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Keep your son and give her time to grow up.

Move on with your future abeg

Tspize7:
I started dating this girl, back then in 2017. She got pregnant a d she gave birth to my son. I accepted her and the baby, this girl was unexposed, since she was a secondary school drop out. She learnt hair dressing and make up, since my mum said I can't marry a drop out. My parents even assisted in buying jamb form for her, she scored 134 but yet still since we promised her parents we will send her to school. We bribed to get admission fr her, almost 80k. She got admission into federal college of education Zuba. Paid her school fees, house rents, textbooks, bought foodstuffs ,kitchen utensils I can't remember everything. This same gal went to sch around January 2020 by march 2020 I found out she was ducking another guy in school and yet still the guy had the guts to tell me to tell my wife(baby mama)to learn how to close her legs. We had issues and to be sincere I know I messed up by beating her up and I swear that was the first time. This gal in particular, ve gone to see her parents oh . she did not even deny it, she ran away from home leaving our 1year 10 months old son then. She returned after 3weeks, she was still forming right. My parents and I decided she ain't good fr me and I swore not to allow her take my son. Am I wrong?

Trump will bounce back.

America will apologize later.

They are taking this too far.

These Democrats ehn?

emusmithyy:
LOL on you guys right?

Ha! Yes o. On we guys and all of us human self.

In short, am still speechless.

One word for you bro.

LEAVE home.

As in pack out if you can.
Go for greener pastures (not abroad o)

You won't succeed in life living with her.

When God starts to favour you come back and pick your siblings one by one

kennywagz:
Hello nairalanders, I know how you felt looking at my post before opening this, but pls know one thing am not a bad person or a foolish son, I just happen to have a *** mom..

The thing is me and my mum almost got into a fight yesterday. Now pls let me explain something to you... I understand how yall love your mother's and would do anything for her, I wish I could say the same for mine.

Anytime my parents get into a quarell my mother won't want to talk or do anything again. She goes to work and comes back late, lies down and sleeps.

It's over 5 months, she doesn't contribute anything, doesn't say anything, does not concern whether the children eat or not because of their quarrel..

I don't fight anyone but if I have a quarrel with my friends or bro, 2 days or the next sef we are talking. He will stay in the room by herself after work while we'll be in the palour eating, She will be in the room sulking.

I once came home and my junior ones told me they were talking about something and laughing and mom came out and said sheybi they are all laughing and very soon they will start crying. Like what kind of mother says that.

If you are looking for woman that curse and swear no one pass my mom.
She has fought every of our neighbors, every last one of them. I can't count how many swear and cursed she has said to my father and even to we the children. My father's brothers and sisters, she has been keeping malice with themsince a month after her wedding. That's over 20 years ago. Something happend and she hates them. If you are seen with your aunt or uncle you'd be in serious trouble.

She has this toxic nature/character always wishing evil for others. If she doesn't like you and she sees you happy it's sadness for her... How can someone be like this.

Today one woman she has quarrelled with had a fight with her brother. My mother was happy, saying e don catch am, laughing and praising God. My father is sick and doesn't even have the strength. They don't talk, she stopped talking to me cause she says me and my dad are always planning what we will eat, that am now the wife abi.

I can't express how hateful I am towards this woman, my heart is full of bitterness towards her.. I can't possibly type everything that I personally go through because it would seem as if I came here just to spite my mother. No matter what, she is still my mother, I am just looking for advice.

I give the children money sometimes when they are angry and I cook the food cause she doesn't do anything. She's sees me as her enemy when you don't want to do it, we should come and be begging you. Everytime we get into a fight for very petty things I always go and beg her, you must beg else you and her are enemies she won't talk to you.. I greet her and she says next time I greet her she will swear for me. This negativity is too much, I am a very Sane person, I won't come and write all this if I ain't pained... I have a father I love and my siblings, but it's this woman now.

Pls what can I do, everyday everytime person go dey beg you for the most unreasonable and petty things, after swear and curses with bad words Don follow steadily.

Lord have mercy

Just when we were all begging FALZ to open up, it turned out to be Adekunle

Happy Anniversary to the cute couple.

What you have is rare

Governor that listens

The concept of marriage has changed that is why.

People are busy marrying for lust.

Our parents married to build a home and create a family.

Our generation are marrying because of one (hiden) selfish interest or the other

SchoolPedia:
Let's have an open discussion here please.



Matured minds only.

I believe we will learn a lot here and help build better homes and families which will bring about better societies too.

Let's get the discussion running please.

Happy Sunday all.

Illusive marriage is all I see here.

Op, if you can't switch this lifestyle between you and her then, it will end in tears...I bet you.

It's better to have a broke submissive wife that'll always be there for you and your kids than your High Rated Lady friend.

sirjamesjnr:
You are dragging me out but I have to come clean.
Five top Sacrifices
1: Five years of good friendship with an American lady: I have to choose between Green card( working opportunities) or my girl.
2: I have to explain every motive sometime with proofs. ( I like being the boss in my relationship)
3:I had to endure a less romantic moment: due to her job, babe is always on calls.
4: I put up a lot of patience dealing with her: Last time we met I slept in three different hotels, spend good money, endure Lagos noise for three days before she could find time to be with me.
5: Always be the one travel to come meet her: Only once my babe visits me in Abuja. I like hosting my girl but I can't for now.
These are huge compromises for me.
Top five things you would wish for her to adjust to have your relationship better
1:Absolute Trust.
2: step up romantic words and deed
3: Find time to read books with me
4: Putting me first before her family
5: Go on a vacation with me.

There is truly nothing new under the Sun

Them no dey like reason

JudgeKronos:
Bros, Abraham give his house help belle, come give Serah belle on top.
seems like your end time started a long time ago

All my life, I have always questioned the existence of human race and life in general.

I was born into a Muslim home, had Islamic foundation, relocated with a big sis of mine, became a Christian (dedicated one) at the age of 13 only for me to be forced (physical and emotional torture) back to Islam again by my parents and siblings at the age of 18. The experience made me to start questioning humanity and religion from that young age...I had to give up on religion since many years ago.

I couldn't understand how the Church believed they are the only way, the Mosque condemn other religions except Islam, when there are other religions in the world + our very own African traditional practice but these set of people(Christians and Muslims) are full of evil acts even to their nearest neighbour.

This was huge for me to comprehend. I started meditating on my own and got a conviction that the law of Karma is real, that I should forget the madness in this world and focus on doing good and being fair that my almighty creator will protect me.

I also became comfortable with the idea of death and fear of the unknown that as long as my heart is pure let the will of my creator be done.

@OP

Your teaching has made me more grounded in what I believe. I appreciate you a lot. May God continue to use you to bless those of us that seek the truth.

GofuckYourself:
At a time these words meant alot to mankind

During the era of our Lord jesus christ before his gruesome murder and cover up by the church and religious leaders

And it is the same today , just go through my threads and see how they constantly attack and throw jabs at me all due to one fact ""insecurity"

The religious leaders are afraid of any sort in the status quo that removes power (congregation) from the church .

The truth is most people are afraid to think for themselves or rather are groomed by religion to be afraid to ask questions or think for themselves they are told "don't you dare question God it's is blasphemy"


When you ask them questions like if the son of God truly came to die for us why then did he still pray for our forgiveness? The pastor's will shout and scream in horror at your question

I find this hilarious because these same spiritual conmen as I fondly call them are quick to exhibit selective enlightenment, choosing only to enlightenment where ever it gives the church power , choosing only to explain scripture Inna way to makes you dependent in them for all things spiritual hence the church becomes your one stop shop for all spiritual matters

But if this where the plan wouldn't God himself have established a church ?

Why did his son Lord Jesus not work with the church or set up a church when he was on earth before his murder?

Again for you to understand this just look through all my threads and watch how they are quick to attack me when I try to explain how you as a human don't need me or any pastor to secure your way to paradise .. no they try to say anything, slander , indirect abuse and try to paint me as an antichrist?

Why ? For the same reason they attack Daddy freeze the self proclaimed leader of the so called sheeples movement, same reason the church crucified Lord Jesus and told the world he came to die for them (which is suicide), the same church that preaches against murder and suicide will suddenly tell you how this particular case is an exception

Telling you how God decided this suicide is the only right one because he loves mankind!

But wait pastor this doesn't make sense o, if God is as powerful as you say he could as well have turned every grain of sand at a small beach to over 1 billion people who are pure instead of sending his son to be murdered so gruesomely!! No!! Don't you dare question God but pastor everyday when we pray for relief or sickness or hardship isn't this questioning God too! Pastor will scream and send you out of his or her office

My point is under just a little scrutiny their beliefs doesn't hold water so they react as you can see in all my posts in anger and accuse me of being an enemy of the church !

I am not an enemy of true life being christ like or being spiritual what I am against is the made up , lie filled sham that is being sold as christianity today! Yes sold because you pay with your money for the entertainment they sell you...

They say I am occultic because I believe in God the father jesus his son and the holy spirit in truth bit according to their lies

They say there is no reincarnation okay let's forget that some of us are clairvoyant yes some of us see such spirits that have just left let us try and explain life .

Okay you say man dies once after birth

Where do new born babies that are born sick and die go?

Why does it seem like everything some people try doesn't work out while some others who seem bad everything they do work?

Where do arborted feotues go?

Why are such poor babies born to a mother who will dump them in a gutter ?

Ask then why some people are born so poor yet work so hard and fail others don't try and have wealth ?

Ask them why it seems evil pays ?

Why are poor children born in the north tossed out as almajiri

Why are innocent people killed by terrorist

If you say only christianity is the true religion and islam is a lie (which is very false) why allow children be born in the north or islamic countries where they have no chance of ever knowing your so called true religion?

Why is one of my students a girl born in a. Brothel to a prostitute mother knows no life other than prostitution her mum exposed her to at age 9 today she is a hiv positive 22 year old in stage two meaning she will die from Aids

Why why allow children be born with cerebral palsy , cancer like leukemia which are terminal and they die before they reach 12 years?

I go to the children's hospice near my home every month to spend time with these kids who will never know a 15th birthday I celebrate with them monthly I buy a cake and eat with them

Why are these kids born to die?

Why do some pray for children spend millions to get and later loose them?

Why are some women virtuous keep themselves as virgins and yet get married to monsters who mistreat them?

Why do some so called loose runs girls marry good men

Why do Nigerian politicians apparently get away with looting and secure thier future unborn generations with wealth while the so called born again masses suffer

Are you saying God plays dice and just sits back and gambles with people's life?

Ask them these questions and they will tell you '?" God works in mysterious ways "

Or they will tell you it's is juju or those people have given their life to christ

Oh but he isn't mysterious when he says people should pay tithes and offerings or when you shout don't judge me not God or you will go to hell ?

The church won't allow you accept reincarnation because then people won't bother coming to church again when they realize they will come back again for all.the evil they do ! Politicians won't steal and give to the church again to secure a seat in heaven

People will stop going to church and for the first time actually start trying to do good because they will realize they will come back here again and face the consequences of their actions.

Do you think buhari or abacha would loot nigerians wealth of they knew they will come back here and suffer as an almajiri?

But if the church and mosques allow you believe in reincarnation who will pay tithe to them? What use will they have to mankind? This is the secret

Why will Obasanjo or GEJ loot and go kneel down before Adeboye or Oyakhilome when they discover in truth that these men can do nothing for them when they die that what will judge them is the consequences of their actions?!

You cannot explain the justice or mercy or perfection of God without reincarnation.


Listen this religion is nearing it's end

It's time people embrace Spirituality and learn how to worship God in truth

The era of the church is coming to an end

Church isn't christ embassy, or Redeemed, or Winners or Four square or Jehovah's witness no

Church is meant to be when two or three are gathered In prayer even in your home

No pastor needed

Just people praying silently to their God

Do you know why some churches has been saying no covid-19?

Because of the fact that they are loosing revenue ..they never said no Ebola because that didn't affect their members coming in to pay

I mentor and teach over 500 people weekly online alone not to talk of offline visits which numbers in hundreds weekly

This is to tell you how tired people are of this lifeless religions

Both christianity and islam have been distorted and edited to favor control of the people mind and spirit through stones offered instead of bread .

Deep...

PCG001:
tɦɛʏ ҡɨɖռaքքɛɖ ʏօʊʀ քɨҡɨռ քʊt tɦʀօաaաaʏ ʄօʀ ɮօaʀɖɨռɢ sċɦօօʟ❓❓❓
ռօ ɮɛ ʏօʊ sɛռɖ aʍ ɢօ tɦɛʀɛ❓❓
ɨʄ ɨ tɛʟʟ ʏօʊ աatɨռ ʍʏ ɛʏɛs sɛɛ ɮaċҡ tɦɛռ ɨռ(օɮɦs) ɨt աօռ't ċօռtaɨռ 100քaɢɛs, ռa օռʟʏ ʝss1 ɨ sքɛռt tɦɛʀɛ aռɖ ʀaռ aաaʏ tօ aռօtɦɛʀ sċɦօօʟ
sɨռċɛ tɦɛռ ɨ ռօ ɮaʟaռċɛ ʊք tɨʟʟ ɖatɛ
ɨ ċaռ ռɛʋɛʀ sɛռɖ ʍʏ քɨҡɨռ ɢօ aռʏ ռօռsɛռsɛ ɮօaʀɖɨռɢ sċɦօօʟ ɮɛċaʊsɛ tɦɛ sօɖօʍɨsts աɛʏ tɦɛʏ ɮօaʀɖɨռɢ sċɦօօʟ ɨs օʊtta tɦɨs աօʀʟɖ

Thank you plenty. I've just learnt it's is more of Tatashe than Tomatoes.

This Sunday go steeew

pocohantas:
Previously I created a thread on how to make a nice Ngerian stew. You can find it HERE.



Fun fact: Do you know your tatashe is the red variant of green pepper? Yes, the green pepper you use for fried rice.

Pic 1: I thought this guy was selling tatashe o, he had only tomatoes. Was so impressed with the arrangement.

Pic 2: He asked me to snap the front too, lol. Last last, I bought tomatoes that I thought I didn’t need.

Pic 3: The exact way I combined my pepper mix

This life na turn by turn. I don't understand why we(human) like to see revenge on others, and we forget what goes around comes around.

Activist001:
Today it is Trump, tommorow it may be you. Big tech have now become the regulators of the free world and freedom of speech.

They can now essentially tell you what you can and cannot think - anything away from the mainstream liberal belief system and feminist ideology is now termed "hate speech" and "dangerous to our democracy" just like Buhari does here in Nigeria.

If you support Twitter on this, you're a fool. Their stocks are plummeting after the ban anyways so we'll see how it goes for them.

Trump made Twitter what it is today and this is payback? Who knew Twitter before Trump ran for office in 2016 and used it as his official communication channel since he didn't trust the news?

Another platform will surely rise up and Twitter will regret this decision! You cannot suppress the views of more than half of the USA and the world at large and win. It's not possible.

If its abroad its normal but in Nigeria I don't think its normal.

Very acceptably abnormal here in Nigeria

No

Please

I know a lady who was looking for every opportunity to travel abroad for a better life but, after she got married her story changed (credits to her husband).

If you ask her how far now?

She'll tell you no place like home and this is her father's land.

She said she'll only travel for vacation.

That's the spirit we need.

Come what may, we go survive together.

But truly exemptions must dey, it's all good.

Freebettingtips:
Most of the people making it here is due to corruption (they get lots of opportunities simply because they know or are related to certain individuals) or money ritual (I said most and not all). And then there are people who still make it to the very top without the help of corruption or even money rituals but I believe that it's due to luck or even destiny if such exists and no, I'm not saying that they didn't work for it cos they really worked real hard for what they achieved but you know that there are still a lot of people who work so so hard but still nothing ever goes their way. In life you need a little bit of luck in everything you do. It all boils down to choice as it's your decision to want to make it either here or elsewhere, but just never call someone lazy for wanting to leave the country to get a better life.

Good point.
'Lazy' name calling noted.

Mogajunior:


I have an inborn marketing skill and I have a good persuasive skill. I can convince you to buy anything even if you dont need it. Please someone should hire me. I need a job.

Go learn a trade too

blazesam:
You hear buruku buruku, mehn it scary but honestly hmmmm, when you gather that courage you find it easy.

I discovered it festive and everybody want to travel home, the speed this guy's use in flying with those Bose boat, it will make you cry, feels like a ready capsize... Imagine a car in wooden ferry and you on it !. I pray you enter a single trip like that.

Where is this Buruku?

GofuckYourself:
Apologies all

I am supposed to shave started this lecture but still trying to decide the most popular channel to use and address the issue of content control and who has access to the information

I am doing this for the safety of my own spirit because when I leave this world I don't want to be chained for unecessarily endangering other people

I must deliberately get this right

I have two suggestions telegram group and WhatsApp group

Now I want all would be participants to vote

Just comment which the option you prefer

If telegram just comment telegram of WhatsApp just comment WhatsApp

I will postpone the lecture till this Friday which is boxing day

You have between now and then to vote your option

Happy holidays

WhatsApp o

Good day y'all

Now it's getting clearer so, when they get broke they kidnapped innocent citizens for ransom.

What a government

GofuckYourself:
He was beaten because he came to speak the truth
The church didn't want this they went to the government and proclaimed that he was starting a movement like ipob

This is why he was murdered

He didn't come to die for you or i or anyone

And a lot of messiah's are still being crucified today, just because their message doesn't suite religious fanatics well.

Must everything always be the way we want them to be?

Life

LordOfTheWeed:
Fixed!

Seen, thanks.

1OLADesign:
pronunciation....


Before na pronounciation I dey write...



Secondly till now I still spell EXERCISE like Ede X Ede remi coni iya, segun elere ball

OMG! Just when I thought am the only one still doing this

My only difficulty is to pronounce the western way

Like the stressing of letter 'r' in every word for a start

Easyincome24:
I keep asking why some words are not written the way they are pronounced and also some words ain't pronounced the way they are written.

How can I explain that SOLILOQUY is pronounced[b] /so-li-lo-kwi/[/b] transcribed as /səˈlɪləkwi/?

How would I have known that GNARL is pronounced as /narl/ while one swallows the G but transcribed as[i] /nɑːl/[/i]

So guys, what are those English words you find difficult to spell or pronounce?

,

My only difficulty is to pronounce the western way

Like the stressing of letter 'r' in every word for a start

anthonyuncle:
hmm.

you can't compare both worlds.

have you ever wondered why this place is called a sh!thole?

Some are still making it, living large and oppressing others in this same shįπhoul.

It's not everything that is magic

Na determination to scale through and make it here.

I wish those responsible for this strike could be summoned.

How could you hold a strike (keeping youths away from school) for 9 months...

Men don't like to patronize prostitute in public.

She dey learn work.