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CrimeRe: Soldiers Beat Driver To Death In Calabar; Passengers Didn’t Wear Face Masks by decub: 2:52pm On Apr 08, 2020
Corona Virus has killed 6 Nigerians, Security officers have killed half of that number trying to enforce policies as a result of the pandemic. That is: if this story is true.
HealthRe: Breakthrough As Scientists Discover A Drug That Can Kill Covid 19 In 48hrs by decub: 6:36pm On Apr 04, 2020
evanso6226:
An anti-parasitic head lice drug available around the world has been found to kill COVID-19 in the lab within 48 hours.

A Monash University-led study has shown a single dose of the drug Ivermectin could stop the SARS-CoV-2 virus growing in cell culture.

'We found that even a single dose could essentially remove all viral RNA (effectively removed all genetic material of the virus) by 48 hours and that even at 24 hours there was a really significant reduction in it,' Monash Biomedicine Discovery Institute's Dr Kylie Wagstaff said on Friday.

While it's not known how Ivermectin works on the virus, the drug likely stops the virus dampening the host cells' ability to clear it.

The next step is for scientists to determine the correct human dosage, to make sure the level used in vitro is safe for humans.

'In times when we're having a global pandemic and there isn't an approved treatment, if we had a compound that was already available around the world then that might help people sooner,' Dr Wagstaff said.

'Realistically it's going to be a while before a vaccine is broadly available.'


Scientists expect it could be at least a month before human trials.

Before Ivermectin can be used to combat coronavirus, funding is needed to get it to pre-clinical testing and clinical trials.

Ivermectin is an FDA-approved anti-parasitic drug also shown to be effective in vitro against viruses including HIV, dengue and influenza.

The study is the joint work of Monash Biomedicine Discovery Institute and the Peter Doherty Institute of Infection and Immunity.



https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8186287/Monash-University-scientists-anti-parasite-Ivermectin-kill-COVID-19-cells-two-days.html
Funding won't be a problem if they can convince the world of its effectiveness and lesser risks in humans.
CrimeRe: Lockdown: Warri Protesters Mob Soldiers, Try To Set Them Ablaze For Killing Man by decub: 6:04pm On Apr 02, 2020
Awodip:
Seeing is believing
Oga desist from this.

Pictures you shared happened sometime ago in Congo!
PoliticsRe: Akure Explosion Left Behind A Massive Impact Crater (Photos) by decub: 11:52am On Mar 28, 2020
Explorers:
Is it possible for a bomb to leave such a huge crater after detonating right on a grounded truck.

To me, this impact looks like a drone strike or a bomb or something dropped from above hitting the ground at around 100km/hr.
I don't think it's impossible as there are other factors that could increase the impact below the natural ground level, hence, the crater.

The explosive device could be a rocket launcher type already assembled and sloping downward at the time of explosion.

It may have also uprooted a structure to create such crater.

I also feel a very loose soil type will create a higher impact.

Just thinking...
CrimeRe: Tenant Catches Landlord With Wife In Bed In Osun, Kills Him Instantly by decub: 5:05pm On Mar 27, 2020
Sad when you toil to take care of your family and she stabs you behind. But 2 wrongs don't make a right.
TravelRe: Ecuador: Police Block Runway With Cars To Prevent Plane From Landing by decub: 6:42am On Mar 21, 2020
trutht828:
A good pilot will still land successfully.
Na wa for you o!
SportsRe: Coronavirus: Boring Weekends Without Soccer by decub: 8:59pm On Mar 14, 2020
emeijeh:
No one imagined football being paused anytime in this 21st century.

The world was caught unawares, no thanks to the outbreak of the Covid-19 virus.

Weekends will look so boring henceforth, and DSTV has not even made plans on how to compensate us the non (UltimateLove and BBN) fans.

China! What have you done ? huh
Like seriously, Saturday no gree finish again.

What a long weekend!
Foreign AffairsRe: Donald Trump In Brazil by decub: 4:19pm On Mar 13, 2020
I have this feeling both Trump and Trudeau have contracted this virus.

Very soon, we will hear the true story about the virus.
PoliticsRe: Generator Ban Bill: Femi Fani-Kayode Blasts Bima Enagi by decub: 11:29am On Mar 12, 2020
madridguy:
FFK is a certified mad dog no be today.

A reasonable Nigerian will understand the fact that the more generator companies we have in Nigeria the more our power sector will remain jagajaga. Marapco, Jabaili brothers, Mikano to mention few were brought into the country by the cabal killing our power sector.

FYI, Once you dey area with steady power supply, immediately one filling station enter the area, forget the rest na suffer because they will bribe NEPA official to stop giving you steady light for dem to dey sell.

I stand with the senator.
While I don't support FFK for such unprofessional act, I also think certain things are practically impossible and your take on the argument is no exception.

Nigeria, and by extension, some other countries have built their daily activities around power which in our case, is unstable.

If a ban on the importation, sale and use of generators is placed, believe me, it will cripple the economy and the ripple effect will go on until the ban is lifted. We are not yet ripe for such policy/decision, not now, not anytime soon
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Liverpool Vs Atletico Madrid : UCL (2 - 3) On 11th March 2020 by decub: 8:06pm On Mar 11, 2020
maynation:
Correct score 2-0.

Thank me later.
Tho impossibility doesn't exist, it's pretty difficult for ATM to concede 2 goals without a reply. Livpl needs some stroke of luck to qualify.
SportsRe: Martial Shares Brutal Injury Pictures After Man Utd Win Vs Man City by decub: 11:33am On Mar 09, 2020
motionarena:
This small injury we dey flex when we dey olay monkey post you dey call brutal huh huh
I tire o.

Wetin we go just pour sand on top, begin play our ball ni.

They for carry am fatal if na monkey yansh e get.
CrimeRe: My Experience With A Stolen Rx330 Lexus by decub: 5:43pm On Mar 06, 2020
southniyikaye:
A guy opened a thread about ladipo boys selling stolen vehicle parts https://www.nairaland.com/5720382/ladipo-market-traders-aid-us and this made me remember my ordeal some years ago I think 2014/2015.

I was a site manager with a construction firm, DELABAS construction.

For those who knows mushin very well, this site is close to mushin last bus stop, adjacent FCMB agege motor road mushin, very close to ladipo madket. There is this brand new lexus rx330 from the look of things, it was bought brand new and from the way I looked at it, maybe 4-5months used. It was parked at the front of our site but I didn't notice on time. It was there for like 3days,but my believe was that maybe the owner just come there and park it everyday very early before I get to site though even when I close from site, I still leave it there.

On the third day, the woman selling paraga beside the site called my attention to it that the key is at the keyhole and the car hasn't moved for the past three days. Some ladipo boys were there to drink so two of them came close to me and said engineer, shey u Sabi drive? I said yes, if u fit carry this motor come ladipo, na 2million you go collect.

Now this is the issue, at the back of our site is olosan police station, before u get to ladipo, there is another police station before bally white hotels,

I thought about it seriously and I decided to go inform them at olosan police station and when the police came, I was even the one that drove the car to the police station.

Two days later, I got to know the suv belong to the chairman of bluegate ups, he was robbed and the driver was killed, they used the vehicle as a getaway and coincidentally parked it at the front of our site.

I heard the man gave the policemen about 100k dem no share me Sha but anytime dey see me, they always hail me and it gave me some leverage in, mushin.

Now twist, what if I agree with the ladipo guys and the car is being tracked or police just stopped me on my way to ladipo, what will I tell them?

Below is the picture of the site back then when it was under construction.
When u look closely u will see the FCMB bank.
You get mind bro. Go report to Nigerian Police and they say make you come drive, you still enter drive.

If you can't tow it to your station, leave it there; I can't drive.
BusinessRe: How First Bank Did not pay us for designing 125th Year Logo(read FBN's reply) by decub: 9:15am On Mar 06, 2020
xtremecr8:
Very intelligent question. We are their vendor and this is the tricky part of the treachery. When we finished, while we are still on the discussion of our Bill, Fbn through Mrs Folake Ani-Mumuney requested us to produce small sample of about 100 ipad covers with the logo. We did to the best of our ability.
What we found strange until now is how Mrs Mumuney believe that the vendor job of supplying iPad covers we printed same logo we designed for them gives her and the bank a licence to use our intellectual property and then when we reminded them of our Bill, she refered us to legal. We have a reason to suspect it is a scheme from the onset to cheat us as a small brand.
Your reply on watermark got me.

Are you sure there were no hidden terms on this contract?

I'm thinking they may have played a smart one on you through their terms and/or business policy which you ignorantly may have accepted.

From all indications, Mrs Mumuney's audacity shows she's got some spelt out terms you may not have understood before you took the job and it will take a legal team to interpret it to you in clear terms.

If I may ask, were you paid for this 100 iPad covers? If yes, then you really need to see their legal team before acting further, lest, the hunter becomes the hunted.
HealthRe: Coronavirus: US Testing Maurice Iwu’s Drug - Ogbonanya Onu by decub: 6:59pm On Mar 05, 2020
chatinent:
The US will reject it until the invention hails from their grounds.
Nice observation. But why take it to the States when he can work with Pharmacists here to determine the efficacy?
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Derby County Vs Manchester United. FA CUP: (0 - 3) On 5th March 2020 by decub: 6:40pm On Mar 05, 2020
enemyofprogress:
Please what channel can i wash the March
Channel 32 on GOTV
HealthRe: Medical Doctor In Police Net Over Placenta by decub:
pmoye:
We should avoid jumping to conclusions.

First and foremost, it is difficult to believe that a medical doctor that has attained to the level of having a private clinic would need a placenta for anything... How much would the sale of placenta would have fetched a medical doctor that probably had charged between 150k and 200k for the surgery?

Secondly, child births in Nigeria are often an occasion for many people, friends and relatives to visit the woman who has just put to bed. Anyone of such visitors could have carried the placenta. In fact, the father of the newborn could have carried the placenta and he's now trying to save face.
Usually the moment the procedure is complete a nurse (not even the attending physician) will pack the placenta in a container and hand it over to the father of the newborn, or any other close family member. Unfortunately most hospitals don't keep record of such exchange and it may be difficult to exonerate themselves. Our doctors should start keeping accurate records of things like this to avoid useless things of this sort embarrassing them.

It appears Nigerians are always so eager to bash Medical Doctors, Lecturers, Pastors etc... in fact, anyone Nigerians feel is doing well, they try to take their frustration out on, as if the Doctors (etc) are the ones responsible for their miserable lives.

Don't bash our doctors, they are the very ones many of you seek to become. Stop the hate please.
These days, the nurse will give it to you in the presence of one of his/her colleagues and advise you on how to dispose it. Though your wife might be oblivious of activities around her then, they also do the hand-over in her presence.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Chelsea Vs Bayern Munich :UCL (0 - 3) On 25th February 2020 by decub: 9:14am On Feb 26, 2020
stanluiz:
Why is mount and Barkley starting this game sad
While Pedro and willian were sitting on the match

A big champions league match like Bayern that requires experience players. Lampard bench his two wingers and player immature and inexperience mount and Barkley. No wonder Chelsea did not push any attack on first half.

Lampard inexperience and sentiment toward non English players will kill Chelsea.
Despite not being a Chelsea fan, I felt that was a big flop on Lampard.

No matter how inconsistent an experienced player is, his presence can't be shadowed in big games.
FamilyRe: I Think My Wife Is A Witch by decub: 3:33pm On Feb 25, 2020
Handsomejok:
Before marrying my wife, my business was moving well. I had an appliances big shop with full of things. I made a lots of money monthly and was able to pay all my bills and take care of my single mother and siblings without fail.

Bbut since we got married, just two months and 5 days after our marriage, my shop caught fire. I have lost almost everything only managed to save some few things, had to pay for all the damages to my landlord (the shop owner ) I’m still owning him money and I’m now renting a small shop but things are not working.

I have so much debts to pay to so many people including my previous shop landlord, can’t afford a 3 square meals, can’t afford to pay house rent, can’t afford to pay my shop rent and we have moved to my parents house.

My wife is pregnant and due in April, we haven’t bought anything for the baby. I wish never met her in my life cos she has completely destroyed my life and I have nothing left. She is evil. Haven’t confronted her cos of her condition, don’t want to add more stress to her and am waiting for her to put to bed then I will confront her and chase her away. I will keep the baby with me so she can go with her child she had before we met. I just hate her so much and I want nothing to do with her anymore.

Please what do you suggest I do?
Your wife is not a witch, please don't brand her as one; not even in her condition.

From your words, it seems frustration is beginning to set in. Such is life and you are only passing through a trial time which is not strange. Same thing could have possibly happened even if you didn't get married to her.

In my dad's voice; always be ready to face the responsibility that comes with being a man because for some, the most trial times come when they are about to get married and/or when they are about giving birth to their first child...

I wish I could share some personal experience with you; if you can PM me.
RomanceRe: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by decub: 10:54am On Feb 24, 2020
Evercurious:
You re so right. But I bet you, the lady will never understand this.. If she.nor.her family members can't take care of the child, then give the child to his biological dad or find another way around it. Some other persons must not bear the consequences of her action and inactions
Hmm! I'm speechlessly speechless.
RomanceRe: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by decub: 9:10am On Feb 24, 2020
WilliamsTheGrea:
Hello everyone, my name is Williams, I'm a young guy of 26 years old currently engaged to a very pretty young lady who is 24 years old

I do business online and earn good income before I decided to find a lady and settle down with and luckily I found a good one who is decent and don't flirt around or do social media's like whatsapp or Facebook. Hardly receives calls, not friendly with males lol (I managed to woo her through a church member)

We have been 1 year into the relationship now and we are to get married next month but guys the problem I am having now is that she has a child for another man which is her ex she was with when she was young she gave birth at age 20, we dated for about 7 months before she told me this.

Ever since then I haven't really been myself, the child is a male child who lives with her mother but recently the mother called her to come carry the child as she can no longer look after him due to him being a very stubborn boy, the child is 4 years old.

Now she has gone to bring the child to our home, a two bedroom apartment, I'm a kind of guy who loves peaceful environment with no single drop of noise, now ever since the child came in about a week now, I have not had peace, we have quarreled several times because of the child, I'm not really comfortable with the child because I can't love another man's child as my own

My girlfriend is yet to give me a child of my own, the child runs around and doesn't listen except when beaten and each time I beat the boy up when he does wrong my girlfriend looks at me with hatred like I'm maltreating the boy because I'm not the father.

Please guys help me I don't know what to do but I can't cope with the child, I remember paying the child school fees about 3 times since we are together because the child's father isn't doing anything at all.

Now today is the child's birthday and she is asking me for money to get him cake and take him out.


My people of nairaland I cannot accept another man's child no matter what I love the mother but not the child the connection is just now there because the boy isn't of my character I'm a calm man, very calm but the boy is very radical and stubborn children irritate me so much.

I don't know what to do.

Each time this child topic comes up between I and my girlfriend she becomes bitter.

She says she will never take the child to the father or the family of the father that she must raise the child herself.

I don't think I can help train anothrr man child whom in the end will go and find his father after he is all grown.

Please I need advice, she says over her death body will she return the child to the father

I'm not comfortable in my own home.

A lot of things running through my mind like to break up with her for peace to reign

Or rent another apartment for her and the boy to go live in.

Please I need matured advice
What I admire about your post is your sincerity when you said you can't look after another man's child. Well, it's your choice.

If I may ask, do you really love this girl and do you also think she loves you too? If yes, then there's absolutely nothing wrong in loving another man's child and taking care of him especially when you love his mother; he's only an innocent child. You bring in another round of blessing when that child takes you as his father.

However, you really need to sit this lady down and talk sense into her cos if she can't allow you train that child like you would train your own child, then it's better both of you part ways now that there's still time. Personally, I detest when you bring in a child to my home and in a bid to give him the best and what I feel is morally right, you turn around to play the emotional blackmail card.
FamilyRe: What My Fiancee Said Is Bothering Me by decub:
Walai, fear don grip my guy. She only threatened and you are already shivering. What if she was gazing at you and wiggling her legs at the same time. Na die be d@!

There are better ways to discipline a woman.
FamilyRe: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by decub: 10:17am On Feb 18, 2020
Ouchbabe:
Pls my fellow Nairalanders, I have been married for 8years now. My husband is nice and caring but I don't like the fact that he likes moving at night. He comes home as late as 12am.
He is currently looking for a job now and most times his reason for coming home late is because he is hanging out with friends. I have discussed this issue with him severally and expressed that I don't like his night movement. On such occasions he will promise not to come home late but the promise is never kept. I have told him the dangers of moving late in a city like Lagos.
The annoying part is that he is not coming home late from work rather because he i s with friends. Most times our young children will stay up late hoping to see him before going to bed but they will wait in vain as he will not be home before they will sleep off.
Note: Even though I'm working, I make sure the house is clean and food ready before he comes home. I don't nag and I'm good looking.
Pls I need suggestions on how to make him stop this night waka.
Please move to front page for wider view
From what I've noticed among friends and colleagues, night crawlers seldom change, they prefer being nocturnal. I know someone who would never lift a finger to work until 5-6PM; and will stay till 10PM. Thereafter, he hits the bar to wind down and closes with the bartender.

However, the difference here is that he doesn't have a job yet. Well, making out with friends could be giving him some relief of not having a job while he keeps searching...but watch it!
CelebritiesRe: Tboss Weeps, Curses Troll 'MsHafsat' Who Said Her Daughter Is Ugly by decub: 7:14am On Feb 17, 2020
Charleys:
How does someone video herself crying. I don't understand
And post on social media... As in eh!
RomanceRe: Valentine Gift Ideas For Your Real Naija Babe by decub:
Can you suggest an online shop where one can get some good roses and chocolate to send out as Val gifts? The shop would do the delivery too.

NikkyIvy:
DO YOU WANT TO KNOW HOW TO KEEP HER GLUED TO YOUR SIDE FOREVER? THEN READ ON...

Gifts! Everyone loves a little package. Even the good book encourages us to give more so as to receive more. For some people, there is more joy in giving than in receiving. For most ladies, receiving gifts at any time is sheer bliss. These ladies do not see it as being selfish or Nigerian, in fact, receiving wrapped packages are part of the wooing process and a sure way of showing appreciation for what they go through for their men...clearing my throat

Guess you are wondering why I should be discussing this topic, besides gifts are personal, right? Well, I love sharing gifts with friends and I have seen and experienced first hand the whole man and woman drama,SORRY RELATIONSHIP, so I know how hard it is to go in search of a gift item that would not be frowned at or dumped in the trash can, a gift that would tell volumes about the depth of your feelings and the energy you exerted while rigorously searching for and finally acquiring it, a gift that would be cherished years after you had either moved on with your lives or moved in together.

I have assisted many friends with the ritual of picking out amazing gifts for major events so I know it is usually an uphill task especially if the parties have been together for a long time and have run out of options.

Many authors have tried to propose gift items that they termed AWESOME for ladies. They did not only end up confusing our sincere Naija brothers, but succeeded in making us (Naija Ladies) accept and pretend to love gifts we detest just so that the very fragile ego of our men would not be damaged. That was how most of us started imitating the exclamations of our oyinbo sisters who would genuinely Awwwwww whenever they received lovely red Roses on a special day.

Anyway, since Roses no de grow for Naija and oyinbo no de pound fufu, I decided to find out what real Naija ladies want from our men. So, sweat no more my brothers for your key to understanding what gift your woman desires is here at last... I just love that sentence. Okay, moving on...

Recently, I had chats with various young, beautiful, brilliant and Real Naija ladies.They were very eager to open up to me and the result I gathered was definitely very revealing. After weeks of taking my time to collate my data, during which most of you grumbled and steamed...hehehe!! I eventually reached an exhilarating conclusion.

My brother, if you genuinely want to know the kind of gift that would make your real Naija heart throb melt all over you like an ice cream in the hot sun, then it’s time for you to learn what your lady NEEDS from you...

Read on [url]nikkyivyblog..com[/url]
CrimeRe: Eric Igbedion Agboegbulem Died After Sex With Prostitute Precious -Freda Okarevu by decub: 7:39am On Feb 11, 2020
Kallmerb:
Nothing kills a man like what a woman offers
In my own words. A man weh dey do pass himself just dey dig him own grave.
AutosRe: Please Where And Which Car Can I Get For 200k by decub: 9:15am On Feb 07, 2020
DAYOODS:
Is it possible for me to get a good car with good engine for 200k in Nigeria.
Trekking don do u strong thing?
CrimeRe: A Neighbor's Experience With Robbers Sometime Last Month. by decub: 2:43pm On Feb 06, 2020
He was behind a Lexus jeep when the robbers decided to attack the Lexus, immediately the man in the Lexus saw the robbers, he quickly activated fast and furious mode, he reversed and wanted to return back, but this robbers happened to be very impatient, they got his tyres flat and caught up with him, approach him and told him that the money he doesn't want to give them will be used for his burial, he was shot dead immediately.
He was running for his dear life; out of fear.
TravelRe: Lagos: Narrate Your Trekking Experience This Morning by decub: 10:43am On Feb 04, 2020
wiseGD:
Yeah, I remember the 'local' parts of the state were still allowed keke/bike movement.

It's going to be tough for Lagosians, I agree, but it's going to be good in the short run... soon enough.
Only time will tell.
TravelRe: Lagos: Narrate Your Trekking Experience This Morning by decub: 8:21am On Feb 04, 2020
wiseGD:
To be frank, all these complaints are but for a while. How did you think people residing in states where this already took place felt when it was implemented?
There were VERY FEW buses, of course the prices of the buses you would see were hiked, you would stand under the sun for long minutes before seeing even one bus, other times you would be forced to TREK because you couldn't wait anymore for what seemed like forever.
It was so hard... even though it wasn't funny and there were a lot of complaints, we KNEW this was the SURE WAY to sanitize the state, to safeguard lives and have the environment look like human beings were indeed the inhabitants and not wild animals(with the way non buses were driving like no other human was on the roads except them, even pushing out pedestrians from their side of the walk.)
The trek was difficult but funny enough, good for the health!

But NOW? A breath of fresh air. You're happy to see sanity when you step into traffic. At least you can walk comfortably with no one pushing you into the gutter.
Soon enough EVERYONE will get used to it. More and more buses will come out till it's completely normal again.

So endure, good things don't come easy. You'll sweat it, but you'll enjoy the harvest.

Only hoping that Lagos will INDEED become sane after this, because Lagos?? Another place on earth entirely. LOL
Your last paragraph is the real deal.

For some cities I know where similar ban took place, it is not for bikes and tricycles at the same time.

It is not in the entire state. That of Lagos is practically the whole state considering the inter-LGA people ply on day to day basis.

Their population is not the same with Lagos.

Don't look at Lagos as capital of a state or a city in a state. You don't implement such policies across board when there are no palliatives. It simply won't yield positive results.
RomanceRe: About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help! by decub: 8:56am On Jan 29, 2020
Jeffmonti:
About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help!

This might turn out to be a lengthy read, please bear with me. The bashing and insults will be unnecessary as i have already told myself hurtful things a thousand times over.

So i am 29 and have a girlfriend who’s 25 we are both graduates; she’s a nurse and i am a practicing engineer and we’ve been dating for 3+ years now and preparations are underway to tie the knot this year God willing. Something happened last year, she suggested i move to a bigger apartment so that we can start buying household items and everything necessary to start a home as we are looking to get married soon which we did; i got a bigger place, met her parents she met mine. In a nutshell everything seems to be going well, we even started a business together and set to take on the future together before the devil struck (i take blames for my actions as i am not overly religious)

Around June last year, i met a girl (very fine girl) in the new area i moved to, although i have been seeing the girl around but one day as i was driving in i saw her hiding somewhere close to my compound avoiding the rain with her friends so i took them in until the rain subsided we exchanged contacts and started texting on WhatsApp a few days later. And soon after we started having sex (protected sex), prior to that time i never cheated on my girlfriend.

The sex continued, up to 2 times a week sometimes 3 as it was relatively easy as she lived very close and my girlfriend only visits on the weekend and never sleeps out (she’s from a very good and wealthy family with proper moral upbringing). Most evenings when return from work conji just do me one kind i don cross street other times she calls until we became comfortable having unprotected sex

So late October 2019, the new girl (I’ll call her Lola) texted me that’s she’s not feeling too well and i asked her to visit the hospital to run a test to know what to treat. She came back with a pregnancy test result proving she’s already 3 weeks pregnant, i was sure it was mine but i didn’t panic as she had a bf and i have my gf we were just for the sex at least that’s what we told each other.

So i asked her to remove the pregnancy, but got the shocker when she said she’s never going to remove the pregnancy that she’s 27 and have no desire to marry me or stay with me but she’s going to have the child. Omo my heart flipped. I begged her for like 3 weeks until she got mad and stopped taking my calls, she even moved away from her apartment. So i texted her and arranged a meeting, we sat down and discussed at length but she was still bent on keeping it, i got furious and told her i am not ready to be part of the child’s life if she’s going through with it as i see no reason why she wants to have my child when she knows we are NEVER going to be together, that was when she said she had already told her family that i am not interested in the child and they support her to keep it and let the child bear their family name. I discussed the matter with two friends a boy and a girl and the asked me to let her have the child first.

One month passed fast forward to early December, Lola called 6 times i was so shocked. I couldn’t take her calls. She texted that she’s ready to terminate the pregnancy since i am wicked and unconcerned she rained all manner of derogatory words but i was only concern with her decision to let go. I called and we agreed to meet the following day, I skipped work that day and met with her and her elder sister and elder sister’s friend. The sister and her friend were so mean but i was unmoved; i don already fuckup and ready to take anything to let it all go away because the knowledge of things will destroy my girlfriend.

So Lola entered my vehicle and we drove out, on our way to the hospital for her to terminate the pregnancy plus treatment she’ll take afterwards and for the damages i have caused her. She’s going to need 150k from me, i was furious and told her i don’t have that kind of money talk less of handing it over to her for something like this (i sure don’t know what i cost but i know it’s not up to 50k). She said if i don’t give her what she want she’s going to have the baby and that i should be thankful that she’s coming up with this that if she had listen to her friends advices she would have moved to my house with all sort of troubles (she was right) but i didn’t give in just yet. I dropped her off and ask her to have the child that am not going to give her the money as i don’t have it (I get the money sha).

So two days passed, she called again and after many arguments we agreed at 100k, made her to sign a NDA not to bother me again and all, I transferred her the 100k that night, she confirmed receipt and promised to go with it the following morning and that was the last I have heard or seen or her since then, until 3 weeks ago when another of her sister called from Canada and was asking if i am Me, that she’s been seeking my contact for a while now that Lola friend had to steal the number Lola’s phone and pass it to her as Lola has been hiding my phone number from the rest of the family and she doesn’t know the arrangement i have had with her but i should know that she’s having the child, she just thought i should know that i have a child somewhere when the baby eventually drops.

Knowing fully well that i am a shitty person to have done something terrible to myself and my girlfriend and all our future plans because of cheap sex, but I’ll be a more terribly bad person to have knowledge of a child somewhere and not be in his/her life. I called Lola but she didn’t take i texted her about her sisters call she called back to know who called and was furious, she ended the call (I guess to call her sister back) and called back again in about 20mins and asked me not to ever call her line again. I replied her text she should tell her family not call me as well. I have dodged to her apartment building a coupe times but she’s not been around for weeks as i was made to believe.

So i bought a ring to engage my girl few weeks ago but had to hold first to see how things play out, i can’t go ahead and marry my girlfriend with this kind of secret untold; that will be wickedness from the pit of hell and i still don’t know how to break it to her, it will destroy her.

I jokingly painted a similar scenery to my girlfriend; her response was: she will not marry me because if she does she will kill me in my sleep. That everybody is expecting us to get married this year, she now have high respect from her family because of me and this kind of thing happens both of us will die. Omo fear catch me.

Fellow Nairalanders, this is my predicament please advice a stupid brother. Insults are welcome as I hope to pick a thing or two from your comments. MODs please push this up biko.
You might need to open up to your girlfriend but just not yet. Or at least, till you get convincing answers to the below questions:

Are you 100% sure Lola is pregnant?

Have you tried gathering intel on her and do a more in-depth investigation?

Was she in a platonic relationship with her boyfriend?

I don't know why you are so sure that she is pregnant and you are responsible but for much I think, she might be seeing you as somewhat comfortable at your age and with potentials so she might want to pull a "marry me or pay damages" trick on you and you are already falling for it.

Forget those friends and family thing arrangement. Even the babe that called from Canada could just be a friend or friend of friend.

If you find out that these were cheap blackmail, then there's no point breaking your GF's heart. Just count it as one of those times you bleeped up and narrowly escaped lifetime damage. Then forgive yourself and love your girlfriend even more.

Las Las, konji na bastard!
EducationRe: Francis Otunta Accused Of impregnating Girlfriend & Graduating Her In 3rd Year by decub: 10:13am On Jan 28, 2020
ChilamNk:
That of 2017 is not a new story. I graduated from the said school. The couple is said to have had child bearing issues.
But to have impregnated another girl now as alleged is not a good one!
I'm beginning to think this impregnating a girl allegation is false.

While he was in Akanu Ibiam, same rumour filled the whole school.

In 2017, same thing, now again, same story.

In as much as I don't see him as a saint, I know his disciplinary act would make him enemies.

The Otunta I know's got a very thick skin and would shake off these allegations.

I hope the man has the balls to defend these cos Prof is one of the smartest statisticians I've ever met.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Manchester City Vs Fulham : FA Cup (4 - 0) On 26th January 2020 by decub: 2:23pm On Jan 26, 2020
2-0
Fulham captain killed the game.

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