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BluntTheApostle:
It is professionally wrong.

That is the point.

You can lose a lot as a doctor if you are caught having such a relationship with your patient.

It is a misconduct.

Please, take note.

Ignorance is not an excuse.

A doctor will be fired or punished if a patient proposes to him or her and the doctor accepts?

People - haha think. You will fire your worker on duty if customer comes to propose to them while they are working? What won't I read?

MASTERMIND04:
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She violated the military laws and should be punished for that.
This your comment is one of the reasons this country is not progressing.
Lets call a spade a spade.

I seriously doubt the lack of progress in Nigeria is due to female soldiers accepting a romantic offer from a civilian. Rather I think the inability of Nigerian leadership structures to think and execute better solutions rather solidly sticking to punishment is one of the reasons we are here. For example, a company doesn't pay taxes on time. Rather than fine and allow the company to produce - we shut it down without considering that it might be in the nation's interest to keep the company running while deducting the fine from its income. In this case, the military should have milked the political propaganda out of this. I await the law which says a soldier on duty may not accept a civilian proposal of marriage.

We have a gift of refusing to think and understand intent of laws before applying punishment.

jumpmasta:
That’s your bloody business . But remember , they are dying for you in the NE so that you can sit here and blab rubbish

Dying for me in the NE? Please get away with the emotional talk. They are also responsible for dealing with innocent Nigerians in other theatres within Nigeria.

Just one question - if the male corper was Davido, would this still be punished? I don't see why the lady should be punished.

It will shock you

Question should be who is behind Otedola

NoGirlfriend:
wait o!
am I d only one wey never watch dah her sex video?

You are not the only one. Don't have interest in it.

So when Tinubu bullies you and your colleagues ...

May we never need Nigerian courts to save us!! This ruling is embarrassing.

hefexzy:
Sylvester Omoroni was a victim of bully in his school Dowen college, which resulted to him losing his life after sustaining internal injuries from the bully. His family had went ahead to employ the service of Mr Femi Falana, a Lawyer.

On December 9 during a space Kemi Olunloyo hosted on twitter, the renowned self acclaimed journalist said 12 years old Sylvester was willing to join cult, agreed to be beating and also accepted to drink engine oil.

Kemi also went ahead to say he willingly told the guys initiating him that he has seen his sisters unclothedness. She also compared boarding school to Big Brother Naija.

Ever since she made that statement, she is been dragged on all social platform. Some people called her demented, some called her callous, some said she has been paid to say that, other people called her an insensitive mother.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ysh7V7MCXeQ

This lady is mad. Do people not have empathy? Does she not understand the issues with a 12 year old having access to cults in the school?

This lady is very unwise.

Ermm what world is the President living in? It can't be the same world I am in.

joyandfaith:
Discuss with any child physiologist. Minors harbour long term resentments older minors who maltreat them.

C'est la vie. People resent people who discipline them.

Easy to say when one's child wasn't a victim. Parents should withdraw their kids. Let Dowen embark on a campaign to change their culture.

joyandfaith:
Minors do not have emotional intelligence to punish minors. The practice should be stopped. It is archaic and barbaric.

Lol. Continue. Archaic and barbaric. We have heard. It requires emotional intelligence to punish others - LOL!!

What I am against is school lack of oversight on such things. There should be a formalised process for such things. I am not against seniors punishing juniors where clear definition on the punishments are stated.

joyandfaith:
Seniors punishing juniors is not right. Minors shouldn't be disciplining minors.

It is not wrong. The problem is definition of the punishment. It also depends on the school.

Schools are clear on this. Parents should read the rules of the schools. Some schools allow seniors to punish juniors. At times the school requests that seniors do so. I was in a school where SS3s were often requested to punish armed robbers as an SS3 student and there was clear definition.

For those who recognise Koshoni and Aikhomu house, na 5th set I hail from.

This isn't bullying. Sending junior students on errands or punishing them for not doing their duties isn't bullying. That is life.

If it is not too late, sit down and ask yourself why the UBA woman's offer is interesting. Also think what would likely happen during and after the meeting.

Personally I am loyal to my partner. I don't care if the grass is greener on the other side. The person I know is better than the person I don't know.

Also I would consider my personal security. She may be setting you up to be kidnapped.

Let then fly out. It is easier to pick them up. This is the digital age. By the time Twitter and Instagram campaigns start.

No thank you. I can use the 82m I earn to go make extra money for myself. You can take your advice and keep the 8m. I will nicely collect the 82m.

efosky1246:
My brother, you almost brought tears to my eyes with this your write-up. It's a pleasure to know good men still exist.

I keep saying it that most dysfunctional marriages, not all(before they come for my head) is usually the fault of the man. From a surface point of view, it might seem like it's the woman. But most times. The woman is reacting to the deficiencies in the man.

When you treat a normal, healthy woman right and act like a leader, set the tone in the relationship. Not just shouting "I am the man" up and down. There is no how she would not submit and respect you. Men need to be held more accountable.

We should grab a drink together if you're keen. Would love to connect in person.

Unfortunately life is not 2+2=4. Treating a woman right doesn't equate to not having issues in the marriage. Your post will be hailed by those whose agenda it suits.

pmoye:
Thanks for your choice of words, financially sufficient to provide ... for his family. It probably would have been a better choice in my original post, but then I needed to paint a graphic picture so I used the word rich. Little did I know that some individuals hate that word... I consider being financially sufficient to provide for one's family as being rich. And such provision will not stop at just food, must be good food, health care, education and a decent status in the society. These things are really basic needs even though many now consider them luxury.

Agreed, Financially stable and sufficient would have been a better phrase. There are levels to this game of getting money.

If my mother had followed your advice, I wouldn't be alive today and I suspect neither would a very high proportion of the world.

TL/DR: This advice should be taken very carefully!! Rather ensure that before you get married both of you are able to take care of the family you want to set up.

By the way if she says she was testing you or that can't you take a joke or she will change. Exit the relationship. University age is not the age for stupidity.

Better let her go. Go and focus on making money legally. As for her, she should go get a job.

Parents should go after the school. This BS response by school should result in heads rolling.

Do similar checks for education. Thank God for my father. His wisdom prevented me from entering wahala.

This is utter BS

Now we know why there was a leak. Someone wanted to show how it looked like before Lagos went at it. So they released an unpolished report.

Really tempted to shout FABU!!

SmartPolician:
That's FALSE, huncle.
Festus Keyamo is a SAN, meaning that he knows Nigeria's law deeply. He needs someone who understands the law as much as he does to engage him in such intellectual discussions. Unfortunately, Seun didn't do a good job.

my opinion - SAN is nothing nowadays. It no longer has as much respect. It only proves the person read some books very well. By the behaviour of the SAN bearing officials in the Nigerian government over the last few regimes, it stands for nothing.

I do not blame Seun for not probing. This government doesn't take kindly to criticism.

SmartPolician:
I shook my head when you claimed that Festus Keyamo is stupid without stating how. That man is way too smart and intelligent for Seun Okin to interview him.

I think it's only Maupe Ogun-Yusuf who has the experience and intellectual capacity to engage Mr. Keyamo in such conversation.

I watched the interview and was surprised how Seun would let him get away with his controversial answers, probably because he doesn't know how to counter them.

Most likely if Seun tries to counter them he may be invited for further discussions by a government agency.

We are slowly becoming a fascist society.