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Damn! That got me bewildered! Like seriously?

Hmmm... Well, let me reveal the real truth. Remember where the bible says where two persons have sexual encounters they become one body/spirit? (Sorry if I misquoted that). What you are experiencing is a spiritual connection with your 'current girlfriend'. How much of her do you know? She may be stringed to a spiritual cult unknowingly or consciously. My advice is that you should seek for deliverance and stop having sex with her or else you will be surprised what may befall you. I sense 'they' are trying to squeeze out that juice from you while you're asleep. You don't want to know what spiritual effect it will have on your life. You just have to stop!!!



My 2cents sha...

I think to me you know what to do; it's quite simple. But before she was employed didnt your wife raised an eyebrow? And now you are claiming innocence.
That there is a ticking bomb waiting to be explode... Just do what is necessary but wait first!, have you mentioned this to your wife? Listen to what she has to say and agree on what to do next. ..#Shikena


My 2cents sha....

Does pre-wedding photshoot guarantees a successful, happy marriage? Absolutely NO!

Anywayz, your babe'a so hawt! And dude you killed it with the first two photos. Lovely photos... but work more on your togetherness even in this time of CHANGE and during stormy situations. Time will tell. I wish you success, send me an I.V ... lol


My 2cents sha...

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marvelck:
There are guys, who seem to be scared of commitment. Once their girlfriend start talking or pestering them about marriage, they get so uncomfortable. Some guys are even ready to dump such a girl and move on to another girl, just to avoid being pressurized into getting marriage by any girl. They tend to run away from it, as if getting marriage would take away a lot from them...

How do you come to conclude on your findings. I believe there are plentiful reasons why a guy will not want to be committed to a lady of marriageable age.
1. They may not be financially ready or buoyant to get married
2. They may not be confidently sure the bae's got those motherly qualities required of her
3. Ethnic/Tribal difference: Some families frowns at it when the bae aint from their region per se
4. If bae aint a career lady or probably still fresh in school and the guy cannot wait for her to graduate
5. Her physique may be an ish, her non-communicative skills, could be an introvert, etc...


My 2cents sha....

@Op... while reading your troubled marriage epistle I was just going 'hmmmm', na wa o!..but my question is this...: What was the real reason you got married to him? Was it security? I bet that's why but you did ignore the other red-flags that was flashing right to your face when you were courting him.....
Another question is..: how did you meet him? Were you match-made to him (if that sentence is correct)?, Was he acting all nice and loving while you were 'courting' him?
From all that you complained about I presumed he is way older than you... that's another reason.

Well, I may not be an expert on marital issues but if you must know there are men who are naturally wired like that. The are referred to "ALPHA MALES" and always want to be accorded respect in all of their dealings even where they work. It transcends to all of the way they relate to people. This trait is what has been embeded in him from his youthful age and I bet that was how he was brought up by his parents... (things he'd seen it done in his family, how his father related to his mom and how his mom submissively 'respected' his father.)
The solution: Wait for one the days he's always happy especially the night of your romp and stylishly talk about your concern, that is while he's getting to high heavens. Trust me, men are conquered while making love, there and then he (may) open up on why he's stuck to his guns... just try it and both of you can resolve your ish!



My 2cents sha...

Are guys still on the look-out for virgins these days? Except for some who feel getting married to a virgin is akin to winning an Olympic medal. Even me, I've always prayed to dating a virgin and I have come across alot of virgins who have come close to dating me but they do fall short of my expectation in terms of other things. In our world today dating or marrying a virgin aint all that it is when you consider economic conditions, the society we live in and the competition experience amongst ladies in terms of fashion, bedmatics, career choice and motherly qualities... All these are of a high importance to many guys like me... *Wink*



My 2cents sha...

@Op.... You know what I think? Here's the thing...

It's surprising that you ain't gat a bf and from the way you sound, I guess you may be in your early twenties (cos of the good girl thingy you made up to believe). Why I said that is this: If you have someone you're dating you won't be considering what he said and maybe it's been awhile or a long time you've been aroused and fondled (depending). Now, all that is happenning to you is the awakening of your hormones and you are answering to the call of nature needing a masculine feel and all. You're gonna be cheating emotionally with him since you've been sexchatting him and all, I guess that's what led to the 'boobs sucking' and ONLY GOD WILL HELP YOU SHA you may someday end up having sex with him and later on get dumped because he's not gonna throw his 7years romance and romp with his woman just like that (if he truly loves her). So my advice is stop the sexchatting and stop visiting him at his place and get yourself busy with something sensible...

And Hey, why aint you in a relationship yet? you didn't explain that part...



My 2cents sha....

Sex in Rio! and they distributed millions of condoms over there... Damn! Now these?

hmmm... I hear Brazilian women ahve first class in bedmatics and are beautiful too. Oh boy!, even with the Zika thingy that is evangelising in Brazil, that would deter dem dudes and baes in wanting to taste the "forbidden fruit' in Brazil... Well, you guys should just take it easy and don't forget to bring home some REAl BRAZILIAN HAIR sha o! Business must thrive in naija!


my 2cents sha...

I talk am! What this masturbating will cause ehn! And he even went ahead to strangle himself in order to get relieved...

Who does that?

I guess he was enjoying it with some unseen spirits that lured him to doing such.. the end? To HELL dude!


My 2cents sha....

Mehn! hat's bae is fine!! and luscious too...

And they are all gunning for our naija brothers. Abi better men don finish for their country ni?

And these naija babes will come be forming "hard to get"...mtscheeew

You never can tell, naija guys might be looking beyond the shores and getting married to dem ladies soughting for love... (lol..Engrish toh bad!)


My 2cents sha...

Well, he believes he lives in a mad world so he decided to design "mad clothes" for the mad ones that will be madly in love with them and spend madly on those clothes believing it's a dope to the mad ones getting all ranchy and stuff due to their ..... (make I no just talk). This guy dey vex seriously...

is this the New World Order (NWO) created by the illuminati group? Na wa o!


My 2cents sha...

Dearie, let's be truthful about the whole brouhaha about long distance relationship. the disadvantages outweighs the advantages and it is not advisable to be in a relationship where there ain't no physical presence. It causes alot of suspicion and distrust between both couples. Such relationships are short-lived. Anywayz, it depends on what you two have set out to achieve but if it takes longer than necessary to always see or be with each other then I ain't advising you to go with it. Physical presence is very important, even skyping won't help. I know of a female friend who has a boyfriend studying in dubai. She's this kinda 'jaiye jaiye' bae but she loves this guy like something else but always complaining of the distance between them and why she ain't getting all that cozy and stuff because she misses the touch of her man and craves for sex. And this had led them both masturbating on skype in real-time while streaming together. I asked her how does she enjoy it with her man on Skype and she honestly told me it's dirty and doesn't get the real satisfaction from it and that she's been considering doing it with someone she's close to and that is because of her strong sex-drive and libido.

The long and short of these is "the disadvantages outweighs the advantages and it is not advisable to be in a relationship where there ain't no physical presence".


My 2cents sha...

I just don't know what to even say here. Okay, it seems the Boss is trying to have his own slice of the cake before the hubby does and I bet you the moment she succumbs to the Boss' pressures then her job and relationship to her will be threatened or even his the rocks before it gets to the altar.

My 2cents sha...

skitcentral:
Lovely ladies. Choose One to be your wife.

Seriously, those baes are Nairalanders and they're are trying to portray their sexiness in a hard way. It's like 'living your life once while, do all that booze stuff, smoke enough shisha, have enough sex experience and dance to plenty gbedu wey dey burst brain' kinda lifestyle before hitting the aisle to get married. I tell you it is only these kinda baes seen as "bad girls" that are indeed getting married to the good guys. I can bet my #500k GT Account on this!

herbie27:
Barack Hussein Obama.
my able world president, with the best brain.
Not the one we have here.

Na wa o! You aint gat no chill o!!!.... LOL

johnwizey:
15yrs

justhelp:
Liar, when did you open facebook 15years ago ? Oga u can lie oooo

johnwizey:
15yrs

You guys should take a chill pill jare... maybe I miscalculated the date but I believe it's been more than 10 - 15 years. I have been on the internet since 2000

Good day guys,

Please I'd like to know if anyone here has got his/her facebook account 'blocked temporarily' and was later unblocked?
On the 1st of August, 2016 I got the shocker of my life! My facebook account of over 15years (still counting) with over 4,987 friends plus other friend requests not added was blocked without any substantial reason given.
Subsequently, I was asked to verify my account with photos of those on my friendslist (many of whom I barely know) in order for Facebook to lift the ban but alas!, nothing could be done to riggle myself through even with the verification. I just guessed the names to the photos; still I wasn't allowed to log in, meaning the account is blocked for life.
Towards the tail-end of the verification I was asked to upload a government-issued ID card of which I did. Uploaded my National ID card which has my firstname as 'Uche' with the rest names but my FB firstname starts with 'Michael' with the rest names (same as those on my National ID card).
What I mean is this: for example my FB names has nanes like 'Michael Chinedu Simon' while my National ID card has names likes 'Uche Chinedu Simon'. Michael is my English name and they at FB says they cannot verify that I am the owner of the account when it has the same email address I use to log in, the same DOB, the same phone number, etc.
Now, I guess i've been clipped by FB because that account is what I use for my social media broadcast of News and advertise my products and services. I have been growing that account for that long with a strong relationship with my friendslist.
Please what can I do to get back my FB account? Please someone help!

Cc: Lalasticlala

alex81:
Tanks bro , I received it. Heavy trailer load of blessing go jamb u ds morning.

God bless u.


To guys in d house, it consist of 5 numerical test questions only.

Qoute ur email only to ds post so I can forward to u.

While we anticipate more.

God help us all

Please help a helpless brother, do send me the materials... God bless you...

Abeg, what is the purpose of his visit? This Pinnick sef...

Julietcutie:
If he falls what will he tell his God?

He will tell 'his God' that he was photographing...lol

MUVA:
Really? Cos last time I checked, Ellaone is a contraceptive pill.
Let me break it down for you; Ellaone is used by women to prevent pregnancy. Its NOT either anti-retroviral or anti-STI. Its a contraceptive pill.



Remind me again why you can't stop lying?

Dont mind that mumu called SUMARAII... He should be ashamed of himself even with his signature... Him and Lai Moh'd na 5 & 6

TrapQueen77:
nothing beats the raw......

I no say na you go first talk... how does it feel bae?

AuroraB:
Please, ask Shamecurls

Yea right!!! I bet from what he explained up there you've had a taste of it... Maybe he's bf or sexmate, mind telling us?

SUPERPACK:
use DENTAL DAM. because some of these infections are hard to detect during lab test. and also make sure u dont brush your teeth 12hours b4 and after Or@l sex to be on a safe side.

Hmmm... i sense you are a dentician right?

SAINTSAMURAII:
depends on her hygeine. if she is clean down there, then i can tutor u on how to make her cum with ur tongue.

From what you just spewed even with your signature your name will not be found in the 'Book of Life'

Nairaland yeyecrity

Please why is Moremi hostel in Unilag refer to as 'prostitutes hostel'? Do they train female students to be hustlers in that Hostel abi na Hotel I go call am now?

yetty247:
Sometimes relationships can be really complicated, especially when those involved do not know what they want from each other and from the relationship. Breaking up and getting back together over and over can cause emotional damage and permanently affect the level of trust in the relationship. When dealing on what to do about this situation, you and your partner should really sit down and talk about what you both are feeling. You need to consider each other's desires, goals, wishes, and needs, and think if you are both in the same page. firstking01, try and identify the reason behind why you and your partner keep breaking up and then come to a conclusion of how you going to work thru it. halfricanadian, Communicate with your partner about your feelings and explain exactly what is going on in your head and see if he can amend or fix it.. hence keep your relationship outa Nairaland

Note: if you guys love each other than keep fighting for your relationship
Sleekshuga, come and talk to this lovebirds

Are you now their counselors? Or were you the one that matchmake dem? Let them to themselves, they are old enough to resolve their differences and if they they think it ain't gonna work for them abeg make dem free themselves jare.. Fallin in love with someone who doesn't care for the other person's feelings aint worth all the Love

My 2cents...

[quote author=TrapQueen77 post=47839238]I don't need to read ur drama....
after reading and commenting? smh...


NEXT! [/bold]

Flashh:
[color=#000033]And this is a news because she called the album a "hit"?

I sense low self esteem.[/color]

Did you just say 'a news'? You better go back to school...

For me 2 kids are okay, 3 kids max for me and it depends on the lady that I will get married to. We'll agree on how to bring up the children and see to their welfare. I don't wanna burden her or myself with lots of responsibilities and work. There are plenty of things infront of us and the best part is to leave a legacy for the children when we're gone so they wont be stranded financially. So 3 shud be considerably okay for any right thinking couple to go with... And I'm still looking though...