Mjshexy: Awww...I'm calm dear, it's left for her to decide on the next step to take
@villa12 below is my reasons 👇👇👇
1... If she divorce, the upbringing of the children will be compromised.
2... She can hardly remarry again, so loneliness will torture her.
3... She will have to hustle hard, because financial burden will arise.
4... All those, especially her friends that are pushing her for divorce, will still be the same friends that will be mocking her and gossiping about her, for being divorce and single.
5... After about 4yrs, she will regret for taking such action, she will start talking to herself that; After all, in the olden days, our forefathers used to marry as much wives as possible.
In as much as i don't support cheating, i still wouldn't advice her to leave, better still; She should park her bags and move back to her family, that way the man will realise his mistake
Versitee just move out of his house, that way, the shame will be upon him and he would definitely come begging, even with his people, but in all you do, please do not divorce him out of anger.... Go and check the history of women that angrily divorced their husband later regretted their action years later.... Sorry ooO, but 23yrs old hot sha, girls of nowadays.
Mjshexy: Oh great since you're certain about it, further decisions rest on you. Is it enough to file for a divorce? Are you also meeting your neighbors to report their daughter's escapade with your husband?
Be calming down MJ, Africa is not like Europe or America, where divorce favours the woman.
I am not trying to justify cheating, but divorcing will really affect her in few years time.
When they were killing farmers and Nigerians indiscriminately, nobody called them to order, because their father was the president, now they are crying blood.
You hear thongs like, leave him/her, they still a child.
Truth is that, women tends to have soft heart towards their children, despite the fact that the child does something terrible, but a man will surely react, by punishing the child.
Na why pikin wey woman or single mother train dey get k-leg for character.
Even as an adult and my father is late, i still can't do somethings, all because of my good moral upbringing.
adebayo987: take your IPOBist mentality to your village. Who doesn't know the history? I was commenting on a current development and you're displaying your level misunderstanding to my comment, please don't ever mention my profile for whatever reason.
The person you call mumu, supercedes you in every ramification of life.
adebayo987: Chai, this junta sef... na because of this French guy them bin dey see the 8 hours electricity them bin dey see from Nigeria na! Now even 1 hour sef go scarce. See mumu o. This junta don dey dig him grave small small.
You seat in comfort of your home to type rubbish, calling someone that knows better than you mumu.
I think you should take a pill and do some research on why they took over the government and repelling against the French, don't just write for writing sake.
Africa ought to have stood up to the west, they have ripped us of our resources for too long.
Bishop Joseph Akinfenwa is a bloody liar, because the last time i checked, every APC MEMBER is living fine with a preferential treatment, while the likes of LABOUR PARTY and PDP MEMBERS are really suffering.
We have makeup artist and we also have a makeup artiste, note the difference!!!..... But the bride chose the latter, of which the latter charged her N2,000 to entertain her face
ideamonster: It's no surprise that things are getting harder every year in Nigeria. Even before the subsidy removal, the cost of everyday items are on the rise.
You may have noticed that the size of bread that sold for N200 about 5 years ago now goes for N1000. This means that families today need to allocate 5 times amount of money to bread than they used to five years ago. What even makes it harder is that every year since 2015, Nigeria has added a minimum of 7 million children every year. This is more than the size of singapore. It is worth nothing that 63 million Nigerians are alive today, who had not ben born when Muhammadu Buhari was elected in 2015. And with Nigeria's current fertility rate of 5.31 children per mother, each additional birth is creating an increase in the number of people who need to be fed.
In light of the following, several people are exploring the possibility that should Nigeria place limits on child size per family similar to such a policy enacted by the government of China in the late 1970s. In the special report exploring this topic below, population scientists, policy analysts, statisticians and everyday people ask the question: Is it time for Nigeria to start limiting children born into each family in this economy?
Do you agree? Do you support it? What alternatives to such a policy exist?