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I find both of them of them quite attractive so whichever comes my way is fine. If i can afford a Kim, then Kim hands down for me.

Hmmm

Love is not deaf and dumb. Three people in it just choose to be deaf, dumb and stupid.

My resort thots relationships are not for kids.

Another tale by the op.
Anyways your friend is a lucky man, he just dodged a bullet.

She had to pay to prosecute a child abuser? What is the job of the government/prosecutor? Na wao

Some people are quite individualistic about money. Just know the person you are dating or married to, and you will be fine.

Perfect reasons to go out and enjoy that meal at the place I'm always fantasizing about. Anything is fair game there too.
Afterall, if I don't want to cook myself, I can afford to eat out. Less money to spend on the wife anyways.

I will tell her I am a pappy water too.Craze pass craze.

Get rid of her. She is not interested in you, not as a lover anyways.

I wasn't there when it happened. How the f... am i supposed to know who is responsible!

If you don't like him dating your sister, you have to let them be. It's her life and her choice who she dates.
However, if he really is cheating, just tell her the facts. It's up to her to deal with that info however she wants.

How do we know if you have anything worth the time of a golddigger?

You are a disgraceful law student with a poor command of English. You embarrass me!

The hiv status wed the main thing that got me concerned. If she had it before marriage and hid it from you, when you should leave the marriage.

All the other issues, shows lack of communication between the two of u. Sit down and have show down talks. I believe you should make compromises and understand each others point of view.

However as i mentioned earlier, hiv before marriage should be bye bye divorce.

Why don't you concentrate on your bad deeds before focusing on busy sinners like us.
Do you lie or steal or cheat anybody in anyway? If so, focus on not doing conform another couple of years before coming back here.
Are you in any violations of the ten commandments? Or the teachings of Jesus Christ? Go focus in yourself dammit !
Are you in any violations of the rules of the land? Do you cut corners? Do you disregard traffic rules cos everyone else does the same? Go preach to yourself.
Do you jerk of in private, or rub one out whenever you can? If so, don't focus ion yourself, get a .bf or .gf to help you out!

Your boyfriend is probably married or has a very serious relationship. That explains the following actions:
1. He is very loving in private but never introduces you as his woman in public. He can't cos the moment he does that, he loses his real woman. He probably tells everyone you are his colleague.
2. He goes days without calling you or returning your calls. Do i really have to explain to you that he is with his woman?
3. he is not having sex with you. It's probably not what you want to hear but it's true. The only reason a very sexually active man will accept that kind of proposal from you is cos he is getting it from someone else.

Based on the above, you are just an emotional release to him. You are the one he runs to when he has problems with his wife. He is emotional cheating on his woman with you. Well i can't call hit cheating in full since no sex.

You can't lose something you don't have. Quit the relationship and go get a real bf to marry cos I assure you, it's never going to be the married one you have now.

Personally, i always prefer a lady that takes the time to get done with a relationship and mourn it first rather than jumping from one relationship to another. These who do so are not exactly trustworthy when it comes to relationships. They will always move to where they feel they will get the best offers, and no deep feelings of commitment.

Moreover it's obvious you don't care about her as much. If you did, you did, you wouldn't be suggesting she dates both of you. That is just the language of someone who doesn't mind the booty but doesn't want the responsibilities that comes with it.

If you are looking for something serious, not her. For play, knock yourself out. She deserves it anyways. Grass is not always greener in the either side.

Bad idea, what happens when she finds someone else? Leave you for him?

Yep I would do it

Get help for yourself and for her too. If she has been dedicated to you and has been taking the abuse, then she has lost her self worth and probably has a inferior complex. She needs to believe in herself again. There is nothing as sweet as having a strong and confident woman by your side.

Get help and counselling. Good luck.

We all lie but the worst liars are the ones that lie to themselves. Stop fooling yourself, you were in no way testing her by all your actions listed here. It is who you are and how you have always been. To test if someone is a golddigger, you don't abuse her and cheat in her, insult her family and cut out her family and friends support.
You sir have a problem that you need to sort out but you need to realise it first. You are abusive in nature. Jealousy and control are other symptoms of your emotional abuse nature.

I am really scared for the girl at this point. If she marries you, she is in for a lifetime of abuse. Get someone else to date and try treating with respect. Psychology has taught us that when people interact with others, they always revert to the innate behaviour they have associated with the other person. It is why you treat people differently, eg playful with that old childhood friend and more reserved with the new friend you met when you before older.
Unless you get professional help, you will always be a crappy bf and then husband to the poor girl.

Haha he is screwing your sister, no big deal.
Stop all your antics, it is no disrespect for him to do so. He is a dude with bone[b]r[/b] and your sister has itchy toto . They both satisfy each other. Be happy for them.

To each their own. You will be something he just bought with his money. What happens if he loses the money, apartment and car?

Your problem is trust. YOU DO NOT trust your guy and you definitively don't trust yourself.
Have you been cheated on before? Have you cheated on anyone before?

Many people who don't trust others act the way they do cos they think everyone will act like them. Have you double dated guys before or are you just one of those ladies that think all men cheat.