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I guess there are better ways to reprimand a 14 year girl than slapping or abusing her.

asemota2012: The brother inlaw is an irresponsible human being,he has no respect for neither his brother nor his wife,one day someone will beat up his wife also
so that he will have a feel of what it looks like.
Then the husband to the beaten woman should sepatate his immediate family(wife and kids) from his other family,cos he is part of the cauae of this nonesense.lastly,that stupid brother inlaw should be banned/stopped outrigthly from entering his house henceforth.

Nobody will beat up the brother-in-law’s wife as long as she did not slap another couples’ daughter.

Lexoria: I have been in a situation where my hubby's elder brother told me to leave their house or he'd slap me.My hubby got up,rushed to him and told him to try it and see what he can do,he built d house and no one can send his wife out of it but him.
For people talking about child abuse,its obvious most of u will produce citizens who like their western counter-parts will tell their parents to shut up,beat them up and/or disrecpect them openly.
I will spank,discipline and punish my kids until they are 17 and/or are no longer my responsibility.And by God's grace,they'll be good ciizens of the world,respectful,responsible,God-fearing,hardworking and sensible.

As for the slapping brother inlaw.He is lucky the woman doesn't have a brother like mine cos my brother won't take any man beating his sisters and he states it clearly to any intending husband-to-be or boyfriend of his sisters.

Its an insult on a man for another man to lay his hand on his wife,the disrespecting man would jus have told him indirectly that he's a weakling and can't do nothing

I guess your brother equally informed you not to slap your husband relatives. Who cares if you slap your kids blue and red?

freecocoa: What are you people saying abeg? In which Nigerian custom is it not allowed to discipline a kid living with you,in-law or not? If the woman inflicted injuries or beat the child beyond what is ordinary would have been another case,but from what i garner from this story is that its just the normal spanking a mother would do to her child,na wa o.

You are sounding like a wicked woman. If you slap my daughter, which is a child abuse, you will be kicked. Thank goodness you remembered it is normal spanking a mother gives to a daughter. However from the story, the madam is not the mother of the teenage girl. Please do not slap any relative of your husband living with you.

When divorce shows face, the wife and her relatives would want to send the husband to his forbearers. But the brother and niece of the husband will always stand behind him. So with this in mind, wife should be extremely careful when dealing with family issues as they relate to husband’s family.

Ujujoan: What the hell are you talking about

Reporting a 14-yr old who lives with you to her parents When you can give her one back-hand slap on the spot.

The in-laws were very very wrong to attack the woman just because she disciplined their kid.

But I think there must have been some other issues. How can a man slap his daughter in law just because she disciplined her daughter? I'm still shocked!

If the hat fits the head, just wear it. It is all in the name of discipline. The man discipline the madam as she discipline the teenage 14 year old girl.

It is very scary to note that few Nigerians are inhumanly and ignorantly gullible. Yet they will be the first to denigrate people who tend to have socio-political views different from theirs. It is asinine to hear people associate Imo State and palm oil production with Rochas Okorocha.

One wonders if the people are talking about the same Rochas Okorocha who had allegedly sold Adapalm to Roche Group. It must be recalled that Adapalm and ITC were the only two profit-making parastatals in Imo State yet Rochas Okorocha has allegedly sold them to companies fronting for him.

taryour: what kinda brain does that man have in his skull i think that woman who was slapped husband too should go and give his elder brothers wife repeated slaps too. That way the man will no what it feels like ant there wunt be any need to resolve any issues. Since they held him back in oder th fight his elder brother......

The man who slapped the madam had thinking brain in his skull. He should not only slap the madam but also report the madam to the authorities for child abuse.

The issue of call the police, report to the authority, hire tug or the man does not beat a woman is the school of thought that constituted one of the major reasons Africans found themselves in socio-politico-economic dire strait. Most of the times, few Africans tend to jump line into blindside of European view in order to achieve their skewed ends without logical or cultural examination of the fact.

The usual suspects on this thread are all on the high side of the madam and yelling or inquiring why madam did not call police or hire thugs or report to the authority. However, they foolishly forgot the angle of the incident which calls for “child abuse” on the part of the madam. If we have to go European, the madam should not have put her fifty hands on a minor in the first instance.

If the teenage girl living with her uncle is misbehaving, the madam should have called the attention of her husband to issue instead of beating the girl. If she had allowed her husband to handle the issue or discipline the girl, the dictate of our culture would not have called for swift reprisal.

The real estate known as Nigeria will not see a fundamental development without splitting. It is unfortunate most Nigerians consider the building of structures with concrete and iron bars as development. The rigid cultural (religion and tradition) differences among Nigerians will not allow for the free flow of processes, procedures and policies.

There are no bases for unity and camaraderie within present configuration of Nigeria hence lack of patriotic lust for the nation. Recenttly, few Nigerians met their untimely death on the street of New York City yet the representative of Nigerian government in the city remained nonchalant clearly induced by religion. One wonders the essence of the Nigerian government and the need to have a representative in New York.

The staffs of USA’s embassy will raise hell if a mere vacationer of USA citizen is molested onboard a foreign airliner.

@Malawian

You are wasting your precious time attempting to engage the imbecilic knucklehead in a logical debate.

[quote author=ndu_chucks]The same group screaming that they have no tangible role in the governance of our country, who cry marginalization e.t.c. and who want to rule Nigeria, are posturing to fold their arms when Nigeria decides to deal with the SS thugs and terrorists, millitarily. Once Nigeria obtains victory, these same people will come back and complain that no biafran has ever become the President of Nigeria. SMH[/quote]The post above seems to come from a person who holds the wrong end of historical facts.

I do not think Imo State people elected this ceremonial clown as a governor to create another tier of government beneath LG. There is already a royal council of Ndi Eze in Imo State. He should stop creating avenue of embezzlement through his childish and delusional actions.

The dude is is moronic joker. He lived almost his entire life in Jos, Plateau State and never planted any tree in his village talk less of Oil Palm tree.

Ngodigha1: Sleep well ooh1. When you wake up, consider looking into the hardship yorubas face currently, from mental illness to alarming poverty ravaging yorugbaland today for example

I did not know you are daringly wicked especially with the picture in your post.

CyberG: It is extremely idiotic of you to mention my father who would have you buried alive in the presence of a 3 M people and there's NOTHING you will do about it! And people say you are a pa? What a useless lying old bald man! Oh and his rank? You will be drooling if you knew and his ADCs bitc.h-slap useless nonentities like you until I tell them either kill him or leave him...LOL. By the way, the weapons we played with were from the guards and yes, idiots like you never had such privileges in your fuc.ked up life.

Didn't want to distract the thread but will not let a nonentity mention my dad with his putrid mouth. Back to topic, I responded to the two posters who did not understand the import of this thread. For you, you are only trying to pretend like you don't know. Read those posts and return here with an appropriate defense. Tell me WHY!?

The above post is a typical crap from drooling Nigerian dingbat. What an idiotic and loudmouthed numbskull that thinks everybody on this forum lives in the same earth hole as you do. From your first post, especially where you claimed to have toyed with 1911, to the above one with your ADC crap, a canteen rat could easily deduce you are a putrid-mouthed fool who do not understand an iota of military parlance. Any toad from a military family will understand the consequences of any dereliction on OPORD.

It is nice to see a jackass such as you flaunt innate ignorance on this forum. I guess laud mouthing is definitely inherent strait found among certain people in Nigeria. I shall not positively contribute to the process that will get dullard such as wiser by providing answers to your silly question.

It is unfortunate abandon property saga was only instituted in the defunct eastern Nigeria and Port Harcourt to be precise. The issue was planted as seed of discontent among the close-related neighbors. I do not blame Gowon and his cohorts from northern, western and mid-western region but those easterners who joined forces to perpetuate such inhuman treatment. Ndigbo shall never forget!!!

The abandon property is akin to the knife scare on human palm which will always remind the carrier the source of the scare.

Edwin Kiagbodo Clark was as relevant as church rat before Gowon picked him up as a tribal tool.

CyberG: This is a real question and I want to get the perspective of NLanders. Every time, Ibo claims that they were betrayed when there's no proof of such but just Goebbelian propaganda they heard. However, when Yoruba soldier like Lt. Col. Victor Banjo, a competent soldier in all ramifications, decided to lead the so called Baifara expeditionary force, Ibo don't shout betrayal, WHY?? I love and respect every part of Nigeria and yes, I have been everywhere with my ibo chics but I just want to know! Please no bashing and let us learn together!

As in... [size=30pt]WHY??[/size]

Cyberfool

I thought you were a competent fool. Above post had proven you are irredeemably foolish. Are you not the same jackass who claimed your NCO father allowed you to play with 1911 when you were 7-year old? I guess you will be toddler forever. When field commander derelicts on duty and such actions led to the loss of opportunity, materials or lives while the commander is leading a military offensive, the officer will be shot.

Obiagu1: Often times, we blame Sir Frederick Lugard for causing the problem in Nigeria by amalgamating Protectorate of Northern Nigeria with Colony and Protectorate of Southern Nigeria in 1914 but that was not actually the root of the problem. The root of the problem dates back a few years in 1906 when Colony of Lagos was amalgamated with Protectorate of Southern Nigeria by Sir Walter Egerton to form the infamous Colony and Protectorate of Southern Nigeria.

Before this infamous amalgamation in 1906, the present SE and SS (including Edo) had nothing to do with the SW. It was Sir Walter Egerton that started using the resources of the Protectorate of Southern Nigeria to develop Yoruba land after he moved the capital from Calabar to Lagos in the same year. The once booming Southern Nigeria or call it Niger Coast Protectorate started losing its steam.

So Sir Frederick Lugard was not the problem. Sir Walter Egerton caused our problem and we will revert it.

Bros, are you not the person who claimed my statements against goofy Asari Dokubo’s moronic assertion that the capital of Southern Protectorate was moved from Calabar to Enugu were wrong?

Anyway, I had to applaud you for engaging in exploratory research after our disagreement. In my book, administrative headquarter does not equate capital city.

[quote author=deal_ordea]Mr biafra!!! May I have the honour to time travel you back to the old age of late 90s when the whole igbo's were still wrestling for a tuber of yam in your village square!! These particular I was using the internet wisely in lagos around 1998 and you and your so called biafra's warlord were still learning the basic of business face-face!!! Now let's fastforward back to the new century were a lot of dummy like you use google to search written propaganda to fool a lot of your fellow tribe...

I want you to imagine how far I must have gone with the internet before you could even think of the using the computer!!! Now very soon, another igbo man will come on NL to spout some fagabon talk that igbo man was the first in human race to land on the moon!! These is not aba get that scum head...

Did I hear say yoruba were not insignificant contender for democracy!! Who fought the new democracy your new gay generation enjoy, it was we Yoruba and were was ojukwu when the likes of diya and papa abraham adesanya were fighting tug of war with northerner!! Your moronic igbo's were no were to be found.. May sango strike ur warlord in grave[/quote]I can not simply believe what I just read. In one instance, Yoruba will contend that Nigeria was foisted on them by Azikiwe, in another instance they won Nigeria/Biafra civil war and yet in another instance Yoruba brought democracy in Nigeria. For sake of posterity, Nigeria practiced democratic system of government right from October 1, 1960 until it was truncated by the military.

Now, Mr. Internet, if it is true you were still in Lagos or Ibadan or Osogbo in 1998, you are a big loser of basement stratum.

sleekdot: So the contention is who won the war?

So you know its Ibos that Lost the war fine.

Now tell us any war in History where you were sole winners, Joint winners or even ended in a draw/stalemate.

Cos it seems from the days of your ancestors you have always been whipping boys for everyone.

In case you dont know this is Dayokanu

If your level of intellect allows you to make such deduction, you can live with it. However, it is inherently moronic to conclude that the Biafra equates Igbo and Nigeria that won the civil war equates Yoruba.

Dayolodo, you simply can not disappoint.

sleekdot: Bros can you tell us who lost the war since you dont know the winner

The issue has never been centered on who lost the war but who won it for Nigeria. I guess there are many contenders to the feat.

Nigerian national anthem is damn noisy and meaningless.

Goddess12: Wrong Yoruba will fight to keep part of SS, but SE no way

I can not curtail the rate of my amusement when I read about threats from inherently loudmouthed punks. Anyway, I place the blame of this foolish posturing on the shoulders of their elders who were bent on telling Juju music tales.

Any group of people who lost section of Niger State, the whole Kwara State, sections of Kogi State and almost Ogbomosho and Osogbo when they go into battle alone without help from the outsiders should apply restraint when talking about war.

[quote author=deal_ordea]Chairman... We all know you live a life of historian who never witness what happen but can't help to spout out the bogus your read in the books written by your village square master... Just accept that Yoruba won the war for naija and yoruba won the democracy which you igbo gay enjoy till date..[/quote]I guess you did not honestly expect me to join issues with you about who won the civil war for Naija? If there is a dispute as to who won Nigeria/Biafra civil war for Nigeria, Yoruba have many major contenders to such feat.

As for the war of democracy in Nigeria or lack thereof, Yoruba are considererd as insignificant contenders.

dayokanu: Can you just tell us one brave Igbo man instead of ranting back and forth

like Gani, like Wole, like Tai Solarin, like Fela

Any Igbo person who constituted him or herself into public nuisance and engage in any form of public disturbance such Fela, Gani and Solarin should be flogged by his or her kinsmen.

kingoflag: Maybe if you wrote a little "clearer" then I'd understand. Plus, since your known to display innate hate for the Yorubas and resorting to twisting and distorting facts, I think it should be quite understandable why I took your "praise" for another round of condemnation.

I do not navigate to this forum to condone craps, innuendoes and outright fallacies from ninnies. I do not regard myself as an expert on historic facts about Nigeria but nobody can feed me nonsensical tales about recorded events in Nigeria.

It is act of lunacy to think or even insinuate that shooting war is comparable to public disturbance.

kingoflag: The same Wole Soyinka whose support for Biafra landed him in Prison for almost 2 years?! Arent you being more than a little disingenuous here?

It appears you can read but comprehend. Wole Soyinka’s name does not belong to the list of jokers posted by Kats

dayokanu: So tell us which war Igbos have fought in their history and lets see what the result is.

The only war i can remember is the biafra misadventure and they were massively humiliated by Benjamin Adekunle and friends. till today everything that moved ot not in Biafra still shiver.

maybe you can trace your dementia to the beatdown from Black scorpion

Each time I read stuffs from goofy individuals about Benjamin Adekunle’s bravery, I wonder aloud if the moronic person is referring to the same Adekunle who ran to Port Harcourt the moment his lead brigades were circled in Owerri and Oguta. If laud mouthing is act of bravery, Benjamin Adekunle was a great soldier.

2mch: Your brothers and you have been boasting. He issued a challenge to at least uphold your boasts. You resort to lies instead as usual. Things that dont exist. Just engage him in an honest discussion for once. lol. Dede

It is only in Yoruba land that act of public disturbance is regarded as act of bravery. No wonder Yoruba men turned tail and ran to neighboring country when the son of soil was cold-bloodedly murdered in Ibadan by drunken soldiers from northern region of Nigeria. What a pity.
I can list high school students who constituted themselves into public nuisance over poorly cooked beans in order to quench your childish pranks.

2mch: This has absoluetely nothing to do with Kats question. Stop shifting the goal post and answer the question for once. .

Why are you afraid? Are you too much of a coward? Answer

The issue is the misguided approach by Katsumoto who is bent on comparing a shooting war and child’s play embarked upon by listed individuals. Anybody who understands the history of Nigeria will agree that Ndigbo do not engage in public disturbance.