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Gwan2:
Since the advent of feminism the marriage institution had suffer gradual collapse...Unfortunately, it might never get better again. I came to Nigeria after my stay abroad, I actually had the intention of getting a girl that I could start a relationship with the intention of marriage in my mind. A nigerian friend in Germany where I was gave me the number of a certain girl in one of the nigerian university, he told me they are friends. I didn't go into detail discussion with him about the girl. When I came back to nigeria, I invited the girl and pick her up to an open pub. She declined ordering any drink, food or meat. I order a bottle of drink and initiated a conversation with her trying to inquire about her background, personality, studies etc...I don't normally engage in lengthy discussions especially if my intension is to just have a fling with a girl, but as i said earlier I wanted a relationship and this guy was young 22 years, though not very pretty but her personality could make up for that if she had a good one.

As I was chatting with this girl I realised her gesture wasn't so responsive and she look at her wrist watch occasionally, at some time she asked..Didn't my friend tell me about their friendship, I said no...again she ask what do I want from her...gosh,, unsuspectedly because this girl looked so naive and innocent..I said I wanted us to get to meet our selves on this first day and see how things will play out..she then said she is going...I said ok and told her to wait for some few minutes outside before i come pick her, I was still on my drink then. while in my car she asked again,, what do I want from her..at that point I begin to sense where she was driving to..I intensionally played the fool by not answering directly until she asked again..you want sex??...I then said yes..lol. She then ask So if i didn't say it you wont have said it yourself right? Next thing was so how much do you want to give me...Gosh. At that time i became weak. I played along and said 7k, she declined saying even 10k she wont collect. She open the door of my car and told me to reach her when am ready...I called my friend and told him..he said she wanted romantic relationship with him but due to distance that only chat and make phone calls.

Another one that was proving difficult to get for God knows why...I sent her a text saying as a lady she should be skilled enough to know when a guy is serious for relationship or settling down...That one just landed in my hotel room asking me what is the meaning of the text I sent her...That night she gave me all the best banging she could to impress me. At a point she was whispering in my ear "I know you didn't enjoy the sex"..I just told her I did.

Now this sort of girls make up a very large percentage of the average girl you see on the street especially in Nigeria. How do you expect marriages to last in this era

If there was a score to give you for your write-up experience with a Naija babe i will gladly give you more than 100% pass mark without reading this to the very end.

I say this all the time that successful marriages depend on the man 30% while on the woman 70%. I have similar experience & got disgusted at the moral laxity surrounding “Some of Naija babes” you thought worth having a serious relationship with or marrying.

juniorstar:
is dangote buying the truck from indonesia...or building a truck manufacturing company in partnership with a chinese firm.. and besides, i thought he bought hundreds of not thousands of innosons truck. cos am not understanding again ooh

He didn’t buy Innoson light trucks

Wallade:
The truth is that Dangote Group of companies is operating with several proxies funds. Dangote's net worth actually comprises a lot of people's fund. Those people are trading in proxy, some of them are cleaning dirty money through Dangote.

That is the reason he gets his way with every government in office because any attempt to hurt his business is an attempt to devalue the investments of a lot of these politicians and government personnel with dirty money.

I have got no qualms with Dangote or his business strategies however, I wonder why he seems to be bent on deploying a lot of trucking from Lagos despite the traffic problems in Lagos, the potential risk of this trucks on Nigerian roads and the wear and tears on the roads. Why is he not thinking pipelines to move his products from the refinery. Except he is planning to engage the services of tanker vessels to ship to some other regions in Nigeria. I also hope he is targeting the local Nigerian market primarily.

You are the most observant, truly proxy funds. I wonder why he co-fund Sinotruk Howo assembly plant in Nigeria with the Chinese only to go import light trucks from Indonesia. Can’t Sinotruk Howo make such light trucks too

crackhaus:
Sorry bro, you had to learn the hard way.

Single mothers who are still in contact with the father of their child or have shared custody, are ticking time bombs.

One must be careful with such ladies.

Same happened to a close friend. A lot of single mothers still have sex with the father of their kid even if they marry some one else as long as they still see each other, keep in touch & communicate

Oluwadamilare118:
I do not know that, but I assume and expect such move from the family, even though it may be done to fulfill all righteousness in her own side, am just concern what has bypassed and begone for her to be displayed in this manner publicly.



So help her God!

Smile..

There is more than meets the eye (her condition)

edoairways:
So you support evil? You support men to cheat at will but women shouldn't right?.

Nobody is supporting men cheating. The main narrative people missed here is that her so-called husband gave her what it takes to start-up in life but she squandered it.

So that is her real story. Some women also messed up in their matrimonial homes but are better off than this when the marriage crumbled. Married people should not cheat (men & women)

don4real:
Hope you can help her with a good lawyer?

Was the marriage legalized in the first place to now want to involve a lawyer?

Smithkafors:
Dangote now worth 4.3 billion dollars,inside life.....from 25billi

Error by the writer, he gained $4.3Billion late 2019 to make his total worth now over $15Billion. He was worth $25Billion some years ago before de-valuation of Nigeria naira

NairalandAngel:
Prior to this news I had never heard of OBUcement

Obu cement existed before, but BUA bought the moribund cement plant a few yrs ago cause of it’s large limestone deposit & other reasons we may not know etc.

ghettokid1:
Nigerians is the most ungrateful bunch of people i have ever seen,
Or is it because he is an igbo?

No, it’s not because of his Igbo tribe, i remember they abandoned Rasheed Yekini too when he had serious issues & health too before he died & did not partake or represent in his burial, was it also because of his tribe?

Once you are no longer a reigning star, Nigerian govt abandons you even if you brought glory back in the days. So many examples too numerous to mention bro. May Isaac Promise soul rest in perfect peace ��

seanfer:
Nice work. Naija version of 2015-2016 Honda Civic

This Innoson car looks really really nice indeed. Obviously the car manufacturer is improving by the day.

How i wish others on this thread will stop this tribal thing all the time hating on themselves.

Ladycewhy:
Praising a 13 year old seeking for a relationship from someone way older than him yet they want us to take male rape seriously

Am not supporting the 13yr old boy but look closely at the ladies photo & you will notice that she isn’t that old herself

munezo:
This boy na keyboard warrior � but I am sure he can't say pim if he sees the lady face to face.

You wanna bet, he will say more than Pim if he meets her face to face. It’s obvious he has done this before & has hit some level of success

ikay00406:
It's not up to 5m dollars.. The most expensive is 2m dollars.. https://www.nigeriapropertycentre.com/for-sale/lagos/eko-atlantic-city

Noted, $2million for flats while houses cost $5million

globemoney:
Fake news. I'm not even sure theres a house that sells for $5m in Nigeria

What we all don’t know about their show off in luxury cars & houses etc by fraudsters as i read some time ago is to advertise themselves as great & successful of their ventures to get people to bring big fraud business to them.

Yes a flat cost $5million to buy there. Not fake news, where it is false is that it is not rental that is $5million but cost of buying an apartment there is truly $5million (Eko pearl tower’s flats)

Kayx:
Pls test for Human Papiloma Virus

Now you are talking. She either has this Disease or it’s a spiritual problem

Kayx:
Pls test for Human Papiloma Virus

Now you are talking. She either has this or it’s a spiritual problem

What’s your WhatsApp number?

helpmyministry:
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Show sample of this 3D logo

helpmyministry:
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You are wrong on Access bank. Access bank is solvent & healthy.

It is Diamond bank that had some problems & issues but the acquisition by Access bank has addressed that a bit more though not fully integrated as 1 bank yet (Access/Diamond) as they are still 2 banks & not 1 as of today (when transfer options give you Access bank as a bank & Access/Diamond bank as another bank).

The bank you should be bothered about is Heritage bank etc

Josh44s:
I know Access Bank and Diamond Bank holds the number one and two spot among the 7 distress banks. If you know you know. I don move my cash in those banks to an old papa bank called Union Bank

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HacheNoire:
Rubbish!

Two years of your life wasted

Husband you could have used for money rituals or poisoned so you inherit all his wealth.


This generation are too dull and Godly.

May be there is a way you gave him an impression financially. To both guys & babes, never front that you are financially buoyant in a new relationship cause you make the other person’s interest towards you artificial.

I know you can’t hide wealth or some sort of success like the car you drive etc but be careful when in a new relationship so that the person’s interest in you doesn’t just have to do with what they can gain from you materially

rockstarB:
Unfortunately I don't know "why always me" but I am sure I am not alone in this kind of scenerio. Pls know that we haven't even met, it's totally different from my ex

Yes quite good

GAZZUZZ:
presentable enough?

May be the engine is not looking presentable �

GAZZUZZ:

I doubt he committed suicide over his cheating wife. The story says the wife lived in that house for 9yrs while he lived elsewhere. So in 9yrs she has been a celibate except he was deceiving himself

He committed suicide on some thing else (his financial condition i presume). Anyway, it’s stupid to commit suicide over any matter or any condition. Am sure succor for him was very very near

Obviously you didn’t read the section you are in before commenting (Auto section bro)

Abalado:
What's someone business with this now, na everybody get car? Abegi

You want to Price it like a commodity ���

Offpoint:
30k as bride price... e too much now.

I go price am, we negotiate till 10k...


Any marriage Expensive more than N25,000 in total.... I'm out.


I'll sum up everything from dating days and let them know what have spend so far...


Any bride price above N10,500 the family should forget about me rendering any assistance to them after marriage.

Correction: Nigerians (industrialist) as Yoruba is not a country but just 1 tribe in the country. I know one of the owners of Elephant Group & he is not a tribalistic person at all.

Pls let’s stop this unnecessary tribal argument that lead us no where. South Africans hate us like poo & we are showing the world we don’t love each other either so who will love us if we too hate each other like South Africans hate us?

Ritchiee:
Maybe you are new here. Yorubas have the largest industries home and abroad .

Are you 100% sure it’s suicide & not murder. Is it the wife’s statement that is paramount. Men don’t commit suicide over mere sex as he should be tested (autopsy)

Apination:
They should get koboko and start flogging that dead body. He's mad both physically and in the after life

Very true, a relative of mine just experienced similar situation where his wife sold the land he bought for her to help her lover with a problem & she later found out that her lover lied and used the proceed of land sale to prepare marriage with another lady.

All hell broke loose when she saw the i.v thru some one else as her husband was the one that eventually bailed her from police station when she secretly went with thugs to assault her lover on finding out his marriage plans.

So you see the way some married women behave & mess themselves up.

kelvine:
One other tread a lady was saying foolish men don't make their wives next of kin.

This man up here might not be foolish if he gave his property to charity

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kingreign:
It is possible. But I don't know the cost.

Go to Renmoney. They on the web with no collateral you can loan from #10,000 to #4million with interest payable in installments

TheStrongest:
Help a brother