Mindlog:


You just enabled a flashback to my undergraduate Family Therapy lectures, clearing remembering my lecturer as she taught what you just shared.

Really?

What course did you study?

Mindlog:


Well captured. Was actually discussing few hours ago, how some unresolved childhood traumas can cause problems in marriages.

It's the dysfunctional family but the genders are reversed in the next generation.

The narcissist dad who cannot love is Jada Pinkett, the serially abused mum who is the martyr of the family is Will Smith.

Little Will Smith(the child in Will Smith that witnessed all that horror) has a role here too, he has vowed to protect his mum(wife) and never ever divorce at all cost to heal his childhood wounds.

Unresolved traumas get passed to the next generation who relive the same dysfunction and horrors in some form.

What we are witnessing is childhood trauma. What he witnessed and went through in their home broke him. He should never have married till he healed from the wounds and baggages.

Now he is reliving the horror.

As was depositeth in his heart so is he. As he thinketh so is he.

A40:
Hold me accountable? Are you smoking loud or meth. Who died and gave you that appointment

Fuq you and everything you stand for gee. Nobody gives a damn.

What are the negatives I say about Lebron apart from basketball related stuff and calling out his hypocrisy on China. We had someone here who alleged Michael Jordan's gambling killed his pops you did not attack or hold them accountable. Na me you dey hold accountable

May Amadioha impregnate you with triplets. Lunatic. Accountability kee you there

For every Lebron hater he also has an army of Bronsexuals and loyalists. So the 'slander' evens out. Which was my point

You ignoramuses suffer from main character syndrome that is why you would argue that Kevin Durant is not the most slandered player in the history of the sport.

Finally no be you go tell me wetin to do you cretin. I don't know you from a can of paint and I'd rather we keep it that way

Good. We are making progress. Thank you for not lying again. No more gaslighting. Own all your hate and slandering and smear campaign. That's all I ask.

A40:
You're being extremely dishonest. Even in the midst of my talk I still have LeNomad as number 2 on my list. What have I said that is damaging to his reputation? You people just use words carelessly

For every me there's at least 3 aggressive Bronsexuals right here on this page. Rabid Lebron fans that will put their credibility and everything else on the line to defend him. From fans to mainstream media Bronsexuals full ground

You think everyone is going to love him? That is not possible. Jordan in his prime was the most popular athlete on the planet undisputed and still had haters.

Any slander on Lebron will always get pushback from his army of Bronsexuals. Who bats for KD on the other hand? To the point he needs to create burner accounts to defend himself.

Just look at, you're here Bronsexualin already and you don't even know it.

Guy, you are gaslighting and someone like me will hold you accountable. You and Roland17 are self-confessed Lebron haters and the receipts are all over this thread going back many years. Slandering Lebron is oxygen for you and I am ashamed on your behalf for even having the effrontery to deny this.

Your legendary war with Ersan here for many years was all about you destroying Lebron's name, reputation and legacy.

You are working so hard on revisionism but nothing can wash away your sins here.

Lebron is probably the one superstar in the NBA who has the most unrelenting rabid and bileful army of haters in the history of the sport.

You blame his fans for hyping him, why don't you hype your own superstar and quit the hating. No, you must tarnish him religiously to ensure your chosen ones shine.

The truth is that the kind of hate you guys spew when anything Lebron comes up here borders on the obsessive compulsive.

And that's troubling.

Are you not all grown men?

Phoenix wins. Pelicans are a problem. Went down fighting. They've earned their respect.

Chris Paul, made all 14 attempted shots! 14 for 14. Respect.

Emotional game.

The Pelicans refuse to go away. End of 3rd quarter.

CJ McCollum picks his 5th foul on a night he is playing so well. Chris Paul can't miss. This looks like the end of the road for the Pelicans.

A40:
Nobody in the history of basketball has chopped more slander than Kevin Durant. To dispute this is to be deliberately dishonest

Emphasis on slander

I strongly disagree. You, a self- confessed Lebron's slanderer-in-chief on NL, know your statement above cannot be true.

Slander: To malign, vilify, defame, a campaign of calumny; making malicious statements, making statements that cause people to have a bad opinion of someone, making statements about someone that damages or hurts his reputation.

What has Lebron not endured from you hateful lot for years and years? What?

donlittle25:
I don't really understand Ajala fans man.

All over social media, Instagram, Twitter, Youtube from Charles to Kenny to shaq to Stephen to Rose, to Skip and over 1 million tweets on Instagram in almost an hour after the game are ripping KD to shred.

Barkley sat on tv and said he is not a great player, even A40 said he is not among the top 15. Roland called him out. Everyone even on youtube, and Instagram comment is calling him out but for some weird reasons, Ajala fans said everyone his giving him a pass.

How did this become about a nigga that didn't make even the freaking play in?

Guy, read what I wrote again. Where did I mention YouTube or twitter or Instagram?

I mentioned specifically that at least on this thread he is being given a pass, all resident Lebron haters are forming considerate and there's only few mild trolling, nothing heavy, unlike the wild insults and desecration that would have engulfed here had it been it was Lebron.


On the social media slander.

You all judged Lebron so violently over the years without mercy, like he was a robber. Now you all should have a little taste of the monster you birthed.

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I just pity KD. No one deserves this treatment, not him, not Kyrie, not Bron. They are all humans like the rest of us, with imperfections and hearts that can be hurt, playing the game they love.

birdman:


Durant showed up from day 1. No drama, pure professionalism. They entered playoffs as a low seed because 2 out of 3 stars players weren't as committed. KD deserves some shielding. Kyrie needs to account - after all that drama, no production

What are you talking about? KD showed up only in game 4, Kyrie showed up and carried the team in game 1 where they almost got the W.

No hiding place or shielding for anybody o. Make the desecration reach everybody. All players should be judged using the Lebron haters' criteria.

felix00:


KD is not in his prime. It's a miracle he still has a career and playing this great after that achilles injury

Guy, hide this talk, Lebron gets zero mercy or consideration, injured or not, here. Besides, KD has been balling since last season, so no excuse bro.

Roland17:
Later now, pesin go type say KD is getting a pass. We are witnessing all the sticks he is getting now, the insults, name calling, albeit deserved.

KD will be fine, he will bounce back. He still remains the “Slimreaper” and my favorite player of this generation.

I don’t expect him to stay quiet now, especially now that the series is over, it’s not who he is. He is going to get into spats because that is who he is, he doesn’t aim to please but I hope I never read again that KD is being given a pass.

I got you KD

Imagine the slander and insults and the desecration that would have inundated this thread had it been it was Lebron that failed so woefully in his prime.

At least on this thread, in the main, he is being given a pass All the resident haters are forming considerate. Called out by a few, yes, but no hating. Trolling, yes, but nothing heavy duty.

Someone like Ersan, who has the energy to mete out pain for pain and hate for hate, would have paid you all back in your own coin, walahi. It would have been a bloodbath

felix00:
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My profiling of what his problem is is spot on going by what Shams said. Emi ni bad guy! Nets should just pay me a couple of millions to help them resolve the conundrum. No capping.

Efficient brooms.

Refs almost spoil dis game o.

Klass99:


Ify Belgium, what are you saying?

It is not about the frequency of his angry outbursts, but the amount of damage caused when those outbursts occur, that bothered her.

A male friend used to break expensive home appliances in the heat of the moment, only to start buying new ones to replace damaged ones. Until he decided to borrow sense one day, now he drives off and returns when he has cooled off.

Most times it's the words uttered in such moments we have problems with. She wasn't done, as in completely checking out, just extremely weary and needed to vent. Her update made me smile, so it is all good now.

Osinachi had a choice and she made it. We always have a choice in this life.

Please, don't put words into her mouth. Where did she ever say what you wrote up there? What you are doing is called projection.

A40:
In life it's always good to keep it simple. And when someone shows you who they are you have to believe them.

He's a guy that enjoys the perks of the game but he's not a Hooper at heart. That is just the truth

Players have had meltdowns in the past. Higher rated players to boot. Didn't make them completely shut down like Ben is doing

He doesn't have love for the game. I'm almost sure there is absolutely nothing wrong with his back. He did not push himself to any sort of level that would put any pressure on his back. His track record has been clear from his LSU days.

Timelord had a serious injury but was adamant on returning ASAP. We saw what KD did, even Harden. Even AD. You can't tell me that a guy that hasn't seen no court in 11 months and is dressed to the games like he's fresh out of a rap video is really interested in hooping

Many non-athletes who have lower back issues did not put pressure on their backs. It just kept recurring.

The aloofness, lack of love for the game, the lack of growth in his game and his fear of taking shots already tells me he has a dodgy psychology. The last season's playoff meltdown and the devastating criticism that followed it may have been too much for his sensitive psychology to carry.

The body can only carry so much mental burden or stress. Unresolved mental stress will show up in the body when it reaches a certain threshold.

Dis-ease becomes disease. Psychology becomes biology.

That's my profiling of what's wrong with the dude.

Khanben:


That's my issue with narratives, Jokic scored 35pts and grabbed 18rebounds in game 3 and somehow Draymond was stopping him. It's really baffling when you hear things like this.

MVP will still show why he is MVP bro but
Draymond slowed him down in this series and that's impressive to me. It's like the effect P.J.Tucker has on bigger players defensively, it's praise-worthy.

steady986:


Did he really stop Jokic though?

Not stop literally, but how he is able to hamper their play or make them play outside their comfort zone.

A40:
People really thought that guy was going to play?

Mind-body-spirit connection.

That guy has some deep psychological issues going on within that's affecting his lower back and his ability to play.

His mental health challenge(which he complained about) and his recurring lower back injury are interlinked.

Until he gets to the roots of and resolves this dysfunctioning psychology he won't be able to play for the Nets any time soon.

Nuggets nicks it.

How Draymond Green is able to stop Jokic and other guys much bigger than him in this NBA is baffling. Respect.

Nuggets-Warriors game going down to the wire!!!!!!

Nugget's N. Hyland is the hot hand. Bang, bang, bang.

Now, make this resemble a competition.

A40:
Who is this doofus? Where did I say LeNomad's legacy is not settled. Didn't I do a top 10 here and put him in number 2? Did you see KD on my list?

Are you actually high on meth or something?

What is wrong with all these unhinged Bronsexuals running amok everywhere

Who said KD should not be judged? Who is policing what? Where did you see me shielding KD or defending him from criticism. Clearly you are insane

Is that the argument here or in your fit of Bronsexual rage you didn't follow the thread of discussion

My bad. I take the post back. I dey one joint like that.

A40:
These Bronsexuals no go kill person. No be una insert him name into conversation for series wey no concern am? Showing poor logic and poor critical thinking skills.

Nobody send your Jordan imposter. TV ratings are up in his absence for the playoffs he's losing relevance, na why desperate Bronsexuals still find means to chook am put for series wey dey happen for another conference. Meanwhile he no even make play in for him own conference

Guy forget this your megedefegede dust capping, Lebron's legacy and place among the greatest ever in basketball is cemented even if he never gets to the playoffs again. Repeat this first paragraph slowly so it can sink in.

KD is the one with a huge asterisk and a question mark and he has fallen shot and every analyst worth his salt on this planet is rightly calling him out and you are here trying to form voltron and police us here. Taa, shift joor!!!

KD should be judged with the same metrics and viciousness Lebron is judged and the jury is out brother, deal with it!

DeeMain:


You don't know the star power and leverage these top tier superstars have in this league.

Nash was in the coaching crew when KD was with the Warriors and was assigned to help KD adjust to the Warriors style of play when KD joined them. They struck up a friendship from there and it blossomed into an untested Nash getting the Nets' coaching gig once KD agreed with his friend, Kyrie, they were both coming to the Nets.

https://www.sportscasting.com/kevin-durants-close-relationship-with-steve-nash-during-their-time-with-the-warriors-may-have-sparked-the-decision-to-bring-nash-to-brooklyn/


https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.nbcsports.com/bayarea/warriors/nets-hire-steve-nash-next-head-coach-reunites-kevin-durant%3famp?espv=1

birdman:


You believe that? Yeah, he may have OK'd it, but what options did they give KD to choose from? Front office was just trying to cover their tracks. Like Lebron in LA. Billionaires are not consulting millionaires on who to give long term contracts.Forget all the paddyship on TV, its a business

You don't know the star power and leverage these top tier superstars have in this league.

Nash was in the coaching crew when KD was with the Warriors and was assigned to help KD adjust to the Warriors style of play when KD joined them. They struck up a friendship from there and it blossomed into an untested Nash getting the Nets' coaching gig once KD agreed with his friend, Kyrie, they were both coming to the Nets.

birdman:


A lot of it is on Nash to get Durant open looks. When people were complaining that Nash jumped queue ahead of more experienced black coaches, it looked like envy. Now we know the guy just paddied his way into the job. There is no way Nash could have have been the best coach interviewed by the Brooklyn Nets.

Still, it is very instructive to see the people that were praising Durant like a god, suddenly about face.

KD brought Nash to the Nets.

Both KD and Kyrie, this L is on them. Most offensive skilled, most offensive skilled, that one is on paper. They just didn't show up when it was time for the do.

Please, going forward, no one should bring up KD's name on the same sentence with Lebron on this thread.

benji93:
I believe the pressure has gotten to him, and well the defense is crazy.

They ripped his heart out and destroyed his sense of belief.

This series is over! Bring the brooms!!

A40:
Exactly. What was their allure to Westbrook? Maybe they thought he would realize the window for a title was closing and he would humble himself, turns out he is dangerously delusional and the more the season wore on the more it became clear he was not about that winning life

Westbrooks lives in an alternate reality. Sadly, Lebron learnt this the hardway. He got brainwashed by dude.

I remember in the Bubble playoffs, Houston Rockets vs Lakers, Brodie was bricking his shots and having a poor game on both sides of the floor while they were being blown out, but he was still beating his chest and mouthing off arrogantly, "you can't guard me!" repeatedly, which made Lebron laugh. That's a lack of awareness. That's delusion. That's alternate reality.

"People show you who they are, believe them." - Maya Angelo