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Mitchsin:
Exactly.. I like the word.. Friends with benefits..

Na d kain thing way u go like be that ..

sarahade:
I no get ojukokoro as long as my husband gives me what i want which is love.
I don't chat with guys o my husband to be doesn't like it.

Sarah, oro e ko fe ye Mi mo ooo , So, He is even your husband to be ... Thought u already married ni ooo ..... OK Kontinu , God go answer .... If I say I wan be ya fwend now, Na so u go red flagged me .....

amaniro:
pity might turn to love*

and the love will pretty soon turn to hatred especially when what you dey pity am for no dey again !

Passy089:
I met this gorgeous and beautiful girl, we got along not long after that,but then she told me she has a guy and they love each other very much ...I said no problem and decided to let her go but she started crying saying she don't want me to leave , she doesn't want to leave her guy and at the same time doesn't want me to leave .to be honest I love this girl,but I can't be sharing a girl with another guy I'm obviously know about....she's currently with her guy and is still texting me to make sure I'm not with any girl. I'm confused, guys pls talk sense into my head.

Both of una should face una book OK, I report you to your dad !


Teenagers love .... Wetin kom be ya problem ... if u want her to leave .... e easy Na .... change attitude or request for sex .... become something she doesn't like and off she goes to her guy 100%. My tested n trusted shinanshiiiii !!

I fit teach u ooo .... E easy Na ....

I saw a tiny carrot. Mama no like wahala jare

Only broke Niggas experience difficulty , when you are made, women become as simple as soaking garri

I wish the world is in my palms. Also Wish to tour all tourist attractions across the globe .... I wanna visit the whole world and space and come back oooo

I wish I can see the Entire Universe

sarahade:
I can't really call the men i know friends because I don't really hang out with them and they don't know personal things about me. even during my university days it was strictly for educational purposes I had male friends.

I try to define my relationship o. I'm not perfect but I always draw the line

U seem like an Introvert to me ... U be Hajia Ni ?
U sha are scared of male folks ....... So, if a dude love your intellectualism and sense of Judgement , kpam ... u just run away from him because u are scared of what it may lead into .... U go get "ojukokoro" .... But, u like chatting with guys abi !!

Nkenji Keke

Nope .... and I won't attend Ex wedding ...

sarahade:
I don't have male friends o.
Nothing can make me get close to a man except I'm ready to sleep with him.

So, b4 u are married nko , Don't u have male fwends and how did you relate with them ?

sarahade:
My brother I know myself I cannot be friends with a man o Because i no trust myself reach that side

Chisos , So u fit allow another man do u shukushuku if under pressure .... U better not keep Male friends ooo ....
Though, two opposite sex being a Best Fwend, if adequate limit ain't drawn, it is easier to fall in the temptation ....

Na wa ooo ..... What is LOVE self .... Me I just move on oo .... after all, no be say she die now .... @Poster above me , I think we dude manage heart brake than u ladies .... After all, he no die Na .... Remember we all human being ooo ....
Love should be mutual, how do u love someone that doesn't love you in return or love someone that love another person else ....

For me side here Na give and take oooo, if u no dey give again , me self I don do ooo .... No time mehn.

sarahade:
What kind of play will a dog be playing with a lion.
My brother I will have only one best friend and that is my husband.

That is you anyway, unfortunately , everyone ain't you

@Op, it's called FWB (Friend with Benefit) .... and it is very common especially among students/coworkers that are helping each other's ministries !!

sarahade:
Because they don't like the guy. Trust me no girl will allow her friend meet a guy they like on first date.

Gbam !! Exactly !!

Until Africa start thinking towards an adventure like this, we ain't ever gonna get it right .... They have started exploring the Sun while Here, Buhari,Saraki/Dogara , Bokoharam , Herdsmen is the only noise in the air !!
Ordinary true Federalism as a system of government is difficult to execute

I won't trust her again OK not because of the act ....but she can't trust herself again
How do u trust who can't trust ihmself !

DJHANDSOME:
Straight to the point.

A lady in my street is turning my head.
I didn't notice her initially until we had a convo a month ago. since then we haven't talked much really, but I noticed that she is a little shy when she sees me or when we talked this days, she keeps mute and she smiles at me a lot
,when we walk pass each other, she takes a peep at me a lot and turns her face away immediately I look up many times.

Last week I met her at a friend's birthday, she was smiling hard.
Later In the night when I was browsing Facebook, she appeared on my (people you might know) list, I added her, I immediately greeted her since she was online , she read the message and ignored it.
She has started acting strange and refusing to talk to me again, I am confused.


I know i sound like a kid but, i need explanations especially from the ladies here cos I can't seem to get her out of head.

Dude , its simple .... Na u sabi her pass as we no see am to be able to profile am ....
If u think she worth your time, walk up to her and chyke her ...
If u think she is an attitude type , u self bown am
Since u have sent hi to her and she failed to acknowledge it , That is a red flag ... she should acknowledge it but under but, maybe she forget to or something ...

If she form for u, u self bown am ... waka pass her as if she doesn't exist ... she will behave

When it become routine then it's stupidity or stinginess
Once in a while is Romantic gestures. Cap it all by cooking whatever you bring from the market
Serve her and call her to come chop ...

nanauju:
Maybe I should have just put in more effort in playing hard to get sef... Na wetin fit some men

Playing hard2get is a no no for me ....If u play h2g then he will hustle u , u fall for his hustle then he chop clean mouth then famz
E better like this and keep it up .....

Oh God, if America is doing this through NASA .... A technology exploring the sun
Here in Nigeria, we can't even afford political stability nor even imitate a technology that can re-explore the moon .... Africa Oh Africa, Sub Sahara Africa oh Black Continent .... Will we ever rise as a continent like this

nanauju:
Donroxyll no mind am . Very shallow thinking he got. There is really no need in me engaging him, before he go cari frustration put for my body.

Meanwhile as for that 'man behind me', nigga was only moved by what was 'behind me' jor

Damn , U know ... He never meant Business in the first place .... But when u mistakenly place it on his laps , he be like dafuq ... why not .... Maybe if he calm down, everything woulda worked his way ....
Going by ya preparation to kill the guy, seems u meant business ..... Why guys don't understand ladies Na ihm me no no ooo

romenna:
u hav a funny personality aftèrall.
As a psychologist, I tink ur a lil too quick in decision making.
Temperamental.
Judgemental.
A little bit of bitterness n negative minded.
Poor in human relations n not so intelligent.
Work on these my dear. Cheers

U lack
Attention to Details
Scenario based analysis
Decision Efficiency/Effectiveness skills
Human relations

You are :
Temperamental
Judgemental
Generalising
Bittered
and Dumb

Learn how to correct civilly, if it doesn't go your way, don't profile the other person .... Why must she adopt ur view .... u dey there

romenna:
u said u both kept chatting b4 the date, dats communication n u shud av bn able to discern his kind of person from his chats n response to ur questions. About going to his house, u still wud av ended up there anyway, the eatery outin will not stop his evil plot if he had any. Remember the story of the son of ex deputy gov of ondo who used his gf of many years for rituals?
I am not saying u shudnt be careful wit guys but have ready made questions to reveal people's personality to some extent.
I bliv the guy was not totally funny like u trying to make us bliv, I think u didn't handle the situation maturely.
Good morning and happy sunday

Damn think, You meet someone in public , chatted a while and GBAM , off you go to his house .... D dude Na stewpid Konjified nigga !!! .... That's not how it's done mehn ..... He already got this girl but fvcked up !!

@NanaUju, u should have known when he asked make una branch for bar at that odd time during una meeting time .... Na DAT ass way u use sit on his legs burst ihm brain

nsiazu:
Yes. I've had 2 relationship without this and all ended cos I didn't do it... I'm happy with it and still searching though

It must end noni, there may not be sex (For me , sex go happen) but girls always assessed how romantic his dude could be ..... Most girls love romantic dude ..... They may not have confidence to initiate it, but will definitely love a guy to carry them on .... Though not excessively (Some don't want to see you as fancying only the physical aspect) ..... You gon be boring Niqqa

Biglittlelois:
Emmm nope

lol, always blunt !

Dasherz:
Am in that relationship right now for about 5 months

Its the dude sha, No touching for 5months, no at least touching ... How can I ever talk sensibly to my girl if she ain't sitting in between my stretched laps with her backing me while me backed the wall ..... and from there I can stroll around ya kno coolly with those fingers ......

Chemistry mehn .... it promotes the chemistry .... closeness !!!

Una be Pastors

Impossible here, even if she is the Mummy GO of her church .... she must want to be touched !!
We no go force her, Na she go want am .......
E no dey happen here, Konji go wound her

fancy4eve:
All dis qualities 4 only u.........y not start by asking urself if ur sisters re 100 yard wife material b4 looking out for 1 in sumone else's daughter.

U don't just wake up nd start bleepn rubbish wen u know ur not perfect, we all re imperfect beings praying to b perfect in 1way or d order.

Una wahala too much, the guy did nothing wrong abeg ... He stated his choice , everybody has choice but that doesn't mean we all can't compromise ...
if I tell u my choice , shey u go faint ni
The fact that u lacked some of those qualities doesn't mean there are no girls out there with them .... There are plenty girls with them !!
A girl may have some and lack some but with good grooming and if she is a learning type, she will get there easily .... Same for we dudes too

Most Nairaland girls self are just frustrated ones , Haba ..... A cool dude can not come and state his desires in a woman in peace again ..... U don insult ihm sisters ...... Taaa ..... He hurt u ni .....

Towncrier007:
I stayed of relationships for a while because of brokenness, now I've made the money,bought good car for myself, expensive outfit but simple always though, I'm a very meek and respectful young man,that thinks it's time to get a wife.

But right now I can't see a girl who's a wife material, although the nature of my work keeps me off town for long. Now I'm seriously looking out for one.
My kind of woman;
God fearing.....
Beautiful.... fair in complexion, with good curves,and good brains
Loyal....
Neat...
Who can love my family,and at same time be domestic
Pls is this too hard to find?

I am in your dilemma but mine Na book .... The problem is you don't have access to varieties due to the nature of ya Job ...
I will advice you cruise town especially school (University ) environment once in a while to see varieties.... You can also make fwend with some Young dudes to link you up with some girls they think is good for your onward assessment !!

Time to ball high mehn and choose the best, Owu is over and over for lifetime!!!