Kobojunkie: Who told you this story? Complete two houses with money she gets from benefits? How much was she collecting? £10,000's a month? Who was paying it to her?
I told you charlatans. The way you know people who don't have information like the OP and some others here is the comments they make
flokii: I remember reading here sometime ago, how a man tricked his wife and kids back home only to return to his base abroad alone where he burnt all their travel papers and documents in the backyard of his house.. What is really happening?. why are the ladies behaving that way?? Same story same complains
Only fools believe such a tale. If the said woman and children were legally living in Europe. Then the man's actions are naught. Infact that action alone is proof the system would use to make life miserable for him.
IngrateWifeKids: Having a Nigerian Wife and Kids in the UK is worse than slavery
Here is why
You will toil to make life comfortable for the so called wife and her kids (they are her kids in the final analysis you are just an expendable sperm donor) and she will still turn those same kids against you and get you kicked out of the family home or voluntary leave to keep your sanity, dignity and freedom.
She will engineer your departure from the family home once she starts receiving single parent handouts from the family hating british system
in the UK, the societal pecking order is children first then women then pets (cats and dogs) before men.
You've been kicked out / forced out of your children's abode and lives (at times by the UK police who will believe anything a woman tells them about her husband) and there are still demands on your finances by the UK system to pay to your kids or you feel obliged to give them some money even though the so called children are selfish and self centered and as dangerous to you as their mum an the lot of them (Mum and kids) are as ungrateful as Bleep. What the hell !!!!
Is it even worth a man marrying ad siring kids with a Nigerian woman in the UK or is it an exercise in futility and all round LOSS for the man on all counts ??
99% of Nigerian women in the UK are like this and God help you find the good 1% amongst these animals in human skin called UK based Nigerian women.
Let me stop here and I hope I have at least helped one man to at least avoid the dangerous trap of marrying a Nigerian woman in the UK or having kids with a Nigerian woman in the UK.
Men you have been warned
NUFF SAID
Lack of information and full of BS. Please upload proof of your stance.
Childish action on both sides. Never fight for a lady no matter how far you both have gone, esp a lady that doesn't want you to fight for her (one that has moved on).
Jeweltz: We have been conditioned to believe that sex will keep a man glue and obsessed about you. No.
I read a thread yesterday of a man dating a single lady who's denying him sex, but the man doesn't still leave her. See that .
Men are wired differently. A man will beg you for sex for many days and immediately you open your leg, he run away after hitting it and stop giving you attention that you deserve. Before you open your leg at all, make sure he's obsessed and his brain programmed to the thought of you alone. This is not difficult provided you don't show him how much you love him. Make him do the chasing. Men like that won't leave you.
There was a guy who was on my case. I like him. But I know Nigerian men. They'll use you once they see you're in love with them. I hoard my love and I told him no sex. No amount of convincing worked. And he was always on his toes making sure he doesn't deviate from showing me love and care.
But still, most of our men are liars and could be getting the sex somewhere else. That's why a woman should close her leg until you know that he will marry you. Don't fall for their lies
This is childish. You can't use your own myopic views to attempt to fit a whole group of men in one box. It can't work. That man that you are stringing alone and attempting to keep on his toes. You are just lucky it's not some men that I know.
Lade18: Recently met this single lady of one. Been the one footing her bills and sending her daughter (5yrs old) to school. She told me She wouldn't let us have sex until she sees I'm committed and reality love her. Although, that's not the reason I'm talking care of her daughter, I just naturally love to spend for people I care about. Just recently, she's wanting to know how much I give my mom and why I'm the one sending her money when she has a shop and making her money.
Yesterday, she told me I don't love her enough. That, if I can open a shop for my mom , then I can do more for her. But I wasn't the one that opened the shop for her, I just supported her.
Now, we had sex for the first time last month and has been denying me sex since then. Yesterday, she came around and I initiated sex, she denied. She told me if we're ever gonna be together, I should learn how to be a man. In her world, being a man involve me cooking, laundry, take her out, and clean. I told her that's cool. But I don't know what a woman will be doing in a House if she's not working while I'm the one footing her bills. If I ask her this, she would get angry.
My fellow men, why are the requirements for sex getting on the increase these Days? Is that they way it's supposed to be?
Listen to PSquare and Phyno financial woman. That song will give you your answer. If she can't see your intentions from just the simple act of taking care of her daughter. Then you should just litter her, she ain't worth it. A woman that thinks you are worth it won't put you through all that shit.
koife: Hello nairalanders, I am particularly compelled to pen this down as I observe my first Xmas away from nja.
Omo forget, nja get swag, community life and it's much fun there during this time of the year.
Yeah, we have our own bad side, but mehn, our social and family life is none to compare with.
Can you imagine, a whole Xmas, the place be like say na curfew Dem declare... Everybody "on your own". Mall shut, pubs shut, kababs, shut, no taxi....everywhere dead.
D one wia pain me pass na say I never carry eye see my flatmate since two days now. Abi this people normal so, or abi na over civilization dey worry Dem? I am so bored and tired that I had to drive out and to my greatest surprise na dead dry town I see. If na nja I dey so, na steady balling...huz to huz chopinz, visits, laughter, palmy, give away, oloshi lmao etc.
Abroad mongers abeg I carry God name beg una, stay back ooo nja na Diamond and Gold. Una no know wetin una get untill una come hia.
By the way, if any nja correct guy dey around Lowestoft, Suffolk, UK abeg make we connect gather make some noice jor, even if na Norwich I go drive come.
I run come hia, as we no get better education. If e bin dey, I nor for come hia lailai.
Meanwhile, seasons greetings y'all. Much love. Xoxo
Attach yourself to a Nigerian community, that way you can all spend Christmas together. But no go tell them say na me send you. Some naija people una stress worry
ExAngel007: Lady stumbles upon her boyfriend's wedding photos online same month she had an abortion for him
A lady has been left heartbroken after stumbling upon wedding photos online of he man she thought was her boyfriend, same month she had an abortion for him.
Twitter user, @A_Blackwoman who shared the story, said the lady aborted for the man three times in one year.
She also disclosed that the lady the man dumped allowed him to stay in her house and provided for him when he was out of a job till he got another.
feranmi143: Yo fish, you saw a lot of red flag before you got married but you ignored it, the very movement you let that pussy control you, sir you are gone, denined you sex for almost a month but she mastubate often, you both need to work on your sex**al life. sucking for an hour YOU NEED TO BE GIVEN AN AWARD, don't plan on cheating, have some nice time with her, if still the same treaten to marry another lady
Also lie. Fact a woman masturbate is not a red flag. It's a matter of preference
Neptunium: She must have masturbated a lot. Excessive female masturbation can damage the clit, g spot and affect the chances of having orgasm and basically overall pleasure that comes with dic penetration.
FullBlastLight: Woman Seeks For Divorce After Her Husband Shaved His Private Parts Without Informing Her
A court in Zambia was stunned after a woman explained to the court how she found out her husband of 22 years had another woman behind her back.
In that surprising statement that was published by the media in the country, the woman said that she wanted a divorce because she found out that her husband had a second wife and she could not tolerate the marriage of two wives.
When asked how she knew that her husband had a second wife, the woman by the name of Karen Chungu said that one day she wanted to make love with her husband but was stunned after realizing that he had shaved his pubic hair.
She wanted to know why her husband decided to shave his pubic hair without informing her and this is when her husband silenced her.
“One day I wanted to make love with my husband, but I was shocked to find him shaved. I wanted to have a meeting about why his private parts are clean, but he told me to shut up about it.
The problems in our marriage continued to the point of kicking me out of the house and when the elders got involved, he ran away,” Karen told the court in Ndola, Zambia.
She said that since that incident, she and her husband never shared love with her husband for more than a year.
Defending himself, the man named Andrew Kapembwa said that he had no intention of marrying a second wife until his wife refused to wash his clothes and that’s why he decided to get her a co-wife.
“I had no intention of marrying another woman, but my wife stopped doing laundry for me and performed her duties. I married another woman because of my wife’s behavior. I haven’t been out of our house in two years. I made a mistake and I admit it. I respect my wife. She is the mother of my children,” he said.
He also told the court that he did not have sex with his wife because she rejected him.
BentizilL: Libya, Afghanistan.. Should I continue or start with countries independen NATO nations have bullied??
Lol, I knew you would mention these countries. You won't be wrong if your intention was not to change the narrative. But you are wrong. The countries are not better for it but they actually had it coming. Just like Russia would but for the fear of nuclear weapons
Labadi69: Another dull lazy youth spotted. How can you be yearning so much trash with confidence? Yamayama fall on that your bald head there
Youth, children without respect. Anyways this faceless forum does not let anyone know who is who. If not, you would be prostrating to greet me you little boy.
hapsattaddawus: Dollar crash, has nothing, absolutely nothing to do with naira redesign. It has to do with the US policy to check the stock pile of dollars in Africa. Especially Nigeria and South Africa Stop deceiving yourself.
The Nigerian leaders are very dangerous. Just imagine that charlatan saying that shit. All countries are allowed to set their currency to any level they want. The thing is that most countries prefer to set their currency in relation to the dollar. Then they must have something backing it. Naira is on free fall because Nigeria does not have SEC anymore. Buhari and APC has spent it all. This time of fuel boost is the time they should be saving to build the SEC back but no. It's spending and spending. Aboki, what do you expect
BentizilL: NATO can only bully smaller and weak nation but an outright war with Russia, they don't want it..
Doesn't matter how you turn the words around, it doesn't hold true regardless of how much your want to believe it. It's just like Trump desperately deceiving himself that his declaring his intention to contest in 2024 would save him from prosecution. It won't. He has to be prosecuted so that what he has done doesn't become a norm.
I'm So Glad that you already Expose the Highest Ignorance ..
It's like Saying Joe Biden is the President of US and Someone says It's a Lie ..No one except a Mentally Sick Person would want to Argue with Such Person ...
I'm So Glad that you already Expose the Highest Ignorance ..
It's like Saying Joe Biden is the President of US and Someone says It's a Lie ..No one except a Mentally Sick Person would want to Argue with Such Person ...
BentizilL: NATO can only bully smaller and weak nation but an outright war with Russia, they don't want it..
Doesn't matter how you turn the words around, it doesn't hold true regardless of how much your want to believe it. It's just like Trump desperately deceiving himself that his declaring his intention to contest in 2024 would save him from prosecution. It won't. He has to be prosecuted so that what he has done doesn't become a norm.
Tonylyte: Yes, I think. Maybe a strategy by anti-Russian to give NATO reasons to get involved in the feud.
It will be a limited involvement. NATO and Russia don't want to fight themselves. Russia can bully a smaller Nation but an outright war with NATO, they don't want it
Adesina18111: Bidden talks too much...too much talk no dey full basket...u be werey president... street don hard since u become president...no benefit for the boys like Trump regim...na Ogun go kee u
orisa37: Too much talk. G7 should tell RUSSIA to quit UKRAINE, The whole of UKRAINE including CRIMEA AND PAY REPARATIONS.
G7 should also tell China to stop all experiments in the Western Europe and African Atmospheres. No more COVID19 HAZARDS.
To your first comment, it's a little more complicated than that. To your 2nd comment, you are just talking BS. China is not experimenting shit in Europe, I don't know about in Africa but I doubt it
lhordspy: I would love to see how the toothless Nato will react.
I surely know the US will be secretly fanning and pushing all other NATO countries now to the brink of war. Cowardly rallying them to face Russia.
Ofcourse, this isnt intentional. But if NATO chooses to believe otherwise. Then they better know that Russia is ever ready.
Everybody go collect either by mistake or purposely.
Can assure you both Russia and NATO don't want to fight themselves cos it will be a prolonged war unless nuclear missiles are used. All countries have ruled out nuclear, only Russia has threatened it may use it. We know Putin is crazy but he is not that crazy. He may us chemical weapons but nuclear is another ball game. I doubt NATO will attack or join the war. They will just pat Poland on the hand and attempt to compensate them. Then will put pressure on Russia to end the war. They may succeed in ending the war too. But if it's attack Russia, that won't happen. No NATO country wants to fight. They are more concerned with solving the problems Corona has wrought on Europe
motionarena: Dear Mr Seun. Please can't you control the large amount of Pornographic materials in your site.
Most of us come here to read funny romance stories and experiences but 90% of topics on the page is all porn. We know where to go if we want to watch porn.
Please seun put some order to this Thanks
Just report them if you find anyone. Press report, type in number 8 (pornography) and send. The pic is deleted and you have reduced the number by 1
Romance › Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by drnoel: 7:28pm On Jan 04, 2023
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