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aaronson:
This is a tough one to deal with.

She is emotional selfish, Narssicist and rude but if you still do love her like you claim, Over look her flaws, loose your self esteem but don't loose your brain in dealing with her the matured way you have been doing. Or plan B, Call it quit, maintain your self esteem and keep looking for more decent girl.

Overlook flaws Nah ooo .... Correct Flaws , if she failed to yield corrections and the matters involved are significant ones .... it's a plan B, QUIT.

Raskasal:
Pls How best can I handle this? I really do love her tho and I am afraid of loosing her but I am loosing my worth and this has made her not have regards for me.

Thank you all

Some girls are like that especially all these lack of exposure girls ..... immediately you teach her something or correct her assertions , she will feel worthless , in secured and insulted ... GBAM, Malice has started until you reexplain yourself again via apology ...

The thing is that , her attitude ain't enough to dump her especially if she has other areas/aspects she excels like :

Career/Professional/Academic oriented,
Home management skills ,
Financial management skills,
Social skills,
Kid raising skills,
Bedmatics,
Level of Spirituality etc

There is no perfect person anywhere but you need to confirm the key indices you want in a woman .....
and her ability to learn .... The above yardstick are mine .....

My first gf/fiancee was a Medical student now a medical doc with poor family/social skills but averaged and aced some other yardsticks .... she fights over little and most stewpid things if not with Okada rider, it may be a taxi driver , her colleagues at school or her nuclear/extended family member, If it were me she's having issues with, She will rake, rake while I will just be smiling and telling her how beautiful she is when she is angry ...... If she was reporting any incident to me, I dare not blame her nor question her judgment else, she will transfer all aggression to me ....

So, anytime she was reporting anyone to me , I dey follow her insult that person ooo .... (Na psychology), at that moment of reporting (Chai, thunder fire me if I don't , else she will tagged me as aiding and abetting that person )

Then, after a day or two that sweet nonsense would have happened between us like outing, movies, lovey-dovey (Like immediately after some Sxx) ..... I would now revisit the issue and sternly recommend appropriate course of action she should have taken in that scenario and avoid any such occurrence in the future.......
I'd let her realised how much she embarrassed herself even her profession simply because of lack of patience or for as low as "I'm sorry" or #50 disagreement .... you would hear :
"yes sir, yessur " .... she tend to listen better at that moment .....

Since we broke up in 2013 , she still ain't find a man to manage her and me too on relationship holiday since then (Book ti take over)

Omini4Christ:
Praise God! I am now a Chartered Accountant. People of God, please help me celebrate this my Very Big God. He is Worthy of my Praise and Adoration.

Congrats bro . More Success to us !!

skimpyfaith:
Finally qualified!! ICAN, a done deal. Unto next feats

Congrats bro

mzoyeenade:
whatsapp Is preferable

pls when will the result be available online ?

Abeyjide:
despite the high IGR
collected in kwara, the state goverment can't pay a month salary pending when federal allocation will be paid.

Megida paid today ....

Senator Bukola Saraki .... He ain't saint but his political dexterity worth accolades !

MariaLavina:

I had the perception of her being a bias feminist wannabe never knew attention seeking and low IQ are featured attributes. If I had known these, I wouldn't have quoted her in the first place.

lol, But its OK... una pass that level

milemimi93:
No man, I repeat no man with a dream and he's determined to achieve that dream that can be distracted by a pvssy..

Focus and Determination is such man's second nature..

OK oooo, I pray for you not to be tempted !!
Focus ko fvckos ni !!! abi no be Human/Man ...... even Man of God or Imam sef Na by grace no be by power nor I sabi discipline !!

milemimi93:
No man with dreams and ambitions can ever be distracted by a pvssy..

Which book is this

Do you know the number of men that have brighter dreams and ambition and were even an achiever but pvssy was the bane of their downfall !!

Do you know how many great man that has fallen by the power of pvssy .....

what kills most men is either pvssy or greed IMO

humphrizo:
Between men and women

Which gender do you think is easily distracted by opposite sex even thoo they are married ??

Matured minds only

Guys IMO

MariaLavina:
Honey, I just threw a 'k' go fetch it.

u self like fight, u shd have simply refer to Op's DP and all these wahala might be avoided .... Now, you asked her to figure what she can't comprehend

Optionally:
I don't even know.I honestly love him so much but his behaviour can be really bad attimes but he loves me too.

Eyaaa, at times in the future reality clear our eyes from the captivity of love .......

Optionally:
I don't think he even knows that he has serious temper cos each time i try to talk to him about it he gets really annoyed.

What did he study in school and what about u ?
Does he just lose his temper or he goes aggressive to the extent of raising his hands against you ?

Other than temper issues, do u guys have any area of agreement I.e areas where you guys share similar ideology ?

Do you think he has more IQ than you or you have more IQ than him ?

Anytime he lost it , who later become right and who later accepts wrong ?

Do you love him enough to stay with him all through your life despite his temper issues or are you scared ?
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if you answer all my questions above, it can give you clues on what to do to correct his anger !

kizolo:
U suffering from Delayed Ejaculation, it's as a result of excessive masturbation.. Google is ur friend.

U could actually use it to ur advantage

lamidebaby:
Your brain has obviously been wired to derive ultimate satisfaction from masturbation in a setting where all pleasure is yours and you control everything. To get it rewired you will need to stop indulging in p0rnography and masturbation for at least 2 months, then get an understanding partner with who you can start the entire self discovery journey all over. I can assure you of one thing, if you continue in this current untoward path you're towing outright impotence (with women) is just a few years away from you.

impotence ke, but ihm dick dey jack and rise Na , just that he can't cum with pvssy ...


@ anungangampu,
the problem is Pvssy can't exact same level of pressure your hands do to your dick, ya know pvssy is a soft texture and it can't grip ya JT the way hands do. Also, your girl may not convey the fantasy your brain has been accustomed to via porn .... Some doggy/missionary or spooning can make u cum easily ... Those fantasies you know.... some pornstars/backside can fling you out within seconds ... Some serious digging non stop can make you go damn damn

But remember, your gf ain't non of them, and you already wired your sexual preferences around these people!

So, how to take care of it :

My advice: I also have post matured ejaculation though I trained my brain on restraints ...... I only cum when I feel like not when my body feel like .....

Anytime you feel like cumin, you can shift your mind to your favorite scene in your (ya kno) and keep banging .... From there , your brain can reacclimatise with pvssy and thus instruct your dic to cum with it instead of hands ...!!


LOl, I may be funny but it should work

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Antoeni:
A cheap girl is not the girl that accepts your proposal the first day.
WHO IS A CHEAP GIRL?
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1. A cheap gal is any gal who is living in a man's house and the man has not paid her bride price, no wedding but she is living with him.
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2. A cheap gal is any gal who is already having sex with a common boyfriend and she does not know where the relationship is heading to, she does not know where the guy comes from, no marriage plans, no wedding hope but she is having sex with the guy because of the money she is getting from him.
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3. A cheap gal is any gal who sends her nude pics to her boy friend in the name of love.
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4. A cheap gal is any gal who has done one or more abortions and she is still doing more.
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5. A cheap gal is any gal who dresses half naked in the name of fashion, exposing her boobs and other erotic parts of her body in the street or post such pictures on Facebook or Whatsapp and receives 500 likes and 100 comments that you're "beautiful" and you say "thank you".
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6. A cheap gal is any gal who has an affair with a married man even after knowing it, having sex with him, abort pregnancy, receives money, cause havoc in the man's marriage in order for her to be married.
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7. A cheap girl is any gal who reads this post and gets Angry and will refuse to comment.

A cheap gal is any gal who claimed not to be Olosho but place all her life budget on a man !!

A cheap girl is any girl that doesn't get paid for what she has in her head but for her pants

Women of course ...

With respect to Nigeria ooo
most Women can stay longer without sex than we men because most can endure the sexual urge till they find that man that tickle their fancy nonetheless, they will be dying inside but they also know how to conceal it !

We guys, JT is a madman with a brain of its own and when JT begin its action regardless of whatever serious thing you are doing, some women you may not fancy by ordinary day may become beautiful in your eyes !!


Self restraint is key ooo or else, JT fit put all man for trouble !!


As for who Enjoy sex pass, my answer Na "WOMAN" ..... our own shakara just much noni !!

Mrbolt565:
I just went to shoprite to buy some stuff. While buying i saw one guy and his babe, the guy was next on the line. He brought out his wallet. As e dey bring am out see as e bone face ehn. Me i just dey watch! Dey Laugh! In my mind i was just thinking " so na so relationship dey" wer u go dey buy girl all this things for watin. For just sex. Hmmmmm. When my turn came i just happily gave the guy my cash and happily walked out! Reach house chop all the things i don buy belle full! My guys, SINGLE LIFE TOO SWEET ABEG!!


Im out!!

I have been bachelor and working class in the last 5 years and I will tell you .... Single life is sweet when you are broke ( or on budget) but when you are loaded and accomplished as Man .... Single Life is the most boring life without someone (special one) by your side to share with !!

Future Impossible achievement !!
Nairaland kwa ;P .....

Jamariwolff:
I somehow feel I will be more efficient in my activities and life would be easier without these urges.

lol I remember sometimes ago when I feel like killing sexual urge and truly, it got killed but I prefer the sexual disturbances to lack of konji at all !!!

Ebuka2016:
well, am not a made guy and i choose to focus to avoid unnecessary distractions and expenses. I think thats best for me at this point in my life. Also, i dislike being emotional. Being in relationships or loving someone who loves me back and we get to talk occassionally, makes me emotional and depressed. I can't deal dear but thanks for your advice. All i want is a fvck mate. Unfortunately, am kinda trying to be close to God so i avoid that too. Masturbation does it for me. Its a sin too but its better than going through the whole process of shyking a woman, calling her on the phone and getting all emotional unnecessarily.

I really understand you bro , I do and You are making a lot of maximum sense in your life !
it is the best decision you are making for uself and you shall reap it maximally !!!

When a woman slash your heart with their excesses , it will emotionally depressed you and affect your hustle ..... Only date when you have accomplished your game and you have what it takes to shoulder woman drama till then keep wanking those shits outa ur system ..... Konji affects objective thinking but when you are through, all your systems and brain go back to reset mode and you are whole again .... hahahaha

bidemz:
Let's go!!

For me
1.Her whatsapp details

then her pictures(tho i do this most of the time)

Gallery and that is all !!
I hate seeing what I may not like , if she ain't worth it ... I will know !!

doctorkush:
1 outside and 2 in the house ...

equation balanced....

Nay shairman ..... what knowledge will she impact on your kids ... 1 inside , 2 outside ..... equation reorganised and now balanced !!!

thornapple:
An argument had been on in the last half hour among my friends on this question:

Which of these classes of women would you want for a wife,

1. A well educated, rounded, exposed and intelligent lady with a great job and mouth watering salary but who is bad in bed.
2. A not so educated, ignorant lady, fit only for a house wife but who is superb in bed.


Guys be sincere and give reasons for your choice. Give examples to support your opinion if possible.

I will always go for the educated one ..... I can't even be Hot for the uneducated ignorant one cuz lady's level of intelligence determine my sexual desire in them

The Godfather , Mafians roles and DonJazy ..... I only adapt my own to strictly education and professionalism ... Gun ain't my thing but hmmmm

HARDDON:
No, we won't take it. You must disagree

Chairman, it doesn't matter. If I have what it takes and it doesn't make me lose control of my manliness , I can spend as much as I desire for my gal's friends without trying to impress my gal or any of them ..... Just we bunch of fwends catching vibes ...... It is my gal that may suffer the consequence in the long run cuz definitely one if not all of her friend shall soon be hitting on me ....

But u feel like having a beautiful time with your bae and some Gorrillas think they wanna tag along ..... I will frankly tell them

" nope , just me and bae this time ..... if change remain we shall bring something for u beauties (Sarcasm) .... Bae, let's roll please " .....