₦airaland Forum

Even as a man, I agree with you.
African men have failed. However, African women raised badly behaved african boys who eventually turn to corrupt politicians. African women also pressure their husbands in public offices to steal.

So its both the African men and women that are rogues. Its a vicious cycle

BloomingDale:
African men. Lol

You know its ttue but because you're black, you're denying the obvious. Mention any successful black country?

Shawl001:
Hmmn.
This is a very audacious statement.

Nothing of a truth here, just based on certain facts, which are tentative.
How did the blacks rule themselves before they brought Colonization?

Do not be deceived by these trillions. The latent value is 1/3 Bubu's era and 1/6 GEJ era.

Valueless!

Men has always been fewer right from prehistoric times due to their mortality rate so there has to be several women to one man by ratio. Secondly, women wanna have their own children so they have to share. Thirdly, the sexual drive of the average man exceeds five females combined.

Nowadays, women cope by being sidechicks and men cope by discipline or having sidechicks. Take away sidechicks phenomenon, women would revolt and request the old way; the ways of our forefathers which is polygamy in its full form

pocohantas:
So your mothers of old who are supposedly virtuous were not behaving well, that is why your fathers took numerous wives??

Of course no one is indispensable. I am sure the OP said that before getting to this bridge.

Nigeria is under great TinubulationTribulation

Loool. Have you seen me remotely complain about my beautiful wifey before?

Reason i tell guys to behave like men. If a snake does not behave like one, children will use it to tie firewood.

Life is too short and beautiful women too many to die ontop one woman matter if she doesn't treat you right. Nobody is indispensable including men!

pocohantas:
Your wives and mothers are always the best. Normal...

TinubulationTribulation

My wife treats me with respect and care. She's the best wife in the world and I'm being honest. Ofcourse, love is reciprocal.

If she wasn't, I'll do the needful. I have never been a simp, I'm decisive and its one of the reasons she loves and respect me.

pocohantas:
You haven't gotten any woman pregnant asides your wife, but you are always here telling us about second wife. While you are faithful to your own wife. Clap for yourself.

Divorce her or marry a second wife.

If a snake does not behave like a snake, children would use it to tire firewood

Odingo1:
After going on trip for business purposes for like a month or two, wife constantly demand for lab test that she don’t trust anyone. What can someone do in this situation. No cheating is involved.

Nope, never ever gotten any woman pregnant outside my wife.

Women controls sex so if you know you're committed to someone, close your legs! Its a simple sturv

pocohantas:
Heya. But men are sleeping with other people's gfs and wives. Are you not bothered that one of your child could be outside, DMerciful? Your child might be struggling in Ogbomoso as we speak.

I'm not specifically talking about this man, I'm talking of your normalization of spending much money to win and defend the win. This man may have personal integrity but this money politics needs to stop if this country must progress

EdoGovernor2024:
For 20 years, BEFORE he ever joined politics, Senator Monday Okpebholo had spent BILLIONS of Naira to help people through his PHILANTHROPIC activities. Will such a man come to steal from the people he has be helping with his personal money?

A woman that sleeps with two men around same time, will she not pass the child to the husband even if he is not the father? Thats crime against the man and most especially the child

pocohantas:
It is not the same because you think your emotional distress is more valid than that of women. Nothing else.

You know it is not the same but continue

pocohantas:
Once again, nobody is stopping you Nigerian men from marrying two wives. There are many men with two wives in Nigeria. Yul did it and his first left. Ned did it and the second left and came back, but his first is nowhere to be found. It is either one of the two situations.

Some other men also wemlnt to visit sidechics and they never came back alive. One was lilled last week.

So whether you marry a woman, abi na she marry you, it doesn't change the emotional damage cheating does to a HUMAN and family.

Choose your poison and live with the consequences. Don't come to cry later that your kids were turned against you.

Why Abuja court?

He thinks his support for Tinubu is enough.

He has got it coming alright

saintokwuluora:
Soludo is just naive and politically suicidal to pick fights with traditional rulers and the Catholic Church in Anambra State. He hasn't done fantastic work in his first tenure and he is busy attacking his major support base. Him whom the gods want to kill, they first make him mad.

No wonder Nigeria is retrogressing continuously.

After spending all these monies, will he not loot to recover the money spent?

EdoGovernor2024:
In Nigeria PRACTICAL Politics, you need Money and Other Resources to organize and mobilize the electorates to vote for you. Otherwise nobody will vote for you, no matter how popular you are.

Senator Monday Okpebholo is a VERY POPULAR PHILANTHROPIST. The electorates love him: the electorates will vote for him. And he has the Resources & Logistics to PROTECT THE VOTES of the electorates for him.

In Nigeria Politics, if you do NOT have the Resources & Logistics to protect votes for you, you will lose all votes for you. This is the REALITY in Nigeria Politics.

Wishful Thinking and social media noise does NOT win elections.

Its hard because you begin to doubt the paternity of your kids.

Besides, a man marries a woman, not the other way round. If not Christianity, you'd probably be one of several of a man's wives and happily too, so be grateful . The fact that we're not applying the traditions of our forefathers, does not mean you shouldn't appreciate where we're coming from.

It's actually our fault so we nor blame una. The people that said we shouldn't marry multiple wives have remarried five times, married fellow men while many of our women are unmarried due to the difference of available men vs women.

Our forefathers were wise. This see-finish for nor dey

pocohantas:
Why is that hard for an unemotional gender to do? Women do it and they are not dead. It should be easier for you men.

Obi was the best performing gov during his time but you're not in the right frame of mind to listen.

Run along, Tinubu is a monumental failure.
He damaged his administration from his very first speech and he'd never be able to fix it back.

casualobserver:
List his acheivements and legacies. you cannot because he has none!! the people of Anambra were celebrating his exit.

I challenge you to list them and if you can I will swallow humble pie.


Youb cannot because you obidients know he has none. Obidients are eithe 1) ibos with a tribal agenda or 2) brain dead naive youth!

Prove me wrong and list his achievements and legacies.

you think we are fools trying to sell us margarine as butter!!

We know quacks and charlatans when we see one because we were properly educated and we are enlightened.

You're deflecting.

After accepting that Tinubu's has not performed so far, any other but....is trying to win an argument and its childish!

casualobserver:
he was the one in AWKA house, tell us what he did in 8 years there. so that we can realise we made a mistake and the error of our ways and vote for him in 2027. Right now if he is the messiah you should be very happy to provide evidence. i hope you know it is people like me that can make him president, so stop avoiding the issue and list his accomplishments. without our vote he cannot be president. if he is that good I am sure you want him to be president.

oya start listing his legacies so we can repent!

Suit yourself but Tinubu will eventually answer for his corruption

opamoses1:
Did you just say Peter Obi is not corrupt. I did not know I have been replying a joker . I am sure you also believe that father Christmas and the tooth fairy are real.

Ps: Tinubu has NO pending criminal case in court.

I'm not pained if someone wear hijab or not, i dont care.

Again, I did not say Ganduje represent Islam. I said the hisbah police or any strict muslim group will not apply the strictness to the rich or powerful but only to the poor.

The way you carry this thing for head, na you go tire for all these religions that are obviously scams!

LegendHero:
Oga stop saying nonsense. Because Ganduje daughter wear cleaveg dress, how does that affect islam? Is Ganduje mentioned in the Quran?

I am a muslim that drink beer steady. Will I say I am the model for Islam no. So why should Ganduje of all people be the model for islam?

How many muslim women wear hijab in Saudi? If they are in the majority, why then are you angry that Nigeria muslim that want to wear hijab must forcefully be shamed because a Saudi prince wife chose to do otherwise? Saudi prince wife wey fit dey drink alcohol steady self or engaging in three - some.

Obi is not the one in Aso Rock even though his mandate was stolen.

When Obj came, things started improving immediately. The improvements continued until Jonathan, infact the minister of finace said that last time the economy grew was in 2014.

You said the structural changes(even though they're not structural) Tinubu is making will improve things eventually. You're speaking as though it wasnt his party that was in power for 8yrs and he supported the previous govt 100% and plans to continue where they stopped.

So in your wisdom, you believe petrol will come down below N195 and exchange rate below N500 because to improve versus your predecessor means these prices should fall below. You know he has no capacity to do this, dont you?

casualobserver:
i am not deflecting i said tell me what Obi did. I have already told you that pain must come first after structural change. the structural changes i have already told you. These thing will not manifest in 8 months. Nobody is denying that things are hard now. It is a sacrifice to a better future. it is only a shallow mind (typical Obidient ) that will think things will turn around after 7 months. I am ready to concede that indices are bad but that is part of the process, it is essential for the journey.


Now tell me what are Peter Obi's legacies in 8 years in office?

Childish girl!

Tinubu has pending cases in court. He only succeeded in blocking some. You know Tinubu is corrupt but Obi is not.

You're trying to paint them with same brush

opamoses1:
Same for Tinubu as well. He has never been found guilty by any court of law, corruption agency, or any judicial panel. But you are just one person that doesn't like Tinubu. Kiss the truth.

You're deflecting.

Lets stay on Tinubu's performance. You said you're happy with his performance, i asked what indices of development he has improved vs his predecessors and you listed unrelated things. I have shown you examples.

I await the indices that Tinubu has improved since May 29th.

casualobserver:
BS. You are an Obidient, you have been brainwashed, you do t have the capacity for intellectual engagement. I asked you to list his legacies in Anambra. Please check the dictionary for the meaning of legacy first.

The actress Rahama was stopped from flying at Abuja because they wanted her to answer questions regarding the way she dressed. Thats not choice but compulsion.

You saw the cleavage bearing dress Ganduje's daughter wore during her wedding.

The criticism here is that the Islamic strictness is not applied to the rich and powerful.

You and I know this is true. Its also true for Christianity but Christians call these things out easily. I can say Adeboye's message that your colleagues will beg you for food shows he is a scam without thinking I'm speaking against Christianity. Thats the difference

LegendHero:
This is not about Islam, it is about people being ignorant about stuffs. It is not criticism, it is hate.

In Saudi today, there are more women on hijabs than those without hijabs. So how then do you want me to take anyone serious when they see the few people without hijab in Saudi and use that to justify their hate on islam by saying Nigeria mulsims don't see that?

I haven't seen where a muslim lady on hijab come to cry to you that she dosen't want it so why do you want to impose your own lifestyle on the muslims?

You people are actually the terrorist tbh. Wetin concern you with whether a woman choose to wear hijab or not?

These are not indices of development. I can help you with some

Standard of living(per capital income)

Poverty numbers

Corruption perception index

Number of out of school children

Maternal mortality

Infant mortality

Exchange rate

Inflation rate

Education

Availability of constant power and pipe borne water etc

So which one has Tinubu improved versus Buhari and Jonathan?

casualobserver:
1. we are not wasting money of fuel subsidy, so there is more money for the government.

2. we are not subsidizing forex, so it is harder to forex roundtripping

This country has been going downhill since I was a child, you dont fix the rot overnight. it is brain dead people the kind who become obidient who think you can fix a problem like Nigeria overnight. that you ask that question shows your level of intelligence and why you are an Obidient.

what makes you think (i know thinking is alien to you people) Obi will be better than Atiku or Tinubu..because he buys petrol himself? Please show us what his lasting legacies at Anambra are.

What indices of development has Tinubu improved for you to say so far he is better than his two predecessors?

casualobserver:
I supported Tinubu because he is the best of the 3 and so far I do not regret it and if anything he has justified my vote and i happy I did. IF you dont want people to support Tinubu provide someone better. Dont bring someone who is himself corrupt but has no track record of acheivement and think we are brain dead like you.

A law exist so that has changed the situation.

When people criticizes Islam, be flexible enough to listen and if possible make changes. Islam was found over a 1000yrs ago, the world has changed so even religion is expected to change else you breed extremists.

There was a time christians women cannot wear trousers but they can now.

All these pushbacks does not help

LegendHero:
No, it’s not same thing.

The major reason they denied the pope was because of morals. They are more Catholic than the pope.

Your hypocrisy is just too apparent. We all know it’s not because of law.

Someone posted this on the first page but you pretended not to see it so you can continu your blind argument

ivolt:
You have serious comprehension problems if you equate being
born into Saudi family with being a muslim.
Even if her father is the grand imam of Saudi, it means nothing.

Don't bother replying without the requested evidence, I don't do childish back
and forth. Direct evidence or nothing.

This is not said by any judicial panel or anticorruption agency but just one person who probably don't like Obi.

Thats what you wanna believe?

opamoses1:
Your messiah is a thief and a criminal.

Nobody in your family has half the integrity of Obi

Slytiger:
You can always open a thread about Tinubu to slander him This thread is about the criminal and thief called Peter Obi.