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FamilyRe: Can Mothers Do This With Their Children?: Vote by desthan(m): 4:30pm On Jun 19, 2011
No comment. . . huh
FamilyRe: What Is Your Candid Opinion Of This Case? by desthan(m): 8:26am On Jun 19, 2011
Outstrip:
I think we are comparing our marriages to theirs. It is a very different situation. Many congress men/women are gone most of the time. The same for military men and women. when you marry someone like that you need to make those kinds of sacrifices. Many military people are deployed for 12 months sometimes and the husband or wife keeps things going. They simply need to be creative about how they keep the fires burning. For these two people the long absences are justified. It is not really suprising that he was caught doing what he was doing but even Obama's relationship probably went through periods of long absences and they are still together today. I believe that Wiener and his wife can make this work if they choose to. It is totally up to his wife she wants to give his cheating behind another chance
well spoken,
RomanceRe: Why Do Women Respect Their Bosses More Than Their Husbands? by desthan(m): 5:56pm On Jun 16, 2011
;d ;d ;d
RomanceRe: Why Do Women Respect Their Bosses More Than Their Husbands? by desthan(m): 10:21am On Jun 16, 2011
pro01:
Notice how the women here have emphasized the 'yes sir' thingy. Ever so deceptive and clever by half, this species. The poster obviously made a point of how respectful women are to their bosses with that 'yes sir' example; he didn't say that women should address their husbands as 'sir'. The point being made concerns RESPECT and submissiveness. . .'sir' or not.

@ Poster

Thanks for bringing up this topic. I have pondered about the issue for far too long because it is something I have seen severally. The way these women (especially in Nigeria) tremble with fear and submission while relating with their bosses is a spectacle to behold. But when the husband at home mentions the word 'submissiveness', you'd see how the women would flare up and quip that they're 'modern' and 'educated' women who believe in equality and all that poo.

In fact, I can imagine some women that do not give their husbands fluting because they claim it is 'demeaning'. . .but when the boss orders same woman into his office and unzips his fly, the woman takes the initiative to suck not only his cock, but also his hairy ballz. Smh.

Seriously, most women don't need to be romanced and pampered too much. I've always maintained that fear is preferrable to love when it comes to dealing with women. When a woman fears you, she finds it compulsory to respect you and behave herself. But shen you depend on her fickle 'love', then her respect and good behaviour is entirely discretionary and on her own terms - she can choose to withdraw them whenever she feels like. After all, she takes you for granted, and considers you a little more than a harmless wussie.

That's why you hardly find bad, dominating guys whose wives have the audacity to cheat on them or show them some other kind of brazen disrespect. It is only the lovey-dovey wimpy softies that their wives disrespect with reckless abandon, cheat right under their noses, and even dare them to do their worst.

That's why the boss's way is the only way.
so succinct and well put. . .

the hard way the only way cool

@enyojo

you are the real definition woman, a true undiluted African queen, not all these sentinels with black patches in-between their legs creeping here and there. . .
CelebritiesRe: Hugh Hefner's Playmate Fiancee Calls Off Wedding by desthan(m): 10:01am On Jun 16, 2011
wwaattcchheebbaa the Zap ebaa. . . . undecided
RomanceRe: Love And Falling In Love by desthan(m): 9:58am On Jun 16, 2011
peanut123:
I believe in LOVE:

1. Love GOD
2. Love your neighbour as yourself

Everyother thing is balderdash,   tongue
WORD!!

and when is from woman to man, if that love does not translate to Respect, Loyalty, Good Food, and Quality Sex, FUGGGEDDDABOUT!!!!! cool
RomanceRe: I Thank God For Facebook by desthan(m): 7:59pm On Jun 06, 2011
huh huh
Forum GamesRe: Start The Sentence With The Last Word (pidgin Version) Part 2 by desthan(m): 2:09pm On Jun 06, 2011
sha, abunna akunta . . . no be yr fault
Forum GamesRe: Start The Sentence With The Last Word (pidgin Version) Part 2 by desthan(m): 2:05pm On Jun 06, 2011
follow follow, no be english be dat, abeg use pigin joor,
Forum GamesRe: Start The Sentence With The Last Word (pidgin Version) Part 2 by desthan(m): 1:36pm On Jun 06, 2011
you be Dr who??
Forum GamesRe: Start The Sentence With The Last Word (pidgin Version) Part 2 by desthan(m): 1:30pm On Jun 06, 2011
2 face for next president
Forum GamesRe: Start The Sentence With The Last Word (pidgin Version) Part 2 by desthan(m): 12:29pm On Jun 06, 2011
before you carry yr craze reach market, make we tie am rope for yr waist
Forum GamesRe: Start The Sentence With The Last Word (pidgin Version) Part 2 by desthan(m): 12:26pm On Jun 06, 2011
@emofine. See this re-ta-rd wan derail this thread. . . .

Oga moderator, abeg come drive this raving lunatic comot for hia
Forum GamesRe: Start The Sentence With The Last Word (pidgin Version) Part 2 by desthan(m): 12:22pm On Jun 06, 2011
blocos na iyatrustee second name. . .
Forum GamesRe: Start The Sentence With The Last Word (pidgin Version) Part 2 by desthan(m): 12:18pm On Jun 06, 2011
bitter tongue dey mk you yarn opata. were u even see jam for my post?? go find water alamo drink abegi, u don dey see double
Forum GamesRe: Start The Sentence With The Last Word (pidgin Version) Part 2 by desthan(m): 12:14pm On Jun 06, 2011
pass away joor, abi u drink omo??
Forum GamesRe: Start The Sentence With The Last Word (pidgin Version) Part 2 by desthan(m): 12:12pm On Jun 06, 2011
song!@#? you be proper mumu, how person wan take connect dis kind word?? e b lik say u don dey maga o!
RomanceRe: Killing A Life Chicken Does It Make Me Man Enough by desthan(m): 12:58pm On Jun 03, 2011
@OP, you must be a toddler. . . .

I made my first kill when i was 5 yrs old. . . I just yanked the damn neck off with my hands cool, crazy chicken did not not want to succumb. My Aunt just stared at me with dis-belief.

Grow some balls mehn, seems you have been eating plenty chicken liver. . . . .
PoliticsRe: Ndi Okereke–Onyiuke’s Fraudulent PH.d - Shock by desthan(m): 12:48pm On Jun 03, 2011
Another University of Toronto. . . . mshweee undecided
RomanceRe: What's Wrong With Marrying An Older Woman? by desthan(m): 10:30am On Jun 03, 2011
oga poster, even if u marry an underage girl/boy, bearded woman, tranny, metusela etc it doesn't matter, who gives a damn.

its not even an assurance that you will have a happy home? Just pray over it and do as your mind tell you, period. Just don't be in a hurry to make any decision. Because if you rush in you will definitely rush out and what could later turn out to be your worst nightmare could just be another person's dream.

Anyway its your coffin, its your funeral, like i told you nobody cares, just ask for God's direction and you'll be fine.
EventsRe: Happy Children Day! by desthan(m): 7:29pm On May 27, 2011
ayomide202:
@naijababe, tanfinrin is made with maize, gnut, sugar and its in powder form while donkua is just gnut and sugar but i think with water n in round balls. Now i remember lolly-pop too, as teenagers we sneak 'mills and boon' among ourselves cos we get in trouble with teachers. Good old days
Ah! you are forgetting tatanga, odigun+pepper etc grin
Nairaland GeneralWhat Do You Say About This by desthan(op): 3:09pm On Apr 09, 2011
What if the Internet Crashed?

How would the world survive it knowing that almost everything is driven by it.
RomanceRe: Black Berry(bb Phone) Love by desthan(m): 5:52pm On Apr 06, 2011
pro01:
It has come to the point that I no longer consider any girl that owns a BB a 'decent' girl. Even if she bought it with her money. . .the fact remains that she's an "I want to belong" kind of babe that cannot be taken seriously nor vouched for. Any girl that can't resist a craze or a trend due to peer pressure and societal influence cannot be trusted. You need to see what some of them do just to raise money for this 'reigning' Indian hair attachment (or it is Mexican sef) that costs about N80k.
its is brazilian hair bro grin grin grin

http://www.brazilianhairnyc.com/

@topic

The only black and darkest berry i recognize and would never stop eating is that black patch in between my woman leg cool cool cool

Any other blackberry, furgedaout. . . . cool cool cool
Art, Graphics & VideoRe: Goodluck Jonathan/sambo Animated Tv Commercial ( In Hd) by desthan(m): 8:44pm On Apr 04, 2011
@poster

Nice one for whatever you think you did there.

Read through a comment made on the youtube and it got me cracking grin grin grin grin, **Is this Football Match or Wrestling? silly CONCEPT!!!!**

for naija politic, i think its far more than wrestling, its total ANARCHY grin grin
Nairaland GeneralRe: Happy Birthday Miss Ogugua Aka Snow White by desthan(m): 1:14pm On Mar 25, 2011
happy birthday dear. . . .
RomanceRe: Omg, Is She Lying? by desthan(m): 12:40pm On Mar 25, 2011
Better be careful when going un-invited to the BASE before the big boss have you bubbled up and thrown into the guardroom, **well that is if you are nor shot with a bazooka**
FoodRe: Firearm's Kitchen by desthan(m): 4:53pm On Mar 23, 2011
@iyatrustee

Not a thing. . . .

just dial my number. . . . +234 84 799488 cool
FoodRe: Firearm's Kitchen by desthan(m): 4:44pm On Mar 23, 2011
@firearm

you wanna be a tough guy, uhh. . . angry

i'll show you what i do to tough guys angry, **reaches out for some rounds. . . pause for a second** embarassed

shocked**on seeing the almighty bazooka, gathers all the loots and slunk away to plan a more elaborate revenge later** shocked
FoodRe: Firearm's Kitchen by desthan(m): 4:17pm On Mar 23, 2011
Hey you, waiter, get your a.s.s over here angry

Round up everything and bring them over here, and come with a bottle of Jack Daniel before i spill your guts all over the floor angry

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