₦airaland Forum

OP, you should have been more spontaneous with your action around her. When you are in a room with a lady, don't premeditate your actions. Meanwhile, I don't support forcing a lady, but I enjoy giving ladies benefit of doubt.

Hahaha, this girl is not aware that we are joining three queues in Nigeria before you get anything.

LoL, Ikpeazu Okezie, how market?

After this election, Peter Obi should consider a career in the entertainment industry. Obi and his supporters can be unnecessary dramatic.

The Nnamanis are really doing wonder in Enugu politics. Let's watch and see.

Please put that dress on and come to the palace of Sultan of Sokoto let's celebrate the birthday there, I want to check something.

If you can't come then visit Yobe or Zamfara, nice places to celebrate birthday with such dress.

Peter Obi
Yahaya Bello
Ikpeazu Okezie or Ortom Samuel.

Sometimes I wonder how people think. Peter Obi governed Anambra State for eight years and there's nothing extraordinary in Anambra for that eight years. What will Peter Obi do differently as Nigeria's president that he failed to do as Anambra State governor?

The mystery how the repackaged Anambra State fraudulent Obi suddenly became Messiah must be the most stupidest mystery in the world.

Peter Obi have nothing to offer, he has the same intention as Tinubu and Atiku, to loot the country. No Nigerian politician cares.

That's how politics should be. We should have grown beyond politics of bitterness. But Umahi decamping to APC is politically unfortunate for him.

Religion is the most dangerous weapon after Neo- colonialism. It has done more harm than good to the human race.

TIGERSKY:
Life can be very peaceful indeed..,

Smiles, this is my Nairaland picture of the year. Very funny with inspiring thought.

LINSAR:
Can you control the corruption of your president?

We can only tackle the immorality at our reach.
I blame NBC.

Why can't you blame EFCC?
Why can't you blame ICPC?
Why can't you blame Police?
Why can't you blame INEC?

If we can't control the corruption of the president who is elected and suppose to operate by the dictate of the Law, then how do you intend to control the sexual behavior of adults who do not hinder political nor economic development?

As far as the lady is the one sending her own money to her parents, then no problem. But I won't support burdening and cheating your husband in the name of sending money to your parents.

Whenever they mentioned moral, people think about sex as immoral. In a country where corruption and religious commercialization is flourishing, you are talking about sex. Before Netflix, has there been morality in Nigeria?

Was it Netflix that made politicians to be looting money?

Was it Netflix that made religious hypocrisy to grow?

Was it Netflix that politicize our security?

Was it Netflix that encourage people to be singing praises of Tinubu and others?

Morality is an archaic word in this country. People are fornicating everyday without Netflix, people are raping people without Netflix.

Mount Zion is there for anyone that can't watch Netflix?

OP, I have always watched my elder brother putting me before his wife. He made sacrifices, inconvenience himself for me the way he never did for his wife. Then one day I asked him why he always does that. He looked up at me and said; never in my life should I choose a partner over family.

Personally, I can go to any length to sacrifice for my family. I can sacrifice that parasitic and self centred relationship just to help a family, I won't think twice.

The kind of help and encouragement I have received from family, I don't think a girlfriend or any girl at all can tell me how to help my family.

From my elder brother, I have learned to leave my doors open for family come rain or sunshine.

You are a great brother for always standing up for your sister and I will advise you to take your stand with that girl. An NYSC Corp should know the importance of shelter. I bet if she is contributing anything apart from sex.

Family first.

I spent my Christmas in Owerri, and that was my first time being there. I enjoyed the place. I visited the tertiary institutions there and the unknown gunmen skills were obvious.

I spent two weeks in Owerri and I didn't see ugly girl. Very beautiful and tempting girls they have over there.

Badb0y4lyf:
When will Efcc persecute this man there is too much evidence against him but yet he walks free rich criminals are no longer arrested. The law and suffering if for the poor.
Atiku, Emefiele, Bullion Van and drug lord thief tinubu are still walking free

If the law is really working, even Peter Obi should be Tinubu and Atiku's roommate in prison.

LoL, this Nigeria must really be a comedy show in heaven.

HellVictorinho7:
No
There are rich African girls or women


Point is if a girl or woman likes or loves you, you won't have to complain about what she gets from you.

There's no love in this context. The girls are fond of saying they can't marry broke guys and they are broke themselves. Why can't they make their own money before looking for a guy who is rich? They are jobless and broke and the only daft reasoning is that by marrying a rich man they too become automatically rich.

I personally don't have problem with girls wanting to marry rich guys, but I don't know why they can't be productive for themselves first.

When I see two industrious individuals getting married, it's a beautiful thing, but this parasitic and opportunistic marriage is financially and emotionally toxic.

I don't know how to eat in someone's house, whether a friend, neighbor or relative. I have tried but I can't.

I don't know how to drink Gin, it's always burning my chest. I have tried but I don't know how to enjoy it.

Prayer, I don't pray before sleeping or when I wake up. I have tried but I just go about my business.

I don't know how to wear cloth twice, if I wear once I must wash before wearing it again.

Don't know how to eat meat, I have tried but anything meat, fish, crayfish, crap and egg is something I can't eat.

Deep down I want to be a computer whizkid, but somehow I don't know much.

And the list continue...

Whenever this topic comes up. I keep asking myself. What prevent the ladies from getting rich?

In school,we have girls in our department, they have equal opportunity to education, they are healthy and complete, why can't they work their way to riches? Must they depend on ready made men to cross societal stratum?

With this kind of daft reasoning, the comical feminism cannot succeed in this world, especially in Africa and particularly in Nigeria.

LoL, God this new year,as you are bless some people with money, please bless others with sense. Comments won't kill me.

OP, she wants you to be open, chatty, socialize, have fun and be jovial and playful. It doesn't connotes relationship interest in that statement.

LoL, so because you don't have money, you think everyone doesn't money?

I understand that people do the unexpected for people they genuinely love. So I won't categorically judge a lady as bad because of such act, but I think a lady with sound moral, religious and logical background will go so low as sending nudes to a lover.

For once, I am not a fan of nudes, so I have never asked any lady for nudes and I won't ask either.

OP, if you are still confuse, then ask Empress Njama.

You have your girlfriend to yourself, but because she is not good enough, you go ahead and start cheating on her with someone better. Now she discovered your indiscipline and left your ass. You have all the room to stay with the side chick but you are now begging your ex girlfriend to come back. What exactly is wrong with you? Emotional confusion or Buhari effect?

Life really dealt with your lady. These past-present problems she faced and still facing are quite enormously unpleasant, especially as regards your intention towards her.

In this life, I don't want stress. Any relationship that threatens my sanity or peace of mind, a relationship that bring emotional pains as karma for the past sins of my partner is not for me.

However, if you can handle her past, go ahead, perhaps, you are her destiny helper.

Those people criticising Soludu for not supporting Peter Obi are delusional and unrealistic. Peter Obi supported Valentine Ozigbo of PDP against Soludu in the last election, but they want that Soludu to support Obi.

Politics is a game of interest, I won't support my blood brother if our interest is not politically aligned. Even Saraki and his sister didn't support each other.

Soludu, if you are lucky, you can become the president from Igbo extraction.

As a man, when you know your value, you will definitely have standards when it comes to relationship.

May we not marry what we can't explain.

Tell her you want iPhone 14, apple laptop or portable Benz.

That your girlfriend is not serious. So after dating you for sometime, she needs to ask you before figuring out the kind of birthday gift she will get for you.