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Politics › Re: Photos From Scene Of Ahmed Gulak's Assassination (Graphic) by dochenaj: 4:07pm On May 30, 2021
This was the same Gulak that accused Rochas Okorocha of offering him a bribe of 2 mllion dollars to declare his son in-law Uche Nwosu as the APC gubernatorial candidate.

So we could inarguably say that Rochas is a prime suspect in this man's assassination, but alas UGM to the rescue.

UGM the blanket for atrocities.
Christianity Etc › Re: The Sleep Paralysis I Had: Could This Be A Spirit Wife? by dochenaj: 3:41pm On May 30, 2021
passion007:
Except that this one is a well documented scientific fact. You only have to Google "sleep paralysis"
Bro, I'm a medical doctor. I don't need to google sleep paralysis.
Christianity Etc › Re: The Sleep Paralysis I Had: Could This Be A Spirit Wife? by dochenaj: 12:46am On May 30, 2021
That must have been scary.

The world is not black and white as we see it.

There is a lot of unknowns not accounted by science or technology.
Family › Re: I Want To Send My Wife Packing by dochenaj: 12:41am On May 29, 2021
Saicrumam:
I disagree with all you wrote there sir
I was born into married parents and believe you are too...
Now here are my points
In my family the responsibility was shared by my dad and late mom. My dad paid rent, our fees in school, hospital bills and also provide food.
My mom takes responsibility of our welfare, like buying most home appliances, our school transport fees, day to day home maintenance bills like snacks, bread, toiletries, kerosene, church offertories....
Now who takes the heaviest load? Maybe my dad maybe my mom, maybe equal.

That's how a family is run.. D load is not for the man alone.... It never was!

We are quick to remember that a man is meant to be the provider of the family but always forget women were meant to be of support and assist for the institution to work

Even in the olden days, our Forefathers allocated land for their wives to plant vegetables, maize, cassava etc
While themselves plant yams, rice, and other produce meant for men. Those who were hunters, native doctors, allocated larger parts of their land for their wives to farm
Never equate and compare your parents marriage to yours.

Every marriage has it's own dynamics because you are not your father and your wife is not your mother.
Family › Re: I Want To Send My Wife Packing by dochenaj: 12:37am On May 29, 2021
igwebest23:
This is too much for me. I have had enough. I got married to my wife last year October 2020. I did both traditional wedding and white wedding, spent a million plus. I work with ministry of health.

My wife has been insisting that I disclose my salary to her from day 1 but I never, I just told her that am earning 100+. Before I met my wife, she already learn Fashion designing. Then while was rushing around, preparing for wedding, she was pestering me to open shop for her. I specifically told her that d money I have now is Solly for wedding and traditional rite, which cost me fortune.

Then after much pressure, her people contributed money and paid for d shop (Remember I have paid her bride price then). I have swallowed red pill. How can I open shop for a girl I have not finished marrying. Then when she opened d shop, I equally supporting her with other things like buying protector and chairs. Every day she is going to shop, I drop pocket of 1k. Some times she asks me money to buy tailor materials which I give.

Now within a space of 7 months my wife now has 14 apprentices. She collected like 30k from them. Then all the money she made in her shop, she put all in her account, she doesn't contribute anything at home. Infact decided not to apply for ATM card. Some time, I may go to. ATM to get money and d tell me no network, if I come to my wife to ask her for ordinary 1k, she will say she doesn't have it. I never asked her to help in our home finances before, and I don't really care about her money.

But now found out through her Facebook chat that she sent her male school friends 7k. She hid it from me, she said d guy needed d money to treat her father in d hospital. I was shock. Cos my wife always complained she does not have money. Now she is complaining that I don't support her in her shop. That she can do whatever she wants with her money.

This morning, she was raising her voice to the hearing our flat neighbors, that am a useless husband, I feel insulted. Am embarrased. That I don't support her. She said her shop rent has expired that I should give her d money but she have enough money in her account to pay it. While is asking me. Am d one that pays for house rent, I buy food stuff, I give her transport every day.

I have had enough. I will call her mum to come over and carry her daughter. I can never beat her. The last night I shouted at her she fainted not to talk of beating.
How do you have 328 likes. Dude be a man and stop whining like a woman.

Nobody sent you to get married without being able to take care of your home.
Politics › Re: COAS: The 24 Army Officers Buhari Bypassed Over Ethnic, Religious Sentiments- SR by dochenaj: 12:19am On May 29, 2021
Jones4190:
From the list you listen the are more Muslim bthan christian
Give us the figures, don't make unfounded assumptions just by looking at names
Politics › Re: I Am Not A Thug — Arinola Oloko Who Remi Tinubu Called A Thug Speaks (Photos) by dochenaj: 12:11am On May 29, 2021
Gravatar:
These days once I click on a topic the first thing I do is to check the OP's name, I either read or just go back and go elsewhere.

This OP used to have a good reputation, however since I discovered his hidden tendencies, I added him to the list of OPs to avoid/ignore.

I know he's going to report this comment, but that doesn't change the kind of person he is but tries to hide.
Yet you commented and didn't walk away. grin
Politics › Re: Biafra Day: Ignore Any Sit-at-home Order, Police Urge Abians by dochenaj: 12:08am On May 29, 2021
How can you tell someone not to stay at home if they want to stay at home?
Politics › Re: Afenifere: Constitution Review Will Not Solve Nigeria’s Problem by dochenaj: 4:06pm On May 28, 2021
Penguin2:
It won’t solve anything at all.

Because the lawmakers, especially southerners will not have the balls to insist that the things we really yearn for scales through.

And if it does, what’s the assurance that the idiot in Aso Rock will sign it?

Just unbundle this enclave biko.
If the lawmakers have balls and the idiot refuses to sign it. They should impeach his ass.
Politics › Re: Poor Performance Of The Naira Is An Impeachable Offence by dochenaj:
Very clueless, selfish, and wicked sets of people.

This is something that would have culminated in massive resignations, if this government ever have any shame.
Politics › Re: Naira Set To Hit N500 At Parallel Market After CBN Devaluation by dochenaj: 9:57pm On May 27, 2021
IMAliyu:
Lie?
I just remembered the naira devaluation started at the beginning of 2015..
Seems I got it wrong.
You maliciously got it wrong. However Google is your friend, if you were simply just ignorant.
Politics › Re: Naira Set To Hit N500 At Parallel Market After CBN Devaluation by dochenaj: 8:16pm On May 27, 2021
IMAliyu:
Actually buhari met it at roughly 350.
The naira devaluation from 150 started at nearing the end of the Jonathan administration.
Even you know that's a lie, except you are just filled with ignorance. Then in that case you should either do your research before talking or just shut up.
Politics › Re: Naira Set To Hit N500 At Parallel Market After CBN Devaluation by dochenaj: 8:13pm On May 27, 2021
More inflation.
Politics › Re: Police To Bar Herdsmen From Entering Kano Without Clearance by dochenaj: 8:12pm On May 27, 2021
Even the North is rejecting the herdsmen. gringringringrin
Politics › Re: Governor Wike Threatens To Beat Up Babangida Aliyu by dochenaj: 8:10pm On May 27, 2021
I just realized I've never heard Wike speak.

He doesn't sound that smart.
Politics › Re: Ganduje: We Have To Stop Herdsmen Trekking From North To South by dochenaj: 8:03pm On May 27, 2021
You see the thing is, the Fulani herders you see don't really own majority of the cattle they herd.

Their bosses do have the capital to build ranches, and keep the cows from moving about but no, they wouldn't want to do that.
Politics › Re: Forceful Retirement Of 10 Top Army Generals Looms As Farouk Yahaya Becomes COAS by dochenaj: 7:26pm On May 27, 2021
Attahiru's death go affect more people now.

I am certain Ben Ahanotu knew he was about to retire, after he heard Attahiru was dead.
Agriculture › Re: FG Commissions 450 Metric Tons Cassava Processing Plant In Rivers by dochenaj: 7:20pm On May 27, 2021
bunto:
huh Nigerian leaders and moribund projects are like 5&6.
How many of government initiated or government own projects in agriculture, manufacturing, health or even banking and finance are still existing today in spite of the heavy investments into them? The next Governor will just ignore the project and that will be the end.

The people in this factory, are they going to be civil servants or what?
Our problem is continuity. The people in government think it is about them and their legacy, but fail to realize it is not their money they are using to execute projects. So you see them detracting from previous projects so that the credits doesn't go to the previous administrations.

The credit is to the law abiding citizens who work hard and pay taxes, so government could work for them.

We need to stop praising government for doing exactly what we give them money to do.
Agriculture › Re: FG Commissions 450 Metric Tons Cassava Processing Plant In Rivers by dochenaj: 7:16pm On May 27, 2021
I am tired of seeing projects commissioned.

I want to see the impact of the projects, not commissioning.
Family › Re: Lady Found Out Her Husband Is A Mechanic And Not A Car Dealer After Traditional by dochenaj: 10:06pm On May 26, 2021
Some mechanics are richer than car dealers.

But the biggest problem is the deceit, and the man's apparent lack of confidence in his career path.
Politics › Re: Security Is The Responsibility Of Every Nigerian: Buhari by dochenaj: 9:44pm On May 26, 2021
If you thought Buhari will ever accept responsibility for any of Nigeria's woes, think again.
Food › Re: This Big Bush Meat Could Worth More Than #20,000 by dochenaj: 9:00pm On May 26, 2021
Is that your neighbor in the picture or you?

If it is the former, does he know you posted his picture online?

It is a form of abuse, if he doesn't know.
Politics › Re: Ugwuanyi: We Support Constitution Amendments That'll Enhance Unity, Prosperity by dochenaj: 6:56pm On May 26, 2021
ibechris:
This constitutional review's will shock the country,because at the end of this charade,the north still has her agenda.

Except the people collectively vote to change this constitution nothing good would come out of it,as it is its only politician that have assembled as shown above,not even one poor man nor civil servants are here.

Where are the traditional leaders,the local people at the grass roots here?
And when you say the North, the truth is that it is the Northern elites.

Ever been to the North, and you'll remark how poor those folks are.

A poor and illiterate populace has been the best way of controlling the masses, and the Northern elites know that well. Throw religion in the midst and you have the fatal trio.

The restructuring of the country and even the division of it might be the best thing to happen to the North.
Politics › Re: Ugwuanyi: We Support Constitution Amendments That'll Enhance Unity, Prosperity by dochenaj: 6:48pm On May 26, 2021
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Even if Nigeria needs to split, it should be without acrimony.

And that means the legislature must be on top of it.

No one who has experienced the ravaging effects of war, wants a war. Truly, there are no winners in war.

But if Nnamdi Kanu insists on war as the only way out, he should sneak back into Nigeria and come and declare Biafra. And you should volunteer to be one of his top commanders, I guess that will be an honor for you.
Politics › Re: Buhari Not In Support Of Open Grazing - Garba Shehu Clarifies by dochenaj: 4:49pm On May 26, 2021
Raising cattle should not be indigenous to a particular tribe. Anyone and everyone can raise cattle.

If FG is proposing creating forest reserves for cattle ranching, then the reserves should be operated and used by people indigenous to the states of their establishment. And the reserves should be equitably distributed across all the geopolitical zones.

Yoruba, Igbo, Efik, Ibibio, etc can also rear cows.

However, I don't understand why suddenly FG is more interested in cattle rearing than in refining of crude, that is squandering our foreign reserves and setting us into an inflation spike.
Celebrities › Re: Mr Ibu And His Wife, Stella Celebrate 11th Wedding Anniversary (Photos) by dochenaj: 11:48pm On May 25, 2021
He and the wife resemble small.
Politics › Re: PDP Won't Suffer If You Leave, Bode George Tells Governor Wike by dochenaj: 8:56pm On May 25, 2021
ArcSEMPECJ:
It depends on the party you want to join....

If you leave PDP to join APC...then you have proven to be one of the forty confused thieves who rather care for their selfish interest than for the common man in the street.....

Join APC and lose your integrity......
Unfortunately Nigerian politicians don't run on integrity.
Politics › Re: PDP Won't Suffer If You Leave, Bode George Tells Governor Wike by dochenaj: 8:29pm On May 25, 2021
Wike should form his party and let's see if he will win elections.

Nigeria will remain a two party system because our politicians have no integrity, jumping back and forth between whatever party is in charge or have better potential.
Politics › Re: Unknown Gunmen Storm Owerri, Shoot Sporadically (Video) by dochenaj: 6:53pm On May 25, 2021
mrvitalis:
People are free with unknown gunmen they seem to trust them more than police n army

They video a watched today the stood with them clapping n praying for them

Obviously igbos support them Nigeria needs to restructure to end this blood shades

A government house would be taken over by this boys soon the way they are going
Exactly how people were standing and clapping for and praising BH when they returned the Dapchi girls after FG paid the ransom.
Sports › Re: Liverpool Join Sevilla, Others In Race For Onuachu by dochenaj: 6:47pm On May 25, 2021
Liverpool wouldn't be a good place. Except any of the trio of Salah, Mane or Firmino is leaving.
Politics › Re: See What Yoruba People Are Saying About Tinubu On Facebook by dochenaj: 4:14pm On May 25, 2021
All Nigerian politicians prefer the old structure, because they may become irrelevant if things change.
Health › Re: Laced Brownies Almost Killed Me. by dochenaj: 4:07pm On May 25, 2021
How did you verify that the brownies were laced with a drug?

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