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Been married since early 2012! I ain't chasing small girls, what gave you that impression?

SilasNwude:
then go and marry
Stop chasing small small gehs

You are playing with your reproductive organs! Go to the hospital and get tested so you know the specific infection and the specific treatment to fix it instead of trial and error! Jezz!

Mr Iberiberism parayarning again!

Arguably the worst INEC ever when you consider the over #240 billion funding yet they conducted a sham called election!

INEC after investigating the claim by the RO that said the result was announced under duress, has confirmed thats why they believed the Returning officer story. However they are unable to tell the public that they have all the result from polling units because that will bring Bubu's reelection to question hence they've remained mum!

Start friendship with both them after a month you will know the right one

Your abroad status is what's making her wanting you back. Move on and look for a lady that has virtues!

starring:
Good day fellow Nairalanders

I met this girl last year July through a good friend, while I was oversees, we started e-dating and everything went smoothly although, we had series of misunderstandings during December last year but we resolved it afterwards

She called me and told me to me about a particular guy that comes to sleep at her room (she's still schooling), she said the guy was her cousin. I had to believe her because according to her, he is a cousin and I don't think they will be romantically involved in anyway.

The guy slept in my GF's room 3 different times that I'm aware of. He spent 5days the first time, the second time he spent close to a week, the third, he slept and left the following day. She told me each time the guy was visiting, this made me trust her and believed that the guy was her cousin.

My GF and I had a serious argument and misunderstanding this January, my girlfriend's brother had to step in and begged on her behalf. GF's brother and I spoke at length and I used that opportunity to ask my GF's bro about the guy my girlfriend introduced to me as her cousin.

Her brother told me they are not related by blood in any way, that they are JUST close family friends and nothing more and moreso, the guy in question once asked my gf out but due to the closeness of the family, my guy's mum playfully declined the request. Immidately he said this, my blood pressure increased, my heart beat increased 100x faster, one million and one thoughts ran through my head.

Though, I once asked her why the cousin always come to her room and stay longer period of days before leaving, the answer she gave me was that the guy is a serving corps member and whenever he wants to visit his family, he branches to her place and spend some time with her before going home (when I was in Nigeria, I do visit my cousins and spend time with them before leaving so I had no issues with the guy coming over if truly they are related)

To cut the long story short, I asked her about the true identity of the guy, she told me the truth and she swore that they did nothing during her so called 'cousin' numerous sleepovers in her room. I forgave her for lying to me and we moved on.

I got back to Nigeria last month and a source disclosed to me that my GF and her 'cousin' had sex more than five different occasions. (I don't want to reveal my source, my gf is an active nairalander)

I called her and told her about what I heard. She denied at first but later told me that they had sex 4 different times while I was away. (I'm dead sure it must be more than 4 times) She said they made out when we had issues during the December time. If this is true, they had sex 4 DIFFERENT OCCASIONS within the space of 31 days. (if not more than 10 times sef)

I'm so devastated right now. We saw over the weekend, she wasn't feeling too well, I picked her from her school to the school hospital and later brought to my house. She spent the night at my place and begged me all through the night for me to forgive her and that she is truly sorry for the pain she caused me, she also begged in the car with tears and mucus all over her face while I was dropping her off to her place. She said she is a changed person and that her life will be meaningless if I leave and that everybody deserves a second chance.

I honestly don't know what to do at this juncture. I don't tolerate infidelity of any kind more reason why I'm straightforward and loyal to her. I told her I have forgiven her because she wouldn''t leave my car if I don't forgive her. She kept crying and crying making passers-by wonder if I'm trying to kidnap her or something, I felt uncomfortable with the whole situation. The truth is that my heart is far from her the very moment she admitted to having sex with the guy while in a relationship with me. I find it highly disturbing.

How do I leave her without making her hurt herself because she may get herself killed once it's obvious that i am gone for good and secondly, if truly she's changed, is her sin really forgivable and forgettable?

Great job!
My timelines.

Online application - Feb 5
Biometrics - N/A (did biometrics in 2017 for visiting purpose , not successful)
Background and eligibility -Feb 6
Medical request - Feb 22
Medicals done - Mar 4
Medicals passed -Mar 8 (current position)

sillysassysally:
TRV processing time update 21/03/2019

Hi everyone,
As at today, only 10 applicants have shared their timeline. Please if you have applied for a TRV, I would encourage you to share your timeline (which should include; the application date, application route, biometrics request date, date biometrics was done, medical request date, date medicals was done, date medicals was passed, and the current status). If you don't have all this information, you can just share the ones that you have and update the rest as you receive it.

This information would help us study or attempt to establish a pattern to how CIC operates.

We have made attempts to "calculate" processing times. (Please note that this is just an average based on the little sample we have. Your processing time may be faster or slower than the average). As we get more samples, I want to believe our calculations would be more "accurate".

Finally, If there is anything you think i should add to the data or calculate from the data, please share with me.

Barbaric act! Despicable! Terrorism in its ruthless form!

He prefers decrees to laws no wonder he is declining assent upandan!

If you like

Texman21:
so should we fry sperm

Bubu who keeps getting poorer is clueless on how to generate wealth for the country! Nigerians want to get rich but keep electing the poor! A tragic irony!

When it comes to relationship, men esp working men holds the key but they have to realise the power they have to be effective! In Nigeria today at least 5million women are single and available and of these 5million, 1 million are good women so what the hell are you stuck with one ungrateful bitzh for?
Nobody is indispensable and in choosing a marriageable partner, choose the one that gives you peace of mind else you'll die before your time! Do not choose any damn ditzh that will make you rich, no! Peace of mind is the first criteria and others good things will be added!

Comeback? I don't have your time! I've better things to do!

RedboneSmith:
I think you can do better than this weak comeback.

Since you know everyone from Ika then suit yourself!

RedboneSmith:
The boldened is nonsense, and you are not from Ika.

The OP too is most properly not from Ika either.

Can't you give your point without insults?

senatordave1:
Unintelligence.shey na court withhold rochas certificate? t doesn't work like that in tribunals.it is sad that aside your start dumbness,you still refuse to learn.atiku witnesses will surely be voters,agents and observers not inec staffs as you are probably thinking

Bubu was not sellable for 3 consecutive elections until Tinubu told SW that Bubu is a man of integrity and that he will give corruption and give power to SW! Maybe it will be Osibanjo that will say El Rufai was misrepresented and that he loves Christians so much bla bla bla. Forget Nigerians, anything can happen!

OGHENAOGIE:
Buhari got significant votes in d south dats yy he won...he has always been consistent in d north...is El rufai sell able in d south with his uncouth stance?

Serves him right!

Omo-Agege the tout might soon come home to roost!

So they said about Bubu that he will never be president. In fact El Rufai said Bubu was perpetually unelectable! Here we are, zombies say he is the Messiah!

OGHENAOGIE:
this kind article wey dem push to front page...looks like a conspiracy article...el Rufai...na who go vote am as president with his undiplomatic stance...u pick him it's work over for pdp...maybe ribadu but does he have d cloat...for d south...ethnic mistrust ll play a key role...it's dicey...apc need to govern well to buy d minds of die hard southerners...d north ll want to retain power and pdp ll tilt to them....

You're in futo? Finished from there 2006!

Amatarasha:
Futo ,i have told u my discipline b4 nw

I said if you don't like it kill yourself!

Humanitarian5t:
Well that's the problem... Una no dey see anything pass PDP. Oyo people voted who they wanted because the incumbent governor hasn't done well... Kano voted PDP because Ganduje hasn't done well but what about you fools? Be it good or bad leaders no problem... It must be PDP if not Wetin bring PDP for this matter... Nyamiris

Story for the gods

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Op brain don cast!

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Nice one from EFCC! This is what they should be doing rather than be an organization for political chessplay

For sure you don't need to do biometrics, it has a 10yrs lifespan.
Why were you refused if I may ask?

resumepro:
Greetings to everyone,
Thanks so much for your prompt responses.

I have issues here.

In my first application, I did Biometric and I was also called for medicals in June which i did and I passes it.. was eventually refused visa on the long run.
Here is my Question, I'm ready to re-apply now and i want to know:
- will i do Biometric again (my first biometric was done less than a year ago)
- will i also do another medical ( my last medical was done less than 10 months ago)

Please i need answers to these two as i need to start my Online application today. Please help!!!

Time for the betrayal to be abandoned!

Almost every countries hates America. Americans are highly disliked esp by Arabs, Russians and Asians because they are superior economically and militarily. So your hatred is normal!

Honor10:
yes! the question should be, why did everybody hate u? u are not the only tribe in Nigeria for Christ sake, u know the answer, ur souls is filled with hatred and bitterness. No one play politics of hatred like u guys.