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So because someone asks you for sex as a bargaining tool, you must now give it?

Women need to have a conversation with themselves. The reason why the idiot continued asking for sex was because (I) it apparently worked. Some had sex with him. (2) The earlier ones never called him out for it (3) Some women were ok with the bargain. Some willingly had sex with him on exchange for less than 2 minutes of relative fame.

They should go do tests on themselves to be sure they don't have herpes or some other communal STDs.

Speaking of which imagine if the only way for COVID to transmit was sex ...

jimcaddy:
I ask myself that question that why are we made to write IELTs. Is it that our educational system has been deemed bad and so irrelevant that they don't even believe our O'level English results organised by a recognised West African Exams body? Me I feel it's corruption and bad image we have portrayed to the outside world. No one even believes in this country anymore.. Even Nigerians don't believe in the system that produced them anymore. It's so sad and sickening. No one can love America and Canada more than Canadians and Americans. Same way no one can love Nigeria more than Nigerians. We all want to run away from our problems thinking it's the whites that will help us solve the problems. No matter how much we run away, we all cannot finish running away. Nigeria will always remain for us and for our children and generation unborn.

Dude I know someone who has 2 Masters from top UK universities. He did his first degree in the UK including a diploma. He is still required to write IELTS despite working for over 10 years in an international company where English is the first language. IELTS at worst can create exceptions for such cases. Haba imagine that Wole Soyinka if he wanted to emigrate from Nigeria today would need to write IELTS (this assumes that he doesn't have a second nationality).

Seconded. This is a cash cow for certain governments. They make lots of money from these tests.

My experience in my industry tells me otherwise. Hardworking, intelligent will not stop predators from attempting to harrass you. It is people who don't know close or loved ones who have suffered this that will agree with him.

I sat down and had an open conversation with female colleagues once. My mouth was open all through as they narrated and shared their experience. There are predators in every sector both male and female.

Are you talking of the golden boot? Never heard of golden shoe...

They are better than Nigerian Police.

Y-6=3
Y = 9

Y-6=3!
Y = 12

Unibenfucker:
I know but with the coming on stream of the dangote refinery this 3rd quarter, the Naira should appreciate against the Dollars.

Very unlikely. I would rather back the dollar.

Unibenfucker:
And what happens when the dollar crashes by this year ending

The naira is less stable than the dollar.

You both have serious ego issues. You especially are real insecure. Why should the girl respect you? The girl has a man who she is dissing in your presence and yet you think she should respect you? Who are you? Because you had sex she should bow down?

Better go listen to Lil Kim's Money Power Respect.

Also stop having sex outside marriage especially you. God save your partner from the stress you would give her especially if she has male friends.

My personality.

I just checked your history and realised you were the lady who called your elder brother's wife rude in an earlier thread. Considering the judgement and level of intellectual capacity and analysis you showed in the opening post, I may have to rethink the foundations on which I provided advice in the other thread.

Stop having sex outside marriage. Don't expect to be treated like a chaste person. He has his reasons why he doesn't want to do the deeds in his house. You are the one translating it to be treated as a prostitute. In fact who put it in your head that this is how prostitutes are treated?

As per reasons, For example it could be his walls are not soundproof. It could be he finds cleaning up his place afterwards stressful. Or it could be that those areas are what does it for him.

I would advise that you stop having sex outside marriage. If you disregard this, then sit down and have a talk with the guy.

But then again I have said it umpteen times. I hate advising the female sex. Most in this situation have made up their mind what to do and are only looking for external confirmation.

okeyumez:
Odili stole Rivers money and later ran to his wife and court to place a perpetual order restraining anybody from investigating and arresting him.
Yet the useless and poor fools are here defending him and vilifying Buhari.
Odili should be in prison by now

Thank you. I was wondering why anyone was supporting this crook. The Odilis are IMHO a criminal element.

noisy45:
If this Guy happen to be in the USA police force assulting an American citizen and if the citizen he the citizen has the own right to shoot him down. Nigerians should own guns this officers will be well behaved

I don't think you are up to date on the antics of the American police force. They are now a level above our police force in terms of mistreating civilians.

The amount of photo manipulation and makeup tells me all I need to know.

Useless team.

he should name names or shuttup.

Why is my name missing from the list?

Kobojunkie:
Regardless of how you chose to see her thouhh, she is his choice and disrespecting his choice so you can instead assert your own standard is never the way to go.

I disagree. He has every right to pass his opinion to his brother. There is no disrespect there. If family can't tell family what's up. Who else will?

I tend not to read forums when watching matches because people can talk rubbish for state. Nigeria is playing rubbish yet they are 3-0 ahead..

RIP

[quote author=pappilo post=109255830][/quote]Interesting. If this is real, then I don't know what are Taliban beards. I see nothing wrong with beards. They should make this known before people decide to patronise them. If a pastor tells me to cut my beard, they are on a long thing.

I have attended RCCG severally with a fuller beard and nothing happened. Someone should find the real story. I find this hard to believe.

This one is family matter. They should go deal with it internally.

iramure:
I prefer non.. both methods have ways of extorting members. Africans are beginning to realise religion is a scam. We need freedom from mental slavery.

You said this on another thread. No pastor uses physical force to make someone pay. Some pastors are false. Not all are false.

I prefer physical but in this time of COVID, I attend online. Both in my opinion are valid.

genkins:
Is there anyway I am teaching you without love? . That I said you are ignorant, is it a lie? That the Bible contains old and new testaments, does it make every thing in the Bible Christian? Do you stone your non virgin sisters to death if they are unmarried? Do you not eat fish without scales like catfish? Do you stone your stubborn children to death at the city gate? Are these not in the Bible? Are they not biblical?

You continue in your path of passive insults and presume that I am a heifer incapable of reading between lines. I will not argue with you on this. If you think the content of the Old Testament doesn't apply that is your shelenge. Qué Sera, Sera.

For me I am clear on it. The Old Testament is a valid part of the Bible. If we don't agree on this then there is no point in continuing discourse. There is no valid ground for agreement.

Tobechuckwu:
There were no Christian when Jesus walked d earth, but any of Jesus disciples criticized him.

U can't be in the light nd criticize light, it's not possible.
Darkness is d only thing that criticize light.

It is a two way relationship. Criticism is not a bad thing. Paul does this quite often in the New Testament when he attempts to redirect churches or people. The Bible does record Judas' criticism by the way.

It is our local culture that sees criticism as a challenge to authority. It is where we have done a fusion of Biblical culture with our local culture.

Read 1 Kings 13:11-25. For me those verses show what happens when this culture of not critiquing or challenging the direction of 'more senior elders' is applied.

genkins:
Why is it called old? Do you know that we now have a new testament? Do you know that Judaism is what is practiced in the old testament? Do you know that Christianity started after the death and resurrection of Christ? Why are Africans this ignorant? Do you know that the old testament is called the Torah. Do you know that as a Christian you only follow christ and no old testament prophets? Do you know that as a Christian, you are greater than all the old testament prophets combined?

The Christian Bible consists of the old and new Testament. All Bibles consist of the two. You talk of ignorance and yet you ignore Jesus's teachings of doing things in love.

Does your post look like you are in this discussion with love?

It is good that you speak of the Torah and Judaism. However note that this doesn't exempt the Old Testament from the Christian Bible. It is good that you continue studying.

genkins:
I can now see where your problem is coming from. Give me a Christian scripture, you went to the old testament.. Was there Christianity in the old testament? Sorry bro, you are Not a Christian yet.

I disagree. The old testament is part of Christian scriptures. That however is a topic for another thread.

Tobechuckwu:
I don't need to argue with you.
2 chronicles 20 Vs 20 nd Isi 44 Vs 26 are there for u see how God see his prophets nd pastors.

Ohh u don't know that God confirm d words of his servants nd perform d counsel of his messenger.

U better know d scripture for urself before queuing up with pple that don't read d scripture.

Good you are stating verses. This is 2 Chronicles 20 v 20

And they rose early in the morning, and went forth into the wilderness of Tekoa: and as they went forth, Jehoshaphat stood and said, Hear me, O Judah, and ye inhabitants of Jerusalem; Believe in the Lord your God, so shall ye be established; believe his prophets, so shall ye prosper.

This is Isaiah 44 vs 26

Who confirms the word of His servant,
And performs the counsel of His messengers;
Who says to Jerusalem, ‘You shall be inhabited,’
To the cities of Judah, ‘You shall be built,’
And I will raise up her waste places

Could you expatiate on how the above back your points taking into account the background of the chapters?