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Truvelisback:
That means u haven't seen a movie that aleast brought a tear down ur eyes. Or do u try to avoid seeing such films?

Professionally, since it's my field, I don't watch movie with my emotions. I am critical when watching movie, so I don't get caught in the actor's fictional euphoria or catharsis.

Somebody that will not last up to five minutes won't allow Nairaland rest.

As a Theatre Arts graduate, who have undergone the nitty-gritty of movie, I don't cry, for it will be failure on my part to cry. The plot, actions and characters, especially the tragic hero that invoke the audience empathy display a make believe actions, and sometimes, we are asked to apply suspension of disbelief, but, as a thespian, I don't cry for movies.

Cinema4d:
Ignore the "what ifs" focus on being the best at it. And trust me, success will chase you pants down.

Thanks man, I appreciate this encouragement.

VictorUSA:
You regret doing away with a lady that sees you as option B? Really?

No, I am not regretting the breakup, I only regretted the way I treated her. It was very heartless.

Why should I regret breaking up with a girl when we have girls everywhere?

VictorUSA:
How did you mess up the relationship?

When I was graduating, she was going to 300 level, I don't do distance relationship, it's not for me, I don't have the mental, emotional and financial capacity to sustain distance relationship. I would have sit her down and discuss with her as educated individuals but I didn't know how to handle the discussion.

But to be honest, when I was asking her out, she did lot of things that made me mad, so after year she returned to me after she broke up with her ex. I was already into different girls and when she asked to be my girlfriend, I reluctantly agreed in order not to hurt her or I agreed to maybe make her mad too. But I felt she saw me as option B to her boyfriend. So no matter how the love was genuine, I didn't appreciate it.

Although, I regretted my action towards her now. If I have another chance, I will love and appreciate her and I wouldn't let her go again.

I had a girlfriend like that few years ago. That babe can go to any length to impress me. She calls everyday, sent airtime, cooked and clean and sleepover.

It's from Felicia that I understood that when a girl genuinely love you, she won't stress you. But I messed up the relationship, I guess we met at the wrong time.

Life is hard, quite correct. Sometimes, when people talk about God and all that, I look at them and I don't know if I should laugh or cry.

Why creating people and bringing them into this world full of atrocities and expect them to be holy? I don't want to blaspheme, but life doesn't have any meaning if we are all dying one day and going to be judged and punished for what we have no control over.

Michelle70:
My brother, Life was structured to be hard by default.

we are the ones who make life easy

I can't pretend not to admire you. I mean, your intelligent response got me thinking.

Life has always been hard, humans are the ones trying to make it easy.

Nobody cares about the six months old relationship boyfriend that got breakfast. Logically, in as much as I am happy for OP and her man, I think this story should be an opium or rather, a Clarion call for people to watch out in their relationship.

Don't allow people love you out of pity, never settle for less, don't be an option in someone's life. The six months old relationship boyfriend was used to filled the vacuum, you see the kind of thing people do? Use you till when the unavailable become valuable. I pity the heartbroken comrade.

By the way, congratulations to you and your man, I wish you the very best.

What will become of me next year. What will happen to my life after seven months from now.

My passion and determination to work in a media firm, whether radio, television, magazine, media organization. What if I don't achieve this dream?

I guess those of us that are yet to have kids should learn from this thread and plan our lives well.

garfield1:
Muazu did nothing to gej,buhari has alwats won bauchi.apc dominates katsina.atiku is Jo favourite,the north is divided

A national chairman of a party contesting presidential election abandoned his party candidate and flew out of the country on the eve of the election, means nothing to you?

Bala Muhammad and Fintiri of Bauchi and Adamawa, all won a sitting governor of the ruling party. As it stands right now, APC cannot win Katsina if election holds today. Buhari is not in the picture anymore and even the APC Northern politicians are already giving Tinubu body language.

kevclin:
ATIKU will not win. OBi is the favorite.
Who are the North you guys keep talking about? I'm also from the North. North will be divided between Atiku & OBi. If u talk of North West, remove Kaduna cos Obi also stand aW chance to win Kaduna. Infact, Obi can also win Adamawa where Atiku hails from, If they choose to play a religious card.

Obi winning Adamawa? You must be Joseph the dreamer. If you are in the North and is currently living in the North, you will see the handwriting that the North will favour Atiku Abubakar.

I am also from the North and still living in the North. Even the last time I visited Daura, Buhari's village, they are highly Atikulated. The APC campaign office in Katsina have been taking over by PDP.

I don't know who is going to win, but saying Obi will win the North must be voted as joke of the year.

kevclin:
ATIKU will not win. OBi is the favorite.
Who are the North you guys keep talking about? I'm also from the North. North will be divided between Atiku & OBi. If u talk of North West, remove Kaduna cos Obi also stand a chance to win Kaduna. Infact, Obi can also win Adamawa where Atiku hails from, If they choose to play a religious card.

Obi winning Adama? You must be Joseph the dreamer. If you are in the North and is currently living in the North, you will see the handwriting that the North will favour Atiku Abubakar.

I am also from the North and still living in the North. Even the last time I visited Daura, Buhari's village, they are highly Atikulated. The APC campaign office in Katsina have been taking over by PDP.

I don't know who is going to win, but saying Obi will win the North must be voted as joke of the year.

Nyamuri:
Lol who is Atiku's dominant force in the north!! U fools will just wake up a type rubbish.. that's why u don't know anything about elections and keep getting it wrong each election circle

Most heavyweights from the north are in APC! Is there any force as strong as governor, senator, HOR, HOA etc in a state

You guys don't know shit about how the north work but ull open ur big gutter mouth because u have read some nonsense margins on social media

Comrade, you can still express your opinion without calling others fools. You are saying something about governors in APC, we are also in North, and one thing I know that the Northern politicians don't work with logic the way you think. Adamu Mauzu was a PDP national chairman but you saw what he did to Jonathan.

Even Buhari local government is dominated by PDP. I don't know who will win but if you are living in the North, you will know that for now, Atiku Abubakar is the favorite.

When I find myself in that position with the current miasma the country is stuck in, I will definitely reject such honour.

There's nothing to be excited about when the country is a victim of leadership miscarriage.

After reading the low budget modelled English romance story, I smiled in order not to insult OP.

Either op invented this story to get reactions or OP is smoking the same weed with Potable and FFK.

How can a reasonable man cope with a cheating partner? She is poor, according to you, you decided to become her sidecock and when the main guy left the overused kpekus, you gladly inherited it like your birthright. Someone that serially cheated on her boyfriend with you is the same girl you want her to be faithful?

OP is even busy forgiving the community kpekus. OP, your girlfriend is democracy, kpekus by the boys, of the boys and for the boys.

The distance between this OP and sense is like Akwa Ibom to Sokoto, veeerrryyy faaaaaaarrr.

MuslimIgbo:
Whether you like it or not, you can't eat your cake and have. Even if you repent, you'll still face RETRIBUTIONS.
Forgiveness doesn't mean that there won't be consequences.
The prodigal son repented, but he still lost all his inheritance...
Lastly, my daughters will never be WHORÈS and SLÚTs. I can never raise a hoe. I'll rather be childless forever than raise a hoe.
I didn't mess with people's daughters or take advantage of them, so nobody can mess with my daughters.

Clean your mouth and stop whining yourself.

MuslimIgbo:
All your rants and wailing are very unnecessary.
Look back to what you said you've done. If you had a daughter and you sent her to school and a boy used them like that, will you be happy with it?
And how do you think you'd mess with people's daughters and yours would be virtuous?
Lastly, would you like your daughter to end of with someone like you of such pedigree?

You that is still a virgin,it will not stop your daughter and sister from being used by boys, you can wail all the way you want.

MuslimIgbo:
If you're not just capping for some useless attention and likes,
Tell me how you won't end up marrying a leftover loose used product WHORÈ with double or triple digits bodycount, including with married men, and how do you think your daughters won't be passed around like football by different men?

In life, YOU CAN'T EAT YOUR CAKE AND HAVE IT.
YOUR DIRTY PAST WILL ALWAYS COME BACK TO BITE YOU IN THE ASS.
THAT'S LIFE!

I will try to be polite enough in responding to you.

First of all, I am not after virgin, a piece of hymen is not a yardstick for assessing a woman that will be a great wife or not. Wife is beyond sexual abstinence. We have girls that won't allow you penetrate them but they will give you Mouth Gig, give you anal sex too.

Nevertheless, I have done sh*t in the past like most Nigerian students in tertiary institutions. I didn't rape any of those girls, it was all consensual intercourse. I did not use drugs or alcohol or jazz on any of them. We agreed to do it.

Moreso, you are not without sin yourself, I don't see why you are so bothered about consequences that I will face, you should have allowed my daughter to speak for herself. You that is sexually clean, does that mean your daughters and sisters are not been passed from one dick to another? Allow me to carry my cross.

PS: I am not interested in marrying a virgin. I will marry who is ready to be a wife.

Lucrativress:
If this is true
How do you feel?
I'm sure you were holding tight to your medal while typing this....

We all got a past we ain't proud of, we all have done sh*t we ain't proud of too. Let the one without sin be the first to cast the stone.

Wealthbrain22:
Exactly, now I don’t care about their body or face anymore, it’s about character and sense of humor plus intelligence level

Intelligence and sense of humor top my list when looking for a woman. I don't joke with that.

This is one of the many things you guys will disagree on as couple. When you want to marry, you need to discuss everything from religion, family, education, business, finance, career, everything to avoid confusion.

If you want her to change her name and she didn't want to change her name, I don't think the marriage is still necessary if we have to be disagreeing over things like this.

It's very possible and a simple thing to do for girls but this story is very unrealistic. I think OP brought this fake or imaginary story here just for us to bash women.

God, if you know I will marry and end up being a tool in her hand, please take me far away from marriage.

Some men are just too inefficient and careless about their lives. How can a full grown man allow his marriage to degenerate to this caricature of a marriage?

I don't have all the time to risk my peace of mind over a woman that have decided to distribute kpekus around.

OP, know when to let go and move on. When it's not working, then walk away. Anything marriage that threatens your sanity and cost you your peace of mind is too expensive.

Try and restore your marriage and if you can't, it's time to let it go. Don't allow someone love you out of pity.

Great write up, but these girls won't hear. They think kpekus will sell forever.

Isaiah 4:1

The Bible isn't lying. But she made the right choice. Love over everything.

Madness is so cheap that everybody can afford it.

Hahaha, she made the right choice. Love, companionship, family over everything. These Nairaland low budget beggers parading themselves as hungry feminist will soon come for her, they don't understand reality yet, kpekus won't sell forever.

Professor A.D. Menegbe once said that; I have never seen or meet a feminist who is genuinely happy. They all come to social media and camera to fake smiles and deceive deluded girls, but deep down, they return to their home and weep in the secret of their room. Naturally, life is meant to be enjoyed, but they choose to be miserable just for clout.

Sure we still have many virgin girls around. I had experience that made me believe we have many virgin girls.

Back in school few years ago, I was in 200 level and the new 100 level girls were something else in terms of appearance. When you see them dress indecently you will think they are porn star. My class guys deflowered more than half of them, I was part of the guys too. A particular girl which I can swear with my life that she has more than ten body count was deflowered in my room,on my bed.

Another experience was in 300 level when the girls I had intercourse with, six of them were virgin, I was the one that deflowered them, including a final year girl and one girl that has graduated but came to collect her result.

They are girls around me that I think are lose but when we got into bed I met them a virgin.

You may see some girls because of their dressing and behavior around boys you will think this one is lose.

Among all the girls I had, the ones that are virgin are more than those ones that are not virgin.