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i cannot see where this post make anysense.

Your wife cheated and left the house and you begging her to come back yet she's still giving you conditions for coming back, yet you are worried about that.

there's something the OP is hiding.

Maybe he's planning to kill her when she comes back.

Igbos and ignorance are like bread and butter.

I wrote fla.tties not Igbos...MODs

As I'm not the type that post on nairaland except for some reasons, your thread is something out of this world!
With all the problems you faced as a child and after seven years of your initial post you are still existing and far better?! all I can say is...WOW!
You are far younger than I am but you inspire me.
I thank God for your life and I pray you grow better still.
God bless You.


PS: Stay away from pastors and prophets, read the bible, pray and praise God at all times and if you need to go to church, go to ones that are about worship and praises and cross-check sermons at all times so that they would not lead you astray.

If you want to humour yourself with headpounding laughter, just open to any biafra thread

If you want to humor yourself with head-pounding laughter, just open to any biafra thread

Christianity is only a religion formed by men, not the will of God.
The same goes for other religions.

the will of God for men is righteousness(as passed to us in the OT, Quran) giving to the orphans and widows(at least) and accepting christ as the savior of mankind(which is the new convenant).

So,men marry women and provide for them not the other way round. God does not condemn polygamy because He gave different roles to men and women.

nowadays you don't need half literate church leaders to explain what they dont understand to you...just google 'polygamy in the bible and take your own understanding from different authors.

frosbel2:
Let us apply your logic to scripture and remember even Paul referred to scripture ( not the new testament ) as ;
"All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness," - 2 Timothy 3:16

Now , in the so called New Testament, Jesus said that the only reason why Moses permitted divorce in the ancient days , was due to the hardness of heart of his people in the context of divorce. It was never about marrying another wife , it was about putting away a wife or wives. There is no other reason Jesus gave in relation to their hardness of heart, like marrying multiple women for example.

The Bible says that God does not change, in other words he expects the same standards from ALL mankind whether they lived 1 million or 10 years ago.

Using your logic we can call David, Jacob, Abraham and many others SERIAL ADULTERERS because they married MORE THAN ONE WOMAN, yet God never condemned them, in fact he called them righteous and loved them. David was condemned and punished for adultery not because he had many wives but because he slept with , and impregnated another man's wife and then had him killed. Solomon was not condemned because he had many wives and even concubines, he was condemned and punished because he married heathen women who took his heart away from God. None of these great men were told to drive away their other wives and remain with the first one.

The suggestion that a man who has 4 wives should get rid of the later 3 with their children is unscriptural, evil, wicked, mad , stupid, devilish and not from GOD at all, it is a figment of imagination in the minds of MOG followers who stick to the words of their pastors and their warped interpretation of scripture, without reasoning things out for themselves.

I personally have ONE WIFE and would not marry another purely because more than ONE WOMAN = STRESS AND TROUBLE and increased Financial commitment in this modern time, not because I can't !!!

I LOVE THIS GUY!!!

The question of gender equality made me confirm satan really exists. God had created man and woman equally with different physiology, psychology and roles and these over the millennia, and these had kept the world in social balance.

Now that the western country under the guise of equality destroyed the balance, what have they got in return; propagating homosexuality, destruction of marriage institution, high divorce rate, unbalanced children and my favorite one...SLUT WALK.

Why complain if you can't compete.

Sis karo,

Abeg ignore all these numbskulls that try to crucify u, they are either not there yet or have been there and are football in the hands of their husbands.

keep ur home, ignore the bull brains.

Somebody should explain gender equality pls. This topic is so confusing!!!

Yab me and die tommorrow.

Strahovski1:
Polygamy is trash. Op must be a big fool for this trash of a thread. Indirectly permitting men to be adulterous.

So a nigerian woman getting married must be ready to share her husband with A MISTRESS. You must be a promiscuous man and I have pity on your wife. It's men like your self who promote infidelity in marriages and claim religion. At least polygamy there is official marriage not some useless mistress of a wh0re.

Ok op please don't come back to Nairaland to tell us you caught yor wife fvcking your driver. You must be ready to share your wife with another man either as a boyfriend or a sugar daddy.

Nonsense

Why are you so worked up, he's only sharing an OPEN-ONION(obvious opinion). Relax

What every man wants is a woman that...
treats him like a king
looks like a model
bleeps like a IndecentStar

@op,

there is no two way about this, send her back before they turn u to a witch i church. trouble sleep u go carry am foe house.
you can only raise a stubborn ward if its yours and not another person pikin. a word is enough for the wise.

In fact, these biabia get me cracking all the time. Why i always find time to read their post even when i know its silly.
first a yoruba woman married to one of u supported u started disturbing airwaves over it. is she tinuke or adenika, pick one.

now she comes from BERMUDA IN LONDON , then shes from TRINIDAD AND TOBACCO.

all i can say is AMEM to you village people.

wirinet:
Seun needs put install age verification on nairaland before allowing registration, there are too many senseless threads by immature children on this forum lately.

This one is telling us that only Igbos are technocrats (i wonder if the OP understands this word) and Fashola and Fayemi does not fit the his definition.

I keep feeling that Igbos have a general complex problem, because we are inundated daily by Igbos are this, Igbos are that and all others are not.

A person does not bestow greatness on himself, greatness is bestowed by a consensus of others.

I always tell people that only iboes read things upside down. They are yet to prove me wrong.

Eziachi:
Nigerians are their own worst enemies especially the so called masses who are supposed to be the main victims of corruption by politicians and civil servants.

You now have a government through their actions and body language has empowered all agencies of the State to do what the law has empowered them to do but all you get was negative comments riddled with innuendos, conspiracy theories and abject stupidity.
Why would I care if Saraki is being witchhunted for being corrupt? I said the same during OBJs period that if you don't want to be witchhunted, please keep your nose clean and there will be nothing to witch hunt you with.

The very first place a witch hunted victim want to be is the court. So how can you be running away from the court and also screaming witch hunting too? Innocent man supposed to love the court and not using court to prevent self going to another court to defend yourself.

In true democratic climate, people willingly resign from their position, so as to have all the time in the world to clear their name. If Saraki is using a corrupt court injunction to stop self appearing before a court of law, what right has he got making laws and for him? What again is the job the court, if not to punish the guilty and set the innocent free?
The judges the issues this injunctions stopping courts, politics and other agencies from doing their job deserve to be stoned. Bill Clinton was a sitting president when prosecutor Kenneth Starr questioned him over Monica Lewinsky to established if he had prejured himself. He did say am the president, I got immunity or approach so corrupt judges to issue immunity from being questioned.

What moral has Saraki got now asking any person or bodies to appear before any Senate investigative committee to answer questions?
My worst anger are reserved for the idiotic conspiracy theorists going on about APC or Tinubu.
When does the two controls the judiciary or the anti corrupt agencies? Wasn't Tinubu himself docked for operating a foreign account which he appeared and defended himself and the case was struck out for lack of merit?
Why didn't Tinubu use his supposed almighty power then to prevent his own trial? Or use it to prevent Saraki being the Senate president? How can anyone be so daft and bereft?

Some idiots are shouting "why now"? So why not now? Does crime has expiring date? 70 years after the 2nd world war Nazi criminals are still being persecuted for their crimes, so why should a crime committed few years ago be declared as expired because everything in Nigeria is political black and white? Haha!!

What does you Nigerians want? Do you love corruption or just pretend to hate it? If you hate corruption why do you always make excuses for criminals irrespective of their positions; they equally stole through all sorts of electoral malpractices?
No one has ever said that a robber was being witch hunted by the police or his robbery crime has expired and asking police "why now". How many of you will support a robber that got injunction preventing the police from questioning or arrest him? Or even preventing the court for summoning him for trial? But these guys are worse than normal armed robbers.

What a country and what a people!!
A crooked and cursed people!!.

I LOVE THIS GUY

WHOcarex:

swagggg!!!

manze:
you are just out to tarnish the pastor image but you have ended up making him more popular, this i most confess is a blessing in disguise. remember their is a punishment for bearing false witness and accusation and you will never escape from it excerpt you repent and asked God for forgiveness.

You know the truth say it the way it is, what stops you from telling the world the truth that your wife left you because you were raping your house girl who is a minor.

Really? Did he do that? Do you have any evidence to back up?

ShineuEye:
Can Buhari trace his plot of land in Dubai?
Am also trying to trace my plot of land on the moon. Buhari has only N30mil yet his wife can afford N10mil watch.

Who is Buhari trying to fooooool? Who owns that Asokoro lakeside mansion located at number 9, Udo Udoma Street, Asokoro, Abuja?

The N2.1 Billion house below is now my own since Buhari is too ashamed to declare it.

www.nairaland.com/attachments/2477249_5a_jpegafd6c8022c8c6d205cc79d39eed3fb2e

Go and move in now, mumu

osemwengie1:
. The problem I have with the Yorubas and Ibos are their lack of respect for other tribes because they feel they have more numbers. How will you say Omo is a Yoruba name when the binis also use the word. The urhobo and the binis also use similar names for example Efe, Igho, Ese e.tc. Who will then own the names. Thats what the Ibo do as well.

The real name of Oduduwa was a Ekaledaran he was a banished bini prince who relocated to Ife and when the Yoruba's ask for his name and where he was going he tld them izoduwa (meaning am going to a path to prosperity) which the Yoruba's corrupted to Oduduwa. It was when the binis requested for his return after his fathers death and when there was a vacum that he sent his son oramiyan. Some of the bin's refused to accept this and never allowed him into the kingdom especially the evian royal family saying we do not have Oba we only have ogie (Ogiso) (the evian family was eventually nicknamed Ogiamien which is . He eventually returned to Ife after impregnating a young woman whose son started the Oba dynasty in Bini . Though the Ogiamien still see the Oba as a foreigner. you can read through the facebook page of the Ogiamien https://www./894091307303141/.

Omo is both yoruba name and Benin name, itsekiri also use it. Your story of oduduwa is only biased towards the way you see it, it doesnt mean you are 100% right, we all know the yoruba version, it doesnt mean it is also wrong. All i'm saying is the story is 1000 years old, it had been twisted by traditions, inaccuracies and anyother factor, but the fact remains that Oduduwa (in some yoruba translation Odu can also mean fortune, secret, universe-Odumare,Osumare. so the way yoruba changed the name izo to odu could depend on many things) was the sole ruler of the territories of benin city to lands beyond benin country. and if not for ajayi crowther yorubas may be called by another name and if not for Oba Akenzua that refused the proposal from the other obas of western region, Edo people too could have been referred as Yoruba too.

tdayof:
true they would keep on repeating same thing.. We just have to ignore them.

The way we ignored them until they brainwashed google with all their nonsense? well, we sha will wait, one day these people will cross the line.

All these ignorant fo.ols that knows nothing and trying to rewrite everything in their ignorance. See how the OP was trying to paint things as if Yorubas are victimizing non yorubas in lagos.

Let me relieve you of your ignorance a little @OP,

1st in Yoruba culture, both in ancient times and present anygroup of people can mix and live together no matter their tribe and any foreigner can live and grow to be a VIP no matter your Background. A Nupe man is the ancestor of the king of Ilaro under the Oyo empire, so for a bini man ruling lagos is not a big isshh.

2condly,ancient Benin and Other Yoruba states were interrelated in culture and administration based on link to Oodua that there was nowhere in history where the great Oyo and the great Benin empires encroached on each others territories not to talk of conquering each other lands. If you look at the growth of these empires, Oyo empire expanded north and west away from 'ILE IFE' while benin empire expanded south and east away.

Yes, benin controlled a good part of lagos state including Epe and watersides(my area) in Ijebu lands, but not badagry which had ever been Oyo sea port (ITS AMAZING HOW YOU GUYS TWIST HISTORY!).

Back to the real history(not the twisted ones concocted around), Lagos island settlement was called Iga Iduganran(ijebu Language), a pepper farm occupied by mixed tribes; aworis, ijebus, eguns, edos etc. When the place expanded to a sizable unit, they decided to chose a leader and they chose the oldest man that happened to be a bini man, initially it was not an Oba they called it but a baale that was declared a vassal of the Oba of benin for protection against stronger and nearer towns, This is because all yoruba towns were vassals of one or another of and Oba with direct link to Oodua.
So Lagos is as Yoruba town as any other yoruba town. Kapish!

AustineE1:
Op pls do not misinform the populace,atleast we read about the Kiriji war and no where was it mentioned that Ekiti Parapo or Ibadan purchased canon guns.It was stated clearly from the book i read,that the war was notable for its use of charms,even Obadoke Latoosa whom you said was a general,was refered to as a notorious babalawo(native doctor). I dont know where you got your story line from,its full of sensationalism.
And history puts it that the war only ended when the Fulanis joined the Oyo empire and it was observed that their intention was to take over the entire Yoruba land,and equaly enslave the populace,this made the war weary yorubas to immediately call for a truce....the book simply puts it that the coming of the Fulanis was the game changer. Pls get your facts right.

Show me a sane Igbo boy and i'll tell you its the end of the world

He should call his brother in law to appreciate his effort. yes. Then he should avoid him like a plague! No need to tell his wife why.

bamidele029:
You asked how SE entered the conversation and I showed you how. It's your brother that brought in SE and others responded since Nairaland is about having conversations. If someone calls your tribe a derogation name it's hard to ignore. By the way you'll see I was not part of the responders I just didn't like your selective reading. You are accusing others of being obsessed with SE while ignoring the fact that it was one of your people that brought SE up

bros, u get time sha. don't you know by now its a typical character of these people to stir up trouble and later claim being victims after things blows?

jimi4us:
Thiefnubuu is the one behind all dis witch hunts, I bliv he will soon go blind.

before tinubu goes blind. all your family and loved ones will go blind first.

delishpot:
Pkele op. Tell them you are having some problem at work and your boss has not been paying you since then. Inshort, beg them to send some cash to your momsie that you will try to pay later. That you are low on cash qnd momsie needs her monthly allawee.




Ignore friends on FB. Must you have FB pals? I closed my FB acct and opened a new one where only my family members are my friends. I do not post any photos there and I make sure no friends we have in common knows its me.

broz o. put them in d middle( literaly). all u have to to is ignore them( friends and family inclusive) u dont have to be a good boy for anyone. trust me they dont appreciate it. they only see u as the another du.mb pot of soup.

Neduz 10 gbosa for u. i love rubber and paper bullet die in my days. who remembers police and thief?

Kelegbe was another bomb then, where you hide broomstick in corners of your body and claim whatever another player holds(whether his or not no consign me).

idu1:
Let me give you some advise.

I know you want to be a good political analyst. And u might ve the potential. What you lack is good research before you put anytime down.


You just jump from your bed and start typing rubbish... You talk like you are not educated.

What you always post are things from okadas men that doesn't ve access to any media for good info...

Try to be objective.

Mingle with people of great minds.

what r u saying? what's d difference between an okada man and roadside drug attendant. He cannot reason more than his mental capacity nah?!

harlos:
Heeeii, oya swear!

1. If you didn't kill earthworm with salt.
2. If you didn't play rubber band.
3. If you never bathed in the rain.
4. If nobody told you about India vs Nigeria 99-1.
5. If you didn't sleep on the couch and wake
up on the bed
6. If u didn't throw your milk tooth on the
roof for the lizards to take it and give you new ones.
7. If you didn't just wash your hands and legs instead of
bathing when going to school.
8. If you didn't act film in uncompleted building or under bed
with friends.
9. If you never flew a kite.
10. If you didn't use ur two legs to build houses with sand.
11. If u didn't write ur name on paper and insert it into ur pen
so that no one will steal it.
12. If u didn't close d fridge door really slowly to see when d
lights went off.
13. If u neva waved at white birds expectin ur nails to b whiter
14. If u neva heard of a ghost dat stays under
mango trees at nights
15. If u didn't drive a single car Tyre with a stick and called it
ur car!
16. If u didnt mix garri n sugar in ur pocket and eat while
walking in the street.
17. If u never did mama and papa play i.e. cookin grass nd
sand witout fire.
18. If you didn't play table soccer. with bottle
cover.....
If you did not do any of this... then I guess ur Childhood wasn't fun!

Oya choose which one u did.

Do you knw it is not jangilova epo motor? it is JINGLE OVER LIKE A MOTOR!! I bet u didn't knw.
Don't be shy, I didn't know either until now. :
I am sure 99.9 % of adults that grew up in Nigeria dnt knw dat d nursery rhyme "sandalili sandalili" is actually "standard living standard living".

D song in church saying " o singo singo, praise d Lord", is actually " o sing my soul and praise d Lord. I knw u are singing it now again, Confess.! are u guilty.

OP! if i cash u eh?!...You are a genius!

Dummy op, i never bother to read ur junks but i'm replying to the topic; which alliance southwest do for ur bedroom? you better do brain check up.