Hello Omajuwa. I am an only child who is 42years old. My mother refused to remarry after my father died when I was young. She sacrificed so much for me to be where I am today. I got married about 7years ago. My wife and I have been looking upto God for a child. After pleading with my wife for us to adopt at least a child to no avail, I decided to get my mum who stays with us to help me speak to her woman to woman. But this made them become sworn enemies. My wife since then talks to my mother anyhow and disrespects her every now and then. It has been like that for months.
Few days ago, while returning from work, I heard their loud shouts from outside but I remained outside waiting for the shouts to be over as I didn’t want to be put in the position of choosing a side. But I had to intervene when I heard a loud slap. My wife had slapped my mother. I was enraged but I kept my cool, took my mother from the scene and catered for her. I have since not said a word to my wife.
All I feel when I am at home is sadness and depression. I have no peace in my own home. I have sacrificed a whole lot just to make this marriage work. The woman I married has become someone else. I have defended this same woman from my extended family for years. I have been labeled a ritualist and all sorts of name due to our childlessness but I have never cheated and I have always defended my wife despite knowing that she is the one with fertility issues.
Even though my mother has been trying to put up a strong front since that day, I know that she has been crying herself to sleep. I love my wife so much but I love my mum too. What could my mother have possibly done to warrant her slapping my mother? I think my wife is selfish and is no longer who I married. Why would she rather constantly inflict pain and sadness on her own family? I just want peace of mind and I have made up my mind to divorce my wife. But hope this won’t be a mistake? Is there still a marriage to save here? How do I go about it? What do I do? Please help me.
Your wife is the one with fertility issues which you have endured n still she is so ungrateful to slap your mother! No no no she has to go,I can't stand that,she crossed the red line.
I wonder why men allowed this lie to go unchallenged for so long.
That is, they deceived so many women to believe that a man will see a woman making ground breaking achievements in her industry and be afraid of her success, instead he will go and chase one broke, unemployed and uninspiring woman.
Which successful woman in this world is single because men are afraid of her?
Watch women claim now that they know someone, not them oh. Someone.
I can tell you for free that a woman will buy Toyota Big for nothing and starts talking down on men that don’t have cars, becomes unnecessary rude to everyone around her and when people avoid her, she’ll say it’s because she’s successful.
No one is avoiding you because you are successful, they are avoiding you because of your bad attitude. There are women that are more successful than you that are happily married.
Why your own dey different?
Men are not afraid of successful women. Men are afraid of women with bad attitude, successful or not.
All these nonsense is as a result of the bad precedence set by yakubu himself during the presidential elections,if he had ensured a strict n credible elections in accordance with the law n INEC guidelines all this wouldn't be happening.
Bfly: Looking at how subsidy removal may cause hyper-inflation what is the possibility of those lesser Nigerian currency surviving because fuel at almost 750/litres may aswell wipe out #20 downward. This subsidy of a thing is getting real. Imagine life after subsidy removal.
why can't Nigeria just reach a win win agreement with dangote refineries over this fuel matter,I mean crude oil should be sold to dangote at an agreed favourable price so that they can supply Nigeria with refined products at favourable prices too.
It's now you remember God!,when your party colluded with INEC to rig for your party n Tinubu,you were praising Tinubu for being a smart politician who strategies ahead,now you have been served a taste of your parties medicine and you are ranting, it's better you change your name to stupid Adeyemi.
https://twitter.com/PeterPsquare/status/1647134340357169152?t=DWyYeXzX0XkbCtHLGjFMPw&s=19[/quote]If you check this Hakimi story very well you would see that in the beginning it was most likely not like that,but when Hakimi began to notice the greed n devilish signs from the wife he quietly n smartly came up with the idea of transferring all his assets to his mother, legally meaning he owns little or nothing, I'm sure the guy has also got some raw cash hidden somewhere,women are simply destroying themselves with all the ideas of gender equality, feminism etc,I don't blame Hakimi at all,look at the story of EBOUE formerly of Arsenal,that must thought guys like Hakimi a lesson.
APC are simply gang of crooks trying to stand logic on it head,was Tinubu not an associate of whoever open the account in his name?,what was the account of the US court regarding Tinubu n the funds in his accounts?,can one just be decreed to forfeit his hard earned money just like that without committing any offense?, it's really a big disgrace that a character like Tinubu whose life is totally embedded in controversy opaqueness n criminality should even be allowed to stand for any elections in Nigeria except the judges choose to be partial n sentimental, Tinubu would loose.
This head butt storf goy has so many versions to it with both players saying different things.
Abegi!
what metarrazi said is very true,zidane himself said so long ago,what happened was metarrazi was always pulling zidane's jersey in the match,so zidane sarcastically ask if metarrazi wants the jersey so bad n he could give it to him after the match but metarrazi also sarcastically responded that he wants zidane's sister instead n that infuriated zidane.
Legitisreal: is a whole sokinya you are insulting now cos he airs his opinion as a yoruba
Let somebody criticise any igboman you people would be telling us how he can feed the commenter generation
I guess there is now someone in your family and village that suddenly have more international prestige & recognition than sokinya
It's not just about ethnic affiliation, I'm not igbo but I must say that wole soyinka,just like FAROOQ KPEROGI N RENO OMOKRI have become a disgrace of themselves due to this elections,Wole soyinka was so voiciferous during Johnathan even calling Johnathan a buffoon n his wife a shepopotamus! the same soyinka lost his voice all this while that APC/buhari has been mismanaging the country only for him to find his voice again because Tinubu had been declared president elect, soyinka is no longer concerned about standards or right again, soyinka is worse.
Soyinka that develop catarrh n cough when it comes to buhari issues now have a clear n strong voice for debate about Tinubu,Datti was speaking in literal terms not that he was going to raise an army to destroy democracy if Tinubu is sworn in,GRV said if sanwo olu is allow to continue as governor then it means next time one need guns n thugs to win election,but he was only speaking literally to emphasize the gravity of the negative consequences of allowing illegality to continue with impunity,so what's the fuse about what Datti said, except if there is a hidden agenda.
So is messing now a God that can't be criticize or booed even if he is dishing out nonsense shit?the club never bought n is paying him such high salary just to worship him.
Kog45: This is just the issue here...on phone keyboards we type anything “Wole Soyinka is forming dictionary and at the end saying nothing” and you are telling us something right...Respect to Chinua Achebe and Wole Soyinka.
Just to say something simple and clear,soyinka would be forming dictionary at the end he often ends up saying nothing, even now that Tinubu is yet to be sworn in, people are afraid to say simple truth,bu the time Tinubu is actually sworn in, Nigerians will see the real effects of agberoism n criminacracy, it's really a shame n big disgrace that of all the millions of people in Nigeria, it's a Tinubu whose total life is enmersed in opaqueness, controversy n criminality that would be decieitfully foisted on the country as a leader,yet we pride ourselves as the giant of Africa,what an irony.
DaTruths: Since 1940s, I never see country wey invade a sovereign country to annex it's Territory.. Na due to this Russia bullying tendencies make all these miniaturized countries dey join NATO. And Russia has proven them right by invading Ukraine to annex her Territory.
And one thing is certain, on no account would NATO attack Russia first. So those countries are joining to protect themselves. But the Truth is that, USA won't take this thing they are doing to Russia. Taking that Cuban missile crises into account. USA are hypocrites anyways.
No USA is not hypothetical,if Russia had develop n built her science technology and economy to make their citizens comfortable and happy,they allow their citizens to enjoy freedom,they were welcoming to visitors n friendly to other nations, naturally their closet neighbors wout want to be their friends and allies,but the opposite is the case,hence no one really trust them, it's Russia's fault,you build friendship rather than force it.
ExAngel007: A Nigerian lady is of the opinion that begging someone for sex is a form of rape.
It all started when a Twitter user shared a thread disapproving of the notion that begging for sex is rape. The Twitter user had written
IT DEFINITELY ISNT RAPE. Begging someone for sex to the point they agree might be exhausting and unhealthy but it isn't rape. Rape has a clearly defined meaning.
So long as consent was affirmatively given, it isn't rape.''
Begging for sex is rape - Nigerian lady argues Responding, @LAJOKESAB said begging for sex is definitely rape.
‘’It is definitely Rape. The emotional manipulation that comes with being begged for sex is so exhausting and rigorous that a lot of women give in eventually to be raped. If it was consensual, no one will have to beg.
No be the same nyash we women de die to have?,so both sexes are obsessed about it,n truly enhh well shaped nyash na bomb I no go lie,e de give better shape to the owner n boost the morale of the guys plus ginger guys performance.
However I noticed some discrepancies in the result for Rivers State and decided to probe further. Again I used simple random sampling and multistage sampling to ensure that every polling unit had equal chance of being selected. I used a sample size of 198. I got the sample size using the formula:
Sample Size = S/(1+S/N) Where S = z2*p*(1-p)/e2
And where z is the z-score which is 1.96 for a 95% confidence level p is the population proportion of those who voted in Rivers State which is 15.6% e is the margin of error which we take as 5% N is the population size (total number of polling units in Rivers State) which is 6866.
The result is mind boggling.
RESULT So after collating the results sheets from randomly selected 198 polling units, APC got a total of 4637 votes, LP got 8129 votes, NNPP got 47 votes and PDP got 3578 votes. So LP (and not APC as we were meant to believe) got the majority of votes followed by APC, then PDP and finally NNPP. Infact LP got more than 50% of the vote such that if you combine APC and PDP votes its still less than LP’s votes. This corroborates Peter Obi claim that he got 50% of the votes in Rivers State.
This means LP won more than 12 States (13 States or perhaps more) and APC won less than 12 States (11 States or perhaps less). With this result, I begin to wonder if there are other States with this kind of glaring discrepancies.
Caveat: Whether the results from IREV is authentic or not is a matter for another discuss. My focus was just to use the results I saw on the IREV Portal.
It's very obvious that the results loaded up on to iRev were doctored,let labour ask for the paper results from INEC n compare it with the ones in their possession, that's where the abracadabra would be exposed.
This is stupid comparison, labour are showing cases of over voting n results alterations in Lagos,let APC show same against them in anambra n let's compare,not this nonsense.im not Igbo but you are free to insult me if you don't like the truth.
If the US want to really punish those destroying elections and democracy in Nigeria and Africa,the visa ban on such people should be extended to also cover their spouses and children,if any of them is in the UK already such should be deported immediately,let the US and her allies try this n see how those guys would sit up.
The PDP n LP are underrating criminal ingenuity of INEC,they should have known this from the onset n make photocopies of any documents of interest they inspect at INEC,in fact the real issue they should have fought for was the pasting of results at the polling units on conclusion of election before moving to colation centres are stipulated by law, this is more helpful than electronic transfer of results, admittedly INEC chair fooled many people with his promise m assurance of electronic transfer of results while he was actually cooking up his dubious plans.