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Toks2008:
No matter how aggravated you may be and no matter how sure you think you know what caused a misunderstanding between a couple,before you interfere please note that there are always 3 sides to the story.

1.Her version.
2.His version
3.The truth

Ironically there is usually something neither of the two will hardly voice out and that is always most likely the cause of the problem yet they may never voice it out.

This is why we must be extremely careful to judge or mediate in any marital or even any man and woman love affair because at the end,you will be put in the middle and your good intentions will be seen as sinister.

So when next anybody comes to you asking you to mediate in any romantic fiasco,please start your advice by saying..."IF WHAT YOU JUST SAID IS TRUE"...So that at the end you will be exulnurated.

Be wise.

I think the first step is to spell "exulnurated" correctly. Then u can now put ur long mouth for them matter.

Mehn...2Shotz no make am o...see canvas n shirt like baba fryo's own. Mehn...

yommys01:
I got married on Saturday 20th of February 2016. We were in an hotel till Monday, wanted us to stay longer but she refused saying she wants to go home ( that used to be my house).

Ever since we got home yesterday ( Monday), she has been crying. Called her mom, she prayed for her, my mom called her too and prayed for her.

She stopped crying for a while, we woke up with another round of crying this morning.

This is breaking my heart. I hate to cry as it often leads me to depression now I am close to tears myself.

I don't know if I have done something wrong or what to do. It is hurting as she cries.

When we were dating, she finds it difficult without her family for long " oh, I am already missing my dad, I am already missing my siblings" could this be the reason?

One day she came to mine from home as we have Dr appointment early and she lives in another state, she got to mine and 1 hour later she wanted to go home. "I am missing my dad sha" which got me annoyed then.

Could it be that the crying now is linked? She is 25 and I am 30 and we spent quite some time together before marriage. The fact we used to be together for so long makes it more confusing. This is a house she has always been in why the crying now?

It is hurting me. Badly and I am confused.

What do I do?

Lol. You ignored something important while dating her. You married a baby. Lol
Had a gf a while back. Lovely in her mid 20s. She n her mom talked a lot on phone (parents are in naija) mentions her dad's name every time but I thought that was fine. Then, one December, she couldn't travel home. Then the world collapsed. She kept crying. Saying I miss my family (family who were in d country to see her in like October if d same year o), I miss my lil sis, etc etc. I thought this was a joke until I couldn't sleep all through December period. Wanted me to take her to Las Vegas just for d weekend...too sudden...too unreasonable...too selfish. I suggested a closer place...more cries...and cries...and cries...and cries...my dad would v done this my dad would have done that. Worst Christmas of my life!
Bottom line, she's attached to her parents - kinda spoilt, babyish.

That girl funny no be small

Graphic designs. I did school/students magazines, bulletins, church flyers, football schedules, and sold all over Lagos back in my Hustle days. An I made cash...not much though . It was a great beginning...and now I do it as a side along my own professional career as a policy analyst...how's that?

#DoSomething
#StartSomething
#NoSiddonLook
##StartSmall
#HumbleBeginning

Lol

Shoooot! I know this guy na. Why na?

Shoooot! I know this guy na. Why na?

No, don't dump her.

See old man acting with d brain of a 12yo...Nna mehn.

If #Olamide catch the compiler of this list eh...I SMH.
#EyanMayweather #Back2Back #Ibile #StreetDonTakeOver #Shakiti #Baddosneh

But what's wrong with what she's wearing?

DeathStroke007:
A street bread seller becomes an object of half unclothedness on the front pages of magazines and that's success
You may never know what true success is until you die and find yourself among those who submitted to their creator or those who would be losers in the Hereafter.
The dictionary may define success but it can't define true success..
Quran 3:19,Qur'an 3:85,Qur'an 3:102

Go sidon one place joor. Awon ma saanfani

Fine girl

That year car's engine noise can deafen a dead man...not a cool car, from personal expi...two years tops he's gonna ditch d shit...but congrats sha Mr fineboy.

midehi2:
oops

cool, romantic..but you black o

No na, na only the lips and shoes black jare

Oh boy see names o Nor be Elfebor be that so abi na autocorrect?

Fiwasayo:

Oh my! You are pretty. Can we be friends? Pretty please.

Prof Soremekun? From Faculty of Arts, OAU?

Jacko1:
Hmmm wer is mtn ng bruh

Lol...it's koodo bruh, it's Canadian.

igwe44:
Check me out.

Nice. Looks like we have same contents on d screen

RealYaks:
My own

This is so adorable!

Mine. Shekirout!

mysticgal:
Lemme do this

This is cute

What shall we then eat? Fried stone with engine oil juice? Na wah for una abeg. Small time now, we g hear say rice and beans kill faster than zika.

It could be surgically corrected but I ll tell u it's a waste of time n money. It comes with old age w w breed of dog. I had a bingo several years back n af 14-15yrs went blind (cataract) deaf n susceptible to every infection. It eventually died after al effort t keep it alive failed.

vybzkartel:
She wakes up at 6am

sometimes after 6 am

and i believe a virtuous wife should be waking up earlier

I am often up by 4am or 5 am

She wakes up late and doesnt pray

I have been diplomatic, harsh and all...but she hasnt changed. what do i do?

So when you wake up at 4-5am, what do u to before 6am? Catch up on Nairaland?

I have seen this picture before for something else. It's either it's a fake picture or a fake news. That picture definitely aint the right one.

You need pink forehead too...

You mean your ex-girlfriend? No?

Next time, put Graphic Pictures! Viewer discretion!!!

A man must accept his fate or be destroyed by it...Quintus Lentulus Batiatus (Spartacus season 1)