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Let then fly out. It is easier to pick them up. This is the digital age. By the time Twitter and Instagram campaigns start.

No thank you. I can use the 82m I earn to go make extra money for myself. You can take your advice and keep the 8m. I will nicely collect the 82m.

efosky1246:
My brother, you almost brought tears to my eyes with this your write-up. It's a pleasure to know good men still exist.

I keep saying it that most dysfunctional marriages, not all(before they come for my head) is usually the fault of the man. From a surface point of view, it might seem like it's the woman. But most times. The woman is reacting to the deficiencies in the man.

When you treat a normal, healthy woman right and act like a leader, set the tone in the relationship. Not just shouting "I am the man" up and down. There is no how she would not submit and respect you. Men need to be held more accountable.

We should grab a drink together if you're keen. Would love to connect in person.

Unfortunately life is not 2+2=4. Treating a woman right doesn't equate to not having issues in the marriage. Your post will be hailed by those whose agenda it suits.

pmoye:
Thanks for your choice of words, financially sufficient to provide ... for his family. It probably would have been a better choice in my original post, but then I needed to paint a graphic picture so I used the word rich. Little did I know that some individuals hate that word... I consider being financially sufficient to provide for one's family as being rich. And such provision will not stop at just food, must be good food, health care, education and a decent status in the society. These things are really basic needs even though many now consider them luxury.

Agreed, Financially stable and sufficient would have been a better phrase. There are levels to this game of getting money.

If my mother had followed your advice, I wouldn't be alive today and I suspect neither would a very high proportion of the world.

TL/DR: This advice should be taken very carefully!! Rather ensure that before you get married both of you are able to take care of the family you want to set up.

By the way if she says she was testing you or that can't you take a joke or she will change. Exit the relationship. University age is not the age for stupidity.

Better let her go. Go and focus on making money legally. As for her, she should go get a job.

Parents should go after the school. This BS response by school should result in heads rolling.

Do similar checks for education. Thank God for my father. His wisdom prevented me from entering wahala.

This is utter BS

Now we know why there was a leak. Someone wanted to show how it looked like before Lagos went at it. So they released an unpolished report.

Really tempted to shout FABU!!

SmartPolician:
That's FALSE, huncle.
Festus Keyamo is a SAN, meaning that he knows Nigeria's law deeply. He needs someone who understands the law as much as he does to engage him in such intellectual discussions. Unfortunately, Seun didn't do a good job.

my opinion - SAN is nothing nowadays. It no longer has as much respect. It only proves the person read some books very well. By the behaviour of the SAN bearing officials in the Nigerian government over the last few regimes, it stands for nothing.

I do not blame Seun for not probing. This government doesn't take kindly to criticism.

SmartPolician:
I shook my head when you claimed that Festus Keyamo is stupid without stating how. That man is way too smart and intelligent for Seun Okin to interview him.

I think it's only Maupe Ogun-Yusuf who has the experience and intellectual capacity to engage Mr. Keyamo in such conversation.

I watched the interview and was surprised how Seun would let him get away with his controversial answers, probably because he doesn't know how to counter them.

Most likely if Seun tries to counter them he may be invited for further discussions by a government agency.

We are slowly becoming a fascist society.

Yes to stress. I doubt staying away from sex causes erectile dysfunction.

When the government's actions matches its talk then perhaps people will join. People blew whistle on corruption and what protection was given to them?

Your government's expenditure is off the roof. Your promises during campaign have not been met. Very few Nigerians trust any arm of the government be it executive, judicial, or law making.

At least I know this lady's price. 500k eh.

What are you capable of doing for me? It means I can even organise a contest with the first place price been 250k.. let me find which lady will do wonders.

Idiot...

Whether cheating or not, I am surprised she is not at the children's side. When I had ordinary gas from eating beans, my mother (God bless her) postponed her activities and sat down with me to help ease the pain.

This one, kids are admitted in clinic and yet ..hmm. I don't know about cheating o but there better be a very good reason. Mothers don't joke around with sick children.

plaindealer:
How did the panel in the same report strongly believed and deemed it credible that only 3 of the bodies that they conducted postmortem examination on were from Lekki and only one had Gunshot injury and still went on to 9 dead people based on words of mouth that was never testified to before the panel.

You see why this dubious panel and their report are getting trashed.

Inconsistencies, misrepresentations, illogical contradictions and absurdities all over.

You read over 200 plus pages of a document. Interesting and this is the leaked one. The real one hasn't come out yet. Very interesting.

How many normal people will sit down to read over 200 pages of a report? And then go back and be identifying inconsistencies in the report. You have exposed yourself. Greet your handlers. Let them change their game plan.

We are slowly descending into fascism in this country.

I find this hard to believe. Doesn't the app require you to enter special code to exceed daily limit? This is fake.

I wonder for our people. The report was leaked. We don't know what version or revision was leaked.

Wouldn't it be wise to then wait for the official release? We really need to mature as a society.

3 bedroom flat. Rent or sell it immediately.

This can't be real. What man is ok with this kind of relationship? That his friend is flirting with his wife?

DreamSonInlaw:
God bless you real, real good. I hope lot of Nigerian girls have this your mindset.
It's a big issue for me, I can't marry a girl that only a graduate. Have something doing no matter how little; sewing, baking, interior decor.

What if something happens to me? What then happens to our kids? Or I am not in town you calling me for sugar, water..you know how mentally draining that is

Very important. The woman must be able to bring money into the home.

I pray no man marries a woman who would rather have a spend mindset rather than a growth mindset. Every tree needs nutrients and foundation to grow strong. No seed germinates immediately.

I am not so worried for Nigerian women. I am aware that the noise makers are a minority of the female populace. However that minority, flee from them. They add no value to your life - absolutely none!!

People and words. Going through difficult times is normal but to now be insulting your partner during those times is something I cannot stand.

Job's wife told him to curse God and die. She insulted and left Job. Job wasn't a poor man. He was going through difficult times.

How a partner behaves during difficult times is hard to predict. However a partner bringing nothing to the table and starts insulting their spouse during difficult times is the very height of immaturity and stupidity. That person is a liability.

I hate advising women. Whatever they have decided to do, they will do it. Many were the times, I would waste my mouth and brain on providing advice. Results were almost always the same.

Stubbornness boku for that gender. I will say my own sha. OP, this route you want to take is not recommended.

Hmm this is sad to see. Was there a background to the reason for the beating?

I am familiar with the school and its use of corporal and physical punishment. For an SS3 student to have been beaten like that - there are serious questions that need to be answered.

LyfeJennings:
Lemme share a true life story
My present girlfriend is richer than me
On like 3 occasion, she helped with some very funny bill
Yesterday, we dey talk
She jokingly seriously told me
"You no get money guy, U are a broke, U not even near what a man should be"
I swear I wan die
E pain me ehnnnn
My ego was bruised but she no lie

In your shoes I would look for plan B. That joke is not acceptable. I can't imagine telling another human I have a relationship with that crap.

PS those crying racism need to go look at club academies. They no dey look colour.

googlepikins:
He looks like a racists sef

Stop misyarning. That is not the coach. Matt Taylor was coach at Spurs in 2019. Is that when Troost was 19? Sometimes go and do proper research.

There is another coach. No be dis one. You have already started insulting him. Also the name Matt in the OP is clearly a grammatical error.