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debest1:
It depends on the context of equality you are referring to. In a man/wife scenario, the man is the head of the home, he is primarily responsible for everything in the home; the woman even foregoes her identity to become part of the man. This however does not mean that the woman is less than the man, just that ultimately there is a leader in the home.More like what you have in a football team; there are 11 players but one of them is the Captain, oftentimes he's not the best player in the team but the one who commands the respect of the rest of the side. They listen to what he says and key decisions on the field are often taken by him.

I quite agree with u, debest. Just b'cos a woman isn't the head of family doesn't mean that she can be leading attimes esp. when the man is broke.
@topic. Take a look at the world we live in and see that almost every thing we see isn't equal. That's how u will answer the question.

agitator:
sorry, the second sentence was not referring to you
See she was comfortable to go with her friend to Dubai at the man's expense butTo you it's trivial spending HIS money on things he likes, but your friend's 24K Gold is the most important thing he should spend on. You now know what is important for a man to spend HIS PERSONAL MONEY on. Hustle for your money and spend the way you like.
This whole thing is just because his mother deprived you of a free ticket to Dubai for shopping. Gold digger get a life.

Oh, then I guess I should be the one to apologise for such misunderstanding. Well said.

agitator:
Cooljade doesn't want to hear this kind of advice. There is a thin line between fantasy and madness

So what's ur point, man! Speak up! I ain't talking to u. Am talking to Cooljade. U're truly am agitator.

clemcykul:
simple act to get a girl
walk up to a girl u admire,
smile at her and touch her breast (dnt worry about a slap) it might do wonders
ask her if she likes u
tell her that if she doesnt date u, no man will ever toast her
if she is being nasty, slap her and walk away**********

lol clemcykul lol

Well, there is nothing wrong with a bride to-be trying to fufill her dreams(fantasies), just to make herself happy. This can be done through customary/religious rights. It's just that some may never work out as one may want it. At this of kind of situation, she may be forced to choose another alternative to will compensate her over time. I mean by saying if she really loves her man and will be ready to do anything to make him happy. Even the man in particular has the obligation to fulfill his bride wishes, I don't think it would be that difficult for him to do. It's just a matter of love & understanding in matrimonial cases.
Cooljade, I think it is better u explain to ur friend the need for her to know this. At least, it will help her know what she really wants in life. Also let her explain to her husband to-be her fantasies & why she really wants it. Am sure the guy will left with on other choice than to find a way to make her happy. Am sure this will help out a lot between them. Good luck to her oncemore!

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That's the decision u made for urself. No one can blame u for that. Better to keep ur new job than to go back to that former darn one!
@poster. is this really happening to u or are u speaking for someone else?

I hope Tinibu is saying the truth, cos' it isn't enough for him to write one thing on the pages of newspaper & yet do another thing out of public eyes.

@THE AMAKA. Well, I guess the only favour u have to do for urself is to ignore any post from someone thinking that u're ikeyman00. And that solve the prob. 9ja people, ha!

@ikeyman00. Hey hey, ikeyman u had the girl. Go do the job she asked to & stop posting all these nonsense for NLs to have space, please!

@THE AMAKA.Since u're very much new to this thread, then u ought to take a special care on replying someone's post or topic. (I hope am not being too intrusive.)

I would hav prefered both but at cases where a matter of choices arises, I would go for the functional one. She will look more than the attractive one in that aspect.

oge4real:
Rebranding whatever is not what we need in Nigeria. We need Revolution before we can achieve the height meant for a country of this magnitude.

That's correct, my sister. I support ur post!

Some customers do make things for uneasy for these banks. But I don't think one would prefer losing his or her money to fraudsters over some certain payments made by these financial organisations. I mean by saying that one who is ready to do anything to keep his or her money safe. At times, so of these banks do frustrate people.

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What! That's impossible! How can we call back the people who made our country to be this way? (Although, they had no intention of ruining 9ja.) What we should be thinking now is how to reconstruct our country & not moving back to our dreadful past!

Well, it depends sha. There are some girls that has the same guts that guys do. (although, most of them aren't daring in nature.) So I don't doubt that.

Well, it depends sha. There are some girls that has the same guts that guys do. (although, most of them aren't daring in nature.) So I don't doubt that.

I laugh b'cos I don't know what nigeria is turning into. To me, this seems to be a some kind of freaking joke!

To me, this kind of move seems to be a some kind of booby trap to nigerian citizens. But anyway sha, Onovo made a bold step. I just hope he sticks to his word.

Jim was left with two choices: to obey the LAW or follow his INSTINCT. But this guy decided to follow his instinct instead. I am not saying that what he did was good but maybe who knows, what he had done may have prevent something bad from happening. Even the bank management themselves shouldn't hav gone to that extent of sacking him, rather they should have been more lenient on him. I hope he has learnt from his mistake.

@post. Illiteracy doesn't only mean the inability to read & write; it may also mean the other way round like
being to understand things around u mentally, spiritually, etc. Just because one does not how to read & write doesn't mean he or she cannot be a better person.
@topic. Well, at first I will feel miserable about my self but at the same time, I will see it as a challenge & an opportunity to become a greater person!

Although, I had never experienced romantic love before. But one thing I know for sure is that real love doesn't need eyes, head or other thing to find for confirmation. Rather, the innermost & the most touchbale part of man's body is already there to make the choice. THE HEART!

Thanks Nairalanders for bringing all this to our notice! U people are good. The only thing left now is for the FG to take a very serious precaution against this disease. Cos' there isn't much time left. Otherwise, it's gonna ravage our entire nation. I just hope that they can do this.
@topic. My heart goes to relations of these Swine flu victims. It's just so sad seeing them dying at such ages.

Some humans are surely aliens in disguise! How can one be inlove with an opposite sex & yet cheat on that same person? Am sure that isn't real love. True love is all about been truthful to ur partner. If u really love a girl, why cheat on her? Yet claiming to feel bad about that. It's only He himself knows who he is trying to deceive.
@topic. The guy in particular isn't a real man.

@topic. Tribal/Ethnic issue shouldn't be our problem. A good leader is suppose to make investigations before carrying out judgement. I wonder when our country is going to learn to be one under one nation.

A teen gal impregnated on swimming in the pool of a hotel? The mama going crazy over believing the story? An egyptian hotel suspected of having infested pools?! How in the God's name am I going to believe such story? Sounds weird to me.