

Ndi Anambra should resist this with all their power.

How can you be putting on "slippon" on that kind of place filled with slippery mold-covered rocks?

Hiking in that kind of place should involve wearing boots with thick leather teeth that grips firmly to the ground!

koyyes:
Are you not a f@ggot?

Are you not ashamed that you can't equate $1 to #1?

All you do is come on nairaland and w@nk from morning till dawn.

See how you gossip like a jobless market woman.

White c0ck sucker.

To show that you are really insane, what has the bolded got to do with anything on this thread.

This thread is about a vile woman like you who sent an innocent man to his grave and not about stock exchange and you are bringing in currency differentiation!

Very soon, you will run to the market naked. Ezi ofia!

MSGAMBLE9:
hahaha, too bad for i know her history here with her sister.


You see how the coward couldnt address past of failed marriage, lesbianism and depression


She is a coward by running from her failed life


i know her too well

Ever since her ex left her for another woman, she went berserk with frustration. I was aware when her sister was telling her openly to move on but she seems to get worse each passing day. Calling people f@ggots on NL is what gives her solace.

Pretty soon, she will take her own life! I understand her because it can be so hard when you have failed in relationship, exporting business and even your lesbian partner leaving you too because of your tantrums.

MSGAMBLE9, don't mind this expired newspaper that calls herself koyyes.

She is a frustrated lonely, loveless, manless woman from Asaba that is frustrated with life!

Answering her is a total waste of time!!

cococandy:
Read the first line (died of a heart attack over wife’s infidelity). And I knew, Here comes the nonsense. You’re not a doctor. Don’t give internet diagnosis
The following parts didn’t disappoint. But couldn’t finish it. Too long and nothing worth reading.

Your negative view and opinion forms a paltry 1% of the 99% validated positive views to the thread so it doesn't count just as YOU DON'T COUNT!

Bilquiss:

After all this wailing, na una go still pay roadside ashawo to fork while.bleating like goats and begging her to let you press brezz.

You sow demon and want to reap angel ? I laugh in Mr Nuru.

That you pay roadside ashawo to f*ck does not mean that every man does that if you are a man and if you are a woman, that men around you (friends or family) patronizes prostitutes does not mean that every other guy does same!

I, Decryptor patronized prostitutes only thrice in my life way back in my University days and i found out that prostitution is still another form of exploitation perpetrated by women against men!

I pay a prostitute to have sex with her and she gets an orgasm which i am less likely to get and i still pay her? To me prostitutes and armed robbers are the same! So try another line!!

Best thing is MGTOW with complete celibacy and also WGTOW.. its the best way forward.

The MGTOW has been in existence since the 1900's but women can never survive the WGTOW because of their heavy dependency on the menfolk!

bukatyne:
And you a misogynist call him a SIMP.

I wish he give you all resounding slaps as you quote him out of context.

Go and sin no more.

If wishes were horses!

I am no misogynist! I am an emancipated male!!

bukatyne:
Hahahahaha

Paul was a SIMP, I shook and stopped reading there.

Same Paul a lot of people called a misogynist because of his perceived views on women.

Feminists Misandrists called him a misogynist because of his view that women should be silent in places of worship!

koyyes:
Jobless animal.

Go and write a book and see if it sells.

Who is going to read this rubbish junk?

Frustrated F@ggot.

No need to banter a with a you because you are already at the verge of suicide!

Since the day your niece opened up to us here on Nairaland how your estranged husband abandoned you and ran off to the United States with a yoruba woman, i knew the reason for your tantrums and madness! The effect it had on you keeps getting worse everyday.

I cannot be mad at the same time with you that believes that 99.9% of Nigerians are scammers and deserve the leaders they have! That is pure insanity! My prayer is that you don't bite somebody on the road one day!

when2:
What you just made me to understand stand is that men don't know their left from right again, that they're not disciplined, take and stand by their decisions. Anyway you're just beating round the bush. The moment men decide to zip up, these cases of infidelity will be reduced.

Joseph in the Bible zipped up and it landed him in prison!

As for Moyhoe, what makes you think she wasn't the one who got herself into the MD's pants?

Even if he decided not to do anything with her, in her treacherous nature, he may end up in her bad books and probably shag a member of the Board of Directors and lay an accusation on him which will make him either lose his job entirely or at least, his position as MD!

We may have probably heard another "usual false accusation of rape" headline like Lady who works in FCMB accuses MD of Rape...so you see, after all said and done, women are still treacherous in nature!

The internet has been agog for a while over the death of Tunde Thomas a.k.a "Gentle Tunde" who died of heart break over his ex-wife's infidelity.

Tunde Thomas was said to be married to Moyo Thomas (alias Nee Ojo) with two kids.

According to the story, his wife, an adulteress which is common with most Nigerian women was engaged in an office romance with her MD of FCMB, Adam Nuru. It’s said that their secret relationship that was well known throughout the organization.

Though Adam was happily married, he was overwhelmed with adultery despite knowing that her staff was also married to Mr Tunde.

Not knowing the truth about the kids, Tunde spent all his resources on the children as how every responsible father would do for their wards.

He flew them (the two kids) to London and Dubai during holidays and they attended the best schools just to give them better foundation.

Tunde’s wife resigned from FCMB all of a sudden when the older child was about 8 years old and went on holidays in the US as planned by her ‘boyfriend’ boss.

Little did Tunde know that was the last time he would ever set his eyes on the children.

His wife refused to return to Nigeria when the school resumed and she gathered courage to tell him that the children were not his.

To prevent Tunde from hunting her down in the US, she filed asylum in the US based on marital violence in Nigeria.

According to reports, Tunde couldn’t take the bad news in 2017. He never felt good after recovering from a stroke.

He tried to get his life together by beginning another relationship with a lady who is a lawyer. It was gathered that he invited a few friends to help him visit the lady’s family on 26th December.

Alas, Tunde didn’t get to see that day. He collapsed and died while returning from work on December 15, 2020. He was laid to rest on Wednesday, December 30, 2020.

If Tunde hadn't died, we probably wouldn't have heard about this story. Even with his death, there isn't much weight thrown around it if not for the call for paternity testing that has been trending for a while now, women activists and feminists have all gone hush!

Nobody is carrying placards with hashtags like #JusticeForTunde...WHY?...Because Tunde is another MAN who is a victim of treachery perpetuated by a woman! If the tables were to be turned, by now there would have been a procession to Aso Rock by women, petitions would have been opened in websites like Change dot org for Moyo to be deported and all that.

But no...v@ginal people have suddenly gone mum because it was perpetrated by a woman against a man!

I don't blame women like Moyo who shamelessly opened her legs for her Boss and still got pregnant not even once but twice for him...

I blame men like Tunde Thomas who was too daft to reason like an alpha-male because he was lost in the euphoria of that stupid over-hyped emotional irrational feeling they call love for his estranged wife!

Yes! Men like Ozor of Big Brother Naija and Tunde Thomas who would see the signs and still ignore it simply because they want to play "the good guy" and "perfect gentleman" to please a woman simply because they believe that women are "frail" and deserve attention and deserve to be showered with love!

Although Tunde Thomas was not as lucky as Ozor to survive his ordeal although he lost concentration in winning the quest for which he signed up for in a reality tv show to win a whooping N85m worth of prices in both cash and materials.

What exactly is my point in opening this thread? I simply want to remind the male folk just like i have always hammered it here that is it really worth it to show a woman all the care, love and affection in the world and after that, you still get stabbed at the back?

Women have known to be crying all over social media about how their men maltreat and mistreat them and often we see them in talkshows and even religious institutions where the message is always about how men should treat women right with respect.

But the question is DO WOMEN TREAT WE THE MEN WITH RESPECT AFTER ALL THE LOVE AND ATTENTION SHOWERED ON THEM? If the answer is yes, Tunde Thomas would be alive today with kids looking like him with darker complexion just as his unlike those kids who looked more like Shuwa Arab kids with the same replica of his wife's sugar daddy!

I heard from some close sources that the reason why the hoe decided to relocate to the US was because tongues had already started wagging about the questionability in resemblance of the children to Tunde which was becoming obvious each passing day.

Some people even whispered to his ears about the fact that those kids were not him but he even lashed out at them and told his wife not to mind "rumor mongers" who wanted to separate her from him and assured her of his "undying love" for her! So much for undying love!!

I have played the Ozoemena Chukwu role about thrice or more in the past until experiences from Red Pillers taught me that loving a woman whole heartedly, giving her attention she needs and bending down to appeal to her sense of entitlement is akin to living in self-denial and cheating yourself!

I have always said that the only woman on earth who deserves your true and undying love is your mother (that is if she made motherly sacrifices for you) and not a dead-beat mother! The next creature you should give undying love to which will forever remain loyal to you till the very end is your pet dog! Yes...little wonder they tag dogs as "Man's Best Friend".

A woman is not meant to be loved! It is totally unnatural and abysmal to bring yourself as a man to giving love to a woman!

When God created Adam, he brought Eve to Adam to be his companion and not for him to love her! The lame concept of love for a woman in the bible originated from Ephesians 5:25 where it says “Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it.” This was coming from an apostle called Paul in the Bible who was not even married! and so doesn't know the rudiments of what marriage between a man and woman entails. So to me that bald-headed Paul had no right to tell men what to do with their wives!

Apostle Paul went further to state that Men should love their wives just as Christ loved the church and gave himself for it (Now if we look further, the church Paul talked about is known as the body of Christ which Jesus Christ said he would come back for when it is rupturable (only Bible scholars and chronic Bible readers would understand and agree with me) isn't it?...
Now my dear Bible Scholars, with the events of what is going on in the world today in the so-called body of Christ with all the moral decadence and increasing sinful activities, would it be out of place to say that the church is becoming less and less rapturable with each passing year? So you see...Even Jesus Christ who gave his life for the Church is even being disappointed by the church he gave his life for how much more you that is a mortal man who thinks that being a puppet in the hands of your woman will make her loyal!

Paul was purely a SIMP and was definitely trying to brush the feminine ego of women because of the role they played during his evangelism in feeding him, providing meeting places for his preaching and even hiding him from those who wanted him killed. ( Read the Epistolary evidence of Paul the Apostle and Women on Wikipedia). Of course it was natural to talk in favor of those that provide food, shelter and safety for you when the opportunity arises!

There are so many men like Paul littered all over our society today. Men like Ozor who was emotionally manhandled by Nengi but still refused to take a cue until he came out and saw the damage he had done to his personality, men like Uti Nwachukwu who hailed Ozor for being a mumu in the house and men like Tunde Thomas who was being a loving wife to a hoe and enrolled the kids of another man in the best schools outside Nigeria until the hard reality hit him like a thunderbolt which cost him his life!

If only Tunde Thomas had a side chick or baby mama outside his unholy marriage with "Moy-hoe", at least the effects of knowing that the kids who called him daddy for years were not biologically his would have been drastically reduced. He would have ended up fathering his own kids outside because from what i have noticed, Nigerian v@ginal people a.k.a women will most of the time carry your own seed when they are rolling in the sheets with you while you are married to your main wife!

But of course he wanted to be a "good husband and loving father" and so he was "faithful" to Moy-hoe and look where his faithfulness and gentility got him...SIX FEET BELOW! To even think that the man even saw that these children had no semblance to him in anyway but tuned a blind eye to it got me gobsmacked!

What has the modern day Nigerian women who are notoriously known as the second in position to committing paternity fraud after Jamaican women have to offer these days? Absolutely nothing apart from buying you boxer shorts and singlets during valentine or your birthday! Show me a Nigerian lady who has gifted her man "Husband or lover" a Play Station 4 or 5, an iPhone not to talk more of a posh ride?

It is foolish Nigerian men who are the ones doing all the spending like the women are entitled to it! Why? Simply because you want to please her so she can allow you slip your stiff male appendage into her slippery smelly female anatomy?

Stop wasting your time being a good guy to a woman because it will always end up in premium tears! Women do not deserve love. They are only meant for procreation and sexual gratification! The earlier you as a man understands it, the better for you! Women can only stay loyal to you when you treat them like the second fiddle and make them feel like they are not really worth it!

The only thing you should ensure you offer a woman living under the same roof with you is the shelter over her head! This is because when she is the one who pays the rent, and there is a dispute, it would be ratified that you the man should leave the premises except you are in an environment where the women are given an upper hand like the United States which will impose it on you to vacate even if you are the owner of the house. (Something which the women here wish that it would be played out in Nigeria which as God lives, will never happen).

As for Feeding, to me, it should be reciprocal. If you are not capable of feeding her in a particular point in time, she should return the favour.

Afterall, in the animal kingdom, most of the times, the Lion sleeps while the lionesses hunt and he the lion comes to eat and it doesn't strip him of his kingship.

Exchange of gifts should be reciprocal! Outings should be reciprocal....paying of bills should be shared! If she sucked you dry during the dating and courtship era, after the marriage, revenge by taking care of your basic needs and wants as a man and let her be the one to start the spending in the house to recoup all your loses!

You as the man IS DOING HER A FAVOUR IN MARRYING HER AND NOT THE OTHER WAY ROUND!

If she can't deal with it, let her pack her things back to her father's house and stay there! Don't bring yourself down to go there and plead for her to come back!

A woman is more attracted to a man who has other women in competition with her and abhors the man who is clingy to her alone! When she sees there is no competition, she will kick you to the curb and go after that bad guy who she knows has numerous women flocking after him.

As foolish as they are, their quest is to WIN THE PLAYBOY'S HEART TOTALLY but ignore you WHOSE HEART HAS TOTALLY BEEN WON AND MAKES YOU COMPLETELY USELESS TO HER!

Many men be looking radiant before their union with women all in the name of marriage and all of a sudden, they start taking semblance to a disheveled cockerel suffering from feather-loss! It is because you allowed yourself to look and be that way! Get yourself girlfriends and let your wife know that you have them in abundance! In that way, you will keep her on her toes.

If she is the toxic type you feel can go lethal because of your escapades like Maryam Sanda, kick her out of your house and file a petition and restraining order stating that if anything happens to you, she should be held accountable for it. Do a DNA test on your children and if they are yours, take care of them by providing their basic and fundamental needs so they won't forget you.

If she is the one who has custody of the kids, share the responsibility of caregiving between you and her. It is either she pays for their school fees and you provide for their feeding and wardrobe or the other way round.

You can accomplish this by opening a something like a "Kids Savings Account" with the names of the children where cash remitted for their personal use will accounted for with relevant documentation which you will show to them later on in life! This is to counter any damaging lies she will tell your kids about you abandoning them and not taking care of them! Remember, women are very trecherous beings!!

I Decryptor is a typical example...i have 2 children from 2 different ladies (a boy and a girl) and they come to visit me during the holidays. I opened a Kiddies account where monies for their fees is sent to their mothers' account with the statements clearly documented. I have a lawyer whom is on standby to show them every documentation on every dime i spent on them from their birth till if (God forbid) anything should happen to me before they both turn 18!

When they are 18, the accounts will be changed to a normal savings account but not until i sit them down to have a rundown of all the figures spent during their childhood! I still have further plans for the both of them which i will not want to enumerate here for personal reasons and in order not to give away my identity.

The mother of one is married to another man whom she has some kids for. One day when she brought my child during their mid-term break, she made advances at me and was proposing sex! A request i turned down.

You can imagine if i accepted to sleep with her and maybe she conceives, she'll take it home for her husband to "topup" and 9 months later, he will be beaming with smiles that "his loyal wife" has given him another child!

Both women even though not living with me see me as a demi-god because of how i decided to carry myself as a man. I chose never to get married and my kids are my priority. Marriage to me is never a union between a man and a woman but an emotional enslavement of a man to a woman!

These women don't love you! They only want you to help them achieve the highest societal strata a woman can achieve by bearing the title "Mrs" and you as the man is the only one who can help them climb up that ladder. After that, they'll continue their whoring activities unabated!

You reading this, if you aren't married, i am not asking you to take the decisions i took as it is a matter of choice...but know your place in a woman life!
Place higher value on yourself before you place value on a woman!

Sex these days is cheap and you can get it if you have the right verbal slurs and the right amount in cash or kind.

LOVE YOURSELF and LIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE FULLEST and don't allow any woman to take you to eternal demise like Tunde Gentle!

Always remember, "Good Guys finish last"!

The internet has been agog for a while over the death of Tunde Thomas a.k.a "Gentle Tunde" who died of heart break over his ex-wife's infidelity.

Tunde Thomas was said to be married to Moyo Thomas (alias Nee Ojo) with two kids.

According to the story, his wife, an adulteress which is common with most Nigerian women was engaged in an office romance with her MD of FCMB, Adam Nuru. It’s said that their secret relationship that was well known throughout the organization.

Though Adam was happily married, he was overwhelmed with adultery despite knowing that her staff was also married to Mr Tunde.

Not knowing the truth about the kids, Tunde spent all his resources on the children as how every responsible father would do for their wards.

He flew them (the two kids) to London and Dubai during holidays and they attended the best schools just to give them better foundation.

Tunde’s wife resigned from FCMB all of a sudden when the older child was about 8 years old and went on holidays in the US as planned by her ‘boyfriend’ boss.

Little did Tunde know that was the last time he would ever set his eyes on the children.

His wife refused to return to Nigeria when the school resumed and she gathered courage to tell him that the children were not his.

To prevent Tunde from hunting her down in the US, she filed asylum in the US based on marital violence in Nigeria.

According to reports, Tunde couldn’t take the bad news in 2017. He never felt good after recovering from a stroke.

He tried to get his life together by beginning another relationship with a lady who is a lawyer. It was gathered that he invited a few friends to help him visit the lady’s family on 26th December.

Alas, Tunde didn’t get to see that day. He collapsed and died while returning from work on December 15, 2020. He was laid to rest on Wednesday, December 30, 2020.

If Tunde hadn't died, we probably wouldn't have heard about this story. Even with his death, there isn't much weight thrown around it if not for the call for paternity testing that has been trending for a while now, women activists and feminists have all gone hush!

Nobody is carrying placards with hashtags like #JusticeForTunde...WHY?...Because Tunde is another MAN who is a victim of treachery perpetuated by a woman! If the tables were to be turned, by now there would have been a procession to Aso Rock by women, petitions would have been opened in websites like Change dot org for Moyo to be deported and all that.

But no...v@ginal people have suddenly gone mum because it was perpetrated by a woman against a man!

I don't blame women like Moyo who shamelessly opened her legs for her Boss and still got pregnant not even once but twice for him...

I blame men like Tunde Thomas who was too daft to reason like an alpha-male because he was lost in the euphoria of that stupid over-hyped emotional irrational feeling they call love for his estranged wife!

Yes! Men like Ozor of Big Brother Naija and Tunde Thomas who would see the signs and still ignore it simply because they want to play "the good guy" and "perfect gentleman" to please a woman simply because they believe that women are "frail" and deserve attention and deserve to be showered with love!

Although Tunde Thomas was not as lucky as Ozor to survive his ordeal although he lost concentration in winning the quest for which he signed up for in a reality tv show to win a whooping N85m worth of prices in both cash and materials.

What exactly is my point in opening this thread? I simply want to remind the male folk just like i have always hammered it here that is it really worth it to show a woman all the care, love and affection in the world and after that, you still get stabbed at the back?

Women have known to be crying all over social media about how their men maltreat and mistreat them and often we see them in talkshows and even religious institutions where the message is always about how men should treat women right with respect.

But the question is DO WOMEN TREAT WE THE MEN WITH RESPECT AFTER ALL THE LOVE AND ATTENTION SHOWERED ON THEM? If the answer is yes, Tunde Thomas would be alive today with kids looking like him with darker complexion just as his unlike those kids who looked more like Shuwa Arab kids with the same replica of his wife's sugar daddy!

I heard from some close sources that the reason why the hoe decided to relocate to the US was because tongues had already started wagging about the questionability in resemblance of the children to Tunde which was becoming obvious each passing day.

Some people even whispered to his ears about the fact that those kids were not him but he even lashed out at them and told his wife not to mind "rumor mongers" who wanted to separate her from him and assured her of his "undying love" for her! So much for undying love!!

I have played the Ozoemena Chukwu role about thrice or more in the past until experiences from Red Pillers taught me that loving a woman whole heartedly, giving her attention she needs and bending down to appeal to her sense of entitlement is akin to living in self-denial and cheating yourself!

I have always said that the only woman on earth who deserves your true and undying love is your mother (that is if she made motherly sacrifices for you) and not a dead-beat mother! The next creature you should give undying love to which will forever remain loyal to you till the very end is your pet dog! Yes...little wonder they tag dogs as "Man's Best Friend".

A woman is not meant to be loved! It is totally unnatural and abysmal to bring yourself as a man to giving love to a woman!

When God created Adam, he brought Eve to Adam to be his companion and not for him to love her! The lame concept of love for a woman in the bible originated from Ephesians 5:25 where it says “Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it.” This was coming from an apostle called Paul in the Bible who was not even married! and so doesn't know the rudiments of what marriage between a man and woman entails. So to me that bald-headed Paul had no right to tell men what to do with their wives!

Apostle Paul went further to state that Men should love their wives just as Christ loved the church and gave himself for it (Now if we look further, the church Paul talked about is known as the body of Christ which Jesus Christ said he would come back for when it is rupturable (only Bible scholars and chronic Bible readers would understand and agree with me) isn't it?...
Now my dear Bible Scholars, with the events of what is going on in the world today in the so-called body of Christ with all the moral decadence and increasing sinful activities, would it be out of place to say that the church is becoming less and less rapturable with each passing year? So you see...Even Jesus Christ who gave his life for the Church is even being disappointed by the church he gave his life for how much more you that is a mortal man who thinks that being a puppet in the hands of your woman will make her loyal!

Paul was purely a SIMP and was definitely trying to brush the feminine ego of women because of the role they played during his evangelism in feeding him, providing meeting places for his preaching and even hiding him from those who wanted him killed. ( Read the Epistolary evidence of Paul the Apostle and Women on Wikipedia). Of course it was natural to talk in favor of those that provide food, shelter and safety for you when the opportunity arises!

There are so many men like Paul littered all over our society today. Men like Ozor who was emotionally manhandled by Nengi but still refused to take a cue until he came out and saw the damage he had done to his personality, men like Uti Nwachukwu who hailed Ozor for being a mumu in the house and men like Tunde Thomas who was being a loving wife to a hoe and enrolled the kids of another man in the best schools outside Nigeria until the hard reality hit him like a thunderbolt which cost him his life!

If only Tunde Thomas had a side chick or baby mama outside his unholy marriage with "Moy-hoe", at least the effects of knowing that the kids who called him daddy for years were not biologically his would have been drastically reduced. He would have ended up fathering his own kids outside because from what i have noticed, Nigerian v@ginal people a.k.a women will most of the time carry your own seed when they are rolling in the sheets with you while you are married to your main wife!

But of course he wanted to be a "good husband and loving father" and so he was "faithful" to Moy-hoe and look where his faithfulness and gentility got him...SIX FEET BELOW! To even think that the man even saw that these children had no semblance to him in anyway but tuned a blind eye to it got me gobsmacked!

What has the modern day Nigerian women who are notoriously known as the second in position to committing paternity fraud after Jamaican women have to offer these days? Absolutely nothing apart from buying you boxer shorts and singlets during valentine or your birthday! Show me a Nigerian lady who has gifted her man "Husband or lover" a Play Station 4 or 5, an iPhone not to talk more of a posh ride?

It is foolish Nigerian men who are the ones doing all the spending like the women are entitled to it! Why? Simply because you want to please her so she can allow you slip your stiff male appendage into her slippery smelly female anatomy?

Stop wasting your time being a good guy to a woman because it will always end up in premium tears! Women do not deserve love. They are only meant for procreation and sexual gratification! The earlier you as a man understands it, the better for you! Women can only stay loyal to you when you treat them like the second fiddle and make them feel like they are not really worth it!

The only thing you should ensure you offer a woman living under the same roof with you is the shelter over her head! This is because when she is the one who pays the rent, and there is a dispute, it would be ratified that you the man should leave the premises except you are in an environment where the women are given an upper hand like the United States which will impose it on you to vacate even if you are the owner of the house. (Something which the women here wish that it would be played out in Nigeria which as God lives, will never happen).

As for Feeding, to me, it should be reciprocal. If you are not capable of feeding her in a particular point in time, she should return the favour.

Afterall, in the animal kingdom, most of the times, the Lion sleeps while the lionesses hunt and he the lion comes to eat and it doesn't strip him of his kingship.

Exchange of gifts should be reciprocal! Outings should be reciprocal....paying of bills should be shared! If she sucked you dry during the dating and courtship era, after the marriage, revenge by taking care of your basic needs and wants as a man and let her be the one to start the spending in the house to recoup all your loses!

You as the man IS DOING HER A FAVOUR IN MARRYING HER AND NOT THE OTHER WAY ROUND!

If she can't deal with it, let her pack her things back to her father's house and stay there! Don't bring yourself down to go there and plead for her to come back!

A woman is more attracted to a man who has other women in competition with her and abhors the man who is clingy to her alone! When she sees there is no competition, she will kick you to the curb and go after that bad guy who she knows has numerous women flocking after him.

As foolish as they are, their quest is to WIN THE PLAYBOY'S HEART TOTALLY but ignore you WHOSE HEART HAS TOTALLY BEEN WON AND MAKES YOU COMPLETELY USELESS TO HER!

Many men be looking radiant before their union with women all in the name of marriage and all of a sudden, they start taking semblance to a disheveled cockerel suffering from feather-loss! It is because you allowed yourself to look and be that way! Get yourself girlfriends and let your wife know that you have them in abundance! In that way, you will keep her on her toes.

If she is the toxic type you feel can go lethal because of your escapades like Maryam Sanda, kick her out of your house and file a petition and restraining order stating that if anything happens to you, she should be held accountable for it. Do a DNA test on your children and if they are yours, take care of them by providing their basic and fundamental needs so they won't forget you.

If she is the one who has custody of the kids, share the responsibility of caregiving between you and her. It is either she pays for their school fees and you provide for their feeding and wardrobe or the other way round.

You can accomplish this by opening a something like a "Kids Savings Account" with the names of the children where cash remitted for their personal use will accounted for with relevant documentation which you will show to them later on in life! This is to counter any damaging lies she will tell your kids about you abandoning them and not taking care of them! Remember, women are very trecherous beings!!

I Decryptor is a typical example...i have 2 children from 2 different ladies (a boy and a girl) and they come to visit me during the holidays. I opened a Kiddies account where monies for their fees is sent to their mothers' account with the statements clearly documented. I have a lawyer whom is on standby to show them every documentation on every dime i spent on them from their birth till if (God forbid) anything should happen to me before they both turn 18!

When they are 18, the accounts will be changed to a normal savings account but not until i sit them down to have a rundown of all the figures spent during their childhood! I still have further plans for the both of them which i will not want to enumerate here for personal reasons and in order not to give away my identity.

The mother of one is married to another man whom she has some kids for. One day when she brought my child during their mid-term break, she made advances at me and was proposing sex! A request i turned down.

You can imagine if i accepted to sleep with her and maybe she conceives, she'll take it home for her husband to "topup" and 9 months later, he will be beaming with smiles that "his loyal wife" has given him another child!

Both women even though not living with me see me as a demi-god because of how i decided to carry myself as a man. I chose never to get married and my kids are my priority. Marriage to me is never a union between a man and a woman but an emotional enslavement of a man to a woman!

These women don't love you! They only want you to help them achieve the highest societal strata a woman can achieve by bearing the title "Mrs" and you as the man is the only one who can help them climb up that ladder. After that, they'll continue their whoring activities unabated!

You reading this, if you aren't married, i am not asking you to take the decisions i took as it is a matter of choice...but know your place in a woman life!
Place higher value on yourself before you place value on a woman!

Sex these days is cheap and you can get it if you have the right verbal slurs and the right amount in cash or kind.

LOVE YOURSELF and LIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE FULLEST and don't allow any woman to take you to eternal demise like Tunde Gentle!

Always remember, "Good Guys finish last"!

koyyes:
People are pained because of this woman.

When you open your dirty mouth and glorify the African culture of adultery, these are the kind of women you glorify indirectly so why are you all making dirty noise?

This is just the beginning.

This old hag again? So you are still alive!

Ewu!!

ThisCouldBeUs:
Remembering the fool who was following a lady about in last year's BBN. The idiott forgot his purpose of going to the show. Folishness starts there. So, you're telling me that the idiottt who committed suicide hadn't been seeing traces of his wife's infidelity? You just allowed a lady waste your life.

I swear! Tunde Thomas althogh dead deserves a post-humous award of one of the biggest SIMPS of the century!

You are black like burnt amala and your wife was giving you kids that look like Shuwa Arabs and you didn't notice but were flaunting the kids until she ran off with them?

The guy na complete Ode!

thebosstrevor1:
Nonsense comment.

You want people to do dna test without thinking about data protection.

Nigerian dna market is unregulated.when you give your dna to companies, they have control over you.

Can you just listen to yourself? You sound stupid!