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chatinent:
Sequel to this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/6753146/careers-men-turn-off-lady


What are those careers of ladies that can turn you off as a man?

Mine:
1. Massage Therapists (especially those for out-calls on private services).

2. Actresses (big turn-off).

3. Hotel anything. ( Whatever you are working in a hotel as).

Teacher

Hotel/Hospitality(Massage and the nonsense)

Actress

Nigerian Nurse (Nigerian Male Docs)

Social media Ratchets Aka Influencers

Shop owner (Hairdressers, Tailors dem) ....

Showbiz(Entertainers, Tiwa, Teni, Aryaa, Tonto Dikeh etc)

Cudjoe360:
Kindly drop any ideas that you have to help someone out there to start a career, i want to learn something too please..

Set a Career path and learn the art and Science of your Discipline and be ready to Market yourself !

HigherEd:
They enjoy numerical strength because we haven't started thinking down south.

The south must unite as a single political bloc and entice the vastly north central.

All we need down south to win any election is to secure 90% votes down south and 55% in North Central.

Nigeria's power lies in the north central. The agenda of any southern president or party must be to rapidly denorthernise the north central. This is possible because it is isn't necessarily a fulani or hausa enclave.

1) Form a resilient southern bloc
2) Aggressively court the North Central and integrate them into a southern agenda.
3) Play the religious divide with wisdom. Don't let the north west use Islam to shatter a southern bloc.

And you have your power. Ensure anytime south or NC has power ensure the north west is dealt with in the same proportion the south was excluded during a northern presidency.

Lalasticlala

The South doesn't have what it takes to form a bloc ... I doubt the South can ever form a bloc .... All it takes is good price, Souther leaders will spill and run !

Even if there is a division, Possibly Yoruba will be able to hold onto themselves (if Ooni, Alafin and Awujale with Olubadan and Iwo King with Soun, Oba of Lagos never finish themselves ) .... Those kings will finish themselves and also sabotaged themselves!!

I think there will always be sabotage in Southern Nigeria but unfortunately, Northern Nigeria is also under total fire from International Jihadist Movements beyond the Emirs control ........

Northern Nigeria has lost total control and this is a "woke" world ... Banditry, Bokoharam ,Jihadist is now beyond State Bribery, they wanna take over Government and Governance... That's the mission they are nurturing.......

Nigeria is what happened when Stupid ones rule for 60years ..... I doubt whether this country nor the black populace are meant to excel .... All across Sub-Saharan Africa, the story is usually devastating and it seems a Race thing ... The Sub-Saharan Dominant race are not helping themselves just sabotage and betrayal, sex and money with Ogogoro ... Nothing much .... No innovation, Invention nor advancement but There is abundant Potentials everywhere!!

God forbid blacks being enslaved again in centuries to come ......

Nigerian Unity is sacrosanct to Nigerian success and Safety.... From North to South, it is designed to be Hot and Fire ...... Sabotage was Designed.... Nigerian Problem is beyond Fulani, Hausa, Yoruba nowadays .... There are Jihadist drumming around the corner ... My prayer is for the Nigerian Army to contain them in the North !!


International Jihadist are here and they don't care about tribe or religion but their own agenda !!

LionTiger:
You guys had all the technology, yet corona virus beated heii outa ye all.
Be preparing your missions for self destruction.

Imagine these fools took the war away from Earth into the Universe ...

They won't just be battling Earth forces, they will be battling the forces of the Universe ....

Human extinction is quite close and so close just that innocent animals will be carried along .......

Anyway, Military has been the source of innovation of Technology since time immemorial but Space should never be weaponised ..... That's too much of Stupidity !

Juliusmomoh:
Good morning nairalanders...

Permit me to go direct to the point.

I snore alot.

Am tired of this shit. It makes me feel uncomfortable around people.

I don't like sleeping in people's house because of this.

Please anyone with the best remedy to stop this ?
Even in the afternoon, i snore.

Your comment please..

Ensure you digest your food before sleeping ... Don't sleep immediately after eating, The flamboyance in your stomach will cause discomfort to your lungs also blood flows will be altered if your heart is not comfortable .... or the pressure is much !
exercise is the answer ..... Do little exercise after eating to kick-start digestive tract movements!


Shower after stressful day so as for your muscles to be relaxed and sinuses cleared ... Possibly Warm water !!


Invest in drinking hot/warm water ... Muscle relaxant, aid digestion and cell functions ..... Sinuses removal .....


Don't expose your chest region to cold e.g fan or breeze .... Fattish deposits will lead to inhibition of flows thus snoring as your lungs struggle for air !!


I'm not a Doc ooo .... I'm just being philosophical !!

Paulplayy:
I had a friend in school..she's a lady..we met at an IT centre where i was contracted to teach 10 500 level student autocad..she was on her IT..we met and became friends and we set up a computer training school where we do basics, AutoCAD pdms, civil card, and others with repairs too..we were doing well..I never knew i was attracted to her..sometimes when we jist, she asks me about my girlfriend, I told her she was external..meaning she was from another school..but she will come someday..later my Girlfriend visited and I brought her to our training centre and was a bit late to the centre after we agreed to come early..you need to see the way she reacted to me..she shouted that why would I come to the centre late when we agreed to come early..I later dismissed my gf and kept a straight face all day..later she begged and I let it slide. That was signal one, the second signal was that she called me to come meet her at her friends place.her friend traveled for salah that period..I came holding the laptop we use together cos she said we needed to work on a proposal..I came opened the laptop and was editing. I later discovered she was on nighty. We were jisting and was editing sitted on the 3 seater, she later stood up from where she was and joined me on the 3 seater like she was coming to follow up the editing. All of a sudden, she rested her head on my shoulder and I paused but I was naive or rada there wasn't any feelings and I wouldn't want to mess with her cos she was my Biz partner and friend. I didn't concurs to her body language. That was the second signal, the third signal was when she opened up and told me that she would love us to date and see where it will go since we were both computer gurus. I told her that I appreciate her feelings for me but I would want us to be friends..Ashe NA hate button I go press I no know..
Afterwards she started giving me attitude before she left school. She was a year ahead of me. She was very beautiful, best student in math and computer department that year with the best project..she can hack WiFi, has ccna, ccnp, all o..but I turned her down simply because I Dont want to hurt her but she instead hated me for it..she left and till date she went AWOL..

Life no balance ... You really helped her ... Attimes Konji(Raging sex Hormones), Infatuation and wild dreams respect no male or female and people tend to make life mistakes based on that !

Gadafii:
i once turn a girl down whos room was directly opposite mine cos i didnt want to knack her, we live in the same compound back at school so i no wan make she start to dey monitor my parol and also because i have met her serious boyfriend once. till tomorrow this girl still despise me for turning her down, she already suckked the dee, position me cow girl style about to impale herself when i held her back and told to wait let me get condom...i entered my room and didnt return to hers, the next morning the daggers she shot at me with her eyes could have killed me

You are evil ... How could you get to that point before realising its not a swimmable ocean

That's too much ... she suppose dagger you more eye balls and swear for you join

greencard:
We keep hearing;

"Marry the right person"
"Be with with the right person"
"Life is easier with the right person",

What's your definition of "The right person"

The right person is someone who shares your philosophy, ideology and norms about life and beyond ... !!

My right person is someone who is philosophically and ideologically better than me .... Someone who listens, watchful and understands even before you make a move !!

ibnlawal:
She go hear am from army as e don trend now, government no dey use corper play oo. if na normal civilian no, the gbegee no go big buh kopa.
Madam lieutenant should be ready to be redeployed to borno, she go hear am

That's if she no get Godfather ... which I doubt .... If she does ... Nothing will happen .... She will just take care of the girl and make up .... Both of them will snap pics to dissuade public opinions and become friends ever after ...... Lobatan !!

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Sonnobax15:

You'll be surprised to hear that that female Lieutenant na one school drop out or Probably who no even smell the gates of primary school self....

Well,this is the level of how our leaders have made the country to be lawless and anyone who has small office go just wor use am oppress others...

Just imagine am na,woman wey suppose to get sympathy for her fellow banny dey do this kind thing to her...Had it been it was a male soldier now,heaven for don loseguard the few NIGERIANs we dey inside to come for the male soldier head...

She is LT. A graduate!
Possibly NDA grad, SSC or DSSC ...... But she fvcked up , she ain't supposed to mess up a fellow grad like that!

Jerryherd:





Soldiers weren't trained for civilian activities, using them constantly for civilian opreations is just wrong... She's a combatant, trained to kill and torture, her temperament is not meant for slayqueen civilian corper

The Female lieutenant was also dehumanised and beaten from day one she joined the service


To forestall future occurrence similar to this, Military should henceforth not be deployed to civilian training camp like NYSC, Military should not be used during protest, rally, or riots, they should not be paid escort for VIP and Politicians



.

A Corp member is undergoing Military and Civil Training... The Head of NYSC is always a Military Personnel ! NYSC is a Military Corp .... So you can't stop Army Personnel from attending to Army babies !!

Such action should be discouraged.... they will just punished her in the Mess ... It's an internal affair.... She should be made to pay damages to the girl with 50% of her 3-Months salary.

Aidejay:
Tonto dikeh get leg ooh! She dey use DSS take dey faya the guy. Baba don run go court make matter no reach matthias.

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

All it takes is to date one mid level DSS or Army or Police ... That's all ... No big deal !

Olarewajutv:
This people dey trend now.. Olosho to pay 10billion. Buhari must hear this

Kpokpogiri don wine and dine with the devil, he go hear ween and Tonto self go hear ween

Very sweet Drama .... make dem shaa no kill each other .... this separation pain Tonto no be small .... Nigga must have collected too much unspeakable

JimmyDarmody:
Sequel to this thread;
https://www.nairaland.com/6765187/careers-women-turn-off-man#106048053

I think a married woman should not have to work. Your wife stands to be treated as a subordinate and even disrespected by her bosses. Some may try to make advances. A man should make enough money to a point that his wife does not have to work too.

What do you think ?

Righteous Career Woman... House wife in 2021 ke .... Inflation never chop you finish.... we should be making money together for the family......

You must have a Professional Career and be ready to get to the Peak of your Career ... Is Okonjo Iweala not a Career Woman ... I really want that .......

If anything happens to the husband, full house wife usually fail because Money making and Money management are two different issues entirely that need to be learnt and experienced!! ... You don't learn and experience that as a full House wife .....

Enter the street Jhoor make we dey dust am together.. When we come back in the evening, we talk all about it !

For every positive, there is a negative ... what remain is management

nokspos:
you didn't get the point, i acted like i didn't see it and she let it slide. its not just rice , rice and stew , that decent portion that could make the room start smelling after few days and you will be wondering where the smell is coming from. A normal human being shouldn't ignore such. its either she's naturally dirty or she's being wicked or less concern since its not her room . Anyone who could show this kind of act can do worse things in life that is not even food or cleanliness related. i don't know how to further explain thing thing.

I'm not faulting your judgement about leaving her but I'm saying .... You should have told her ......

It's just funny a girl get axed because she dropped rice and stew on the bed not other things

CEOwatazs:
She told me That whenever we get married, I am allowed to bring any girl and fu©k in our matrimonial bed.

From that day very day I lost interest in her.
Although, I know I will definitely do that, but why on earth will she be the one to tell me what to do¿

I hate to be told what to do....

I bless God for her for delivering her from "GoalGoal" .. she was just desperate and knew your inner fettish! ...

nokspos:
rice and stew spilled and she over looked it, its a sign that she will be a dirty wife. She actually saw it at that point, took a quick glance at me and when she thought i didn't see it, she let it slide because she was busy with her phone. this is a very dirty behaviour , 5mins after she finished eaten i then brought broom and packer to pack the rice, that was when she said "oh i'm sorry , i had plans to do it but i forgot" she's not even a stranger o , the relationship was already about 4months o, oga God showed me sign, nobody want to marry a dirty wife o.

Dude anyway, you did well but attimes you for clear her doubt .... Tell her to pick her rice ... Me will frankly say it .......!

There is time for romance and time for frankness !!...

Be Frank when the need be ... a woman is even expecting it from you, that's why she looked at you for clue !! ... If you ask her now, maybe she also sees you as a SIMP ... Complicated specie!

So if she now has other specs you can't do without, you will now ex her because she spilled rice

Your wife can do the same shey u go divorce her ni ....

fcbgotel:
Don't really have any.

Have not been in relationship before.

Am more concerned with my education.

But have learnt a lot from nairalanders experience under this thread.

But my question is, Can one really find a perfect partner who is almost complete ?

Human are variable. No one is fixed and alot of factors are responsible for that beyond our control.

Know your type, attract your kind. Your kind is someone who shares similar philosophy as you then start managing each other maturely from there and be tolerant and patient!!

Don't Date except you are a MAN !!

Honorably Decline ... That's insulting and Degrading .... I would leave on emergency appointment after next One Minute !!

armyofone:
Polygamy - where one man services 2 or more women

Ummm in 20th century

Being the first and only wifey to the right person is better than being the second wifey to any man.

This is 21st century sir!

luminouz:

Omo olomo !

Blessiing:
Amen, thank you

See, stop giving you to who don't deserve you .. save your cash and ..Becareful of that boy Luminouz... You will fall in love ooo !!

mosesjay:
On Saturday my girl came to my house I asked her for 5k that I will pay back she refused and she has 60k in her account, I forced her we even quarelled because of it and she refused, this is a girl I always send me, it was when she got home that I opened up that it was just a test and she failed big time, I have seen her heart, relationship is supposed to be mutual, it shows she can't be there for me I think she is now an Ex but she doesn't know

There is an OT to ask girl for money ooo .... Majority guides their pulse for security reason so as not to cry much when relationship goes south.

U chop body, u chop money ... she go die na !

luminouz:
Ok...will get across to you

Hey, Leave her alone .. na so you go Hack am ... Ronaldo Messi !

Blessiing:
Yes i am

Hmmm, beware of luminouz with "z" ... ... He is a soul hacker

nick50:
Just a tiny percentage of Nigerian women helps thier boyfriends ..I met one recently

There is no girl that won't help a guy. Every girl has maternal(care) instinct provided you know how to hack it.

Even some dudes enjoy free sex and money from Oloshos but are you Loyal ?

Romanoff:
Na woman wrapper full this forum sha.

A question will be directed at ladies, na men go comment pass.

At least allow the women to answer first, to even sample their minds and opinion. But as na una dey rush to comment, how do you want to get answers?

I ask ladies for money especially when we are fighting and the response is always great. They usually see it as a way to help a Czar, sowing a seed into my life !

If I spend 20k for you, I will request 5k verily to test whether you deserve my friendship and time or not !

Romanoff:
After three different women, so none amongst them is marriageable.

May God give women sense to close legs for who never marry them.

Na una dey feel for them .... they don't care because they are enjoying and living the vibez.

jaxxy:
What’s the difference btwn that and normal transfers we do as cashless transactions?

This one is coming from CBN herself other ones are from other vendors sanctioned by CBN possibly !!

But eNaira is CBN herself!!

CsRockefeller:
Oga calm down, yes it will reduce the use of paper money in circulation but to completely compete with it - NO WAY!!

This is not the first time an E-currency is being introduced, this is just another innovation of the same family. Sanusi started with the cashless policy remember? Paper money is as old as Earth itself, you can't take it out, not even the "almighty" Federal Reserves can.

Lol ... They aint trying to eliminate paper money .... they are just providing alternative legal tender to paper money thus dependency on paper will be reduced. The cost of producing paper money will also be reduced !!

Sanchez01:
You're over thinking this. It can't happen and it won't happen. You realise that this is targeted at the youths, right? What then happens with older people who are uneducated? What happens with traders in the market? Trust me, if they go the way you claim, Northern traders will bleed to death before Southern traders and that they won't allow. The whole thing is an attempt of a desperate government to pretend that it is trendy and youth inclined.

Debit and credit cards serve specific purposes, I'm sure. A darned Nigerian wallet can't kill them anytime soon, let alone overnight. Trust me, this e-Naira show signs of a failed project already

It is not me overthinking .... i was just stating the obvious

They just want to replace paper money with digital money .....

We have used it via Opay before .... I used Opay wallet for bike, barbing and supermarkets ..... Enter shop, scan the barcode and pay ... Payment confirmed, take your goods and off you go.....

All you do is use bank to fund your eNaira and start spending ..... it's just another channel to make payment .... you can also use your Bank App, ATM and other channels ....

But eNaira is CBN backed that's all !!