₦airaland Forum

He said the same thing when he was a member of PDP and again in PPA.

NairalandDSS:
Where there is a relationship between a man and a woman, there might be a slight chance that the man is cheating. However, it is important to understand that such issues are not universal and being paranoid is futile. But when you recognize a red flag, be careful and wary about his movements. There are many reasons why men cheat.

1. He feels his partner is no longer attractive and finds someone else satisfying his physical and psychological needs.

2. He hates arguments and the partner he stays with gives him plenty opportunities to argue. He finds another lady who does not necessarily have to put up with his temper tantrums and hence there is no room for argument.

3. Men also cheat when marriage becomes a warlock. If men stay in a relationship only for the sake of children or society, their excuse is to seek solace in other women for platonic or sexual relations.


4. When the man feels that other women desire him as much as they did a long time ago; he becomes thrilled and excited to explore his options. In this way, his ego is boosted, which may not be happening with his partner.


5. Most men are psychologically made in such a way that they get drawn towards beautiful women. Blame it on their hormones, but it is a great excuse for them to cheat.


6. Men cheat when romance in a committed relationship becomes chilled or cold. This is a very common scenario that routine responsibilities take over romance over a period of time. When romance steps out, the man seeks pleasure elsewhere.


7. Extramarital affairs have become so commonplace today. All the more reason for men to cheat. Women are easily available to offer and seek pleasure from a man.
http://www.jeloser.info/2017/01/many-reasons-why-men-cheat.html


MYND44 LALATICLALA

The ONLY reason why a man or woman could cheat in a relationship is because the he or she lacks LOVE for their partner!
In other words, someone who loves you will NEVER cheat on you. That's a fact!

If you're in a relationship with someone who doesn't love you, the chances of them cheating is very high. That you're in relationship doesn't necessarily mean your partner loves you.

Love, Like, Crush and Lust are not the same but can intertwine.
- Like (I'm talking about sexual Like here) is the first generic feeling you have for someone you find attractive, before Crush sets in.

- Crush (I'm talking about sexual Like here) on the other hand, can be instant and could fade easily. It can also lead to Love.

- Lust is 100% sexual. Any man or woman who lusts for you, wants to f*uck you as soon as possible. The person is massively sexually attracted to you. He or she may be having sex dreams about you. Chances of having a serious relationship is slim.

- Love (I'm talking about sexual Love here) is the ultimate goal and can be rewarding. It takes time to grow and when it does, it could last forever. Anyone who truly loves you also likes you, has crush on you and lusts for you.

Cheating doesn't occur in a relationship where both partners truly love each other.

Chics will take half of the money from him.

Nigerians and their st*upid juju and diabolical mentality.
That's what happens when majority of Nigerians are scientifically illiterate!
Why would the woman even allow that?

What do you expect from a clueless Nigerian who's based in Turkey.
Who goes to Turkey? Do Nigerians just head to any country without proper thought?

Don't be surprised, there may be Nigerians who based in Malawi, the poorest country in the world.

A good evidence of terrible healthcare system in Nigeria.

Your imaginary god didn't tell you anything!
It pisses me off when crooked Nigerian pastors say their god told them something or revealed something to them. Pure lies and their dumb congregation believe this crap!

A good example is TB Joshua. This conman always claims he "predicts" future events and yet he couldn't predict his own church building that collapsed and killed hundreds of his dumb followers!! Upon this huge evidence that exposed him as a fraud, people still believe the conman!

Scientists are still investigating to find out why some humans still believe something that was evidently proven wrong. Some scientists even suggested it could be a mental issue.

Nigerian salad is very unhealthy.
40% of the salad is Salad cream.

Pluto16:
Hi everyone, I'm madly in love with this lady she is like (lemme guess) roughly 26 years while i'm just 22...she's working in a place beside the company i work with. We do talk sometimes, greet each other and some other stuffs...

But I'm scared to ask her out because of the age difference. She might took it wrong or embarrass me or something like that...

As a young man i dress well, look cute and behave well also but I dnt think all that count. I know it works in foreign countries or lemme say western countries especially, You know Africans and culture! Whats is the con and pro and Please share any similar experience you've had or saw and Your advice is needed also...

How could you be in love with a lady you're not even dating? Most Nigerians can't differentiate between Love and Crush. I believe you have a crush on her.

There's absolutely nothing wrong in dating a woman who's four years older than you. As long as she your type, f*uck tradition! We're in 2017 not 1917. Both of you are young.

Dating a younger lady doesn't guarantee anything in a relationship and the same applies to virgins. What matters is love.

My wife is one year older than me but I look 5 yrs older than her. My marriage is wonderful. We have been married for more than 10yrs (married young). Two of my friends who married younger women (7 yrs and 5 yrs younger) are single today.

Go toast her now before she's taken. Who knows? She may be your future wife.

nairamaniac:
Herein lies the problem: some girls are just so hawt that their beauty inspires u to give them the best things of life while toasting them or dating them, especially if u can afford it.

U got attracted to her due to several expansive things u saw on her. Brazilian hair, Italian shoes and all that.

You would have to meet up and maintain all u saw in her. Not even caring if its from runs or aristos she gets all u see in her.

Truth is, this your fomular of being prudent during toasting or dating also depends on the beauty and standard of the babe.

Any woman (whether beautiful or ugly or rich or poor) who really loves you, won't stress you out to buy her Gucci bag or diamond ring. That's a fact!

Any woman who wants to live large on your money with total disregard for your feelings, doesn't love you!
If you toast a woman you hope to marry with money, she'll love the money first and then "love" you only for spending a lot on her. I'm sure that's not the kind of love you want in your marriage

If you meet a woman you hope to have a long relationship with, spend far less in the beginning and focus more in knowing each other. You can spend on her the way you want only after you're sure she really loves you and she's the one.

Remember, a woman who would still love you without money, does not need money to know or love you.

He probably went there to collect his share of the loot.

overcomer123:
How do couples with different spending patterns cope

my partner is driving me crazy, we have been fighting about everything that has to do with money, she is kinda of lavish and i am prudent. It is really frustrating, she sees me as a miser. She has this idea the higher the cost the more quality, but i know this is not necessary the case. at least from experience, i know how people inflate prices , i try to spend on actual value. I have sat her down and explained to her. How we should nt waste, she promises to change but next thing she is back to the basics.

I also think i may be partially responsible for this, during our courtship, i use to lavish her with very expensive gifts. which to me shd nt be a crime, I wasnt spending beyond my means and there is nothing wrong in giving your woman some exclusive treats once in a while what now bothers me is she expects the cinderella story will continue forever.

There was a day the argument got so intense, she began to say very uncool stuff, on hw she know i hate spending on her and always complain. i really felt hurt. She never looks at the big picture, it is always the most expensive stuff she wants, whenever we do anything.

Our counseling was rushed and proper attention wasnt given to finances and all, everyone just believes she is a well behaved girl. We just got married, I really dont know how i missed this earlier during courtship, but it really causing alot of whahala in our home. The funny part is most of this so called expenses are usually to be solely footed by me. My wife has not for one day called me to say she too will contribute this amount for this or that. I dont complain, or expect, where i have problem is when i decide to pay and she complains it is nt good enough. Am sure if her money was involved she would understand what i mean.

Currently i earn more than her, i found a temporary solution which is to keep her out of the financial decisions, Whenever. i want to buy stuff for the house I dont consult her anymore, i just go and buy the stuff and return home showing her i bought it, instead of the normal asking her which is better and she picks and we begin to fight and argue. This is temporal and actually not the best but what can i do? The fights are just getting to me.

When we started i used to expose her to how much I had and all and plans to maybe get a land and all and maybe start bulding. She knows how much i earn and all. but i dont think she is matured to handled some of these things. And i guess cos she knows of the money available (my saivngs) this is why she just goes for the most expensive and all and just acts lavish.

I had to lie to her that i was scammed of several of millions through MMM to make her forget about the available cash.

Just imagine the rubbish i have to go through.

See me see whahala , me and my own wife again.

Is anyone dating a partner with an opposite spending habit.

Can you share and let me learn how you overcame this problem.

You see where I marked bold? That's the root of her behavior.

The most common mistake some men make is that they use money to get a woman they want to marry. You can use money to get a woman for one night stand but NOT the one you hope to marry!

When you use money to get a woman, you may not know if the woman is in the relationship for the money or not! And some women hardly go backwards in lifestyle. When you start spending a lot of money on her from the very beginning, that's the life style she will continue expecting in the relationship. When you stop spending, problem starts.

Even if you're a billionaire NEVER start a relationship expensively if you really want a woman who will love you for who you're and not for the material stuff she stands to gain from you. Let the woman know the real you not your money.

She is a gold-digger. So what did she expect?
Now is trying to ruin this other girl's relationship.
The guy was smart to not be engaged to a gold-digger. You see how she missed a man who could have probably married her!
Gold-diggers are not marriage material!

MMM dupe many gullible Nigerians.

winkmart:
Controversial journalist Kemi Olunloyo wants you to know she is more beautiful than these 25 year old h**e around town. So tell your girlfriend to begin to look like Ms. Kemi, since she has claimed to be cuter than them all.

It's time less attention is accrued to this woman, who seems to always be under the influence of some sorts of substance anytimes she decides to write on social media.

She wrote:

I am simply the MOST BEAUTIFUL 52yo woman in #Nigeria. These 25yo hoes can't even look like this at 52

[img]https://2.bp..com/-8C6Dhe8SFAQ/WGpVAKsvZLI/AAAAAAADVJU/36MK4PiLKhgA9XYEhVkKqk8KoNHgYaNMQCLcB/s400/Untitled.png[/img]

http://www.blackberrybabes.com/2017/01/i-am-most-beautiful-52-year-old-woman.html

FALSE. She may be the most bleached 52yrs old woman.

akintom:
I have asked the author of the "discovery" of the above "physico-spiritual" disease or syndrome, to provide details of his discovery, but he's not responded.

Can anyone, who knows what this author is talking about, provide enlightenment on the nature of the disease, how it can be diagnosed, how it can be prevented and treated.

Am tempted to assume whether this is the STD that Pastor Adeboye predicted its emergence this year.

"Sexually" Transmitted Demons? There's NO such disease.
Conmen of god created it to use in extorting money from their dumb congregation!

Thieving Saraki, talking about fighting corruption!
What happened to his court case? Has it been swept under the carpet?

bezimo:
Gay is more than satanic, it's super disgusting and not just a sin and but an abomination.
It must be condemned in the strongest of terms, whether any gay person like it or not, that lifestyle is not acceptable to any normal person.

This is not just all religious website, you are obviously the dumb person since you can't differentiate between scientific facts and religious truths which is a strong evidence of mental disorderliness.
Offcourse you can go to any length to justify such disgusting gay stuff.
Nonsense.Smh.

There's absolutely no need for me to argue with you. You're an imb*ecile!

bezimo:
You are just a confused individual with mental disorderliness to even argue a widely recognized abnormality to be normal.

This is just few among many findings showing the satanic gay movement ideology of been gay is natural are all lies to market the disgusting gay stuff to the larger society.

You want evidence.
http://www.mrconservative.com/2014/09/49141-homosexual-scholars-come-forward-no-one-is-born-gay/

http://www.churchmilitant.com/news/article/the-impact-of-same-sex-attraction

http://www.biblicalcatholic.com/apologetics/HomosexualsNotBornGay.htm

So you've resorted to name calling instead of being civil. You see why I hate arguing with religious id*iots like you. You would rather be an as*shole than come up with an intelligent thought, which I believe you lack!

You gave links to religious websites and called them evidence! How more dumb can you be?

bezimo:
Our God is not imaginary as you falsely think, there are infallible proofs of his existence, I would say that God is even more real than you or me.

Science has often confirmed devine truths.I won't substantiate on that because your mind can't receive such truths.That Christians and many others believe in God doesn't mean we believe everything.
Offcourse we don't believe the rubbish illconceived claims of the gay movement.
No one is born gay, they rather become gay.

Your statement is absolutely false!
Science has NEVER confirmed any "divine" truth about anything called god! I don't know where you got that!
Could you please, present any evidence of your god?
And could you also present any evidence that backs up your belief that homosexuality is unnatural?

bezimo:
This is a satanic lie that proponents of the disgusting gay movement would have folks believe.They come up with false and misleading publications justifying same that has been clearly shown to be illconceived and disproved

No, no one is born gay, but for some as they grow they are influenced rather by homosexual demons that alter a gay natural feelings to start desiring a fellow man instead of a soft beautiful woman created by God. Chai God forbid!!!

It's hard to argue with religious people who always invoke their imaginary god during discussion.
If you believe in an imaginary god, you could believe in anything no matter how ridiculously false it is.
Religious people don't value facts.

Majority of Nigerian celebs die in poverty.
Why? Because they don't have savings! They blow a lot of their money in expensive life style.
Some celebs have realized they could make some money in pretending be broke when they're sick. Some even fake sickness.

angelTI:
What he said is the truth but I detest the fact that he is gay.

May you have a change of heart/sexuality in 2017

When did you learn to be heterosexual? What were you sexually before you became heterosexual?

We are in 2017 and yet some Nigerians have no clue about Biology.

Homosexuality is a natural thing. Nobody learns to be homosexual, the same way you can't learn to be heterosexual!

Tribalist Buhari never cared about genocide committed in the South by his follow fulani terrorists, and now you're expecting him to care about Southerners slaughtered in North? Wake up!

I don't like anyone to be killed but when your people have been slaughtered for decades by Northern terrorists, you must defend yourself even if it means killing people. I don't care if it causes a civil war! These Northern animals need to have their own country and kill each other off!

CAN only complains when Christians are slaughtered in the North by muslim terrorists. Igbo organizations also only complain when South-Easterners are slaughtered in the North. Stop complaining and take action! Whenever Northern terrorists kill your people, slaughter their own people too! If they kill one Southerner, you slaughter four or more Northerners! Northern violent id*iots only understand violent! They don't have monopoly of violence! It should be fire for fire!

Until we start giving them what they give us, Northerners won't stop their violent behavior and their insatiable taste for blood!

Buhari was kicked out by IBB because he was out of order, very lawless and a dangerous dictator!
A man who overthrew a democratically elected civilian government is now a civilian president. And he still has his lawless behavior.

If you think D’banj didn't "shine" last year (2016) then you're out of you f*ucking mind!
You're probably a radical don jazzy fan who doesn't want to let go the defunct Mo'hits.

D'banj produces quality music not quantity. Check these out;

D’banj – Emergency

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3T4HxfUavtA

D’banj – Focus

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CW-DhUxJLyM

softMarket:
You have to live up to our expertation!!!


U cannot be singing u have two million dollars, and expert us not to beg u money!!


Madam,,,,iffa see u real life eh,u must drop something for the boys!

Get a f*ucking job!

lalasticlala:
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Stop posting these nonsense "prophesies" on this forum.
Nigerians are to dumb to believe this known conman called TB Joshua!
This is a thief who couldn't predict his own church building that collapsed and kill hundreds of his dumb congregation!

The phrases this corrupt government ministry uses in looting public funds;

- Governance and institutional reforms. Amount to loot: ₦1.9 billion.

- Foreign media PR/ lobby consultancy (to “interact with stakeholders". Amount to loot: ₦100 million.

- Quarterly opinion polls. Amount to loot: ₦100 million.

- Town hall meetings. Amount to loot: ₦270 million.

- Grassroots public enlightenment campaign on government policies and programme (including cost of production of materials and IEC on government achievements). Amount to loot: ₦409, 240,600.

- Ministerial media appearances with influences and analysts on TV, radio, social and print media. Amount to loot: ₦180 million.

- Publicity and advertisements. Amount to loot: ₦192,883,308.

- “Lobby” foreign media, interact with journalists or facilitate the minister’s media appearances with analysts and influences. Amount to loot: ₦100 million.

- Purchase of office furniture and fittings. Amount to loot: ₦4,181,840.

- Purchase of office furniture and equipment. Amount to loot: ₦83.5 million.

- Purchase of motor vehicles. Amount to loot: ₦97.2 million. And another ₦97.1 million for the same item.

It is now official that majority of Nigerians are mentally challenged to let looting (broad-daylight one for that matter!) to continue!!!!!

$29.96 billion?! Buhari wants to be the richest political thief in West Africa.

iamNiyo:
If baba no endorse GSM for 2003...you for no dey social media.

You're shallow-minded and delusional.

GSM would have still come without Obasanjo, because it wasn't his idea. Foreign companies (Econet - now Airtel and MTN) and their Nigerian representatives lobbied the Obasanjo administration to revoke the terrible NITEL monopoly in order to establish GSM.

In fact, he was hesitant because some of those who in charge of the moribund NITEL were his buddies. So he had no choice than revoke NITEL monopoly due to benefits of GSM and open the Telecom market where companies can compete.

So GSM would still established another President.