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momsloved:
No one has help me though.
Thanks

It won't be instant. You were told to make contact.

Momsloved atleast 3-4 person's here volunteered to help you with finances. I wonder why you're creating another thread seeking support. Take your time and read through page by page to recall those who asked you to contact them and get in touch with them

Good Luck

Hmm

donttryme:
This is the best part of your reply that i needed most. I will not go into details but i have a problem with having faith in anything. I can't follow a doctors advice for even 2months talkless of spiritual stuff. It is that bad.
Presetly, i'm trying my best to make peace with my creator because i know deep down that my days on earth are not long anymore but i keep slacking always. If i begin to tell you my life story, you will laugh and not even believe it.

I saw your situation through your comments. Nothing would surprise me though I'm not interested. I'll leave you with this, if the eyes is not whole, the body would be filled with darkness. If the body is broken, anything poured into it would not stay.

To preserve the contents, wholeness of the eyes and the body must first be achieved

donttryme:
I somehow aligned with Fxmasterz. What he is saying is not only scriptural backed but common sense will make a neutral person agree with him on this matter except one choose to believe what he believe as a truth without evidence.

On the issue of speaking in tongues, that concept has been bastardised by most pentecostal churches nowadays that speaking in tongues has been reduced to nothing in churches.



I was thinking of visiting a white garment church to point that i have been struggling to get financial resources to make it happen but the discussion here is making me to have a rethink. I have been facing a strong issue which i think i spiritually motivated but so far, i'm yet to get the needed help with the pastors i visited so far hence my decision to try a white garment church. My major problem is lack of faith, i hardly believe in anything untill i see results, maybe that is what is hindering me to get the needed help.



Otipoju sir, which white garment church did you belong to? Can i pm you?

My dear. You stated many problems of yours in the statement that appears seemingly little which you made.

Her lies some of the root cause of your problems:

The richness of information in your very own soul, meaning your own personal revelation of God in your situation

Your mindset ( that shapes your perspective )

Your perspective ( that shapes your mindset )

This affects your beliefs and your actions won't hit on target because all of these aren't in sync


You need a prophetic teacher and mentor that will spend time first in rebuilding your damaged faith, operational beliefs and perspectives and then build on it to shape you into who you desire to be.


About not having faith because of unbelief. Does any farmer waits to see the field of fully formed maize cobs before getting to work, or first seeing it in their mind and setting out to work ?.


A vhicle won't dance right on a high speed road if the wheel is out of alignment. Find time and spend with the Lord to get personal revelation for yourself, your works, your actions and stop consuming variations of perspectives that only leads you into the wilderness

Ok

Lol

ComrdDRS1:
I am interested too

Be careful about being too excited. Especially about making advance payment o. Money isn't easy to lose thesedays o

Clowns and thieves, eat the figures

pelumzy007:
I HAVE ONE FOR YOU JUST PREPEARE TO SPEND 15 YEARS IN JAIL cleaning. F****got

We don't understand you o

Revolution2022:
It is not the way you say it that it is.'Making #50k daily by frying potato'

50,000 Naira monthly isn't a big deal Sir. 50,000 Naira monthly is like saying aim to make 1,600 Naira per day

We watch

jeff1607:
You don't just dabble into people's marriage when you don't have an iota of experience, she will bear the consequences of whatever she decides to do if she listens to you,

If you were married you would have proudly said so, one who is single should never ever ever advice a married couple, best you seat back and learn.

It's like a baby giving an adult lessons on how to walk , irrespective of the situation of anyone's marriage you have no right to tell or anyone who is married what to do.

Public space.

[quote author=emekajacobogbon post=123932077][/quote]I saw a vision immediately I opened this post. You nailed exactly what I saw. Sickness, death. The man won't recover from it. You're spot on. Sickness and death follows the journey. The way out when things gets ruffled is prayer, fervent one and then seek the Holy Spirit for guidance

A Christian family should take such moments as opportunity to seek Gods face on prayer mountain if possible for up to a month

agbonkamen:
if he gets another Job, how sure are you he won't loose the job again out of carelessness? I am sure you read where she said, he has lost two jobs due to his carelessness.

Motherhood. You nor dey post pic again madam

I have seen more Christian destinies destroyed in pentecostal churches where the demigod "godify" make decisions absolutely that pertains people's like and when it affects it's members, these people can't recover from errors made, some five, ten, fifteen, twenty years.

More souls are ruined on the long-run in pentecostal chuches than any other christian circle

BItt:
Loan brands are uncontrolled Modern day slave masters

Okay. Find a business you can partner in

Report the pastor's. Let the girl go.she will continue into marriage.

geezyk:
Same thing I meant, after getting the accommodation, isn't it almost same as going back to the village? Cos there are no jobs in those locations, and will still come back to the city center. Na transportation costs and stress go kill them.

It's not the same. Have you ever gone to remote villages you need 2-3 hours plus just to get to major roads ?

Save it for like eight months. Let it get to like 500k then invest in online brands giving loans like RenMoney. Borrow lenders money


You can do it on a monthly. No need waiting for it to become large

na2016:
Story!

Whatever !

geezyk:
In this Lagos where average rent for room and parlor in a face me I face you environment is around 120-150k, unless they relocate to ogun state or outskirts of ikorodu.

They would get affordable housing around boundary communities. Example. Ikorodu. Arepo. Mowe. Ofada. Sabo after Ikorodu

These are communities they'll get decent apartments without breaking the bank.

na2016:
This isn't true. Some villages still have good schools. What she can do is to find out where that village is and see if it is okay to live and have something to do there. Some villages are not as bad!

I've been in and out of over 200 villages between Lagos and Abuja. 90% of villages are inhabitable for city dwellers.

maasoap:
You can't make anything in the village. We are are not talking about someone with money investing in agriculture, we're talking about jobless lazy ass man and his family moving back to village. They will only be living from hand to mouth. He is relocating simply because of free accommodation that awaits him, nothing else. He just wants to solve the problem of house rent without hustling or sweating. Such man shouldn't be taken seriously.
What is in the village? Nothing! Take it from someone who had village experience. Boring life, nothing more.

Thank you o

jeff1607:
Are you married?

You started wrongly. Why not mehn ought not to lead their families into danger. How about you say he should go to the village first to determine the suitability for the family. How about going to the village isn't the entire answer and he should have plans in place


Man, get lost

jnig:
You are not fed up, you are afraid. But why? Your writeup suggested that he has hitherto been a responsible man cartering for the family; so, you were just assisting him. If as you said, he cannot afford even your rentage, with two children now, what do you want him to do? Unfortunately it seems you have not even have a full discussion with him yet. Why do you expect this online community to be the people that will tell you what you should have heard from him? Stay in town and become frustrated? Is it not his village he is returning too? Is that not the village he came to town from? Why do you think that returning to the village is equal to a death sentence? Pls be encouraged, fear will render you incapable of deciding well. Why not sit down with him and have a serious and inteligent discussion. Find out what his plans are and where you and the kids fit in. Dont make haste to decide agaist his decision. And dont just develop cold feet without verifying from him what the exact plan entails.

All theories and no practicals. Let h8m go and live the live for one year. If he succeeds, she would join him.

iHateFraudsters:
Special adviser.

You just open mouth waaaaa dey talk nonsense.

Na you go give am car or bus to drive?

Or you think he'll just pull a car out of his ass?

The woman didn't know the husbands lazy behaviour before getting married?

@OP pack your bags and follow your husband to the village.

When you were shouting for better or worse upandan, what the hell were you expecting would be the worse?

Shut up


That's how the society keeps providing lunatics everywhere. Has he trained driving and walked into garages and car parks to seek driving jobs and didn't get ?

Tommydare:
It is easier said than done.author=DeeBaDan post=123920667]Don't go. Let him go alone

You find a very cheap accomodation and do menial things you can do and make up to 50k per month. Like fried potato chips, fried plantain chips. Supply to shops. God will take care of you


When the chips are down, men drop professionalism.and go for what's available. If he can't forgo his pride and learn driver to get a car or bus he can drive and make daily income, divorce him. You don't need a loser as a mother of children. When things get tough, men ought to get tougher not fold up.


Going to village isn't proactive, productive, profitable or strategic. His inclinations as a man should tilt towards profitability not to recline to some nonsensical ideas. I travel.across multiple villages across the entire Nigeria. Let him go and try it for six months if he thinks the poverty in the city and that of the village are on the same.par

Shut up

Beverlyjean:
For better for worse... the devil has totally taken over ur mentality...and u have sinned against God with this advice u have given... when judgement day comes most will cry blood cos u don't even know when u sinned

Lol Beverly. I've known your stance and mehn long before now. That man is about to make the worst mistake of his life by going into deeper misery. I saw what I saw in the vision of what would happen when he goes. So, relax. I'm a minister and much more.

dalass:
Advise him to go for Keke or okada that's paid in instalments. He's a lazy ass. You described his going to work late, etc etc. So be a darling. Present it with zest and in a profitable manner that even the most lazy ass person can accept. Do it gently. Look for a cheaper accommodation. Or negotiate with the landlord to pay in 6 months after the rent has expired to give you enough time to gather money.

My sister, I see even women riding those Keke oh. Put your baby in a good daycare. You're young enough to hustle. Those people earn more than most workers whose salaries are mostly spent on transport fares

Ehn of this generation want to feed of women and do not want to work

vickydevoka:
Who will give you car to drive. Omo forget, if you no de street b4 u no fit . If a driver loses his job it's easy to get another car. Buh if a banker loses his job he will find it difficult to get a car, unless if he had savings to get himself a car to begin with.

My father was a bank executive. I was an ajebo. When life changed, I changed with it. We have to keep moving ahead. We're not fixed objects

Ireportlive:
.true

But they don't have enough to stay in the city, inflation is rising, everything is expensive

There are always cheaper options.

I.e room and parlor in cheap areas then they both try to earn monthly