₦airaland Forum

Rozross:
What you did was very bad, she bought something to eat because she didnt eat from what she prepared for you and a caring man will never eat alone.Go beg her for forgiveness and make up for it.

The distance between you and sense is like the distance between Akwa Ibom and Sokoto, veeerrryyy faaaaaaarrr.

If I find myself in this situation, if my wife like she should not eat anything in the house, those people fasting in church are not bigger than her. If she feels sharing is important in marriage then why didn't she share with you the one she bought?

You see why I always say marriage is not for me? I hate what I don't like, I should foolishly allow myself to be manipulated by women simply because I want to keep a marriage.

Hmmm, op, I am very passionate about be on air as in media, be it radio, television, magazine, newspaper or media aid to someone, public relations officer.

I have strong passion for communication which explains why I love media. The act of educating, informing and entertaining the public is my greatest passion.

I have crazy passion for writing too,especially writing novels, short stories, drama. I am passionate about being an actor, a visual storyteller.

I love working with people to achieve particular goal. I love intellectual discussion with different people, and I love providing solutions to people's problems.

I love doing MC, education, campaigner.

It is my passion that convinced me to study Theatre Arts in the University.

If I die without working in media outlet, that means I died without achieving my dreams, because that's my greatest dream.

One time like that in the University, one senior comrade brought gun to my room to warn me to stop dating my first University girlfriend because he liked her. As a humble Comrade, I left the girl and the girl was mad at me and she wanted to hurt me so she ended up sleeping with my guy who is also a senior comrade too. I don't even know if it was the girl or my guy that served me that breakfast.

Then I served another girl breakfast and I regretted doing that to her, she had given her all to that relationship in school, but I was not ready for distance relationship so I served her the breakfast very hot and spicy.

Chummynoni:
That was my first love,LoL. She broke up with me more than 10years ago because I gained admission into university with the excuse that I would cheat,LoL. Well, something’s are blessings in disguise because I met my wife in the university and it has been blessings since then. Thank you for leaving my life for a better woman to come in

You are lucky bro. I met a woman in University that supposed to be my wife but I messed everything up, although I regretted everything but life goes on.

I met one in my street, the first time I visited her shop, a fashion designer, she spent the whole time insulting imaginary toasters she was telling me about. She said she likes to date educated man and was smiling at me, but honestly, I don't even like her from the way she talked about those men. She started calling me "my love" but I ignored her. After years with ladies, this one thinks she can manipulate me. These days we will just greet and walk away.

I can't just see your beautiful face and drool, my kind of woman must be highly intelligent, humane, productive and have respect and sense of humor.

Smiles, life have a way of playing with our lives. Standard or no standard, OP, you will still marry the one that life has bestow on you.

OP, this your thread brought back memories of Felicia that will do everything to have me to herself. She calls, she send airtime, she visits, she cook, she was there as a lover, friend, sister and everything. I have been wondering since I graduated from school the reason why I hurt that girl, but I don't know.

Sometimes, we meet people that we become their priority and we just messed everything up and start prioritizing other people that aren't worth it in our lives.

Dear Felicia, I am deeply sorry and I regretted my actions towards you. I know you won't love me again but I pray you meet someone that will treat you great and respect you. You are the only girl I regretted losing.

OP, if you don't love the girl, ignore her and move on. Don't force yourself to love her, if it doesn't happen naturally then ignore her. You will meet ladies that will catch your fancy at long run.

May we not meet the love of our lives when we are married, and may we not meet the love of our lives when we are not ready. Amen.

Medianna:
You see someone who is falling head heel for you, and you're rejecting her.
Later now you come and start shouting that 'Nigerian ladies cannot love a man, they only love your money'.
Tell her hoo-haa to look for another guy that will reciprocate her love cuz you can't do it.

Hahaha, the money that the OP don't even have.

We were fool so that we will be wise.

Before the wisdom comes the foolishness.

Gentility is not stupidity.

You have learned your lesson. Genuinely loving some people isn't worth it. This experience should sharpen your thoughts and shape your feeling for ladies.

Swallow the pill and become the King you are.

The way some people behave in their relationship sometimes is annoying. Are you guys enemies? Even girl I followed on Thursday came to my place today. Are you guys actually in love or it's a relationship of convenient? If she is my girlfriend, she must be Hot around me. Nonsense and Buhari.

Most girls have rape story, I don't know why they keep on telling that bullsh*t. Either their auntie's husband rape them or their uncle, even their first boyfriend rape them too.

Some girls like about not understanding their L1 and be forming phonetics, they can't even speak the English fluently.

OP, my candid advice is that take down your song and take up your English first.

Your writing is very incoherent.

But sincerely, leave the girl and focus on building yourself by pursuing your dreams. Work on your sound too because what you uploaded there is not a song yet.

If you like give a girl your first kidney, she will forget you the moment your neighbor start dicking her. Girls will be fvcking a guy and still be telling you that he is just a friend. Girls will be fvcking a guy and still be telling you that he is not their spec.

Girls cannot remember you for anything good because they are not there to love you but to get what they can from you.

If you really want a girl to remember you for long, just give her belle. When she becomes your baby mama she will remember you.

Cheers to mothers that are great, not the ones that call their children bastard.

Cheers to real women, not low budget beggers.

Cheers to Family and genuinest friends, not parasites.

Stop Billing your man, allow him to do the giveaway at his convenience.

But for me, just have sense.

Blessedmercy8:
Do you go to weekly church programs?
I doubt because if you do, your flesh will be kept under as your spirit is being lifted at such programs but it's obvious the only things you feed your soul with are thoughts of sex and wild imaginations of sex.
Watching sexual videos and all sorts.

If you want to get your mind off it, think and dwell more on spiritual things like the word of God. Gospel songs and if possible, fasting and prayers asking the holy spirit to help ( he can help you). That is if you're even a christian.

LoL, auntie, when konji knocks even holy Spirit will humble, konji is no respecter of church or mosque.

For school that year, I don drink garri go have sex before, comrade refused to have sex with empty stomach, I can't cum and kill myself.

If you like stay away from girls in ten years, when you return to them Nigerian girls will still serve you breakfast. Prepare your heart for more heartbreaks until you no longer have heart.

PS: Jesus loves you too.

Man is going through a lot and forgot to compliment his wife, and the wife who is eating free food and living in free house don't have any problem apart from husband singing her praise because of new cloth.

One thing I don't like in this life is stress. I can endure stress for the sake of family and few friends, but God knows I can't be in a stressful relationship.

My peace of mind is unnegotiable.

Our relationship will also go through surgery and all of us will be fake, fvcking fake body in our fake relationship.

I didn't see D Banj there or he didn't show?

lucky4west:
...OIL DE YOUR HEAD, CORRECT GUY WHEN SABI

Thanks my Comrade. The goal is to support and encourage those who are ready to gain their ground and succeed, not bankrolling vaginarians fake life.

May God bless me to spend on family, friends and strangers, but may I never spend money on girls that think it's their birthright because they have kpekus.

I am not afraid of growing old, I am only afraid if I don't grow old.

OP, you are a real man and I admire your lifestyle. The problem is that Christians judge people by their religious creed and laws. In a country that permit freedom of association and worship, why forcing your religion on other people?

It's the same problem I face with my name. Whenever someone ask me of my name, I simply reply; Demigod Francis Augustine. They will be like I can't call you Demigod, what the fvck?You have problem with my name, your headache.

People are just messed up by this religious crap, I mean no disrespect. But I won't judge someone by their beliefs.

Michelle70:
Give them some break biko.
Its not always their fault.

Some tried to build something till late 20's only for the man to run away. e deh happen.

Some left school probably at 24 and build a career till late twenties, afterall if they didnt build, u will still tag them leech and how they didnt bring anything to the table.

I have read a story on NL where a married man decieved a lady to marry him, only to find out he was married on her wedding days, how could u blame her?

Please being a Nigerian is enough to torment us, do not force someone into depression with ur words, Alot of kidnapping, rituals, forceful marriage is going on cos the society has decide to force a standard down our throat

If Warren buffet had set a standard for us, everybody was suppose to be a millionaire at 29yrs.

The standard was set by the society, then who is the society? Both man and woman.

When you get to burial, who always maltreat the widow and shave the widow's hair? The fellow women.

This life no balance at all.

While we have ladies that are in four different solid serious relationships, others don't even have one.

OP, you are very correct, we have ladies that put their early years into their career, ladies that wants something meaningful and genuining but don't meet guys that are intentional about relationship.

But, those type of ladies are few. The majority of them are whoring and exploring different gbola at early years, thinking that's the life, but if Buhari tenure will elapse,then what is kpekus that won't expired?

These girls bashing in their lack of foresight and myopic tendency, busy setting unrealistic expectations and silly standards for men to attain before dating them, so what do you expect?

Even my coursemate, a girl posted on her Facebook about how a girl shouldn't be with a man that can't support her financially, and I smiled. What happen to the modern feminist and independent lady supporting her man?

When I listen to some girls talk or read their post on Facebook, I am usually amused and eternally grateful to God for creating me a man.

Run to the nearest church in your area and give thanks to the Lord for saving you from that daughter of Eve.

Are you surprised when a dog behave like a dog? That's how girls these days behave.

westvic:
I'm in rivers state.. I can be your help

What part of Rivers State are you so we can link up?

Up Burna boy and congratulations to Teni. Tuface, you try too.

LoL, maybe when Atiku Abubakar become president, he will award Davido.