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Well,I guess m being petty then.nwys,thanks 4 ur advice.Also,sex or not has nufin to do with d issue at hand.All I'm saying is dat,I'd appreciate it if she wore it or did smth useful with it,knowing ow impt it is to me nd nt throw it in a shoe box, but,I guess u can't dictate to pple ow or what they choose to do wif what u give them.Lesson learnt even tho it hurts.

@reality,I'm nt gonna join issues with u, @longone, I never thot abt it until when I noticed that she always wore a silver chain(her dp's) nd when I asked,she told me dat she was averse to gold, my question is,why would u collect smth dat impt to me knowing that u wldnt can't even use it?? It's all gud tho. M gonna take pendo's advice,ask her nicely 4 it,if she refuses,all well nd gud.The sun will still shine tomorrow. Thanks for d advice,everyone

@pendo,thanks. I think I'll do jst that

@mrbrownjay,u got it wrong, I've knwn nd liked her for over 13yrs b4 we dated(u can call her my first love),so dating her ws like a dream come true 4 me.sadly,it lasted 9mths.I gv her d chain at d beginning of d relationshp,thinkn she ws d one, nd she knew this, nwys,I ws jst wondering if I ws wrong 2 ask 4 it.if she even wore it once after we brkup,I wouldn't hv asked but,a year after,it has never graced her neck.so,why is she keeping it?

Well,I tried talking politely to her, nada.I think she's still pissed abt d breakup even tho it's over a year now, also,this issue isn't abt the monetary value of the chain.tops,it'll cost 15k,it's abt d sentimental value of it,wch she knws very well.

Well,we were in a long dist reltnshp nd we broke up over the fone.also,I told her that I meant to gv dat chain to d woman I'm gonna marry, guess I thot wrong(we've knwn each other for over 13yrs b4 dating).I've aldy counted d chain as being gone.I jst want to knw pple's(esp ladies)opinion abt it.if u were d lady,would u gv it bck?knwn the history behind it?am I wrong 4 asking for it? And pls,don't insult her,I still hold her dear, thanks

I've knwn nd liked my ex 4 yrs but we were only able 2 date 4 abt 9mths(long dist nd ish).nwys,we've broken 4 over a year nw.prob is,I gv her a chain wch was given to me by my late aunt.it's d only gift I hv of her nd wen giving it to my ex,I made her undstnd ow impt it ws to me.thg is,my ex hasn't worn d chain since,infact,she's averse to gold,so I asked her to return it but she refused.I jst think she's being petty cos I initiated d brkup.I jst want ur opinion guys,m I a monster 4 asking her to return it?

I agree.I've stopped going to politics section cos of that.

Lmao!!@190,u nor go kill me b4 my time o, still,not a bad suggestion sha.
@op,I think d geh is jst stalling and she doesn't want to marry u.jst ask her straight up;will u marry me?didn't knw gehs need to hear from God b4 answering dat ques nowadays,

@4llerbuntu,I never thot I'd say dis abt any1 on Nl,but guy/geh,u spoke my mind exactly!!!every single line.Gbam

If he got married to her,then it's legal.ur frnd can get married to him if she doesn't mind being the second wife, last time I checked,polygamy is not a crime in Nigeria,

Correct!!!can't wait for my riley!!

Mehn,pepus dey vex o, una don open yansh for public finis.ladies,pls calm down eh.abeg

Church only 4times a week??don't u think 7 times is better?

Is dat what u call karma?u rape someone nd ur gf gets raped?so,if I kill someone nd my gf gets killed,am I dead?it would only be karma if I got killed, d only victims here r d person u raped nd ur gf, guy,go find d person u raped nd make ur peace wit her.I feel for ur gf sha

It really is of no use arguing wit these guys, "d fool says in his heart;there is no God".dat quote is in d bible, but then,it's jst a load of crap ryt?*smh*

@volvo,his diabetes didn't hv anyfin to do wit this.at most,he would hv gone into a diabetic coma ie unconscious.him hving d energy to pull off his cloth nd stuff, nah.it's a sad story nd if d account is to be believed,methinks d guy committed sucide

@idowu,u don't want to be labelled as mad,yet u r quick to label nigerians, u meet a few nigerians nd u generalize based on d few dat u met??d few AA's I knw r in prison(guys) nd crazy(girls).do I then say dat all AA's r criminals nd mad?? Think b4 u speak alryt?I won't deign to reply u on d balls issue, u knw d saying;never fight wit a fool cos she drag u down to her level nd beat u wit xperience.hv a gr8 day

@idowu,diary of a mad african american woman then, go find somewhere else to spew ur vemon, @op,I don't think gettin married to someone 8yrs older dan u is a gud idea, 2-4 yrs yes,but 8yrs!!!think am well o

Una 2 don derail d thread finis, nigerians sha,we sabi to take panadol for anoda person headache.vengenace is mine, but guy,u sef change d name nd let's get bck to d topic at hand

Nah, I seriously doubt it.it's too early for her to hv those signs,

@silknsteel,learn to hold urself in,think b4 u talk.dnt jst say d 1st dat comes 2 ur mind.it's usu rubbish.it's hard I knw,but it'll help ur future, I posted dis cos I wanted to knw ow somfin nd I hv my answer,

*noting ur comments nd jst passing by*

Also,if u r a boy nd u get beaten wit a broom,ur p***s will be small,

@BABE!,I hv enuff boxers,so it's not cos of d reasons u sed.it's jst a guy thing,a habit picked up in d days of boarding house.

U fit buy some 4 me.I'll gladly accept, nd why wld u want to lash my "bare" butt??*shaking ma head*

Highbros,God bless for saying d truth.folahann nd datnigga,thanks, all dez wey dey thumb deir noses at me do worse o, as 4 d person,wey wan wear g-string, hmm,nor make I yab u.most guys don't change deir boxers daily.shikena