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Airtimex:
A whole you pleading your ordinary mum for mercy. What a phukery

Please don't try that rubbish, how can you be so low to beg an ordinary mum...I will advise you to beat her the more, the second beating might even reverse the first curse...take care mighty boy

EzendiEgo1:
you are so caring sisterly

I love people like you very much

Gracious

Sonoflord:
I don't touch his money.

I will keep you inform after I meet next month and his decision.

Sonoflord:
even if I will have to enduring this suffering it will never pass this year.

I have made up my mind to meet him and tell him what I have been passing through in his house. The highest thing he will do, is to ask me to leave his house which o will gladly do.


Good morning thank you for your advise sister

Same to u dear!, wish u well buh make sure u no touch him moni ooooooo

ghettochild4u:
I agree with u...
This is why some boys carry their oga money run
when they noticed he's deviated from agreement and seem the type that will tell dem stories when settlement comes..
These Oga plenty for lagos wella..
They become so reliant on this boys that they weigh d price of letting him go.. then they start to misbehave..
I know someone here in south africa serving oga... they opened a shop for him to sell hairpiece (hair extensions).
They give him 10 rand for feeding daily... 10 rand is 280 naira presently.. it's was 250 b4....
U can imagine..
What the guy does now is that... he's saving extra money he's making or stealing if i shd call it n giving his nigerian gf to keep in her acct.. cos hes planning to quit this year

donstan18:
I need to be honest with you Mr man.

Your agreement with him was to SERVE him and getting settled after seven years. This is part of the service you are to render.

There's a thing line between serving an OGA and learning skills from an OGA.

You pay to learn skills, while you get paid to serve. Any mistake you make now out of anger will have your years of services with him wasted.

Nothing comes easy, even in universities, you don't just learn from lecturers, you work for them in some cases so long as you are aiming a particular goal.


Be guided Bruv, keep enduring, it's not easy to stay with a married uncle, not atall. But some goals worth the stress.

It could be a trap or a planned game to mess you up, don't fall for it.

It's your right to leave, but it'll be your loss.

After 7 years, and he refuses to settle you, you can then freely use them for rituals. God will understand.

Just saw this now!!!, best advice xo far. Sonoflord come and carry dz advice tie it round ur waist nd let it be a guide to u why moving abt wit ur apprenticeship buh I dnt support d oda idea of ritualism

linearity:
Something tells me that, his uncle is in the category of masters whom you have described can dismiss their apprentice for any reason just so that, they wouldn’t settle him/her.

A man that, can not keep an agreement for apprentice to serve under his business in order to learn the trade can’t be trusted to honor that same agreement he has violate to settle the guy after seven years.

He has definitely changed the terms and spirit of the agreement and converted the guy into a houseboy, there is no need hoping that something magical will happen if he stayed for the remaining 4 yrs.

More so, people don’t easily release their house help after a defined period of time unless they become a burden, and as such my guess is; he is still going to be there and continue as houseboy even after 4yrs.

Sonoflord:
they are destabilising my emotions and you say I should have patience.

No ooh

How much with he settle me with after 7yrs just 1000000 I could possible make if I was only my own. But that's not what am counting.

KOPT33:
Hmmm, first time hearing this. Will definitely look it up

KOPT33:
Life goes on, it waits for no man.

It's going to be an all nighter for me. I have downloaded a couple of nice albums to tide me till morning. Can you imagine that I was in a dream and found myself being locked up by a white policewoman who had a full beard. I asked what my offense was and the police station turned into soccer field. Woke up to find that Nwakali had scored against Althletico, and I'd been hearing the commentary in my sleep.

It’s called breakup fever

NeeKlaus:
Okay. Yes, some Masters can be very unreasonable but still, it is better to lose 3-4 years than to lose the entire 7 and come out with nothing. There is no joy in adversity.

Somehow u r right shaa ....but I believe he z luking for a reason to send him parking

NeeKlaus:
C'mon naa! He should endure for 7 years? He should continue working as a "maid" for 7 years when his ultimate intention was to serve his Uncle business wise? No naa.

The best thing is to sit down with his Uncle and remind him that he is deviating from the original plan. If the Uncle decides to be obstinate, then he can involve his parents. Or better still, leave the house as soon as possible instead of wasting his prime years there.

KOPT33:
Haha -- I am done with that business. Just woke up now from my drunken slumber... felt better. It's an all night party here. I have chicken and shitor sauce--come and join me!

fellom:
The tradition of the pass is still in the present! only the fools will ignore them.

tommyken:
At first I always do her demands like getting her recharge card but I stop later on to avoid being seen like a fool.whenever their is misunderstanding and I say "I love you",she will remind me that "if you love me you would have bought me what I ask for."
Fastforward to two days ago she told when returning from work I should buy her a medicated cream called skinnel and I just say ok but know I will never buy it for her,the previous night she even told me to buy her food that she don't like what her mum cook,this was late in the night by 10:pm and I just switch off my phone.
When I return from work she called me by 9pm and said why have I not bring her the cream she said I should buy for her ,which I can remember perfectly that she has never ever given me any thing in her life,so I played the mirrow strategy on her.
ME:can you do me favour
HER:what is it?
ME:can you get me jellof rice to eat,I don't like what I'm eating.
HER:have u finnish speaking?
ME:yes
HER:gud nite,let's call it a day.
And she cut the call.I have not call her and don't intend calling her untill she realise how selfish she is.
Pls,if I may ask did I do the right thing?