₦airaland Forum

JideAmuGiaka:
If this story is true, Mrs Ambode I pray that you receive mercy from God. Who are you and your husband to question the authority of the chaplain?
If it were in a mosque, can you and your husband sack an Imam?. Nonsense.

That's what Christianity has turned to but they won't try that with catholics

Afam4eva:
Is the daughter above 18? Yes

If the daughter married? Yes

So, i don't understand why they should take permission from her parents when she's an adult. They should have just said that the position is not befitting.

U are asking the wrote question sir. How come the daughter doesn't speak for herself but instead the governors press secretary gave a statement in that regard. Who is he working for, the governor, imo state or the lady in question? A case of Rochas using state means to suit personal purposes

Masterclass32:
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10212561866298933&id=1152008079

The truth hurts but when Reno is right, he is right. Why did they not do something about it though?

Islie:
http://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/05/looted-funds-fg-seeks-extradition-311-powerful-nigerians/

Bullshit, what are their names? If the government can't call their names then its all lies. Its high time the masses stop believing all these tales and put their money where their pursue is?

Afam4eva:
Which community is Ayiri their paramount ruler?

Lol, none. That real bushman way get small change

Mcreloaded:
At the end of the day the government gives with right hand and take back with the left hand.
Market women are waiting to increase the price of their goods not counting out the landlords

Who else does something similar like that? The devil

eezeribe:
Women are so gullible and vulnerable...
Some women even have sex with herbalists and pastors,and believe it would be the solution to their problem.
Afterall,their mother(Eve),ruined the work of God and caused the downfall of Mankind and many are still causing the downfall of Men.
Both the pastor and the lady being kissed are satanic agents.

Religion is the problem in Africa not even politicians and bad leadership

hammer2010:
May God punish who so ever that spewed that thrash



So all those yeye lawmakers lawbreakers that are on jumbo allowances that have been perpetually absent from their responsibilities, who the Bleep has prosecuted them


What about the President that has been conspicously absent from office for long now, what has been done about that


Because of dis peanuts wey una decide to share give us after failing to create a condusive atmosphere for employment generation, na em una wan begin monitor us like monitoring spirits


God punish una finish


When una ready, make una come drag me from where I dey prosecute me. Infact, I was even considering reporting to my primary assignment to negotiate days I'd be working, but since una wan begin issue threat, I'd gladly cancel that plan till futher notice.

Nonsense!

Oga looks like u are one of em. Still miss the point which is commitment to ones duty. If they no won do, they should remove themselves from the program let others who are interested get in. Its that simple. On the issues of those politicians u mentioned, they are known but cos they are the ones that make those laws they seem to be untouchable for now till that changes. Then again remember the masses elected them so to say so power is in the hands of the masses, I.e una hand

obikirinoni:
Guys please read carefully


WHY FATHERS ARE NEGLECTED IN OLD AGE.
-ITS A MUST READ FOR ALL FATHERS! (and mothers too!)

Take ur time and read through.

1. In the lifetime of most Nigerian family settings, there are 3 Dispensations of Power.

2. The 1st is the first 25 years in the life of the family (father, mother, children) where power indisputably rest with the father.

3. The 2nd is after the kids have grown & started working when the power shifts to the mother.

4. The 3rd is when the kids move out of the family house or start their own families when the power moves to the children.

6. We'll start from the 1st Dispensation. Total dominance of the father. He is the Lion of the Tribe of his House. The boss.

7. During this dispensation, the father rules with an iron fist. He barks orders & determines what does or does not happen.

8. The father often mettes out corporal punishment to the recalcitrant children. They grow to fear him more than they love him.

10. The father is the provider for the family & everyone is aware of that fact with all attendant consequences.

11. Then the 2nd Dispensation sets in. The children have finished school and have started working. Power shifts to the mother.

12. When the children start earning their own money, for some reason, it's their mothers they decide to look after. They are closer to her.

13. While the father was in charge, he was busy with the business of providing. He didn't have much time to be a friend to the children.

14. They spent more time with their mum and invariably grew closer to her. They also see their mum as co-victims of the father's tyranny.

15. The mother takes centre stage at this point. She is the first to know what's happening with the children & she has advantage.

16. Should any of the daughters give birth, she is the one that goes for babysitting and the children spoil her with gifts.

17. At this stage, the father is wishing for some bond with the children like they have with their mother but that boat has sailed.

18. Because the mother doesn't rely much on the father for her needs at this stage, she is less likely to tolerate his lordship. Friction.

19. Then the 3rd and last dispensation. Power has shifted to the children. They are self-sufficient, live on their own & have own families.

20. More often than not, whenever there is a quarrel between father & mother, the children side the mother.Years of joint-victimhood at play

21. Children have been known to come to the house to warn their father not to 'disturb' their mother. Next thing, extended visitations.

22. Woe betide the father if his finances are precarious at this stage. You will be humble by force. The gang-up is real.

23. This causes most men to fall ill & develop different complications. By the time the forces are arrayed against you, you will think well.

24. Stroke, Hypertension, High-Blood Pressure. The man has a large family but no relationship with them in later life. Troubling thought.

25. Moral, dear men, while the power lies with us, let us wield it with posterity in mind. It won't be with us forever.

26. With the way you are treating your wife now, how will she treat you when power shifts to her?

27. What relationship do you have with your family? Loving dad or despotic, tyrannical provider?

28. Remember, the children always side with their mother. Aim to do enough to at least get a fair hearing in future moments of family strife

30. Invest wisely for the future so that you won't have to beg to be taken care of if despite your best efforts, you find yourself alone.

ADVISE TO CHILDREN:- IT IS NOT GOOD TO ABANDON YOUR FATHER WHO DENIED HIMSELF TO GET YOU PREPARED FOR LIFE & WHO SACRIFICIALLY SOWED TO MAKE YOU WHO YOU ARE. HONOUR YOUR BOTH PARENTS AND TAKE GOOD CARE OF THEM IN THEIR OLD AGE. THAT IS HOW YOU TOO WILL SOW INTO YOUR FUTURE. DONT LET NEGLECTING YOUR FATHER (PARENTS ) BE A CURSE ON YOU INTO YOUR FUTURE.

ADVISE TO MOTHERS :- DON'T INCITE YOUR CHILDREN AGAINST THEIR FATHER.

*Parenthood is not easy despite its joys. There is no manual on how it works. May God help us

A mata of opinion actually but completely fits the Nigerian family setting

delishpot:
Someone has to serve the Kola nut na. If he is the youngest there then he has to serve it no biggie.

Allow the charlatan that posted this rubbish. It also shows Jim knows the people in the gathering for they to even allow him serve the kolanut cos if he was thought as a stranger they won't give him that privilege. Igbo tradition rocks

Religion is a cause in Africa

tchidi:
If you watch documentaries, you'll understand her point..
It's possible to lose that much weight o! But you see those excess skin, it won't disappear. It has to be cut off.
The problem is when these pictures are posted, someone in that shoe will almost kill himself/herself wondering how come they too can't get to that point. Same thing ZarZar is trying to explain.

U are talking of watching documentaries. I am talking about working with people who do those documentaries. The skin is stretchable cause of its elasticity just like it can shrink but probably not completely back.

Dimples182:
No excess skin she has amazing skin! If she didn't have surgery.

She has time that's why. Those that go for surgery are too impatient to let time do its work

TheTrueSeeker:
A new Panel led by the CJN has just directed that all motions and substantive appeal be heard today and not in peace mill.

Yes, where are the remaining updates?

marvin902:
I was actually in the same position as you with my ex..she has a daughter but only difference is she never imposed anything concerning her daughter on me....I know what she's doing is kinda of wrong buh if you have the resources just do it buh sit her down and tell her you can't take up the responsibility of a father to her kids

Best ans I have heard

I thought these people were used to bowing to their demi-god? Why didn't they bow nah?

coolesmile:
Who do we believe now?

Believe lia Mohammed at ur detriment

furrr:
I honestly don't have any hidden agenda...... like I said I want start by showcasing less talked about or less famous destination for most nigerians b4 getting to the heavy weights....... enjoy

Thanx and noted. Cheers

WotzupNG:
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=1719846918234929&set=a.1534312110121745.1073741825.100006289127998&type=3


THIS IS A CONVINCE REASON WHY SHE.
EMBRACE ISLAM
1. Jesus christ when he was alive he never practice christianity, he only bring islam

2. Jesus was never mention anything like christian when he was alive. But in Al-qur’an GOD called us muslim like Qur’an 3:102

3. Jesus christ was never go to church when he was alive and there is no single verse in the bible that say go to church. But in Al-qur’an Allah says we should go to “jummuah”

4. There is no single verse in the bible where the word “BIBLE” is mention. But in Al-qur’an there was so many places where GOD mention Al-qur’an, like qur’an 4:82

5. There was no single verse where GOD or jesus says u should go to “jerusalem” But in the Al-qur’an GOD say in suratul hajj that we should go to hajj if we have the power to go

So, my brother & sister if islam is not the real way to salvation it will not be possible for millions of millions of millions of muslim today, from diffrent part of the word, from Europe, Asia, Australia, Africa, we will all garder to mecca. At the back on one Imam, if imam say “Allahu Akbar” everybody will say “Allah Akbar” if imam bowed down everybody will bowed down for GOD. Because of what is in the book of {Zephaniah 3:9}, so what are we calling islam, we have 5 pillars of islam:

1. We should believe in oneness of GOD not threenity, is in the book of {Deutoronomy 6:4} also in the book of {Mark 12:28-29}

2. We should perfom solat {worship GOD} is in the book of {Nehemiah 8:4-6} & {matthew 26:39}

3. We should be paying “ZAKAT” is in the book of {Mark 12:41-42}

4. We should be fasting for GOD. Is in the book of {jeremiah 36:9}

5. We should be going to Hajj, is in the book of {Isaiah 2:2}


http://wotzup.ng/see-the-reasons-why-a-christian-girl-converted-to-islam/

If only she knew

Hyerin:
I'm just curious but I watched a movie were a guy broke up with his girlfriend after he found out she wasn't a virgin (cos initially she lied she was but later told him the truth). Not only in movies do these things happen, but also in reality. Why?

Men want virgins but they themselves aren't virgins. Going to mess up and shxt like that but when females do it. Oh no. She is a slut/LovePeddler etc. Gender inequality much? Not to be a "third wave feminist" or "neo-radical feminist" but this is how I feel. So much is expected of a lady but little is expected of a man. I mean, why?

The world is changing everyday. Stereotypes are being broken. If you expect women to be pure & chaste before marriage then why can't you? (referring to men)

P.S. if you can't be civil or polite. Get off this thread. Don't be a nuisance.

The stereotyping is wrong, men don't like virgins. A few select men may do but they don't speak for the 100% of men on this earth. Virginity is overrated.

vedaxcool:
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Mr. like beggar I applegize if my comment disrupted your nap time and falls above your comprehension level. In plain English your question is senseless and lacks decency in line with tribalist way of thinking which always read meaning into the actions of others for no reason whatsoever.

Young man, ur attempts to annoy me will not work. I only pity ur father, ur parents who didn't teach u manners and how to respect ur elders. Cheers.

vedaxcool:
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Why don't you open a thread about settlements in the south? or you don't have hands or the research capacity to come up with your own thread?

Like beggar take

My son, I apologize if my comment upset u. If u noticed, I only asked a question no matter how unpleasant it sounded. No I don't intend to open one for southerners, yes I have quite an arsenal of tools to do any such research, its only time I don't have. Leave sentiments outside the door, afterall its one Nigeria. Cheers

I just surfed through ur whole posts till of late. One would ask if there is a real hidden reason behind this post. Time will tell. When u are done posting pix of large settlements in the north, do so also of the south. The next census is coming. I do hope I am wrong about my impression of something hidden.

coalcoal1:
I wish him well. I'm sure he has learned his lessons. I remember when he bought a private jet in the peak of his career then.

That was before his kids came. Bros, any man way no get sense after having children will never do. That's where the idiom a fool at 40 is a fool forever came cos it is expected that by 40 must men have responsibilities.

Notasyouthink:
Nnamdi Kanu is my mentor!!

Then u have a resounding problem

jude90:
nice move but I still don't trust these Massob guys

U don't need to trust anybody really. Time is infinite and that's what we have.

Notasyouthink:
Nnamdi Kanu is my mentor!!

Then u have a resounding problem

GogetterMD:
dominique
Mynd44
Lalasticlala
Ishilove
Seun

Let people see another perspective

Guy, I take a bow. Ur write up was cool but I too do have some other short notes that one could add or subtract from urs. All in all, I do agree though with ur assessment as I see a fellow in the house. Nice one.

I also wonder how long the husband took before he returned from getting blood to see his wife had delivered. Did he go to the moon to get the said blood?
Nigerians have no regard for their doctors, period.

greatbrian:
U like espirit the corp manner? What has espirit the corp has to do with a soldier. Arm of rubbish? They shud hv lynched him and see how many confused civilian will pay for it. And u call dz brutality Oga o........... Even the bastard feels he must bleed as per he has blood in excess and his mother feel his blood is useful. What I see the rating did their was light massage. He shud hv damaged the cadet so the confused press will have smfin to wail abt. Modified: for those who are fuming with rage abt my comment don't get it twisted its one of those moments in a young soldier life wen he feels on top of the world and perhaps he never knew he was going hard on the guy. I don't support damaging civilian but black market is allowed. And for any military personnel who will read dz or cadets. Pls damage civilians call for arty when necessary and know when to tactically thin out without wawarising the uniform. Just help yourself n don't be the one to get caught like that mumu in uniform. ntin is sweeter than doing job with ur civilian culprit

Be careful what u say or what u propagate. U don't know who is who. A bloody civilian u see on the street may have more military backing that any fool. I only need to send this boy's pix to my colleagues and he will regret he ever joined the navy. Last I heard the navy was and is still looking for scapegoats like this boy who they say and I quote "spoil their reputation in public"' One has to be very careful

Amoyinoluwa24:
cc; lalasticlala

The naval man doesn't have a single rank so he is not an officer, the topic of the write up is wrong. The boy is a nobody in the navy.

APCmyheart:
How will him win back the state through his candidate make him shake South West? LOL funny i guess..

Remember he try to show some influence in Ondo election but failed. haha..

I don't know too. But I know its good to have people like fayose to shake the polity and put some people in line. He is a scoundrel, we know that but he is one that speak the truth sometimes.
If he goes into oblivion which he would ones he stops beng governor, a voice will be lost in the storm

APCmyheart:
You mean get his own candidate into Aso rock?

Charity begins at home, I mean get his own candidate to replace him. Shake the southwest polity a little so much so that he makes a name for himself outside being governor. If he manages to secure that, then he may finally have fellowship

APCmyheart:
LOL Fayose, FFK etc are irrelevant in South west..

Ya u are right but what if, what if? U forget Nigerian politics is where kings are brought down and formal nobodies become kingpins. Fayose's relevance will be clearer if he manages to get his own candidate into power come next day elections.