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Imanuelle:
I updated last week already, so because of 'a few bug fixes' I should update again? Which could cost me up to 20MB?

Who knows if the feature that's even thrilling you is something I see as normal?

temmym4:
Bro, be smart! when he asked you about pictures, he meant, post a screenshot of your updated whatsapp and lets see how beautiful it is truly. some people dont have time to update not until their current version is about to expire, your screenshot could make people wanna update quickly just to see and feel the new look too.
Dont be naturally aggressive.

Imanuelle:
No pictures?

jany:
Oga wetin telemundo do u? I personally dont watch it but u keep mentioning it. I think ur main beef with ur wife is that she does not have a job.
Before i comment or make suggestions y not say where u live so pple can know where to start from. What type of school your kids go to so we can measure the standard of living they are used to.
U mentioned in one of your posts that you pay your parents their salary every month. Biko how much and what job are they doing for you? Do you also pay your wifes parents too or she takes from the 100k? or you dont think her own parents also deserve salary?.
Why not decide how much u will give her for personal upkeep and give her that for like 2 months while you buy everything the home needs so u will have an idea of how much is actually spent then you start your discussion from there.

bukatyne:
The bolded not necessary

I am sure If you communicate your fears to your wife with these points she will understand your POV and have similar vision.

Goodluck.

Mrs0J:
Spot on Op

IamforGod:
1. Why did u tell her how much u earn?

2. You are giving 4 people 100k wat do u use the remaining 400k for?

3.its a month. Not a week 100 k is Just fine if not work harder and earn more

jayedu108:
@op remember notin last 4eva that ur N500,000 naira job might not be there tomorrow,make use of the opportunity u have and invest dat money so u can have somtin to fall back to should incase of any eventuality and it will also give u access to multiple income,nt necessary you depending on ur salary alone,as per ur wife I would rather advice u start a biz for her,so she can use the profit from the biz to assist the family in which ever way she can rather than leaving the responsibiltiy for u all alone not that you won't assist oh,bt shine ur eyes dis is naija the money might nt be there tomorrow make use of dis opporuntiy u av got nw and use dem wisely!

bukatyne:
The OP is free not to divulge However We need to understand the root cause.

To be honest, N100k out of N500k in a month is not much for a family of four.

If the OP feels it is too much due to the standard of life they live, it could be that his wife is passing a subtle message...

Is she tired of staying at home? Is the OP tired of her staying at home etc. etc.

I am sure they will be able to reach a compromise If they work at it.

Mrs0J:
Lol mami ba wo? eku jo meta.

Mrs0J:
@ OP, you have gotten enough reasonable advice here. Pls communicate with your wife.

Am a mother also with a family of 5. I spend 60k per month on feeding, sometimes it will be enough, sometimes it won't cos my kids are picky eaters. Plus we mothers and wives knows how to prepare good quality meals but we tend to cut down to manage things. Your wife don't need to burn fuel all the time, rather channel the cash to other areas. From 8am I drop my kids to school, i get so busy with house erands that i don't have time to watch TV or take a nap.( i don't have house help).
Pls discuss with your wife, a wife should help her hubby to manage and build the home.

wachakuta:
Ghen Ghen

ifyalways:
I don't think 100K per month is too much however I think the OP believes it's much/ the wife is not prudent solely because the wife is NOT working. That's the truth boy!

That feeling of resentment is gradually building up, it would do your wife a lot of good to get up and find a job.

100K a month
Foodstuff, including children's lunch pack : 60K
Herself : 20K
Petty stuff she won't ask u: 20K

bukatyne:
@OP:

Why is your wife not working?

EroticAngelina:
what an old fool. I ain't hating, I'm just making a statement.
its goats like u that twist ppls words and read diff meanings to it.

Mogidi:
Re-painting the house for another stooge to occupy, the Tinubu story continues in Lagos, what a shame.

By 2019 Lagosians would have permanently leased that house to the Tinubus.
2019 sees senator Remi Tinubu occupying same abode, the saga continues.

Tinubu would rank as the longest serving governor in Nigeria, ruling Lagos through proxies and stooges since 1999.

Ezenwammadu:
l still don't know why police officers especially those highly ranked has pot belly

kwhiz:
ATTENTION, PLEASE BE CAREFUL


Today is 8th may 15.
being 8+5+15=28
We are in 21st century, been 21×28=508 combine the figures we have 508+2015=2523

it doesn't have any meaning.
Thank you for your attention.

Keep doing what you were doing

nedu2000:
catholic church in ago iwoye,ogun state pls I hold ur right,i'm just tired in fact

rexbuton:
what exactly do they do there?

tzoracle:
Thank you and God bless
Your observation is duly noted
But we can't just walk out of nigeria whilst nigeria has financial gains to be made from our presence.

tzoracle:
Nawa o

All dis igbo posts are starting to annoy me
It shows inferiority complex,stop digging out all this facts like like u need anyones validation

And before u judge
I'm igbo
Full blooded

nedu2000:
I've worn glasses for well over a decade,it started with 3 diopter of short-sightedness(-3)from which it got worse (-6) by 1999,it has remained so ever since.It hasn't been easy and I sure would like to see the world in HD in my lifetime and not this'. 'NTA' standard my eyes offer.
My Perils include:

1)SPORTING DRAWBACK: if you think zinedine Zidane,Eden Hazard,leo Messi are the most creative footballers then you've never seen me play,but with my eyesight I had to cool down on my football career.Infact in my University days I rarely get chosen in teams

2)ROMANTIC DRAWBACKS: There were times a got a 'moment' with some hot chics and as I was closing in for a french kiss my glasses sets up a awkward moment instead and my chance is gone! The glasses also give me this "he's cute but he's not man enough since he wears glasses!!" from girls.

3 )DOMESTIC/EVERYDAY CHALLENGES: I can't fall asleep swiftly without looking for a means to drop my glasses somewhere,if I use contacts my sparkling eyes turn red the next day,if it's raining/foggy my glasses becomes completely misty and unlike windshields,spectacles don't come with wipers

4)MISCELLAENOUS: job opportunities-i studied civil engineer but I have fewer opportunities to prove myself as a good site engineer due to stereotypes

* intimidation- I was driving around Orile in Lagos when one lanky dude tried extorting money from me,merely because he felt I was weak/gentle not until I broke his nose did he realise I wasn't weak, had to spend N2500 on his treatment

Nairalanders please is there any sort cure for shortsightedness? I heard of many side-effects in relation to the laser option!