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Rokiat:
If you know how quickly the living forget the dead you
Will stop living to pleased people. So this woman wants to marry just one year after her husband death?


Anyways to the topic, he has no right to want your children to carry his surname, it’s the audacity for me. That’s another man kids they are not his. He must think you are desperate since you could not even grieve your husband properly and now you are jumping into another relationship smh.

he has right over the woman if she agrees to marry him not the children.

If he is officially adopting the kids then the issue is settled. Why would he raise kids that will bear another man's name? The man is correct here.
If she is not comfortable,she can shift. Another woman would jump on the chance. This life is short

Hopium:
Lmao. They shall want to stop this dude by all means.

They can only try.

Biden and the Dems has disrupted the world peace enough.

Trump is a clown but at least he had a firm grip on the globe and maintained peace. The man had influence on Putin and Xi.

It shows the USA has peaked if Biden and Trump are the only top leaders they can offer.

You talking rubbish. No one wants to stop trump from doing shit.

emexnaija:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wyHS4AMLVLo

Lol, I wonder if you don't know they now hire these types of groomsmen?
They even hire people that cry at burials so easy to get someone that would dance at a wedding to entertain the guest

olabrinks:
Because he is your friend, you have painted him to be the victim. Are these allegations or did he actually commit all these things listed? What exactly pushed the wife to divorce him and are there any ways they can reconcile, because it’s going to be a very very long battle for him starting afresh.

Actually from experience the men are usually the victims and am sure you know that.
One is not talking about what the woman or couple may have passed thru while being together but once it comes to the scenery painted by the OP. The man is clearly the victim

doggedfighter:
This is one of the ekperimas that became billionaires using the pains, blood, sweat and suffering of their people.


Leaving them abjectly poor and in penury.



Even money couldn't cover nor change their vile nature.


A disgrace !

Still he kneels now before the Olu for his sins to be forgiven and forgiven it will be. Welcome to Nigeria where the abject poor will keep hailing and praising the rich while knowing these people they aspire to be are their oppressors

Men that are faithful don't need to prove that they are

Ronaldo723:
Hello everyone,
I have this girl we have been dating for 6 months now but she stays with her parents the issue is this.
We haven’t had sex for like 2 months now her parents aren’t allowing her to stay out more than 30 minutes this period
I’m getting worked out as masturbation is now eating me up
The other reason is she would soon start schooling which she says I should be patient with her that when she starts schooling I can have her as I want but that’s not my problem
Im scared she might leave me when she starts schooling so to be sincere I just want to chop the one I can as soon as possible so when things go haywire I might not lose
I'm thinking of breaking up with her now and look for another girl so I don't invest more on her
What do you guys think should I break up with her now or be patient

This op is a child

[quote author=Rubyjade post=122444147][/quote]Lol, on this one I dope my cap for my children.
They would definitely remind their mom of her actions or refuse to eat. By the time madam eats her fried rice back to back on several occasions, she would use her tongue to count her teeth.

IyaebeTheGreat:
His wife is busy doing her best, going to vigil to pray for her family and all others but unfortunately the horseband has not seen the efforts of his wife but having erection for the wife's sister who obviously has become too carefree with him and see him as a senior brother and a guidian. The countless divorce that uncontrolled penis has caused is uncountable. The breaking of this home is in sight, Yul Edochie is waiting to welcome you to their club with open hands.

At the highlighted horseband or is it Goatband or goathead of a husband.
Nothing wrong in having feeling for a family member, acting on them like peeping in her room or wanting to have sex with her is a no go.

shantti:
If u discovered ur wife poisoned your food to kill u. Considering ur kids, what will u do?

Since two wrongs doesn't make a right, u forgive and continue to eat her food, right?

This is outside the scope of the topic of conversation. You watch too many Nigerian home videos for you too active imagination

ozalogbo:
I am the first child of my mother, and I have two younger male siblings. I am doing well financially. My wife is the last of four children in her family. My dad died when I was still in the university, and this affected my mum.

However, as she aged, her health waned. She was a retired teacher. My brothers are not in the country. Both of them are in Europe. I wanted to have my mother stay with me in her later years because of her health and loneliness but my wife did not want it.

Whenever she was ill and I brought her home to be with us, my wife was usually hostile, especially if my mum had stayed beyond a week. She did not hid her disapproval, and this caused problems in the marriage. People advised that I should send my mum away and pay someone to live with her and take care of her. They said that marriage was between a man and his wife, not between a man, his wife, and his mother. I did and peace returned. Eventually my mum passed on after a few years.

Along the line, my father in law also died. And down the line, my mother in law's health began to deteriorate. We live in the same town. Among my wife's siblings she is the only one doing quite well. Now there are suggestions that the mother should come and live with us so that my wife can give her proper care. I believe that her living with us and seeing her grandchildren will help her. And indeed i have no problem accepting her, but when i remember the treatment my wife gave to my mum, there is a strong revulsion, in fact, anger in me. I shared with a friend, and he advised i forgive my wife, but the revulsion is so strong that i would feel cheated if i agreed.

What do you guys think. She reminded me then that marriage was between a man and his wife only. Shouldn't this also apply to my wife now?

Two wrongs don't make a right.
Never extend actions of another person unto the next person. Handle everyone's action individually.
It's not about you but your children and Ur MIL

MadamExcellency:
The accusation is false. Gov. Ikpeazu's spokesperson is right on this one. If Ikpeazu decides to pardon prisoners today or before leaving office, the Governor-elect, Alex Otti can't send them back to prison after his swearing in ceremony.

I doubt u understood the meat of the yearns

BreconHills:
You appear to be one of the casualties of improperly taught English comprehension. Piece too long for you?

Move along kid. Unless your parents didn't teach you manners.

BreconHills:
Don't be naive. Politics is like that anywhere in the world. In the USA where our presidential system comes from there is vote suppression by state electoral bodies. There are pork belly projects which are simply there to raise money for senators and elected officials, There are lobby groups that force unpopular legislation by the minority on the majority. Tinubu exploited over ambition by three members of the same party that splintered their vote.

What is in short supply ( well they now have Trump..) are people who refuse to accept results that don't go their way. In Nigeria we even have people who want the army to intervene and foist an interim natuonal government which does not exist under our constitution on the majority.

Whatever. Blah blah blah blah is what I see U write

BreconHills:
Naivety.

What you do to win is what you need to do to win. Politics is a game of scheming for numbers. PDP and LP were out thought and out fought. Simple.

Most ignorant comments so far. Highly immature too. Go ahead doing what U must to win. There is no justice in Nigeria. We all know that. Case closed.

blacksam01:
...jeez! this category is full of trouble

its either they are dragging my right, playing the silence game when iritated, never apologetic when wrong, weaponize sex,blame shifting, talking back in arguments, wealthy but very reluctant to assist u wen in need,stuborn and always making u feel they pitied u to be with u...

God! av never seen such awful lot like these people..

i wonder why men wont simply let these entitled ladies alone to marry themselves....

dont think its from who i dated...mind u i have dated 5 of them..same character especially gradaute good earning ladies....

i guees that why they marry late!

Problem is your mind game. Women have PhD in mind games cos they were born with it while men are still in their diapers learning work.
Dating or marrying these kind of women you mentioned has its ups and downs.
It is important you are not her Level and way above her or else she won't respect you.
Once a woman doesn't respect you, half of the things you say would jus be "blah blah blah" to her.
Then while she is playing her university mind games, you give her yours on an international front.
A woman would always on all grounds I have seen so far, give in to a more superior force.
The other things you need to take note of are the following:
Learn not to trade words, you will always loose there.
Don't play her game, you will loose.
Don't disagree with her, you will loose
Don't fight with her, you will loose
Don't try to be right, you will loose
Don't be docile or meek with her, you will loose

Just be yourself, stand your ground and make her understand what your no's and dos are. Make her understand she doesn't cross your redlines and believe me, you will be a happier person.

Women like testing grounds like children. Understand that's how they are and don't let that upset you.

N3TRAL:
If Bukola Saraki a serving Senate President was made to stand trial before the CCT for not declaring his assets honestly, an ex-governor that underperformed should stand trial.

If Justice Walter Onnoghen, a serving Chief Justice of Nigeria stood trial before the CCT for not declaring his assets diligently, a second runner up should stand trial.

Nobody is above the law. As an Anambra man, I need justice!

The petty thief must return what he looted from Anambra. If he claims it was not looted, then he must inform the CCT why he didn't declare it as a public official. No other way about it.

Obidîot must stand trial for stacking our money in tax havens- facts.

Yes, i gree. Just like Tinubu should be tried for his crimes so also Atiku

nairalandkachy1:
https://dailypost.ng/2023/03/27/ayu-is-our-man-worked-for-tinubu-umahi/

And that's how the domino would roll in Tinubu's government. It will be corrupt, there will be impunity and they will be untouchable.
God help Nigerians

AImiron:
https://www.reuters.com/lifestyle/sports/world-governing-body-tightens-restrictions-transgender-dsd-athletes-2023-03-23/

It's about time

jaybenugo:
A Nigerian lady, Mercedes Ekwutosim Okwukogu took to Facebook on Tuesday March 21, 2023, to share her excitement after her court wedding in Abuja, IGBERETV reports.

She shared photos from her court wedding with the caption;



https://www.facebook.com/1361988501/posts/pfbid08LGyWpSX7MYvfjc4ZgLFAiGakSx5JP82MWojp9JeExPKXHFQ93msJjYY6do9anM1l/?app=fbl

Actually, not in Nigeria. Not while the man is alive

thesilentman:
From my experience,99 per cent of married women cheat to fill a nagging need in their marriages.So if you are wondering what the signs are,below are 10 no-fail signs a married woman wants to sleep with you:

1.She calls out your name in a loud voice frequently,especally if it's a nick name.

2.She teases you a lot- or to put in pure street slang-she 'wains' you even to the point of annoyance.

3.She borrows your things...and might not even return them in time.

4.She shares her meals with you covertly.

5.She sits close to you at any given opportunity.

6.She calls you if it's been a while she sees you.

7.She tells you her secrets,especially the unsavoury goings-on in her current marriage.

8.She tells you she no longer loves her husband.

9.She gets jealous when she sees other women around you.

10.She enters your room covertly for flimsy excuses.

Strike if you see these signs but bear it in mind that there is consequence oo. Screwing a married woman is never for the faint-hearted.
PLAY SMART!

BS

kyber:
My Friend Was Denied A Well Paying Job Cause She Wore Leg Chains To the Interview
What has leg chain got to do with acquiring a job?

Naija mentality

Gerrard59:
The problem started with you marrying her just so that you have a wife before you relocated. Then, you left her in Nigeria (she mentioned loneliness). Although, having a companion is good, I think many young Nigerian men need to live life without having one so that they know how both sides can be. Are you telling me you would die while being a bachelor in the UK?

Not true. Nothing wrong with what he did. He married his girlfriend remember. Thing is you can never really know someone.
I would suggest since he has seen the conversation, he should have gotten the guys number.

Called the guy and get the story from him before he confronts her. Cos there is a possibility that she will lie but he may not. Ofcos attempting to befriend the guy is a plus without the guy knowing that he is her husband. That's the smartest way to go.

Befriend the guy, invite him out. Pay for the food and drinks and slowly push the conversation there.
Guys would usually talk to another guy, if they don't suspect there is fire on the mountain.

Denoh68:
WHY WOULD YOU CONDUCT SUCH NONSENSE OPERATION IN RUSSIA'S TERRITORIAL WATERS. RUBBISH.

Black sea is not russian territorial waters

WriterNiig:
The Black Sea is Russia's territorial waters.

👍🏻Like for Russia-Putin, share for USA/Nazi/NATO卍

Why would you share misinformation. How can the black sea be Russian territorial waters when it's bordered by other countries?

Banilla:
There was a thread about a British woman who works as a naked cleaner. Not one man bashed her; they either complimented her body, joked about it, or insulted Nigerian women. The so-called redpillers didn't see something wrong with her partners who are comfortable with the work she does.

Yet they mostly agreed with the racist comments concerning Tems' dress at the Oscars.

It's pathetic. Nigerian men would take down one of their own who made a simple mistake yet praise a white woman who decides to work naked.

https://www.nairaland.com/7610295/earn-50-naked-cleaner-british

How does this mean Nigerian suffer from inferiority complex.
You wanted 5 seconds of fame, you got it
Now either you can do the same job as the woman or you can't. If you can't then STFU.

Pakwel:
You'll want equality. But you don't want what cames with it.. if you hit me as your husband. Guaranty no jokes oh . I'll hit you back to reset your sense.. one thing for sure I'll never hit you first..mumu talk say make him give you silent treatment. You don turn am to boy boy now

My brother, violence for me if a no no. If you have been with a woman for a while. You will know there are things you can do to her that would be more painful than being physical. Silent treatment only emboldens women, I don't support that. Shouting at her gives her a hint of what your next action would be. Women are thinker so she would be assessing you and your every move.
The game plan is to keep her in the dark. Never allow her guess your action. Once they run out of options, they will come and serve themselves to you on a Platte of Gold. That is when you take your bound of flesh. Patience wins it all.

IyaebeTheGreat:
This is not true. Was Yul Edochie’s wife not respectful, loyal and submissive? What did she get in return. Too much peace for a man especially when they are young makes them do the unthinkable

Not true. First U are not in the union with Yul and his wife so U have nothing to say there.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Mine goes thus: I can never forgive a husband for having illegitimate kid/kids outside our matrimonial home, taking a second wife and going physical on me(even if I hit him which I won’t ever do, he should choose the option of silent treatment and not hit me back) . These three things are what I can’t ever forgive a husband for and I would hold him in my heart for the rest of my life. Share yours

Free the man if you can't forgive. Marriage is not by force

Bvlgari:
Nigerian lady kicks her husband out of his own home in the UK after he brought her over from Nigeria 2years ago and even paid for her nursing school and training 😮😮🤔

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cpq0XKuD8dD/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gvRpma-EiEQ

What movie is this