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naptu2 is a Tinubu henchman. We see your works. Such a waste of native intelligence.

Justbehave:
Anything you paid for with money before having it is bought. So shut up and stop being sentimental here.

Wack and warped life-view. Your way of thinking is no better than OP's dysfunctional wife's way.

Mariangeles:
I swear, I've said that a couple of times before.

I think some people who have father issues (whose fathers have never been there) find it hard to believe/trust in God.

Confirmento. Also those whose dads were very strict, disciplinarians or abusive have the same issues you mentioned with loving/believing/trusting/ intimacy with God.

Enskynelson:
Bleaching: Another Perspective

I am a lover of naturalness and I advocate seriously against skin bleaching. But a perspective people are missing is this. Many Africans were not born 'that black.' Many when they were born were fair-skinned until the Sun came and turned Mary into black Maria; the once-fair skin became charcoal overtime and before you know it, we have nothing natural left of our colour. At this point, all people remember about your God-given colour is the Sun-flaked skin and your shaded look forgetting your God-given colour is the one you were born with.

The truth of the matter is, a naturally dark skin can be good and enviable if kept away from the harsh rays of the Sun because it is a very delicate part of the body. My little exposition should help all those criticizing bleaching just because they feel it is a way of not being contended or proud of your 'natural look', because there is nothing natural about a Sun-burnt skin afteral. Remember, a child when born is not this black in Africa and if we were to grow under a more conducive weather, many will not think of bleaching.


All I see about most reasons from anti-bleaching advocates is hypocrisy. And here are the reasons. You first of all ignorantly call a Sun-shaded skin ‘natural’ and it doesn’t just end there. You claim they are not proud of their natural colour, yet you fix hairs, eyes lashes, fix eyeballs, fix bums, and you do make-up that make you look unnatural. Bleaching, toning etc could be a way of correcting the effect of the Sun on the skin and reverting it back to the natural way but what’s up with scraping all your eyebrows and using eye pencil to draw a line, what are you trying to make natural with your outrageous makeup? What is natural about the hair and nails you fix?


My suggestion is that, instead of just standing up to criticize bleaching all because it makes you feel people are not proud of their 'natural' colour, please do more research so that we can prevent more babies from being blackened by the tropical Sun.

Finally, for all of you bleaching guys, you better start sharing this on your wall and Whatsapp groups. At least, I have finally given you a reason to beat many blasting you for this.


#NelThoughts #NelInspirations

Nonsense and ingredients and low self esteem and a big shame to the black race.

Creamypie:
once u want to join ipob, ur first requirements are 1. Illiteracy. 2. hatred for educated people. 3. Readiness to Robb. Extort money from big men for "biafra fight", snatch cars for "Ipob transport"4. hate and reject others when they clearly and directly present facts. U can identify them on this forum easily. KANU dey abuja, y not declare sit at home there? Na east KANU dey? Bihari get nothing to lose from east every Monday holiday declared by illiterates. Damn

Add outsourcing your brain and mind completely and irrevocably to onyendu(MNK) through a sacred oath.

Ndi egbuwara isi!

Bucks can't get a bucket to save their lives. It's over. Congrats Celtics. Who would have thought?

Corporate2020:
I dey come help you cure your mental illness.

Here I am.

The 1967 to 1970 lessons that we taught your grandparents are nightmares that have passed from generations to generations. You can never get out of the pains, sorrow, tears and blood that we left behind in your land. But, I don't expect you to develop psychiatric disorders over the pains of yesteryears

Your own madness is even worse than his, evil Hitler!

Two idiots!

Idiots that put fetters and chains and death on the very people they claim to be liberating, aggravating the wounds of a long suffering people.

Who has seen such evil before? Tufia!

You never begin cry. All the innocent blood and the Igbo tears will come for you all. Ndi ara

Arielle:
They are the ones most desperate to hammer. How about women who are abducted, minding their own business, going their own way. It is not only girls following men that fall victim. And how about women in relationships? You are with a regular guy, thinking you're planning and building for tomorrow, not knowing he's dissatisfied with his lot and is ready to do anything to 'make it'. Then her value to him starts to increase but not in the way she thinks. Happened to a woman my Mum knows. Long term relationship with a regular guy. Too shocking.

Good thinking. And you write well too.

But there are other angles. Nigeria is a highly spiritual nation and the implication is that great spiritual good and great spiritual evil will emanate and thrive in this same nation.

Ritualism has nothing to do with gender or level of wealth or power or position. Many old money folks, politicians, traditionalists, businessmen and women, career men and women looking for spiritual advantage have been into this thing a long time.

The problem in the land now is because it is now endemic and has been democratised into the youth and the young adult population courtesy of social media and peer pressure.

The country is broken. Our values are broken. The people are broken. We are a spiritual people. The Black DNA is spiritual. The implication is predictable.

Look to the great spiritual good to give you direction and offer you protection in this gross darkness. That's my advice for all, male and female. Deep calleth unto deep.

If not your name might be sorry, male or female.

Ja Morant! 47 points. What a display. Bahd guy!

Warriors, never say die. Game tied. End 3rd quarter

Mindlog:
Undergrad - Counselling Psychology.
Postgrad - Clinical Child Psychology.

Oh, Okay. Cool

Mindlog:
You just enabled a flashback to my undergraduate Family Therapy lectures, clearing remembering my lecturer as she taught what you just shared.

Really?

What course did you study?

Mindlog:
Well captured. Was actually discussing few hours ago, how some unresolved childhood traumas can cause problems in marriages.

It's the dysfunctional family but the genders are reversed in the next generation.

The narcissist dad who cannot love is Jada Pinkett, the serially abused mum who is the martyr of the family is Will Smith.

Little Will Smith(the child in Will Smith that witnessed all that horror) has a role here too, he has vowed to protect his mum(wife) and never ever divorce at all cost to heal his childhood wounds.

Unresolved traumas get passed to the next generation who relive the same dysfunction and horrors in some form.

What we are witnessing is childhood trauma. What he witnessed and went through in their home broke him. He should never have married till he healed from the wounds and baggages.

Now he is reliving the horror.

As was depositeth in his heart so is he. As he thinketh so is he.

A40:
Hold me accountable? Are you smoking loud or meth. Who died and gave you that appointment

Fuq you and everything you stand for gee. Nobody gives a damn.

What are the negatives I say about Lebron apart from basketball related stuff and calling out his hypocrisy on China. We had someone here who alleged Michael Jordan's gambling killed his pops you did not attack or hold them accountable. Na me you dey hold accountable

May Amadioha impregnate you with triplets. Lunatic. Accountability kee you there

For every Lebron hater he also has an army of Bronsexuals and loyalists. So the 'slander' evens out. Which was my point

You ignoramuses suffer from main character syndrome that is why you would argue that Kevin Durant is not the most slandered player in the history of the sport.

Finally no be you go tell me wetin to do you cretin. I don't know you from a can of paint and I'd rather we keep it that way

Good. We are making progress. Thank you for not lying again. No more gaslighting. Own all your hate and slandering and smear campaign. That's all I ask.

A40:
You're being extremely dishonest. Even in the midst of my talk I still have LeNomad as number 2 on my list. What have I said that is damaging to his reputation? You people just use words carelessly

For every me there's at least 3 aggressive Bronsexuals right here on this page. Rabid Lebron fans that will put their credibility and everything else on the line to defend him. From fans to mainstream media Bronsexuals full ground

You think everyone is going to love him? That is not possible. Jordan in his prime was the most popular athlete on the planet undisputed and still had haters.

Any slander on Lebron will always get pushback from his army of Bronsexuals. Who bats for KD on the other hand? To the point he needs to create burner accounts to defend himself.

Just look at, you're here Bronsexualin already and you don't even know it.

Guy, you are gaslighting and someone like me will hold you accountable. You and Roland17 are self-confessed Lebron haters and the receipts are all over this thread going back many years. Slandering Lebron is oxygen for you and I am ashamed on your behalf for even having the effrontery to deny this.

Your legendary war with Ersan here for many years was all about you destroying Lebron's name, reputation and legacy.

You are working so hard on revisionism but nothing can wash away your sins here.

Lebron is probably the one superstar in the NBA who has the most unrelenting rabid and bileful army of haters in the history of the sport.

You blame his fans for hyping him, why don't you hype your own superstar and quit the hating. No, you must tarnish him religiously to ensure your chosen ones shine.

The truth is that the kind of hate you guys spew when anything Lebron comes up here borders on the obsessive compulsive.

And that's troubling.

Are you not all grown men?

Phoenix wins. Pelicans are a problem. Went down fighting. They've earned their respect.

Chris Paul, made all 14 attempted shots! 14 for 14. Respect.

Emotional game.

The Pelicans refuse to go away. End of 3rd quarter.

CJ McCollum picks his 5th foul on a night he is playing so well. Chris Paul can't miss. This looks like the end of the road for the Pelicans.

A40:
Nobody in the history of basketball has chopped more slander than Kevin Durant. To dispute this is to be deliberately dishonest

Emphasis on slander

I strongly disagree. You, a self- confessed Lebron's slanderer-in-chief on NL, know your statement above cannot be true.

Slander: To malign, vilify, defame, a campaign of calumny; making malicious statements, making statements that cause people to have a bad opinion of someone, making statements about someone that damages or hurts his reputation.

What has Lebron not endured from you hateful lot for years and years? What?

donlittle25:
I don't really understand Ajala fans man.

All over social media, Instagram, Twitter, Youtube from Charles to Kenny to shaq to Stephen to Rose, to Skip and over 1 million tweets on Instagram in almost an hour after the game are ripping KD to shred.

Barkley sat on tv and said he is not a great player, even A40 said he is not among the top 15. Roland called him out. Everyone even on youtube, and Instagram comment is calling him out but for some weird reasons, Ajala fans said everyone his giving him a pass.

How did this become about a nigga that didn't make even the freaking play in?

Guy, read what I wrote again. Where did I mention YouTube or twitter or Instagram?

I mentioned specifically that at least on this thread he is being given a pass, all resident Lebron haters are forming considerate and there's only few mild trolling, nothing heavy, unlike the wild insults and desecration that would have engulfed here had it been it was Lebron.


On the social media slander.

You all judged Lebron so violently over the years without mercy, like he was a robber. Now you all should have a little taste of the monster you birthed.

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I just pity KD. No one deserves this treatment, not him, not Kyrie, not Bron. They are all humans like the rest of us, with imperfections and hearts that can be hurt, playing the game they love.

birdman:
Durant showed up from day 1. No drama, pure professionalism. They entered playoffs as a low seed because 2 out of 3 stars players weren't as committed. KD deserves some shielding. Kyrie needs to account - after all that drama, no production

What are you talking about? KD showed up only in game 4, Kyrie showed up and carried the team in game 1 where they almost got the W.

No hiding place or shielding for anybody o. Make the desecration reach everybody. All players should be judged using the Lebron haters' criteria.

felix00:
KD is not in his prime. It's a miracle he still has a career and playing this great after that achilles injury

Guy, hide this talk, Lebron gets zero mercy or consideration, injured or not, here. Besides, KD has been balling since last season, so no excuse bro.

Roland17:
Later now, pesin go type say KD is getting a pass. We are witnessing all the sticks he is getting now, the insults, name calling, albeit deserved.

KD will be fine, he will bounce back. He still remains the “Slimreaper” and my favorite player of this generation.

I don’t expect him to stay quiet now, especially now that the series is over, it’s not who he is. He is going to get into spats because that is who he is, he doesn’t aim to please but I hope I never read again that KD is being given a pass.

I got you KD

Imagine the slander and insults and the desecration that would have inundated this thread had it been it was Lebron that failed so woefully in his prime.

At least on this thread, in the main, he is being given a pass All the resident haters are forming considerate. Called out by a few, yes, but no hating. Trolling, yes, but nothing heavy duty.

Someone like Ersan, who has the energy to mete out pain for pain and hate for hate, would have paid you all back in your own coin, walahi. It would have been a bloodbath

felix00:
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My profiling of what his problem is is spot on going by what Shams said. Emi ni bad guy! Nets should just pay me a couple of millions to help them resolve the conundrum. No capping.

Efficient brooms.

Refs almost spoil dis game o.

Klass99:
Ify Belgium, what are you saying?

It is not about the frequency of his angry outbursts, but the amount of damage caused when those outbursts occur, that bothered her.

A male friend used to break expensive home appliances in the heat of the moment, only to start buying new ones to replace damaged ones. Until he decided to borrow sense one day, now he drives off and returns when he has cooled off.

Most times it's the words uttered in such moments we have problems with. She wasn't done, as in completely checking out, just extremely weary and needed to vent. Her update made me smile, so it is all good now.

Osinachi had a choice and she made it. We always have a choice in this life.

Please, don't put words into her mouth. Where did she ever say what you wrote up there? What you are doing is called projection.

A40:
In life it's always good to keep it simple. And when someone shows you who they are you have to believe them.

He's a guy that enjoys the perks of the game but he's not a Hooper at heart. That is just the truth

Players have had meltdowns in the past. Higher rated players to boot. Didn't make them completely shut down like Ben is doing

He doesn't have love for the game. I'm almost sure there is absolutely nothing wrong with his back. He did not push himself to any sort of level that would put any pressure on his back. His track record has been clear from his LSU days.

Timelord had a serious injury but was adamant on returning ASAP. We saw what KD did, even Harden. Even AD. You can't tell me that a guy that hasn't seen no court in 11 months and is dressed to the games like he's fresh out of a rap video is really interested in hooping

Many non-athletes who have lower back issues did not put pressure on their backs. It just kept recurring.

The aloofness, lack of love for the game, the lack of growth in his game and his fear of taking shots already tells me he has a dodgy psychology. The last season's playoff meltdown and the devastating criticism that followed it may have been too much for his sensitive psychology to carry.

The body can only carry so much mental burden or stress. Unresolved mental stress will show up in the body when it reaches a certain threshold.

Dis-ease becomes disease. Psychology becomes biology.

That's my profiling of what's wrong with the dude.

Khanben:
That's my issue with narratives, Jokic scored 35pts and grabbed 18rebounds in game 3 and somehow Draymond was stopping him. It's really baffling when you hear things like this.

MVP will still show why he is MVP bro but
Draymond slowed him down in this series and that's impressive to me. It's like the effect P.J.Tucker has on bigger players defensively, it's praise-worthy.

steady986:
Did he really stop Jokic though?

Not stop literally, but how he is able to hamper their play or make them play outside their comfort zone.

A40:
People really thought that guy was going to play?

Mind-body-spirit connection.

That guy has some deep psychological issues going on within that's affecting his lower back and his ability to play.

His mental health challenge(which he complained about) and his recurring lower back injury are interlinked.

Until he gets to the roots of and resolves this dysfunctioning psychology he won't be able to play for the Nets any time soon.