₦airaland Forum

Kollins11:
The feelings I have for her is pure. She's really different from other girls.

Stories that touch the heart. Where have we heard this before?

Barryseal:
So it is against the military policy to propose to a soldier? What the actual nonsense are you talking about? You have no legs to grand stand on this matter. Even your general is embarrassed enough by this episode that he went out of his way to see to the soldier's release but here you are defending the entire nonsense, even shamelessly attempting to draw parallels with a university policy.

Lol!! Simple!

na2016:
You are saying rubbish and I regret having a conversation with a fool like you.

Well it is clear that you are immature and unable to hold a civilised discussion. Therefore you are either a Nigerian military soldier (doubt you are senior officer class) or simply uncouth. I lose nothing from not conversing with you except a waste of my minutes spent responding to you.

Au revoir and pls feel free to let the door hit you as you exit.

na2016:
I made an assumption based on policy from another sector, you that is doubting my point, what is your statement based on? Nothing!!!

It is based on observations that some people talk crap and make assumptions without proof.

You are still thinking of marrying her? Are you mentally ok?

na2016:
Please stop sounding like someone who has not been to school before. Each organization has its policies. Just as in the Universities, it is prohibited for a lecturer to have a relationship with a female student that he teaches (even if the student is 30 years old). The reason is that he will not be fair to other students in the class. I believe the military has a similar policy too.

Rather than assuming why not find the policy?

Has the military stated the rules that were broken?

She is too stupid to be your girlfriend. Downgrade her to friend with benefits. Never wife her. Never.

Sad story and I have no experience to provide you with suggestions in this matter.

I can't imagine burning even N10. Yet a young man with no job burnt 70k. I can't imagine insulting my father.

Anger destroys people and it looks like it has been a problem from childhood. My boy told me of a classmate who kicked his sister in her stomach and whom corporal punishment from parents makes him do worse.

For me two steps - commit the matter into prayer and invite military police to deal with him.

He also needs to go and make a living for himself.

Thank goodness I didn't follow his advice. If you can afford to spend on your girlfriend please do so. If you can afford to do charity please do so.

Emmanuel909090:
Just to please men, I hope she gets better, she can't keep standing.

Which men? We find fake ass disgusting. Not to even mention that there is maintenance cost. Ish is bad to my eyes and to my pocket. Gimme a fit natural chic any day. Keep the fake eye lash, breasts and ass.

shogsman:
People like you find it difficult to face reality why. You want them to suspend Thier rules and regulations and the premise on Which Thier organisation was built because of your damn FEELINGS

What is the specific law that was broken? What does it say specifically? Have you seen it?

nerdfrost:
Nothing like adults or kids....that is pure nonsense...the corpers were put in the care of the military. .pretty sure if the gender was reversed,people won't say this

I wouldn't give a damn personally unless a specific law has been broken. These are consenting adults. The guy proposed and was clearly free to do so. Who knows if they were a couple before camp?

When is the refinery going to start working? I am not sure this information on this thread is correct. This is not the way recruitment is done. There is either some more information which isn't shown here or this is fake.

And of course the usual tribalistic loud persons from all sides of Nigeria have come out. Predictable!

dreu2fine:
bloody civilian even wear the soja jungu hat
open is teeth
well she will face the results
after that she will decide to leave the army or wait till the ripe time of marriage

Bloody civilian? Lol. This is what happens when you have an army that is raised not to be a professional fighting force but rather a regime protection force.

What law did they break? Or is it simply in your mind? This 'bloody civilian' whose taxes pay your salary wants to know.

dreu2fine:
some una dey talk anyhow pls go and read the army rule and pratcices before u write trash

Since you are an authority on it, do post the relevant articles that makes the actions of the soldier and the corper a crime. Simple! Educate us! If not, please join the queue.

BCASH:
I keep on wondering who did us in this country.

The law that is guiding Nigeria Army is written by human being and it can be ammended.

The only books that cannot be ammended are Holy Qur'an and Bible.

Those who are pushing for the punishment of this lady are those who are eyeing her but she did not give them chance.

Can the DG of NYSC come out and tell us where he met his wife likewise those officer in Nigeria Army.

I am even waiting for people to state the law or rule that was broken. If they show that then for my side I have no comments. However all I have heard so far from people are words with no foundation.

People state the law that was broken!!!

Any one have info on if we are reviewing our orders of battle?

Congratulations to those who got promoted.

nerdfrost:
Anybody that supports the corper and military woman is part of the problem....the corpers were put under the care of the military....just like teacher/student set....this is very wrong.....I am in support of what the military did....at least the military is more decent than I thought

These are adults not kids. I repeat let the Army bring out the rule that was broken. Once it is shown then I will be in full support including dishonourable discharge for the lady. However just produce the rule that was broken.

zealousayo:
Nigerians are just too emotional. Every organization has its own rules and regulations. The corp member was supposed to be her trainee, getting involved in an amorous relationship with him is unethical. Perhaps, they could have kept it private till it's right time. Doing that inside the camp and also posting the video on internet is outrightly against the rule of the army.
My appeal to the army is, they should be lenient with her.

They should tell us the rule and regulations that was broken. Rules are not subjective.

BluntTheApostle:
Read this:

Romantic or sexual interactions between physicians and patients that occur concurrently with the patient physician relationship are unethical. A physician must terminate the patient-physician relationship before initiating a dating, romantic, or sexual relationship with a patient.
https://www.ama-assn.org/delivering-care/ethics/romantic-or-sexual-relationships-patients

Thanks for the clarity. I presume this means physicians can't treat their significant others also. What body is AMA?

It is also ethically allowed for the patient to propose a sexual relationship to the physician post treatment.

okuta007:
because Nigeria has become a lawless country everything goes… NYSC camp is not a place for such. If this practice is applauded and allowed to thrive, then soon female corpers will be harassed by male soldiers and cases of sexual harassment will build. Remember the saying, give a man an inch he takes a yard. In Nigeria, give a man an inch he takes 100 kilometers- If this soldier girl is not punished accordingly, when soldiers start harassing your girlfriends, fiancée and wives at NYSC camps demanding for hugs, relationships and perk of the cheeks- make una no complain ooooo

what is good for the goose is good for uganda, (gander) lol

Erm the corper proposed. He didn't rape, he didn't threaten. He was not in a position of domination. This your scare mongering is BS. Capital BS. I stand that there is nothing wrong with this until I see the rule. It is people who like to be in control of other people's happiness that do this.

I repeat if it was a famous person who proposed and this happened to. It will die a slow death. This was engagement not marriage. If they were strict Christians, no gbenshing would occur.

onadana:
Rules are rules.She knows the rules.She broke the rule,she knows the consequences.

Please share the rule.

BluntTheApostle:
It is professionally wrong.

That is the point.

You can lose a lot as a doctor if you are caught having such a relationship with your patient.

It is a misconduct.

Please, take note.

Ignorance is not an excuse.

A doctor will be fired or punished if a patient proposes to him or her and the doctor accepts?

People - haha think. You will fire your worker on duty if customer comes to propose to them while they are working? What won't I read?

MASTERMIND04:
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She violated the military laws and should be punished for that.
This your comment is one of the reasons this country is not progressing.
Lets call a spade a spade.

I seriously doubt the lack of progress in Nigeria is due to female soldiers accepting a romantic offer from a civilian. Rather I think the inability of Nigerian leadership structures to think and execute better solutions rather solidly sticking to punishment is one of the reasons we are here. For example, a company doesn't pay taxes on time. Rather than fine and allow the company to produce - we shut it down without considering that it might be in the nation's interest to keep the company running while deducting the fine from its income. In this case, the military should have milked the political propaganda out of this. I await the law which says a soldier on duty may not accept a civilian proposal of marriage.

We have a gift of refusing to think and understand intent of laws before applying punishment.

jumpmasta:
That’s your bloody business . But remember , they are dying for you in the NE so that you can sit here and blab rubbish

Dying for me in the NE? Please get away with the emotional talk. They are also responsible for dealing with innocent Nigerians in other theatres within Nigeria.

Just one question - if the male corper was Davido, would this still be punished? I don't see why the lady should be punished.

It will shock you

Question should be who is behind Otedola

NoGirlfriend:
wait o!
am I d only one wey never watch dah her sex video?

You are not the only one. Don't have interest in it.

So when Tinubu bullies you and your colleagues ...

May we never need Nigerian courts to save us!! This ruling is embarrassing.