Career › Re: Facebook (Meta) Sacks 21,000 Employees. Read Mark Zuckerberg's Message by drnoel: 4:33pm On Nov 09, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: No Igbo With Good Conscience Will Vote Against Tinubu by drnoel: 1:59pm On Nov 02, 2022 |
tamdun: So we should ignore fact/what's on ground and vote obi because of his words? Fact on ground. Nothing like that in Nigerian politics. Anyone that tells U that is a liar. It's record that matters. |
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Politics › Re: Tinubu: Why I Forgave Osinbajo For Contesting Presidential Primaries Against Me by drnoel: 8:52pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: Nigeria man sent his gf to deliver in USA she ended up... by drnoel: 8:11pm On Oct 25, 2022 |
bmd1010: The female generation na wow, but this male generation are just getting dumber.
He for carry her sister or brother too, mumu Comments here are hilarious. Nothing wrong in what guy man did. He thought he had seen his diamond in the rough. Check the fish brain of a girl. You will see ladies like her giving her bad advice they themselves won't take cause of jealousy. Girls are their greatest enemies |
Family › Re: My Mother-in-law Told Me Not To Touch My Wife by drnoel: 5:47pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
Obavoh: My wife put to bed 2 weeks ago.
My mother usually takes care of her but her aunty decided to come this time.
I usually have sex with my wife 2 weeks after she puts to bed. It pains her a little but I am very gentle with her. She knows I am not a cheating husband that is why.
Last night as I tried to make love to her, she was crying as usual. Before you know it, her aunty started banging the door and was shouting that I want to kill my wife.
I felt so embarrassed and went tried to explain to her that it’s not so. She said if I try it again she will carry my wife and children back to the village and will return her bride price.
She asked me to wait for at least 4 months before I touch my wife again which I promised her I will as I did not want her to report to my wife’s family.
What can I do? I don’t want to cheat on my wife and I don’t want to disrespect my Inlaw by sending her away. She is a nice woman but she is making me uncomfortable in my own home. And you allowed her to that in your own house? She crossed a line and you need to correct that |
Politics › Re: Nigeria Has Improved 4G Coverage From 23% To 77.52% — Osinbajo by drnoel: 5:41pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: My say On Women's Late Marriage Issues by drnoel: 9:14pm On Oct 18, 2022 |
TinubuThief: Can I marry you because you sound reasonable? This says it all. The OP in question didn't even reply this person's comments and she wants to be taken serious. Case closed. |
Politics › Re: Buhari: We Have Met Yearnings, Aspirations Of Nigerians by drnoel: 4:55pm On Oct 17, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: Maduka Buries Mother-In-Law In Imo, Pledges Befitting Home For Catholic Priests by drnoel: 4:53pm On Oct 17, 2022 |
07kjb: Were you the one that made IMO state unrest? If they tell you they saw me. Tell me it was not me, it's probably you they saw |
Politics › Re: Maduka Buries Mother-In-Law In Imo, Pledges Befitting Home For Catholic Priests by drnoel: 3:01pm On Oct 16, 2022 |
AlexReports: Imo On Stand Still As Godwin Maduka Gives Mother-in-law Society Burial, Pledges Befitting Home For Catholic Priests
The final burial of Mrs. Elizabeth Chinyere Amaechi, the mother-in-law of Dr. Godwin Maduka, a Nigerian US-based medical doctor has come and gone but the beautiful memories it created will linger for a long time.
Dr. Maduka a former governoship candidate in Anambra State in 2021 had recently returned from abroad to give the mother of his wife who died at the age of 77 a befitting burial.
It was a total shut down on Saturday, Oct 15 as people from all works of life trooped to Isiala Mbano LGA of the state to pay their last respect to mama Elizabeth who was extolled for her sound Christian life and peaceful living with all.
Maduka a renowned philanthropist had stormed the Imo community with retinue of friends, associates and allies who had come to identify with him at his period of grief.
Speaking at the burial ceremony, Dr. Maduka extolled the selflessness of Mrs. Elizabeth and her life of sacrifices for which she stood out in the community.
He said in the past 25 years he has known the late Elizabeth, she has remained an epitome of virtuous woman whose desire to touch the lives of others is worth emulating.
He said the late mother-in-law will be greatly missed especially her divine intercession as a prayer warrior and her words of wisdom in trouble moments.
While saying that the late Elizabeth is a mother in law everyone would wish to have, Dr. Maduka called on her children to emulate her and sustain her virtues of love, sacrifice, truth and fearlessness.
The billionaire medical doctor also pledged to complete an ongoing project expected to serve as home for Catholic Priests in the community In memory of the late Mother inlaw.
Thanksgiving service for the life and time of Mrs. Elizabeth was held on Sunday.
https://www.statepress.ng/2022/10/imo-on-stand-still-as-godwin-maduka.html In this time of unrest in imo state |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Mike Itkis: Manhattan Candidate Releases Sextape To Woo Voters Ahead Of Election by drnoel: 10:14am On Oct 15, 2022 |
fergie001: Manhattan congressional candidate publishes a porn video to highlight his sex positive platform
|SOURCE| He won't able to unsit Nadler, not with this his porn advert. He will just collect votes and probably give republicans a headstart. This will be bad if his action cause republicans to win |
Politics › Re: Man Sets His Own Car Ablaze To Celebrate Nnamdi Kanu's Discharge (Video) by drnoel: 10:09am On Oct 15, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: 10-Year-Old Bandits' Informant Arrested In Zamfara. He Had Killed 3 With Gun by drnoel: 10:04am On Oct 15, 2022 |
Jennifer663: He doesn't have a future! At this age? Family background Actually, if you don't give him a future. He won't have one. He can't be blames for what he has been exposed to. It's how they handle it from now that's what matters |
Politics › Re: 10-Year-Old Bandits' Informant Arrested In Zamfara. He Had Killed 3 With Gun by drnoel: 10:03am On Oct 15, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: Ladies, Be Careful With This New Trend (does Coming Over; Mean Sex) ? by drnoel: 8:49pm On Oct 04, 2022 |
JungWoori: Hello Ladies, please read through and learn one or two. Came across this thread and it made me shed tears. https://www.nairaland.com/7348392/does-sleep-over-mean-probably
Met this guy the day I went for a show. He requested for my number which I didn't hesitate to give so as to discharge him. Few weeks later, he requested for my family's digits so as to keep in touch with my people. On that account, I made it known to him that I have no intentions of dating or taking things personal with him (which he ignored).
I had a business call around his location and I needed where to stay. He told me he has someone who I can rent an apartment from and he equally has a bigger business opportunity for me. I didn't hesitate to take the offer so long I won't be staying over at his place but, see the apartment and leave same day. Note, I have a work I'm into already so, I didn't want to inconvenience myself.
On getting to his place, I was happy his family were still very much around. Which he later took me to the room where I'll be staying for the night (yes, I wasn't able to go back same day. The love from his family was massive). Long story cut short, I got raped that very night even with his family members around. Kept screaming, fighting and knocking but, no help came. It seemed like it was all a plan or the room was probably sound proofed (he said no one will hear me no matter how loud I screamed).
Now, after the whole incident, I decided I wasn't going to stay. This guy locked the door, seized the keys, saw me operating my phone and seized my phone. So, I can say I was held hostage after being violated. When I told him I was going to sue him, he told me he himself is a lawyer and he can win the case no matter where I carry it to. First, I was at his place when the incident happened and that alone can dissolve the case. I am his girlfriend whom he invited to his place that's obviously trying to frame him. We are family friends so, why would he hurt me. I don't have any concrete evidence as he kept speaking native Language (Yoruba), knowing fully well that I don't understand it.
Ladies, I know my story might not be all that helpful but, try to be careful. Nigerian men now use the term come over as a guise to get into your pants either you want it willingly or not. You'll probably just rant about it cause they won't give you any chances of getting a concrete evidence. Especially over texts and calls.
Get your recorders, keep your cameras close enough, report to any NGO's and most importantly, your NO means NO. No one should guilt trip you. As for the guy, I'll still hunt him (Glad I have a minute recording of him just before he snatched my phone away).
Before you come for me, I'm not Nigerian by nationality and I'm not a newbie here.
Be careful out there sis. Story is full of holes so can't be true |
Business › Re: How Access Bank And The Court Helped Me To Recover My Money From A Fraudster!!! by drnoel: 4:33pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
maureensylvia: It happened in June this year, he deserted, tried calling him it was unreachable, His family and the police didn't help either.
I got the idea of complaining to his bank, I went to his bank on August (Access bank) they asked me why I didn't come all these while that he withdrew the last part of the money 4 days before I came!!! E pain me shaa o
The customer care directed me to court to get a court order to restrict the account, I went to court, got the court order(pics displayed) paid them 10% of the total money. The bank restricted his account.
Yesterday afternoon, I got a call to come over to the bank...the guy was trying to make a transfer but he couldn't which warranted him to go to the bank... The customer care told me he has 80% of the money in his account that with my consent, they'll unfreeze it and pay me or I can wait till it's complete and take all... they were certain because it's a salary account... money must enter.
Though the guy pleaded with me to be paying 20k monthly buy omooorr I don't think I'll have such patience. The bank told him to be paying the 20k into his account till it completes.
so the ball is now in my court
All thanks to Access bank Take your 80 percent now. It will cripple him but teach him a bitter lesson he won't ever forget. If he continues his criminal ways that's his problem. But you got most of your money. The problem with being nice about this is that he can go his his employers and change the account his salary is to be paid into. Then you are back in square 1 |
Family › Re: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by drnoel: 4:24pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Meteoritey: Due to work, my husband and I live in states, and my husband lives in Canada. 3 months ago we had some serious skirmishes during our phone conversation and in the heat of the argument, I told him that he does not appreciate the fact that I am raising the kids and doing everything alone.
To my disappointment, he told me that he is overworked more than me. This really angered me. This got me angry and I hung up. Although He tried to reach me for 4 days, and also sent me some messages, I cut him off without replying, about 9 weeks later, I sent him just a message on an unrelated issue, he ignored my message, after another month, I sent him another message, he also ignored. It has been 3 months now we have not spoken to each other.
Recently my brother had a baby, and he only called once to congratulate them. Moreover my younger sister got admission to a university to study the same course that my husband studied, so naturally, my sister contacted him. My sister said he advised her on what to do and what she should expect. This was about 2 months ago. I personally did not inform him about my sister’s admission myself.
After about one month, my sister also called him for more information, but he has not been picking my sister’s call.
My sisters fiancee also called him to inform him about their upcoming marriage (my same sister that got the admission) he only spoke with my sister and her fiancee once, he stopped further communication with them on both issues of admission and marriage, and that he only spoke with them the first time about the admission and the marriage out of the respect he has for them.
He gave my sister the excuse that it was not proper, for him to speak with her fiancee' because he said that I have not told him anything about the marriage, therefore he can not relate further with my sister as per the marriage. And that it was out of respect that he even called my sister initially to advice her.
What are you thoughts and opinion please. I go no advice for you but this; Use you tongue to count your teeth. Both you and your husband are acting like children. One person has to be an adult cos two adults can't be children with your children. Usually the person that will be the adult is also the person that has to be the fool, the idiot. This life is short |
Car Talk › Re: I Was Charged $1840 (₦800,000) To Change Brake Pads - Lady Cries Out by drnoel: 8:34am On Sep 25, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: Subsidy Payment, ECA Depletion: Ajuri, Misrepresenting Facts - TonyeBarcanista by drnoel: 11:07am On Sep 21, 2022 |
TonyeBarcanista: Tonye Barcanista is a political analyst and social commentator. He writes on Nairaland.com and @TonyeBarcanista on Twitter Tonye may have to tell us if he is for Atiku or neutral on that matter |
Politics › Re: Buhari Confers American, Spaniard, 200 Others With Nigeria Citizenship by drnoel: 5:17am On Sep 16, 2022 |
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Family › Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by drnoel: 5:09am On Sep 16, 2022 |
odinson1: The simple reason is, she doesn't love you bro. She married you only because she had no other option at the time. Know this that a woman will break all rules, raise hell if she has to, to have sex with a man she likes. If she's constantly giving you excuses for an extended period of time, or making demands before she allows you in, it means you're sexually unattractive to her bro, she settled for you.
Women will come on this thread now and give nonsense excuses about her being tired, depressed etc but for how long can one be consistently tired that she only has sex with her husband once in 3 months?
Why are you men just so blind to reality? Damn! You'll jus rush into marriage because of love without making sure the person you're marrying isn't settling for you. You'll give her a comfortable live in the marriage, she'll deny you sex and you'll come to Nairaland to ask for advice.
Women will tell you to continue treating her right, talk things out with her etc. But it never works, trust me. If your wife settled for you, she'll deny you sex and use it to control you. When she needs a new handbag that is very expensive, she'll deny you sex and wait for you to buy it for her first before she allows you in.
Then she repeats the process for another demand and so on and so forth. Is that how you want to live the rest of your life as a man? Begging and paying your WIFE for sex. I'm tired of you men really, y'all lack balls and that is why women use Sex to control you. If she doesn't want to give the sex. She can hold it. Sex never finish for this world |
Romance › Re: Babymama Accuses Her Babydaddy Of Pettiness After Their Son Fails DNA Test by drnoel: 3:08pm On Sep 12, 2022 |
Pandalytics: What do you think? Em cos he is not the dad so she can't expect him to carry responsibility that ain't his |
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Science/Technology › Re: 'Doomsday Glacier' In Antarctica Is Holding On 'By Its Fingernails' - Scientists by drnoel: 10:34am On Sep 08, 2022 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Cardinal Okpaleke Visits Imo State (Photo) by drnoel: 6:36pm On Sep 07, 2022 |
mrvitalis: Before you remind us that mbaise rejected him because he is from Anambra that was no the case ....the present bishop of mbaise is from umuahia
Mbaise has over 800 rev fathers awka has 300 plus ...awka has produced 6 bishops this man made it 7
Mbaise being who we are said Cardinal arinze can't pick a bishop from his place for us ...our late bishop left a list of potential replacement chose from those
How can people that have 800 bishops have zero bishops and a place that has 400 have 7 ...
So if you want to conderm mbaise people know the truth ...we would never support injustice not even from the church That one is urban legend. Late Arinze didn't leave the new of any potential replacement for himself. He is not allowed to do that. |
Romance › Re: Waiting For Her Boyfriend In A Hotel, Lady Ran Into A Man Who later Married Her by drnoel: 6:50am On Sep 01, 2022 |
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Business › Re: Julius Berger Set To Launch Cashew Processing Plant In Lagos by drnoel: 6:38am On Sep 01, 2022 |
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